temper, temper (Page 2)

Posted by sweat.lioness
How about doing whatever you feel in your heart is honest?

Um ... because that would be bodding him around
making him earn all the cash
forking over anything left after food & rent
and basking in the sun all day
and shopping all evening
and that doesn't work very well, long-term.

Posted by sweat.lioness
actually if she were insecure, I'm pretty sure she'd reply with the opposite...i.e. (You think so? Omgosh you are so right. Maybe I should play the victim and play strange manipulative head games to get what I want. I am so the hopeless helpless female. Halp!)

Um ... nooo ... that would be someone who is VERY secure.

If that's your definition of "heart" then you have a pretty poor perception of life.

Of course, because wishy-washyness lies in the very soul of secure. You need a merriam dictionary in your life.

...and a little to psychopathic to play with a Scorpio.

I don't think OP is a psychopath at all.
I don't even think she's a bad or mean person.

She is a Leo, however, and they sometimes can be deluded
( and delusional and daydream about ) who is in control.

Sweety love is not about who's in control, it's about compromise.

Posted by sweat.lioness
If that's your definition of "heart" then you have a pretty poor perception of life.

lol - But my perception of the Leo female is pretty much on track.

( You right now are trying to cover up your sh*t because you know it's true
and you don't want anyone to know. lol And if it's not true, it's only because
you never had the opportunity )

( All the OTHER leo females now are squinting their eyes and doing a pucker-smile to one side
and saying to themselves: "Oooou I hate it when he's right" and will never admit it
but that's ok. lol )

Posted by DazedScorp
I'm sensing a Scorp/Leo heartbreak in the past, No?

lol - No.

^^ Honestly, the only female I've seen to be brave enough to speak up to a Scorp , stand their ground, and have the loyalty to stick around and hear them out ( other than the Taurus ) is a Leo female. So your perception is pretty skewed.

Posted by sweat.lioness
Sweety love is not about who's in control, it's about compromise.

Let's not forget we're talking about someone who ORDERED her man to print something.

Anyway you slice it - THAT is what she did and THAT was HER main problem.

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We're not talking about LOVE - and that is YOUR problem; the reason you are not catching my drift.

K?

I am not giving love instructions.
I am showing OP how to get what she wants with a high success rate and without COLD STREAKS
- since that is what she was asking about ( no? )
and showing her how LOW her success rare will be in alternative.

That's all.

Good Lord you women are hard to talk to - changing the essence of the original matter all the time.
Gawd. No wonder your dramas drag on forever without resolve.

It is is HER MAN, so when you are talking about a relationship...whether b/f g/f or family or even friends...yes you are talking about love. Compromise is being able to give and take. If you don't understand that, then I guess this conversation is hopeless.

Posted by DazedScorp

As will a Scorpio never admit that he's wrong.

You're confusing Scorpio with Aries ( The Arrogant ) who assumes people thing he's/she's stupid
when they are found to be wrong, so they deny it.

Me? I'd rather admit it and learn something from it when "I" am wrong.
But I can understand why you may BELIEVE that I am wrong
because all of you seem to think my responses were about LOVE & honesty and other touchy-feely stuff ...

... when the heart of the matter in the ORIGINAL POST was about CONTROL.

Can't stress that enough .... " C O N T R O L ".

There is NO relationship where there is egual input over what is done.
Control over some things may be delegated to ONE person and others to the other
but ONE PERSON has the ultimate control. It is not often apparent who that is
when there are large decisions, but look:

Woman wants to move into big house.
Man does not.
Man knows he will have sex witheld if he does not agree.
Woman gets her way and gets the house.

Who was in control?

Man who wanted sex - for the mere price of a house.
He also gets continuation on his clothes cleaned,
meals prepared and dishes washed for free.

It's hard to see the war for what it is
when you're battalion is always winning or losing
individual battles. Gosh, when the Brits had the
ENIGMA decoder machine, the let many cities and
troops be bombed so as not to let the Germans
know they had it.

Posted by sweat.lioness
It is is HER MAN, so when you are talking about a relationship...whether b/f g/f or family or even friends...yes you are talking about love. Compromise is being able to give and take. If you don't understand that, then I guess this conversation is hopeless.

Since there was no compromise indicated by her order to HER MAN ... are you ......oh nevermind.

Good luck OP
Good luck sweet.lioness - I hope you find a man some day and can keep him.

I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I think what you are referring to; is an age when women never had the opportunity to orgasm, took Valium out of deep depression of having to repress what they feel, and died from illegal abortions in order to save their "man's honor".

Give and take comes with the initiating of orders from both parties hun. And honestly scorpiopics I hope you can find a woman one day and keep him. As for me, I am not in the business of keeping men...for I personally don't view people as property.

Of course this typo signifies a transgendered that suits your needs.

LOL LOL LOL. Are you kidding me? I never even was looking for more than flirting with him. He wanted a relationship. You're a complete freaking idiot and I'm so enthused with your blind view of the world. Oh, that shitshow of a pathetic act just made my night! I'm leaving on this note so I don't need to leave with a sad thought that people like this are in the world. Thanks to everyone but him 🙂

Posted by sheathedclaws
I never even was looking for more than flirting with him. He wanted a relationship.

Let me just make it clear, im not trolltrain and i dont know where this confusion came from. As u can see from the pics he posted, we are night and day. Im a black female and he is white male. The only common thing we share is the air element, im an aquarius. Im not him, lol, i like being a girl and having to see titts everyday. Ok?

3Es, Et tu Brute! I swear im not him, Jesus, what would be the point of having 2 accounts? I'm a busy person with a job and a kid. Check his posts and mine then match up the times. Why on earth would i want to be a white guy for? I wish i was 21 again though. Those were nice times..*going down memory lane*

What can i say, i cant control the actions of others. Let them post whatever they wanna post. I said my part and there's nothing left for me to say. I have nothing against white guys, since im black, it would make sense to have a 2nd account as a black guy. Im no coconut (black outside and white inside), i would prefer to be black even when im faking it, lol.

Even if he was Cleopatra, im not him!

*Preening infront of the mirror* lol. Thanks exo. *ignores Brutus aka Judas*

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by sheathedclaws
You sound like the asexual third wheel on a tricycle of awkward unions.

And I feel asexual at the moment. I have no desire for sex, dating... I still long for that companion, but after certain events in my life, I'm determined to focus on myself, before I can focus on another.

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Are you afraid to have sex now that your sober? jw

Posted by DazedScorp

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Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by sheathedclaws
You sound like the asexual third wheel on a tricycle of awkward unions.

And I feel asexual at the moment. I have no desire for sex, dating... I still long for that companion, but after certain events in my life, I'm determined to focus on myself, before I can focus on another.

Are you afraid to have sex now that your sober? jw

That's an entirely different topic...

But, I believe it's more that I lost all touch with reality while fucked up all the time? It's much easier to work on yourself without having to focus on the needs of another.

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I'm sorry

Posted by DazedScorp
Don't be sorry.

It's just that I honestly don't know. Hence why I'm currently trying to figure myself out.

Yea I feel you

Bluemoon, me and trolltrain are actually siamese twins and we share a single arm, happy now? Go restudy your work field!!

Really, Sherlock? When is my court date since the 'evidence' is mounting against me?

I hope im found guilty because i have a fetish for prison uniforms. Oops, i just came thinking about it. Oh my, im a bad GIRL!

Whats the point of evidence without a trial? Blame my scorpio moon for the paranoia, i dont know about being delusional because i have no pisces in my chart.

Im not being defensive, u just saw a glimpse of my aries ascendat (how i appeare to others)- i cant help that. Maybe we posted under the same IP for whatever reason, but im not him. I know he is a gemini, but i swear his other twin is not me.

Posted by Stinger Baby
i see where scorppics is coming from on this thought, but its not the right one for this situation.

my mom is a leo who went with my scorp dad.

leo women ... will never act weak to keep someone or to stroke anyone else's ego.

that's why my scorp dad isnt around cos he couldnt get it.

Pardon me - I'm a blind man - so I need your help to see clearly.

So ... who left who ?

And therefore "who" could not "get it" —

Posted by exoskeleton
i have a feeling that if this scenario were two scorps, scorppics would never suggest playing weak and docile. 😛

This exact scenario would never happen to two Scorpios:

# 1 One would have been seriously injured

or

# 2 The relationship would have ended

or at the very least

# 3 They'd still be fighting about it

.....and either way the thread would not have been started. lol

... or it would have been decided long ago who is MASTER
( at least over such matters as in the original post )
and there would be no issue if it was the female.

I hate to disappoint all who were entertained,
but actually I am all three of

trolltrain, bluemoon9043834 and WaterCup

and I will STFU now.

Posted by Stinger Baby
scorppics you dont have to be so pompous. i didnt say you were blind. but telling her to fake weak aint happening. thats all i way saying.

see, thats why i dont talk to people.

lol - it was the OP who said I was blind.

I was not trying to be anti-social to you. lol
( However it was important to point out the details of what
you wrote so that she ( and maybe you could see what I see.

I totally agree that the OP probably won't "fake weakness"
but that is due her weakness and insecurity, yet the OP
has indeed been given the key to BE the master there.

She just may not be strong enough to do so. Her choice.
And we can predict as much success at keeping a Scorpio
male ( and most others, actually ) as your mother had.
( This is NOT a dig on your mother but rather an ALERT
to the Leo OP who thinks it is appropriate to give orders
rather than ask. Only you know if you mother did/does that. )

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Posted by scorpiopics
I hate to disappoint all who were entertained,
but actually I am all three of

trolltrain, bluemoon9043834 and WaterCup

and I will STFU now.

lmfao! And I am all 3, 4, 5, or more? (no, this isn't serious, is it? lol!)

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lol nah, I'm just a SH1TSTER. lol

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by scorpiopics
... or it would have been decided long ago who is MASTER
( at least over such matters as in the original post )
and there would be no issue if it was the female.

i've found scorp-scorp to work best as a committee. 😛

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Incredible insight! What a great way to put / express it!
( Certainly it takes some time to decide who has final say
in certain matter delegated to them , but your idea should
be adopted and sorted out by all Scorp/Scorp pairs! )

The laptop is not the only thing we swap, that boy is a ying to my yang. To trolltrain, where are u boo, its swapping time?

But, i like gross *pouts*. Ok, here we go..when his nose is blocked, i unblock it using my tongue and he does the same. When ur one, your nose is mine and mine is yours, u see..