U seriously jealous?!!!

He even says the words, "I'M JEALOUS!"

I am visiting a male friend. I visited one a couple days ago too. There is absolutely no history there, ther

He even says the words, "I'M JEALOUS!"

I am visiting a male friend. I visited one a couple days ago too. There is absolutely no history there, there might as well be gay. So, my hun apologizes.

BUT, there is still this underlying sick feeling in my stomach and/or heart.
Questions arise, like:

1. does he not trust me?
2. should I not see my male friends?
3. what does HE do with his female friends? (he has about as many as me, hence why I don't allow myself to be jealous - would be hypocritical)

give him a beer and something naked

hi tg

sometimes the girls are not all that much different from the guys...what I can gather anyway- and what you have posted makes me see how stupid and pointless jealousy can really be.

you are frustrated because he should trust you...but he prolly DOES trust you and his jealousy may stem from the his own desire to be THE ONE that you are having a goodtime with...could even be slightly jealous of another girlfriend for this same reason...

now, you think if he is jealous of YOU and not trusting you aaround other guys- what then, is HE doing with his "gfriends?" that makes him not trust you? This I would NOT worry too much about. Scorpios are not the type that is inclined to cheat. Also, being able to trust another often has NOTHING to do with how well you trust yourself.

the main thing is prolly this- is the guy you wanna hang out with goodlooking and fun to be around? Despite any degree of gayness- I can tell you that that does not matter.

cont...


does he know the fellow? I am sure he wouldn't be half as jealous if he knew the guy and has hung out with the two of you before.

Yer guyfriend could be "pretending to be gay just so he can get close to you" - ya- no matter what you say, scorp will always assume the worst intentions until proven otherwise- ie. a get together with the two of ya- so he can see with his own two eyes that there is nothing going on- cause he knows that he could tell in a second if there was...if he sees nothing at all then he will trust those instincts about the situation as well.

It is only nature for him to be suspicious of other guys...deal with that and do what he needs in order to NOT feel jealous (except NOT hang out with yer guyfriend)

Arrange a get-together with the three of you- or a double date- this should help ease the not-knowing on the part of yer scorp's psyche- this is what will torture him the most-

the scenarios in his mind where yer guyfriend comes on to you when you are alone together...they will plague him and he needs to see that the scenario is not a possibility- though like I said- you telling him is not enough- of course "he knows better of the intentions of YOUR OWN friends than you EVER could" right??

lol

just tell him that he is ten-thousand times better looking, more fun and intelligent than the guyfriend and he might calm down. Also- tell him this:

"even if I WERE single I would never go out with (guyfriend's name) because he just isn't my type- I just don't even find him that attractive really..."

some more MATURE scorps might not need to be fed this kinda shit- but I sure as hell would eat it up 🙂

LOVE the advice. Thanks soooooooooo much. Sometimes I needed a little extra perspective.

It's what he doesn't know and is forced to only wonder is probally the biggest thing.

no problem 😉

Oh the beer & naked thing will defintately be done! hehe

🙂 that makes me happy your so willing

Remember this scene?

Yes, oh baby YES! 😛 ...bourbon over my naked body...grrrrrrrrr

sometimes i think your a dude 😛

Huh? Cuz I fantasize about a sexy man pouring boubon on me & licking it off?

lol

tg

yer welcome...but I already knew I couldn't POSSIBLY compete with scorpius's sound advice...

good luck with scorpguy...btw- have you mentioned the bourbon idea to him yet?

LOL, no taur, because you fantasize about sex more than i do

How is that possible Scorpius?

Because i have a little self control. Im changing my ways lately. Why is it so hard to believe?

"btw- have you mentioned the bourbon idea to him yet?"

Not yet. 😛

Though he did mention to me that this weekend when we go outta town he wants to take off on a 4 wheeler and get nasty outside, & be a little scared of getting caught!

I like that idea toooo 🙂🙂

Why change your ways Scorpius?!! Embrace your evil ways. 🙂

its why i always wanted a tree house when i was a kid 🙂🙂 that way i can be intouch with nature if you catch my drift 😉

its why i always wanted a tree house when i was a kid

A nice cozy tree house where WE could sleep under the stars. Get a little bourbon too.

the stars are so romantic. I dont know why, its just a bunch of explosions but it still is. *pours bourbon all over virgo* woops, Ill get that for ya 😉

😛 😛 (grabs another bottle of bourbon)

*pours bourbon all over virgo* woops, Ill get that for ya

Great...now how are you going to get it off.

Alright this has been fun but I have got to go. This place is so much fun.

how would you like me to get it off ??

ill see you later virgo, i should get going too finally...so much for a quick hello