update from previous post - don't know what to do, scoprio and trust

I just wanted to say thank you to all who reached out a few weeks ago when I was up in arms about my scorpio (I fell for a man whose close friend - a gemini- I have a history and am also still platonic friends with), and he was on moral pendulum about the whole situation. It started with him pursuing me, then eventually he was convinced that the gemini friend has feelings for me and he didn't want to be that guy. I ended up backing away, but not without first pushing lol.I'm a Leo. I'm bold in my pursuits, and bold I was. Embarassingly so, if you see my previous post. However since then, I took in a lot of what everyone had to say and decided I didn't want to be the source of his moral grappling. I also didn't want to push him into something he didn't actually want. And I certainly did not want to be the reason his friendship ended. And I didn't want to be taken for a ride in case he was just interested sexually, and playing the "i can't do this to my friend" card to avoid things getting more serious. Because to me i felt very real.

for a week or so I went dark. Did not contact him, did not hear from him, did not hang at out at our mutual friends house. In that week, our gemini friend reached out to me (drunk of course) and tried to spew some feelings garbage. I set him straight quickly. The next day our geminil friend admitted that he doesn't actually have feelings, its a case of wanting what he can't have and that he does not have any interest in a relationship and would like to continue our friendship. A few days after that, my scorpio finally gets in touch. Things are different. He has not mentioned his moral dilemma (whereas before it was an every other day struggle). He has been open, bold, and actively pursuing me. Things are so good its almost unnerving. I mean that in the best possible way. He is open, and sharing his thoughts, his secrets, his whole self now. No more hot and cold. Just hot. SO hot and not even on a sexual level, just a connection level. We have yet to see each other since the switch, because he has his daugther right now. My concern here is..... I never told him about our friend's confession. And i feel like since our friend renegged on it the very next day, I shouldn't have to. He has not mentioned our gemini friend, or having issues with it morally, and I certainly don't want to mention it myself at the moment. I just want to bask in this, how it would have been from the beginning if we had met under different circumstances.

I know once I see my scorpio and we talk in real life, our gemini friend is bound to come up in conversation. And I also know that if this is a real thing we are going to pursue, the mutual friend needs dealt with. It will have to be a conversation we all have together, or at the very least one of us has with him, out of respect. My question is, am I wrong for not mentioning the drunk feelings talk to my scorpio? I feel like its bullshit and was bullshit, and I don't want some hurt egoed gemini males fleeting drunken spewing to ruin a really good thing. There was a time (years ago) when the gemini and I were involved in a friends with benefits situation, and I wanted something more. He told me in no uncertain terms that its not an option and never will be an option. That he will be single until the end of his days, he just doesn't have the relationship bone in him. He has stayed true to that. He made it clear at that time and since (until his stupid drunk speech) that we are friends and always will be but romantics will not be a thing with us and thats all it has been. We genuinely are just good friends and have known each other for 20+ years.

My scorpio currently has his child with him, but i'm going to see him Monday after work for the first time since all of this went down and he has made it abundantly clear that he wants me around every other day after that. Any advice on how to move forward? Do i stay mum, or is that a breach of trust and lying by omission? Which I know with a scorpio is a grievous error. HELP!

I don't think there is a single need to bring up the drunk rant. At all.

He made have already had a conversation with the Gemini himself, which is why he isn't showing any issues with pursuing you now.

If the topic comes up, sure, you can tell him. But there's no need to volunteer information that could cause issue.

@nikkistar thanks for your reply. I guess I was just trying to morally check myself and make sure that a Scorpio wouldn’t think this was calculated omission