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Posted by jazzykid
OP is married and contacts an ex from 20 years ago “for some reason” and yet this turns into an analysis of his character, or lack thereof, and residual feeling for OP.DXP DXP’ing. lol
We analyzed hers too 😂
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Yeah everyone made that comment lol
Posted by MysteriousHeart
It seems he never got over you. When you reached out he saw a glimmer of hope like maybe after all this time we could have another chance. Then when you told him you were married it was like a stab in the heart all over again. Us Scorpios can hang on to people forever even if we were the ones doing the breaking of the hearts. It’s unfortunate really how we can hang on for so long. I’m sorry though that he was so mean to you. At least you know he hasn’t changed since you were with him all those years ago and can move on. Some people sadly never change.
Probably this. Or I don't know...
I think any one one of us happened to imagine what became of an ex. We are humanly curious...not stalking-curious, but once-in-a-decade curious. Nothing to do with our life, relationships, happiness, marriage.... Nobody should blame you for that.
Yes, we could use the internet do satisfy our curiosity, but it actually TAKES FAR LESS TIME and involvement to find it out direct from the source. To those shamming you here...STFU hypocrites!
Anyway, thanks for the laughter!
Posted by poppyflower
Venus RX strikes again...
The mother of all excuses 🥴🤣
Posted by MysteriousHeart
It seems he never got over you. When you reached out he saw a glimmer of hope like maybe after all this time we could have another chance. Then when you told him you were married it was like a stab in the heart all over again. Us Scorpios can hang on to people forever even if we were the ones doing the breaking of the hearts. It’s unfortunate really how we can hang on for so long. I’m sorry though that he was so mean to you. At least you know he hasn’t changed since you were with him all those years ago and can move on. Some people sadly never change.Probably this. Or I don't know...
I think any one one of us happened to imagine what became of an ex. We are humanly curious...not stalking-curious, but once-in-a-decade curious. Nothing to do with our life, relationships, happiness, marriage.... Nobody should blame you for that.
Yes, we could use the internet do satisfy our curiosity, but it actually TAKES FAR LESS TIME and involvement to find it out direct from the source. To those shamming you here...STFU hypocrites!
Anyway, thanks for the laughter!
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Make shame great again
Posted by DonnaLibra
For some reason I got the desire to look up my Scorpio ex and then contact him after 20 years to say hello and see how he's doing. As soon as I said hi he said "A, I love you and my biggest regret was not marrying you. No other woman has ever made love to me the way you do or could cook the way you do, blah, blah, blah." Then he said he was going to make arrangements for me to visit him in CA and when can I come. I told him I can't do that because I'm married to the man I started dating after he broke my heart. He said, "Oh you married him?" Then we talked and caught up on each others lives over the years. The next day he called me and asked again that I come out west to visit him. I again said no. He then unleashed a torrent of insults that left me stunned and shaking. Why? What happened?
Ew, embarrassing. Like I can be embarrassed with no witnesses embarrassed... Like I'm embarrassed for you and me... embarrassed.. for us embarrassed.
I've been married so long, LoL.
I savor experiences more than the "relationship" itself...and kinda set out that way. So, I personally wouldn't reach out. I don't love none of them. Might never have Don't know the feeling
I know Virgo would lose his shit, though. So no. That's a boundary.
It would feel more disrespectful to myself than to my husband.. Can't explain... self-respect.
But, I'm not judging cause only you know your relationship boundaries. Y"all are fine with it apparently.
Everybody's got an idea of how married people should act even if they've never been married or in long-term relationships themselves. I recall I did a sweat pants dick bulge thread and a notoriously arrogant self-important member came into the topic to "chastise" me, LOL, cause a married woman shouldn't post a topic like that. Married women can't watch porn? Much less covered, clothed, penis bulges? Not even on tv? LoL It was chauvinism though.
I know communities we live in determine these things too...social mores and all. You say you see and chat up exes all the time... Maybe you live in a small friendly community... ... it's a vibe...
That guy is just like Nanochip described though... Like a petulant child...and certainly toxic, not "intense." Gross. Maybe you were looking for that thing people call "closure?" I'm sure you're satisfied now though... Geeez.
Intensity, intensity... there's levels to it and good and bad to it. Hardly without both. I'm glad my husband and I are past that stage. Even the good part of intensity can be debilitating... But, at least when I miss intensity, it's with the same man laying next to me, LoL. He's the only man I dreamed of while in bed with, LoL.
Posted by saggurl88
Because you ruined his peace. Lol why contact him if you’re not available?Lol 😂 if this was my ex contacting me. I’ll let another girl pick up the phone and talk to her.
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That sounds like even more drama 🤣🤣🤣
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
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Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
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Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
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It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
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The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
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Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
but at least he's not having an affair via emails instead of being there for his babymama as i expect of fixed sign men
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
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Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
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Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
click to expand
It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
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The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
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Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
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Plenty to heal
His communication skills
His immaturity~time to grow up
His toxicity
His rage
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
click to expand
Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
click to expand
Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
click to expand
It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
click to expand
The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
click to expand
Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
click to expandPlenty to heal
His communication skills
His immaturity~time to grow up
His toxicity
His rage
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Nah that’s your opinion
What Op did
Was wrong
Does her husband know she’s contacting exes left and right?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
click to expand
Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
click to expand
Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
click to expand
It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
click to expand
The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
click to expand
Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
click to expandPlenty to heal
His communication skills
His immaturity~time to grow up
His toxicity
His rage
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Nah that’s your opinion . His anger is valid, his communication is telling it how he felt with waistline his time and not chasing married woman. He doesn’t owe her niceness.
What Op did
Was wrong
Does her husband know she’s contacting exes left and right?
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
click to expand
Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
click to expand
Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
click to expand
It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
click to expand
The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
click to expand
Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
click to expandPlenty to heal
His communication skills
His immaturity~time to grow up
His toxicity
His rage
click to expand
Nah that’s your opinion
What Op did
Was wrong
Does her husband know she’s contacting exes left and right?
click to expand
These are not mutually exclusive things.
The OP should not have contacted the ex, while simultaneously the ex also is a piece of shit
Both things can exist at the same time, both of the things are true.
It’s not an either/or and black/white thing
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
click to expand
Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
click to expand
Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
click to expand
It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
click to expand
The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
click to expand
Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
click to expandPlenty to heal
His communication skills
His immaturity~time to grow up
His toxicity
His rage
Nah that’s your opinion
What Op did
Was wrong
Does her husband know she’s contacting exes left and right?
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I didn’t say she was wasn’t wrong - I said the opposite to her that it wasn’t a good move so I agree with you there …
Yes that’s my opinion - it’s the only one I have
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
click to expand
Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
click to expand
Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Why does he have to be so hurtful with his words? My Libra Mercury cringes. He was always like that even when we dated and he got angry. That's one of the reasons I couldn't hang around. The sex was the best of my life though.
click to expand
It’s a trait of the dark side of the sign … vitriol
with a capital V. If the Scorp doesn’t try to transcend this, it becomes really ugly and as Nano said ends up self stinging.
Deadly but no excuse not to heal it with intent and strength …
How can he heal it?
click to expand
The chances are he won’t? It takes a lot of strength
I think the question is do you need to be concerned with that question?
click to expand
Maybe there is nothing to heal on his part. Maybe his sick and tire of people who
Are wishy washy and just told it like it is . I see he set a fucken boundary telling her he ain’t chasing no married woman. Why does the truth hurt.
click to expandPlenty to heal
His communication skills
His immaturity~time to grow up
His toxicity
His rage
click to expand
Nah that’s your opinion
What Op did
Was wrong
Does her husband know she’s contacting exes left and right?
click to expand
These are not mutually exclusive things.
The OP should not have contacted the ex, while simultaneously the ex also is a piece of shit
Both things can exist at the same time, both of the things are true.
It’s not an either/or and black/white thing
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Yes indeed
Posted by MyStarsShine
Hes prob pissed off that you contacted him but wouldn’t meet. He didnt get to be in control so stings you 😵💫He screamed "Why the fuck did you contact me!?" "So what if you saw me on FB you should have just looked and moved on" told me I never loved him and that because I didn't have kids I was going to die alone in a home and no one will visit me but him. Said I must think he's going to chase another MF's wife when young bitches are running after him. And...a whole lot more.
I swear all I wanted to do is hear his voice again and see how he was. See if he was a changed person (he isn't) He was such a Player back then. He did ask me to marry him but I said no because I was afraid he would cheat and abuse me. We kept breaking up and getting back together. It was toxic and still is. Calling him was the biggest and most foolish mistake I've made this year.
click to expandYes it’s a pity you made contact …
Are you unhappy/dissatisfied in your marriage?
I’ve noticed before your energy seems drawn to Scorpios. Maybe you never got over him?
I was insane over him. Yes I'm happily married to my Gemini. I do miss the intensity of the Scorpio though. There's always something about all of my exes that I miss.
click to expand
Does he have a Scorpio moon and/or Scorpio Venus?
Asc Scorpio
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Sag Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Taurus Mars
Scorpio Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Leo Uranus
Scorpio Neptune
click to expand
Too much Scorpio (like me lol)
Uptight moon
And the infamous Venus Scorpio (the worst Venus to have in love)
Idk if it's the worst...but it does take at very least work on the side of the vis person to overcome some of the negative aspects and a certain kind of person as a partner. But isn't that every placement, really? With vis, shallow, poor me/weak appearing or wishy-washy need not apply for the position of partner.
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its debilitated…it’s the worst 😂🥴
it can be unreasonable at best
brutal at worst
Posted by DonnaLibra
For some reason I got the desire to look up my Scorpio ex and then contact him after 20 years to say hello and see how he's doing. As soon as I said hi he said "A, I love you and my biggest regret was not marrying you. No other woman has ever made love to me the way you do or could cook the way you do, blah, blah, blah." Then he said he was going to make arrangements for me to visit him in CA and when can I come. I told him I can't do that because I'm married to the man I started dating after he broke my heart. He said, "Oh you married him?" Then we talked and caught up on each others lives over the years. The next day he called me and asked again that I come out west to visit him. I again said no. He then unleashed a torrent of insults that left me stunned and shaking. Why? What happened?
Retrograde in action. It's cool. That impulse wasn't about you, that was him. That venting was himself about his mistakes and regrets but projected onto you.
He got his closure...or reality check take your pick.
You did zero wrong, again contacting him wasn't about you. You did nothing wrong.
Anyone who says otherwise, is harboring thier own issues.
Personally, I wouldn't contact an ex, I find that odd if I'm being honest. Knowing he was like this, why would you reach out to him?
Also, just want to add, you're married. Inappropriate. Don't think about him. The only guy you should worry about is your husband. Creating a thread over a deranged ex is weird, no offense. Apart from this thread and me disagreeing with you doing what you did, I dig ya. You're a cool chick....you're better than this.
Posted by DonnaLibra
For some reason I got the desire to look up my Scorpio ex and then contact him after 20 years to say hello and see how he's doing. As soon as I said hi he said "A, I love you and my biggest regret was not marrying you. No other woman has ever made love to me the way you do or could cook the way you do, blah, blah, blah." Then he said he was going to make arrangements for me to visit him in CA and when can I come. I told him I can't do that because I'm married to the man I started dating after he broke my heart. He said, "Oh you married him?" Then we talked and caught up on each others lives over the years. The next day he called me and asked again that I come out west to visit him. I again said no. He then unleashed a torrent of insults that left me stunned and shaking. Why? What happened?Are you crazy?!
Married women messaging an ex.
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lol.
Posted by DonnaLibra
For some reason I got the desire to look up my Scorpio ex and then contact him after 20 years to say hello and see how he's doing. As soon as I said hi he said "A, I love you and my biggest regret was not marrying you. No other woman has ever made love to me the way you do or could cook the way you do, blah, blah, blah." Then he said he was going to make arrangements for me to visit him in CA and when can I come. I told him I can't do that because I'm married to the man I started dating after he broke my heart. He said, "Oh you married him?" Then we talked and caught up on each others lives over the years. The next day he called me and asked again that I come out west to visit him. I again said no. He then unleashed a torrent of insults that left me stunned and shaking. Why? What happened?Retrograde in action. It's cool. That impulse wasn't about you, that was him. That venting was himself about his mistakes and regrets but projected onto you.
He got his closure...or reality check take your pick.
You did zero wrong, again contacting him wasn't about you. You did nothing wrong.
Anyone who says otherwise, is harboring thier own issues.
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LOL Thank you for being so kind. I was wrong as hell.
Posted by PoshChickenLove1111
Personally, I wouldn't contact an ex, I find that odd if I'm being honest. Knowing he was like this, why would you reach out to him?
Um, stupidity? I'm going to blame it on this forum and all this Scorpio talk. No, I honestly just wondered how he was and what was going on in his life. The exes I contacted before were my ex husbands. That was only because 1 lost his mother to cancer and I was close to her and their family. The second one was deathly ill so I had to reach out. I've learned my lesson.
Posted by Stonyy
ARE YOU GONNA GET THE DICK?
HELL NO!!!!
Posted by Stonyy
ARE YOU GONNA GET THE DICK?HELL NO!!!!
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MAD Scorpio dick 😂🥴🤣👿
Posted by Stonyy
ARE YOU GONNA GET THE DICK?HELL NO!!!!
MAD Scorpio dick 😂🥴🤣👿
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Yeah, it's amazing.
Posted by Stonyy
ARE YOU GONNA GET THE DICK?HELL NO!!!!
MAD Scorpio dick 😂🥴🤣👿
click to expandYeah, it's amazing.
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Amazing and dysfunctional
Imagine how you’d feel if your hubbie said that about another woman ?
Posted by IceStorm
Donna I’m curious what aspects Uranus is making to your natal chart? Would not be surprised if it’s aspecting your Venus or your moon or your 7th house. Uranus likes to shake shit up.Earlier in the thread I mentioned that my Pisces ex just told me last week that he was engaged. Then he tried calling me again today but I didn’t answer. Uranus is currently opposing his mars.
Uranus is at 22 degrees taurus. Do you have any planets in your chart at or around 22 degrees? This is just more out of curiosity to test my theory 🤔 lol
The reason I pay such close attention to Uranus is because of personal history… in November of 2016 when I found out my sons dad was having an affair on me, Uranus was at 21 degrees aries which is opposite both our natal Pluto in libra (22 degrees) and it was transiting my 7th house. I wasn’t the one who had the affair but obviously Uranus still delivered change to my 7th house of relationships because I ended the relationship and moved out. It was transiting my 7th house and it was transiting my ex’s 4th house (house of family).
I’m not saying that a Uranus transit should be an excuse, but it would benefit you to be aware of what is going on and why you’re feeling bored/restless so that you’ll know that this boredom is just a phase and it will pass rather than beating yourself up or feeling like a horrible person for it.
I don't know much about astrology aspects but I saw this:
Uranus in Leo 2 degrees 4'
Venus square Uranus
Uranus in 11th
Mars sextile Uranus
Relationships are like chapters of a book. Once that chapter is over, you shouldn't go back and revisit it - especially considering you made a vow to your husband. Disrespectful.
Posted by IceStorm
Donna I’m curious what aspects Uranus is making to your natal chart? Would not be surprised if it’s aspecting your Venus or your moon or your 7th house. Uranus likes to shake shit up.Earlier in the thread I mentioned that my Pisces ex just told me last week that he was engaged. Then he tried calling me again today but I didn’t answer. Uranus is currently opposing his mars.
Uranus is at 22 degrees taurus. Do you have any planets in your chart at or around 22 degrees? This is just more out of curiosity to test my theory 🤔 lol
The reason I pay such close attention to Uranus is because of personal history… in November of 2016 when I found out my sons dad was having an affair on me, Uranus was at 21 degrees aries which is opposite both our natal Pluto in libra (22 degrees) and it was transiting my 7th house. I wasn’t the one who had the affair but obviously Uranus still delivered change to my 7th house of relationships because I ended the relationship and moved out. It was transiting my 7th house and it was transiting my ex’s 4th house (house of family).
What is with 22°? I'm curious😅 because my Venus is at 21° in conjunction with Uranus and my Lilith in Taurus is at 22°😬
I know right? I have natal pluto 22 degrees in libra opposite Aries vertex at 22 degrees. I had that life changing event happen when Uranus hit that axis and then I dealt with the Pisces for 2 years whose Venus was 22 degrees Aries and then the cancer guy whose moon is 21 degrees aries. There’s definitely a puzzle/pattern at play and I think I’m finally starting to get the clue. 🤔 anytime I’m met with opposition from others (vertex opposite Pluto) I’m expected to take the high road instead of trying to control the situation or the outcome.
Now you made me look into one in a way life changing event for me as well... Mars and Saturn were at 22° that day and Mars was in conjunction with Uranus and NN, both at 18°. This conjunction in Taurus happened in my 2nd house and it was conjunct my Lilith. Day for accidents for sure... This all in Taurus would oppose my Mars and Pluto in Scorp but it didn't at that day, cause it was too far away by degree. It's interesting when you observe transits closely and their effects on us
I like to look at the transits from those big life-altering days. The day that my son was born, mars and Pluto were conjunct my IC in my 4th house (so now of course that’s where my sons natal mars/Pluto conjunction sits in my birth chart)
I looked at the day that my mom passed and didn’t see anything too significant, other than Saturn had just crossed over into my 12th house, sextile my natal Mercury by 1 degree on that day.
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Oh, I'm familiar with that last part too...mine is transiting also my 12th house now and my mom passed away 3 months ago. Saturn was in exact conjunction with her Sun on that day 😞 6 planets were in same sign which happens to be her rising too. Jupiter and Pluto were at 0° and Mars at 29°...so maybe look for those critical degrees or relation to her rising too. Where was her natal Saturn compared to the transiting one? Was Saturn in harsh aspect with your Moon or aspecting or did it touch something in your 4th house? Where was Chiron at that time? I just saw transiting chiron was in conjunction with my Moon...
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I'm sorry your Mom passed away 3 months ago. My Scorpio father passed away 5 months ago. Maybe that is why I contacted my Scorpio ex. Just thought of that.
Posted by IceStorm
Donna I’m curious what aspects Uranus is making to your natal chart? Would not be surprised if it’s aspecting your Venus or your moon or your 7th house. Uranus likes to shake shit up.Earlier in the thread I mentioned that my Pisces ex just told me last week that he was engaged. Then he tried calling me again today but I didn’t answer. Uranus is currently opposing his mars.
Uranus is at 22 degrees taurus. Do you have any planets in your chart at or around 22 degrees? This is just more out of curiosity to test my theory 🤔 lol
The reason I pay such close attention to Uranus is because of personal history… in November of 2016 when I found out my sons dad was having an affair on me, Uranus was at 21 degrees aries which is opposite both our natal Pluto in libra (22 degrees) and it was transiting my 7th house. I wasn’t the one who had the affair but obviously Uranus still delivered change to my 7th house of relationships because I ended the relationship and moved out. It was transiting my 7th house and it was transiting my ex’s 4th house (house of family).
I’m not saying that a Uranus transit should be an excuse, but it would benefit you to be aware of what is going on and why you’re feeling bored/restless so that you’ll know that this boredom is just a phase and it will pass rather than beating yourself up or feeling like a horrible person for it.
I don't know much about astrology aspects but I saw this:
Uranus in Leo 2 degrees 4'
Venus square Uranus
Uranus in 11th
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Oh yeah you’re super uranian which means you value your freedom. Uranus is at home in the 11tj house of Aquarius and also you have Venus square Uranus in your natal chart, that means you get bored easily.
I have Venus sextile Uranus in my natal chart which is a little easier. Check this video out and tell me if it’s true for you.
I definitely recognize myself in this desciption. I never realized it was related to my Venus squaring my Uranus. This was certainly eye opening. Thank you for it and for the support. I really appreciate it. I had last minute company yesterday so didn't get a chance to read this until today. Thanks again.
Posted by Reincarnation5
Relationships are like chapters of a book. Once that chapter is over, you shouldn't go back and revisit it - especially considering you made a vow to your husband. Disrespectful.
Talking nonsense again.
Most people keep a book collection.
Did you ever wander why...
Posted by Reincarnation5
Relationships are like chapters of a book. Once that chapter is over, you shouldn't go back and revisit it - especially considering you made a vow to your husband. Disrespectful.
True
The only ex I stay in contact with is son’s dad…the others I just moved forward. No need to look back unless there’s unfinished business
Ugh Libras again lol He’s probably pissed he thought you missed him too. You just popped in to say hi when this man been missing you all his life lol wtf that’s horrible
Posted by DonnaLibra
For some reason I got the desire to look up my Scorpio ex and then contact him after 20 years to say hello and see how he's doing. As soon as I said hi he said "A, I love you and my biggest regret was not marrying you. No other woman has ever made love to me the way you do or could cook the way you do, blah, blah, blah." Then he said he was going to make arrangements for me to visit him in CA and when can I come. I told him I can't do that because I'm married to the man I started dating after he broke my heart. He said, "Oh you married him?" Then we talked and caught up on each others lives over the years. The next day he called me and asked again that I come out west to visit him. I again said no. He then unleashed a torrent of insults that left me stunned and shaking. Why? What happened?
He want the p.
Isn’t that obvious
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I agree
Dancing, singing, acting, exercise are all channels for releasing stuff