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Posted by ImpulsvI don't know about all of that. Allow him some time to fully process her words and he'll snap out of it. You're right he will hold on an dwell up to a point, but the main point will hit home soon enough. She clearly stated she developed a connection with someone else "for months". A connection that it took them 4 years to develop. Therefore, sex or no sex you connected with someone else in such a way that you are willing to leave a 4 year relationship. That means for months you've been engaging, talking intimately with this person behind his back. You shared feelings and laid next to him everyday while thinking about another person---the person you now want while he was still tending to your needs---and you gladly accepting what he was offering. You might as well have f*cked the Gem far as I'm concerned. I'd be done. Oh, no he won't blame himself or hold onto her once that sinks in. It's just raw right now.
No u don't understand Scorpio n it ain't about fault
He'll be thinking what could I have done differently better
U see even with ur story he wants to work it out
Cuz u didn't cheat
That Means he will be continue to hold on to
You forever
Posted by ElleDuMondePosted by TaurusGal92
she doesnt need to know until im ready to tell her. she just needs to get my stuff and drop off the letter.
I am not manipulative at all! ðŸ˜click to expand
If this is a true story. Your manipulation knows no bounds lol. You're so manipulative that you've manipulated yourself into believing you know what's best for everyone.
Your mom left wondering who supports you in everything...
Why leave her in the dark about this.
Oh and Your Scorpio you're trying to protect who would say he's done with you... once he's found out you were with his friend.
And the Gemini you're trying to read to make sure he's safe before you totally let go of the scorpio....manipulation is your name at the moment
Posted by ElleDuMonde@taurusgal92Posted by TaurusGal92
she doesnt need to know until im ready to tell her. she just needs to get my stuff and drop off the letter.
I am not manipulative at all! ðŸ˜click to expand
If this is a true story. Your manipulation knows no bounds lol. You're so manipulative that you've manipulated yourself into believing you know what's best for everyone.
Your mom left wondering who supports you in everything...
Why leave her in the dark about this.
Oh and Your Scorpio you're trying to protect who would say he's done with you... once he's found out you were with his friend.
And the Gemini you're trying to read to make sure he's safe before you totally let go of the scorpio....manipulation is your name at the moment
Wow...
Posted by happyface1oh yes im totally manipulating everyone by not wanting to hurt my bf by telling him i fell for and slept with one of his best friends. wow. im so manipulative. :/ do u know how that would make him feel? hes already been through so much i dont know if he can handle this.Posted by ElleDuMonde@taurusgal92Posted by TaurusGal92
she doesnt need to know until im ready to tell her. she just needs to get my stuff and drop off the letter.
I am not manipulative at all! ðŸ˜
If this is a true story. Your manipulation knows no bounds lol. You're so manipulative that you've manipulated yourself into believing you know what's best for everyone.
Your mom left wondering who supports you in everything...
Why leave her in the dark about this.
Oh and Your Scorpio you're trying to protect who would say he's done with you... once he's found out you were with his friend.
And the Gemini you're trying to read to make sure he's safe before you totally let go of the scorpio....manipulation is your name at the momentclick to expand
and i am gonna tell my today. this is hard for me. i've never done anything like this before and its the worst thing that has ever happened to me. its not easy. dont judge unless ur in my shoes.
Posted by littlemegabytes"...Being blinded by rage and emotion towardsPosted by tizianiThis whole thread is humiliating.Posted by whatthecrabIt's about time the "frothing at the mouth" posting style came back into fashion round here anyway.
Lol at people taking this troll thread as a personal betrayal, only because it involves their sun sign
Everything down to the transparent and vicious obvious hate people (namely scorps) have for Gems to the OP's mistake to the scorps who have already signed off on her death certificate ‚‚. Funny!
Oh and suddenly everyone's a critic. People make mistakes. This girl is 24 years old.
Like any of you haven't made mistakes in relationships before— Lol I forgot the people on DXP are perfect. Many of you all probably joined DXP because you fucked up somewhere along the way in a relationship, or have you forgotten that part?
People living in glass houses should not throw stones. She fucked up, and she will realize that with time. I believe she realizes it now, but the feeling of guilt will slowly eat away at her more as time progresses. Give her a break, she is feeling remorseful and has openly contemplating committing suicide. Here in this thread. Where is your compassion? What is wrong with you people? Being blinded by rage and emotion towards an internet stranger is bizarre, and I don't feel like I'm totally out of line by calling it kind of pathetic too??
OP, the more you defend yourself, the more you have a need to defend yourself. Just stop. You fucked up, it happens. We all fuck up and make mistakes in relationships. You fell out of love with the scorp, and you handled it poorly. There are worse things that can happen in the world. Just own your mistake and more importantly: learn from it.click to expand
an internet stranger is bizarre--"
Indeed!
Unfortunately, any good points you've made are lost,
due to your unbelievable hypocrisy.
You're guilty of much worse, dear.
lol
Posted by trollbaitim in love with someone else. i want to let him go but i dont want to bring destruction to his life by telling him everything. but i will..... im gonna write it in a letter and leave it at his place
It's as if you subconsciously don't want to let the Scorp go.
What ended " the " conection". Tell him that as the rest is not necessary to be told at this point.
"tell him right now"
or death
or death
Posted by tiziani😆! Right. When you least expect it and you're all curled up and cozy, feeding each other curly fries thinking "whew I'm sure glad I spared his feelings" the Scorp will be like:
That was yesterday.
Too late now.
Just try not to crack under pressure.
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
you are still a liar
and a cheater, ne.
but it all will come
back again to you.
you think you are
happy with gem.
give it a minute.
meanwhile, i hope
scorpio finds a real
woman who loves
him and has heart
to be honest with
him always.
you dont feel awful.
you feel good as long
as you escape with no
responsibility in this.
bitch.
and a cheater, ne.
but it all will come
back again to you.
you think you are
happy with gem.
give it a minute.
meanwhile, i hope
scorpio finds a real
woman who loves
him and has heart
to be honest with
him always.
you dont feel awful.
you feel good as long
as you escape with no
responsibility in this.
bitch.
Posted by TachibanaSanyou are a horrible person for thinking u know me and slandering me like that. all that negative bad energy is gonna come straight back at you not me. :/
you are still a liar
and a cheater, ne.
but it all will come
back again to you.
you think you are
happy with gem.
give it a minute.
meanwhile, i hope
scorpio finds a real
woman who loves
him and has heart
to be honest with
him always.
you dont feel awful.
you feel good as long
as you escape with no
responsibility in this.
bitch.
Posted by ElleDuMondeof course u dont have remorse. sociopaths usually dont! even celebrating over the cruel words u said. wow. ur parents must be so proud!Posted by TaurusGal92You are right, I have no remorse and feel pretty good about everything I wrote. I can walk away from this thread knowing I told the truth.
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
I may even saunter down to starbucks to reward myself for a job well done.
See how that works?click to expand
Posted by TaurusGal92
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
don't tell him what has happened with the other man. That doesn't concern him unless you wold want fix things and remain in the relationship. Only tell him why you stopped feeling the connection and stopped loving him even if the answer is boredom. And cry so he can see you struggle. And move on. Be firm.
hurting my ass.
funny how all of your feeling
disappeared when you were
screwing with scorp's friend.
you deserve no sympathy.
you're woman enough to cheat
but you're not woman enough
to tell scorpio the entire truth.
forget the coddling and feeling
sorry for you. i feel for the scorp.
cheated on, lied to, left behind
for his 'best friend'. baka da yo!
funny how all of your feeling
disappeared when you were
screwing with scorp's friend.
you deserve no sympathy.
you're woman enough to cheat
but you're not woman enough
to tell scorpio the entire truth.
forget the coddling and feeling
sorry for you. i feel for the scorp.
cheated on, lied to, left behind
for his 'best friend'. baka da yo!
Posted by Sagittarius16bokay. thank you.Posted by TaurusGal92
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
don't tell him what has happened with the other man. That doesn't concern him unless you wold want fix things and remain in the relationship. Only tell him why you stopped feeling the connection and stopped loving him even if the answer is boredom. And cry so he can see you struggle. And move on. Be firm.click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMonde😉 I knew I couldn't be the only one that caught that!Posted by TaurusGal92lol
he was arrogant, chickeny, superficial, selfish and horrible but one night we were drinking and playing cards and we started talking and we just hit it off and realized how much in common we had with eachother......click to expand
Posted by TaurusGal92BULLSHIT!!Posted by Sagittarius16bokay. thank you.Posted by TaurusGal92
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
don't tell him what has happened with the other man. That doesn't concern him unless you wold want fix things and remain in the relationship. Only tell him why you stopped feeling the connection and stopped loving him even if the answer is boredom. And cry so he can see you struggle. And move on. Be firm.click to expand
it does concern him because
the bitch slept with the gemini
BEFORE she broke up with him.
don't give this idiot more ammo
to sneak off even more unscathed.
i don't care how much you hide,
scorpios always find out things.
and that is when your problems
will really begin. just you wait.
but i hope he does not do it.
because neither of you are
worth the time or emotions.
Posted by exo😆! Stop....
you left a scorp for a gemini? 😕
Posted by TachibanaSanhe really loves me. he would never hurt me. im the one who is worried about hurting him if he finds out. i just dont want him to be heartbroken. i know he would never hurt me though im scared he would hurt himself. :/Posted by TaurusGal92BULLSHIT!!Posted by Sagittarius16bokay. thank you.Posted by TaurusGal92
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
don't tell him what has happened with the other man. That doesn't concern him unless you wold want fix things and remain in the relationship. Only tell him why you stopped feeling the connection and stopped loving him even if the answer is boredom. And cry so he can see you struggle. And move on. Be firm.
it does concern him because
bitch slept with gem
BEFORE she broke up with him.
don't give this idiot more ammo
to sneak off even more unscathed.
i don't care how much you hide,
scorpios always find out things.
and that is when your problems
will really begin. just you wait.
but i hope he does not do it.
because neither of you are
worth the time or emotions.click to expand
Posted by TaurusGal924 years and you havePosted by TachibanaSanhe really loves me. he would never hurt me. im the one who is worried about hurting him if he finds out. i just dont want him to be heartbroken. i know he would never hurt me though im scared he would hurt himself. :/Posted by TaurusGal92BULLSHIT!!Posted by Sagittarius16bokay. thank you.Posted by TaurusGal92
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!
don't tell him what has happened with the other man. That doesn't concern him unless you wold want fix things and remain in the relationship. Only tell him why you stopped feeling the connection and stopped loving him even if the answer is boredom. And cry so he can see you struggle. And move on. Be firm.
it does concern him because
bitch slept with gem
BEFORE she broke up with him.
don't give this idiot more ammo
to sneak off even more unscathed.
i don't care how much you hide,
scorpios always find out things.
and that is when your problems
will really begin. just you wait.
but i hope he does not do it.
because neither of you are
worth the time or emotions.click to expand
learned nothing about
scorpios at all, i see.
too busy being self centered
and sneaking with his friend.
once he finds out everything,
himself will not be on hit list.
Posted by TaurusGal92Bull, you've move well past "mistake" after your lips touched the Gem. Leg flying open over your head, a** crack in the air for the Gem to ploy---in the bed your ex Scorp shared with you was a conscious act. Kissing, laying down and accepting kind gestures from your Scorp after you slept with his friend was a conscious act. Fixing your lips to utter a lie (your words) when you could have came clean was a conscious act. Having a discussion with the Gem and deciding to keep the relationship on the "down low" so you can come out all innocent and in love months later is a conscious act, so save the "being human" pity party. You won't find it here. Beside, don't you have bags to pack for a trip or is that a lie too?Posted by PhoenixRisingits so easy to judge people on the internet for being human and making mistakes but if u were in my position and cheated on ur bf with his good friend who u fell for im sure it wouldnt be easy for u to come clean either.......Posted by TaurusGal92I'm curious as to how you define "courage" because it looks like nothing you presented above.
yesterday was such a crazy night!!!! unfortunately i did not tell him everything but i broke up with him. he came home from work and i sat him down and we had a very long conversation.. to sum it all up i had the courage... to tell him that i havent felt a connection with him for a few months now and that ive been feeling that connection with somebody else......I had the perfect time to tel him, but something in me just blurted out a lie.....I'm so scared he's gonna find out about the gemini....after a long convo we decided not to tell my ex bf about anything because theres no point in hurting him anymore. we decided to date on the down low and in a few months were gonna come out as a couple and make it seem like we got together months after me and my scorpio split. i know its bad but its best for everyone involved.
As for the rest of the Ulysses novel you typed out, meh. You couldn't give a rats a** about the Scorps feelings, so stop frontin'. You wrote it yourself, your "scared" about the fall out. Deal with it.click to expand
Posted by TaurusGal92I am the horrible person?Posted by TachibanaSanyou are a horrible person for thinking u know me and slandering me like that. all that negative bad energy is gonna come straight back at you not me. :/
you are still a liar
and a cheater, ne.
but it all will come
back again to you.
you think you are
happy with gem.
give it a minute.
meanwhile, i hope
scorpio finds a real
woman who loves
him and has heart
to be honest with
him always.
you dont feel awful.
you feel good as long
as you escape with no
responsibility in this.
bitch.click to expand
a woman who is faithful
and does not lie to her
husband is being called
horrible by a lying cheat
who knowingly refuses
to tell the ex the truth?
negative bad energy is
going to stop by without
announcement so many
times at your doorstep
before it does me, dear.
Posted by PhoenixRisingyou dont understand. im trying to protect my ex with these lies. and im not leaving to new york today. i still have to send my mom to my ex's house to bring my stuff here so i can pack. i wont be leaving until monday. :/Posted by TaurusGal92Bull, you've moved well past "mistake" after your lips touched the Gem. Leg flying open over your head, a** crack in the air for the Gam to ploy in the bed your ex Scorp shared with you was a conscious act. Kissing, laying, accepting kind gestures from your Scorp after you slept with his friend was a conscious act. Fixing your lips to utter a lie (your words) when you could have came clean was a conscious act. Having a discussion with the Gem and deciding to to keep the relationship on the "down low" so you can come out all innocent and in love months later is a conscious act, so save the "being human" pity party. You won't find it here. Beside, don't you have bags to pack for a trip or is that a lie too?Posted by PhoenixRisingits so easy to judge people on the internet for being human and making mistakes but if u were in my position and cheated on ur bf with his good friend who u fell for im sure it wouldnt be easy for u to come clean either.......Posted by TaurusGal92I'm curious as to how you define "courage" because it looks like nothing you presented above.
yesterday was such a crazy night!!!! unfortunately i did not tell him everything but i broke up with him. he came home from work and i sat him down and we had a very long conversation.. to sum it all up i had the courage... to tell him that i havent felt a connection with him for a few months now and that ive been feeling that connection with somebody else......I had the perfect time to tel him, but something in me just blurted out a lie.....I'm so scared he's gonna find out about the gemini....after a long convo we decided not to tell my ex bf about anything because theres no point in hurting him anymore. we decided to date on the down low and in a few months were gonna come out as a couple and make it seem like we got together months after me and my scorpio split. i know its bad but its best for everyone involved.
As for the rest of the Ulysses novel you typed out, meh. You couldn't give a rats a** about the Scorps feelings, so stop frontin'. You wrote it yourself, your "scared" about the fall out. Deal with it.click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMonde😆!!!! I swear I lol'd out loud.
Lol @ cry so he can see the struggle
.....and scorps are the manipulative ones. smfh
@TaurusGal92
I'm an Aqua. I will not hold your hand. I will not give you tissues so you can wallow. I don't care what kind of person you are now, because a person can always choose to be better and do better. So even if you suck now, you can evolve to suck less. No, I don't care how broken up you are, because you came on the board to ask for help, your girlfriends are who you eat Ben and Jerry's ice cream with and watch Friends.
So here's your help, if you don't want it, or go sailing into the ether to do whatever the fuck, then I know you arn't serious about everything that has gone down, and being a better person. That's how I identify the selfish ones.
I asked my Scorpio for his opinion, he's got a bit more air than most Scorps so he handles his expressions of emotion without them exploding. That may not be the case for your Scorp, but he said, If you are going to explain yourself, do the man who loved you for 4 years the courtesy and respect of face to face. He may get angry, he's entitled. He may cry, he's entitled. He may start yelling, yup, hes entitled. And yes, out of respect, you should sit there and give him his closure to the relationship. Start from the unhappiness, to falling in love with the other man, to having sex, and realizing you just can't do it anymore because it's not there and no amount of "fixing" will change that. Do not do that in a letter, it's crass, it's disrespectful, and it is the coward's way out.
What you keep preaching to us, about it being the safe way, is the yellow belly, skank-laden, thot-twerking, cowardly, pussy way out. Don't even think about saying, Oh you never been, because I been there, done that, had a crying Cancer for 4 hours in front of me and I just had to suck it up. Anyone can tell you just how much Aqua Moons enjoy being emoted on. (Although at least I didn't lose my mind and fuck someone on the side, but then that's an Aqua benefit.)
There are no "degrees of pain" or whatever millennial bullshit is being fed to your generation. There is JUST pain and how we deal with it. You've already caused pain. Suffering, which is optional to the person in pain, can be managed, and he will suffer less if he understands exactly how it all played out, and WHY he should not look at you like girlfriend material.
You're in that cusp of child to woman, choose to be woman enough to own your own actions and emotions, even when they hurt others, be honest and OPEN to someone whom you have wronged, then be at fucking peace about it and go live your life.
I'm an Aqua. I will not hold your hand. I will not give you tissues so you can wallow. I don't care what kind of person you are now, because a person can always choose to be better and do better. So even if you suck now, you can evolve to suck less. No, I don't care how broken up you are, because you came on the board to ask for help, your girlfriends are who you eat Ben and Jerry's ice cream with and watch Friends.
So here's your help, if you don't want it, or go sailing into the ether to do whatever the fuck, then I know you arn't serious about everything that has gone down, and being a better person. That's how I identify the selfish ones.
I asked my Scorpio for his opinion, he's got a bit more air than most Scorps so he handles his expressions of emotion without them exploding. That may not be the case for your Scorp, but he said, If you are going to explain yourself, do the man who loved you for 4 years the courtesy and respect of face to face. He may get angry, he's entitled. He may cry, he's entitled. He may start yelling, yup, hes entitled. And yes, out of respect, you should sit there and give him his closure to the relationship. Start from the unhappiness, to falling in love with the other man, to having sex, and realizing you just can't do it anymore because it's not there and no amount of "fixing" will change that. Do not do that in a letter, it's crass, it's disrespectful, and it is the coward's way out.
What you keep preaching to us, about it being the safe way, is the yellow belly, skank-laden, thot-twerking, cowardly, pussy way out. Don't even think about saying, Oh you never been, because I been there, done that, had a crying Cancer for 4 hours in front of me and I just had to suck it up. Anyone can tell you just how much Aqua Moons enjoy being emoted on. (Although at least I didn't lose my mind and fuck someone on the side, but then that's an Aqua benefit.)
There are no "degrees of pain" or whatever millennial bullshit is being fed to your generation. There is JUST pain and how we deal with it. You've already caused pain. Suffering, which is optional to the person in pain, can be managed, and he will suffer less if he understands exactly how it all played out, and WHY he should not look at you like girlfriend material.
You're in that cusp of child to woman, choose to be woman enough to own your own actions and emotions, even when they hurt others, be honest and OPEN to someone whom you have wronged, then be at fucking peace about it and go live your life.
Posted by TaurusGal92How is it possible that you were with a Scorp for 2 days let alone 4 years and not know that "protecting" him with a lie is worse than the lie itself? You. Are. Removing. His. Ability. To. Make. An. Informed. Choice. He is loving and choosing to care about you based on a lie. If he knew the truth he would make another choice. It may be to whoop the Gem's a**, or it may be to sip a stiff drink, cry a bit and find someone else, but it is his choice to make.Posted by PhoenixRisingyou dont understand. im trying to protect my ex with these lies. and im not leaving to new york today. i still have to send my mom to my ex's house to bring my stuff here so i can pack. i wont be leaving until monday. :/Posted by TaurusGal92Bull, you've moved well past "mistake" after your lips touched the Gem. Leg flying open over your head, a** crack in the air for the Gam to ploy in the bed your ex Scorp shared with you was a conscious act. Kissing, laying, accepting kind gestures from your Scorp after you slept with his friend was a conscious act. Fixing your lips to utter a lie (your words) when you could have came clean was a conscious act. Having a discussion with the Gem and deciding to to keep the relationship on the "down low" so you can come out all innocent and in love months later is a conscious act, so save the "being human" pity party. You won't find it here. Beside, don't you have bags to pack for a trip or is that a lie too?
its so easy to judge people on the internet for being human and making mistakes but if u were in my position and cheated on ur bf with his good friend who u fell for im sure it wouldnt be easy for u to come clean either.......click to expand
He will be able to move on. The Sun will still shine. His world will continue to spin. Trust.
Posted by littlemegabytesI'm so glad you asked.
I don't even know you. But I do know that you have been leaving weird, cryptic comments like this on everything I write for the past year. I've only spoken to you a few times on DXP that I am aware of (and only replying because you quote me, all the time, like this) because you seem to think you have my entire character and innermost self along with my finances figured out, which I find very disturbing. Did we get into an
Your finances are of no consequence to me-- my comment, as you know, was on the
fact that you grossly misrepresented them (in some circles, it's called lying), for the
express purpose of knocking down other people to elevate yourself.
And there's nothing cryptic about calling you a hypocrite-- it's a very direct statement.
And it was in reference to your own very emotional meltdown, in my honor, not too long ago.
Watching you accuse others of the same with such righteous indignation (which seems to
be a constant for you) ... I just couldn't.
🙂
Posted by GennieTHIS!!! +1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000
@TaurusGal92
I'm an Aqua. I will not hold your hand. I will not give you tissues so you can wallow. I don't care what kind of person you are now, because a person can always choose to be better and do better. So even if you suck now, you can evolve to suck less. No, I don't care how broken up you are, because you came on the board to ask for help, your girlfriends are who you eat Ben and Jerry's ice cream with and watch Friends.
So here's your help, if you don't want it, or go sailing into the ether to do whatever the fuck, then I know you arn't serious about everything that has gone down, and being a better person. That's how I identify the selfish ones.
I asked my Scorpio for his opinion, he's got a bit more air than most Scorps so he handles his expressions of emotion without them exploding. That may not be the case for your Scorp, but he said, If you are going to explain yourself, do the man who loved you for 4 years the courtesy and respect of face to face. He may get angry, he's entitled. He may cry, he's entitled. He may start yelling, yup, hes entitled. And yes, out of respect, you should sit there and give him his closure to the relationship. Start from the unhappiness, to falling in love with the other man, to having sex, and realizing you just can't do it anymore because it's not there and no amount of "fixing" will change that. Do not do that in a letter, it's crass, it's disrespectful, and it is the coward's way out.
What you keep preaching to us, about it being the safe way, is the yellow belly, skank-laden, thot-twerking, cowardly, pussy way out. Don't even think about saying, Oh you never been, because I been there, done that, had a crying Cancer for 4 hours in front of me and I just had to suck it up. Anyone can tell you just how much Aqua Moons enjoy being emoted on. (Although at least I didn't lose my mind and fuck someone on the side, but then that's an Aqua benefit.)
There are no "degrees of pain" or whatever millennial bullshit is being fed to your generation. There is JUST pain and how we deal with it. You've already caused pain. Suffering, which is optional to the person in pain, can be managed, and he will suffer less if he understands exactly how it all played out, and WHY he should not look at you like girlfriend material.
You're in that cusp of child to woman, choose to be woman enough to own your own actions and emotions, even when they hurt others, be honest and OPEN to someone whom you have wronged, then be at fucking peace about it and go live your life.
This is not going to work out. He is hurt but already planning his revenge and punishments for you. Don't make a mistake to tell him you have had been intimate with his friend . It is very nice his friend is willing to spare him that fact as well. Tell him you don't want be with him any more, you may come to regret it but you need to leave based on all said. It is not going work out.
Posted by Libra82Posted by TaurusGal92I don't think this is the best place to look for advice when you've cheated. Nobody likes a cheater. But I'll give you mine. Tell him the truth. Don't lie anymore because he will find out eventually and you wouldn't being able to live with yourself until you tell the truth. Scorpios have this six sense so he will find out eventually. You obviously don't want him back so tell him the truth and move on so he can do the same. He will probably hate you both for the rest of his life but that's a choice he has. Just my two cents.
you guys have no remorse for a hurting woman. no proper advice here just flat out disses, insults and horrible comments..... i hope u guys are proud of urselves for treating a person like this!click to expand
the" cheating " I'd she actaully stayed so long after losing feelings for him. She already fell in love woth someone else. Unfortunately shen indeed with him physically too. It may be a big mistake in his life but she doesn't " owe " any truth to the scorpio rather than she wants to move on as much as she used to love him orior. Telling " the truth " about the couch would bring a lot fo problems for every party involved. If he had " sixth sense ",why is he lacking it now? And if he finds out in the future , let it br. Telling thta truth won't help ANYONE. it is her luggage to carry and she wants to leave so all she needs to do is be firm and tell him and go. The rest of ehat you all suggest is " drama" you try accuse her of. He is not married to her and that's grest. He will find another woman .
SHE IS FREE To LEAVE WITHOUT An EXPLANATION too. He will suffer and then get over it. She needs continue and he needs continue. It s an experience. Obviously they won't be " moving to a house and having children together". It s done. That's the only truth that matters be told.
Posted by littlemegabytesNah... you're just a compulsive liar who doesn't like the spotlight thrown on that fact.Posted by MontgomeryIt was a thread about credit scores. If you chose to take neutral facts about finances and interpret them as "elevating" oneself, that's between you and I guess your insecurities about your own finances,not a reflection of my own intentions in any way. And if calling you Cuntgomery is a very emotional meltdown, consider me guilty. Lol. Also righteous indignation? Lmao. Something is very off about your perception of me. I don't even know you enough to make such a claim about your character. So who are you to say that of me? Still here you are, choosing to leave bitchy comments towards me, for no reason, publically, when I invite you to PM me about whatever this issue you have with me is. And again, I don't know you or have an issue with you, yet here you are. Time after time. Why? It seems to me that you like the attention.Posted by littlemegabytesI'm so glad you asked.
I don't even know you. But I do know that you have been leaving weird, cryptic comments like this on everything I write for the past year. I've only spoken to you a few times on DXP that I am aware of (and only replying because you quote me, all the time, like this) because you seem to think you have my entire character and innermost self along with my finances figured out, which I find very disturbing. Did we get into an
Your finances are of no consequence to me-- my comment, as you know, was on the
fact that you grossly misrepresented them (in some circles, it's called lying), for the
express purpose of knocking down other people to elevate yourself.
And there's nothing cryptic about calling you a hypocrite-- it's a very direct statement.
And it was in reference to your own very emotional meltdown, in my honor, not too long ago.
Watching you accuse others of the same with such righteous indignation (which seems to
be a constant for you) ... I just couldn't.
🙂
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@Montgomery is baelicious.
Posted by littlemegabytesThe first time... what, since the last time?
Lol! The first time I've ever been called a compulsive, or really ANY kind of liar, ever! 😆 It's quite delusional that you think you know me and my life... At all. Insane and very creepy ✌ðŸ»ï¸
If you mean ever, then your other thread can't be true-- the one about the people
you pretend to be friends with.
Note: if you didn't spend so much time disparaging other people (with a heavy focus
on self-promotion), we wouldn't be having this exchange.
My favorite part is the "lying to protect the ex" comment when it's obvious to everyone and probably even yourself that you lied to protect yourself. Couple that with "oops, I accidentally cheated" when clearly it was not even close to an accident...
Stop twisting your words to make it sound like your decisions were not as bad as they actually were. No more excuses or justifications. Own it.
Facts are you cheated and lied. Instead of asking us for sympathy start thinking about what you can do to better the situation. And maybe don't do it again.
Also, I remember reading part of this thread earlier and being happy that I wasn't born a gemini. Haha, wow
Stop twisting your words to make it sound like your decisions were not as bad as they actually were. No more excuses or justifications. Own it.
Facts are you cheated and lied. Instead of asking us for sympathy start thinking about what you can do to better the situation. And maybe don't do it again.
Also, I remember reading part of this thread earlier and being happy that I wasn't born a gemini. Haha, wow
Shiiii I missed this whole thread!
Welp, I got cheesecake and a coffee so Ima settle in for a read.
*clicks back to page 1*
Welp, I got cheesecake and a coffee so Ima settle in for a read.
*clicks back to page 1*
Posted by ElleDuMondeAhaha you saw dat tooPosted by TaurusGal92lol
he was arrogant, chickeny, superficial, selfish and horrible but one night we were drinking and playing cards and we started talking and we just hit it off and realized how much in common we had with eachother......click to expand
Posted by Scenic😆
My favorite part is the "lying to protect the ex" comment when it's obvious to everyone and probably even yourself that you lied to protect yourself. Couple that with "oops, I accidentally cheated" when clearly it was not even close to an accident...
Stop twisting your words to make it sound like your decisions were not as bad as they actually were. No more excuses or justifications. Own it.
Facts are you cheated and lied. Instead of asking us for sympathy start thinking about what you can do to better the situation. And maybe don't do it again.
Also, I remember reading part of this thread earlier and being happy that I wasn't born a gemini. Haha, wow
Aww... lol
Some of my favorite people are Geminis... my closest friend is a Gem/Aries moon,
and she is all class.
She's also British, which (for some) often means impeccable manners,
but still... it may be that some are just born under a fickle, shallow moon.
Posted by wagtail😱Posted by ElleDuMondeAhaha you saw dat tooPosted by TaurusGal92lol
he was arrogant, chickeny, superficial, selfish and horrible but one night we were drinking and playing cards and we started talking and we just hit it off and realized how much in common we had with eachother......click to expand
I didn't.
Sometimes, it just toooo much
Posted by GetMistedJust hit page 18... Pretty satisfied so far, lasted the whole cheesecakePosted by wagtailI'm only on page 6 😛
Shiiii I missed this whole thread!
Welp, I got cheesecake and a coffee so Ima settle in for a read.
*clicks back to page 1*click to expand
Posted by TachibanaSanThis was his friend?
hurting my ass.
funny how all of your feeling
disappeared when you were
screwing with scorp's friend.
you deserve no sympathy.
you're woman enough to cheat
but you're not woman enough
to tell scorpio the entire truth.
forget the coddling and feeling
sorry for you. i feel for the scorp.
cheated on, lied to, left behind
for his 'best friend'. baka da yo!
Holyshit... this gets worse by the minute.
:/
@Mont the Reedus- it feels meh 😘
Posted by MontgomeryApparently, his best friend from high school.Posted by TachibanaSanThis was his friend?
hurting my ass.
funny how all of your feeling
disappeared when you were
screwing with scorp's friend.
you deserve no sympathy.
you're woman enough to cheat
but you're not woman enough
to tell scorpio the entire truth.
forget the coddling and feeling
sorry for you. i feel for the scorp.
cheated on, lied to, left behind
for his 'best friend'. baka da yo!
Holyshit... this gets worse by the minute.
:/
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*smh* all for some transient pussy too.
Posted by Gennie😆Posted by MontgomeryApparently, his best friend from high school.Posted by TachibanaSanThis was his friend?
hurting my ass.
funny how all of your feeling
disappeared when you were
screwing with scorp's friend.
you deserve no sympathy.
you're woman enough to cheat
but you're not woman enough
to tell scorpio the entire truth.
forget the coddling and feeling
sorry for you. i feel for the scorp.
cheated on, lied to, left behind
for his 'best friend'. baka da yo!
Holyshit... this gets worse by the minute.
:/
*smh* all for some transient pussy too.click to expand
+1 for Transient ...
As for the rest-- with friends like that... damn.
Posted by MontgomeryI'm glad I left the link up though. 😄Posted by wagtailI know 😄
@Mont the Reedus- it feels meh 😘
OH pics broken. AGAINclick to expand
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