The Scorpio Girl From Hell.

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depressedarian
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This girl just would. not. quit. I have no idea what ticked her off bc when we first met, she approached me and I was extremely shy and quiet. I was curled up in a chair reading a book when she came over and started to make conversation (she was doing most of the talking) and then things quickly got personal. I was shocked that someone would be so comfortable with sharing such private things with me and said very little in response. Things were very awkward between us bc I was so quiet. After another girl came into the picture (leo), I got more comfortable She (Scorp) seemed more comfortable also. I thought she (Scorp) was very funny and I would laugh at what she had to say a lot of the time. I spent very little time with the two so they seemed closer of course but things were cordial between us all. One day, I got bad news and wanted to be alone so she got offended bc I didn't want to be in their presence at the time. I was confused bc I have no idea why she found that offensive. Lets fast forward to where her actual friend (Cancer) comes into the picture. After the Cancer arrived, that's when it was really ''go time'' for her. When we gathered together, tensions. were. so. high. The cancer had so much attitude towards me. All I remember is her putting into the Cancers head that I was stuck up and thought I was better than them which again, I'm confused by bc I was the most insecure person at the time. So another comes into the picture. After she came, I was shunned. Not by the Leo or the new girl but by the Cancer and Scorp. I was replaced. Yes, it was frustrating but I did just fine by myself. I found some new acquaintances and started to come out of my shell more and that's when I started noticing the staring. I was more confident and being myself which was appreciated by many others including the Leo and other girl. She would make slick comments towards me which I laughed off. Some days she would leave me alone and other days she would COMPLIMENT me! Which I ignored also. Yes, Scorpios do sting and I felt fire through my body every time. I would still hang around her and socialize and she would just stare. I continued to ignore. During my last days there with them, she told me I was pretty (which I've mentioned in the past). I left but continued at the same school and that's when she started up again (smh). There's so much more about her but this should be enough. So what's up with her?
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Scorpios and as ive noticed scorpio mars get hurt by things tht you dont expect and dot give a fuck about things you ont expect. My boyfriends sister nd i have identicl charts except her rising is aries and mine is scorpio. I joked around nd told her her brother made a deal that if we got super serious, he woul get a sex chamge becse im a lesbian. she fliped out and got mad andstarted hating on me lying to his friends nd fmily about m and it got very ugly.....But i got hurt by the favt she turne on me, not what she did...and i go her bak severl stings at a time...ht im saying is...the reason scorpios of any sor gets hurt or mad isnt ually what the norm is or what thesurfave shows..it cn go much deeper

for me it was (btw ive never shared this beore until now) she was almost my birthdy twin, i was a few hour oder thn her, she had alife i ddnt....freeom family and she was a total pothead type pisces. she wasa mix befween ho iused to be and ho i want to be. i was jelous....i wnted to be just like her and it made me mad she denied me
he personality is awful and n onewould ever understad this..
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Posted by depressedarian
This girl just would. not. quit...So what's up with her?
just tell her head on to go fuck off and stop staring like a mad woman because it isn't doing anybody any good. and ask her to get a life. you have fun with your other friends a LOT and quickly get close to someone in that group to have your back so she doesn't do any stupid stints. oh and try to get a sagi girl as your friend they know how to shut them up real quick.

don't show your weakness or talk to her any more because let's face it you both know you don't like her but it's their thing to still hang around even though people tell them they hate them and about the cancerian hahaha just doesn't validate her presence don't acknowledge her if she talks to you just act like she's invisible that should tick her off.

basically just ignore and do your own thing and have more friends than that scorp does that'll do just about enough to save you because that leo shoud be fending for you by now right? so make more friends and get close with one dude that saves so much trouble.
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Posted by depressedarian
This girl just would. not. quit...So what's up with her?
just tell her head on to go fuck off and stop staring like a mad woman because it isn't doing anybody any good. and ask her to get a life. you have fun with your other friends a LOT and quickly get close to someone in that group to have your back so she doesn't do any stupid stints. oh and try to get a sagi girl as your friend they know how to shut them up real quick.

don't show your weakness or talk to her any more because let's face it you both know you don't like her but it's their thing to still hang around even though people tell them they hate them and about the cancerian hahaha just doesn't validate her presence don't acknowledge her if she talks to you just act like she's invisible that should tick her off.

basically just ignore and do your own thing and have more friends than that scorp does that'll do just about enough to save you because that leo shoud be fending for you by now right? so make more friends and get close with one dude that saves so much trouble.
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Yup! That's what I did and yes, the Leo and I have a much better relationship and I think the Scorp see's that. Me and the Leo have a much more fun relationship that's just natural and the Scorp just bosses her around and talks crap behind her back while I'm present—?? Actually, the Cancer has simmered down (I'm guessing she's tired of being a bitch) and actually made friendly advances towards me and we haven't had any issues since. I don't know why, but I've never told her off.
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Posted by SuperMissMan
Scorpios and as ive noticed scorpio mars get hurt by things tht you dont expect and dot give a fuck about things you ont expect. My boyfriends sister nd i have identicl charts except her rising is aries and mine is scorpio. I joked around nd told her her brother made a deal that if we got super serious, he woul get a sex chamge becse im a lesbian. she fliped out and got mad andstarted hating on me lying to his friends nd fmily about m and it got very ugly.....But i got hurt by the favt she turne on me, not what she did...and i go her bak severl stings at a time...ht im saying is...the reason scorpios of any sor gets hurt or mad isnt ually what the norm is or what thesurfave shows..it cn go much deeper

for me it was (btw ive never shared this beore until now) she was almost my birthdy twin, i was a few hour oder thn her, she had alife i ddnt....freeom family and she was a total pothead type pisces. she wasa mix befween ho iused to be and ho i want to be. i was jelous....i wnted to be just like her and it made me mad she denied me
he personality is awful and n onewould ever understad this..
Ahhhhhh, ok. Thanks.
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What to do you expect women b*tch squabble and pout you have yourself Aries aka control freak, Scorpio total control freak, Cancer's like control so do Leo.
No no no, you've got it all wrong. The aggressors were the Scorp and Cancer lol.
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That's because of your Libra rising I'm assuming. I know what it's like to feel more passive in those situations and not the aggressor because of this placement. Am I right?
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What to do you expect women b*tch squabble and pout you have yourself Aries aka control freak, Scorpio total control freak, Cancer's like control so do Leo.
No no no, you've got it all wrong. The aggressors were the Scorp and Cancer lol.
That's because of your Libra rising I'm assuming. I know what it's like to feel more passive in those situations and not the aggressor because of this placement. Am I right?
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You are very right 🙂
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Posted by Stihl46
What to do you expect women b*tch squabble and pout you have yourself Aries aka control freak, Scorpio total control freak, Cancer's like control so do Leo.
No no no, you've got it all wrong. The aggressors were the Scorp and Cancer lol.
That's because of your Libra rising I'm assuming. I know what it's like to feel more passive in those situations and not the aggressor because of this placement. Am I right?
You are very right 🙂
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I understand you, girl. :hugs: lol
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Posted by Stihl46
What to do you expect women b*tch squabble and pout you have yourself Aries aka control freak, Scorpio total control freak, Cancer's like control so do Leo.
No no no, you've got it all wrong. The aggressors were the Scorp and Cancer lol.
That's because of your Libra rising I'm assuming. I know what it's like to feel more passive in those situations and not the aggressor because of this placement. Am I right?
You are very right 🙂
I understand you, girl. :hugs: lol
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HAHA! *Hugs*
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I have a very different perspective on this than the others on this board. What was occurring was a very obvious Scorpio trait that sometimes is "looked over" or avoided by us because it makes us seem weak. She was clearly jealous in my opinion. If you were all friends then something triggered her jealousy. She feared the Cancer would like you better than her. She let the Leo befriend you since you all became friends at once (I think that's what you implied). Why she got defensive over the Cancer liking you more than her I don't know, but to me it's very clear that's what it was. Then when she started bossing the Leo around (or whatever it was) was because she was also irritated that the Leo was hanging around you more than her. Definitely about the control and the jealousy. NOW she is being nice to you because you are gaining social status. She has decided "if I don't clean up my act no one will like me, so I have to befriend her." In reality she could have truly liked you as a friend but feared you rising above her so she became bitter. OR she could only be doing it for her own gains. Manipulation. Watch her. There are ulterior motives at play. The only reason I know this is because I used to be that way when I was younger. I have heavy Scorpio placements but my air, fire and earth placements balanced me out. Especially my rising Libra- I hate fights and battles, anything that will have negative impact. Plus my parents being Aqua and Libra pretty much taught me to be the opposite of what Scorpios are.

I still have many Scorp things about me though that jolt through me like electricity below the surface: jealousy, rage, manipulation for my own gain, vindictive, but I typically don't outwardly act on it. Especially in friendships or relationships. I have learned those traits only destroy, nothing more nothing less. EX: An Aqua man once "tested" my jealousy. I learned to teach myself that if he is not mine, I have no right to be jealous. If he is mine, I have to learn to trust him. He appeared to like that, and while testing me talking about these women I could see the enjoyment he got by testing me and he had a wicked smile waiting for a response while giving me a stare that felt like he was peering into my soul (hence how I knew it was a test). I slowly learned this important factor in friendship too. Scorpios just need to learn to control the negative traits...but not all of them do.
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The only reason I know this is because I used to be that way when I was younger. I have heavy Scorpio placements but my air, fire and earth placements balanced me out.
To elaborate on this, an example was when I was younger, I befriended someone new but didn't want one of my other friends befriending her because I thought they would leave me out. I then lied about her, small lies, but the point is that I did lie. The new friend of mine then didn't like my other friend. Eventually I got tired of this. I never told the truth mind you, because I didn't want to look bad (rising Libra) but I eventually told the other girl to get over it and we all need to get along. LOL. I'm friends with neither of them now as this was so many years ago, but the point is I did it out of my own insecurities. I liked both of them but didn't want them to like each other more than me and leave me out. *sigh* the hilarious strange motives of my youth. I grew up always being the third wheel, so that is most likely what I think was my biggest fear. Maybe that is this Scorpio girl's fear too.

Your subject is amusing though lol🙂 it is kind of true. When we get in our Scorpio moods, we are definitely creatures from the underworld.