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Venus in Scorpio
What Venus in Scorpio Means in Love
Venus in Scorpio usually means someone loves intensely, wants loyalty, and can get possessive fast. In real situations, many people notice they test trust, keep feelings private, and go all-in when they feel safe. That mix can look magnetic at first and overwhelming if the connection feels uncertain.
If I knew someone that has this placement other than myself I would tag them but I don't. Hope you get your answer soon..
What about sharing your experience with this placement?
Why so secretive guys?
Ohh, I can smell when someone has a Venus in Scorpio.
Those are those people who stare at you and analyze you till they know everything about you (if you have to do anything with them, especially in a relationships)
Obsessive and crazy folks. When they love, they want to put you in their cage and control your every move.
P.S. I had 2 boyfriends with this placement. With one (Libra Sun) he was abusing me mentally and finally, became physically abusive. That's when I left him and got a little revenges to him, just enough that we became enemies for the rest of the life. With those guys you can forget about platonic relation, everything has to go deep. Insecure retard. Want to protect their own feelings. Intense as hell.
They won't be in a relationship with just anyone. But the person they are up to needs to pass all kind of the psyho and emotional tests before they commit to put them in the cage forever lol.
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Scorp venus, 12th house
Not sure on other shiz.
I'm kind of an all in or nothing person. I really dig getting to know others on a deeper level, I'll ask all the questions, idk if that's my Scorp or Sag placements but you bet your ass I'm figuring things out lol. I've never been the obsessive stalkery type tho. I let things play out how they're gonna play out n plan accordingly - common sense ppl.
Idk, I've never felt too close to the Venus in Scorp descriptions, whatevs. 🙃💛😘
P.S. I had 2 boyfriends with this placement. With one (Libra Sun) he was abusing me mentally and finally, became physically abusive. That's when I left him and got a little revenges to him, just enough that we became enemies for the rest of the life. With those guys you can forget about platonic relation, everything has to go deep. Insecure retard. Want to protect their own feelings. Intense as hell.
They won't be in a relationship with just anyone. But the person they are up to needs to pass all kind of the psyho and emotional tests before they commit to put them in the cage forever lol.
This is so true. I also dated a Libra sun Scorpio venus guy and I experienced mental abuse from him too. Still recovering from it. It's a dangerous mix to have imo.
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
self-reflection? really....
Scorp venus, 12th house
Not sure on other shiz.
I'm kind of an all in or nothing person. I really dig getting to know others on a deeper level, I'll ask all the questions, idk if that's my Scorp or Sag placements but you bet your ass I'm figuring things out lol. I've never been the obsessive stalkery type tho. I let things play out how they're gonna play out n plan accordingly - common sense ppl.
Idk, I've never felt too close to the Venus in Scorp descriptions, whatevs. 🙃💛😘
I relate to what you wrote about that. The negatives often described about Scorpio Venus either don't, or barely, apply to me.
I'm Scorpio Venus conjunct Scorpio Jupiter in the 6th house, also conjunct my sun in the 7th house. Then I have Sag Mercury conjunct Sag Neptune in the 7th house. Maybe all of that helps me to not be possessive and vengeful because some of the other influences lighten it up.
Hey @neno2 do you have this placement?
Nah
Mars in scorpio😃venus in cap
Somehow I knew you didn't have this. Idk kinda had a feeling you didn't. Seems like people who don't have this placement will feel free to not hold back on telling op "how feaky people with this placement are". That's a shit show to enjoy! ☺️
I actually know a girl with this placements,shes playing hard to get😃the chemistry is great,must bring those walls down
No walls are going down bc construction/infrastructure workers are really the ones playing hard to get. Hey what’s having a Scorpio mars like? I’m curious cause I don’t have it..
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I'm a Libra but with Venus Scorpio and mars Scorpio. I consider myself the best of both worlds.
Hey @neno2 do you have this placement?
Nah
Mars in scorpio😃venus in cap
Somehow I knew you didn't have this. Idk kinda had a feeling you didn't. Seems like people who don't have this placement will feel free to not hold back on telling op "how feaky people with this placement are". That's a shit show to enjoy! ☺️
I actually know a girl with this placements,shes playing hard to get😃the chemistry is great,must bring those walls down
No walls are going down bc construction/infrastructure workers are really the ones playing hard to get. Hey what’s having a Scorpio mars like? I’m curious cause I don’t have it..
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Girl, create a new thread for your question or pm the guy. Here's a Venus in Scorpio thread. Much love❤️
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Mine does too! I never thought of that. My Pluto Libra is in my first house and Scorpio Venus is in second.
For the OP
I’m a Sag so I just want loyalty, sex and a connection.
But when I love I do tell the person the are mine and that I own them. 😄
Why so secretive guys?
Yeah I’m private and secretive. I think it just has to do with possession. I love keeping secrets and knowing things others don’t. I am like a vault. I cherish secrets.
self-reflection? really....
Ha it's easier said than done, but I think people with Venus/Pluto, or any hard Pluto/personal aspects need lots of solitude to reflect. As for whether they're honest with themselves -- that's another story.
I have a Virgo moon so I'm self-critical to the max, and I've analyzed every relationship for a long time on my own after it ended. I get better each time, but Venus/Pluto in Scorp will draw out deep emotions that you didn't know existed when you're in a relationship, especially in an intense one with another Plutonic person. I'm generally very careful of keeping my emotions in check and not blowing up (Libra/Virgo influence), but the only times I can think of came in heated moments in a Pluto-themed relationship.
Why so secretive guys?
Yeah I’m private and secretive. I think it just has to do with possession. I love keeping secrets and knowing things others don’t. I am like a vault. I cherish secrets.
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Me to a T...... I'm secretive because in my area of life I'm somewhat popular and the image people perceive is not me all the time for the cameras. Ugh. T G for anonymity a DXpnet.
P.S. I had 2 boyfriends with this placement. With one (Libra Sun) he was abusing me mentally and finally, became physically abusive. That's when I left him and got a little revenges to him, just enough that we became enemies for the rest of the life. With those guys you can forget about platonic relation, everything has to go deep. Insecure retard. Want to protect their own feelings. Intense as hell.
They won't be in a relationship with just anyone. But the person they are up to needs to pass all kind of the psyho and emotional tests before they commit to put them in the cage forever lol.
This is so true. I also dated a Libra sun Scorpio venus guy and I experienced mental abuse from him too. Still recovering from it. It's a dangerous mix to have imo.
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Woah woah, no, no it isn't. Libra Sun / Scorp Venus & Stellium here. We ain't the bad guys - but we very much so can become them. If you ask me, it's just karma given how fucking shitty the average person is.
I'm a Libra Sun and moon/ venus in scorpio. It takes a lot to make me fall in love but when I do I'm obsessed. I need words and actions as proof of love before I commit. When I commit to you I own you and you better know it. If you hurt me I will hate you more than I ever loved you. You no longer exist on this planet.
Hey @neno2 do you have this placement?
Nah
Mars in scorpio😃venus in cap
Somehow I knew you didn't have this. Idk kinda had a feeling you didn't. Seems like people who don't have this placement will feel free to not hold back on telling op "how feaky people with this placement are". That's a shit show to enjoy! ☺️
I actually know a girl with this placements,shes playing hard to get😃the chemistry is great,must bring those walls down
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Lol mars Scorpio
Hey @neno2 do you have this placement?
Nah
Mars in scorpio😃venus in cap
Somehow I knew you didn't have this. Idk kinda had a feeling you didn't. Seems like people who don't have this placement will feel free to not hold back on telling op "how feaky people with this placement are". That's a shit show to enjoy! ☺️
I actually know a girl with this placements,shes playing hard to get😃the chemistry is great,must bring those walls down
No walls are going down bc construction/infrastructure workers are really the ones playing hard to get. Hey what’s having a Scorpio mars like? I’m curious cause I don’t have it..
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You love sex and probably scare people 😂😂
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Mine does too! I never thought of that. My Pluto Libra is in my first house and Scorpio Venus is in second.
For the OP
I’m a Sag so I just want loyalty, sex and a connection.
But when I love I do tell the person the are mine and that I own them. 😄
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How do you act when you like someone??
I'm Venus in scorpio and possesive and obsessive and intense. BUT at the same time I personally shy away from people and things that will tie me down. I want very few guys to really really really want me, and I do want them, but at the same time I feel panic at thr thought of it. So yeah, very complex. Too complex.
I go for the uncertain, hard to get, I need to chase. I say I want a guy that's a little jealous and possesive, but I'm actually not really sure. I don't try to manipulate, but I think the game can be very stimulating, otherwise I would go for completely different types. I don't show the obsessiveness and possesiveness, so it's only when I say it out loud directly, that a guy will know.
If one is to believe in astrology I think this is a VERY tricky placement.
You'll know I like you or want your attention pr to win over you, if I keep hanging out with you and spend my time on you. If you have nothing I want to chase, I'll break it off or try to fade it out, if we have already started something. If we are friends and never crossed any lines, then I will keep it that way, if I am not intersted. Honestly I think you can always tell if a person really likes you.
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Mine does too! I never thought of that. My Pluto Libra is in my first house and Scorpio Venus is in second.
For the OP
I’m a Sag so I just want loyalty, sex and a connection.
But when I love I do tell the person the are mine and that I own them. 😄
How do you act when you like someone??
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I’m shy at first cause I’m introverted. Then I want to hang out with the person and if they show no effort, I get upset and basically leave them alone lol. I will flirt but not that much. I will just want the person secretly. I only show major interest when it’s shown yo me. Otherwise men think I’m not interested at all and are surprised.
All this of course has to do with a man that I have access to. I need to spend lots of time with the person I like. I need my time filled by him cause I like having things to do and keeping busy. So if he doesn’t fill it. Someone else will till he starts liking me more and
making me a priority.
I wanna know everything about this placement. How do they love? And what do they need to feel loved?
They need to be told. Otherwise they are unable to figure it out...
They love silently. Unless your Gemini ass will pry it out of them like pulling tooth...no anesthesia.
Takes forever to make them believe and relax. Still have to poke them to wake them up from coma...
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Mine does too! I never thought of that. My Pluto Libra is in my first house and Scorpio Venus is in second.
For the OP
I’m a Sag so I just want loyalty, sex and a connection.
But when I love I do tell the person the are mine and that I own them. 😄
How do you act when you like someone??
I’m shy at first cause I’m introverted. Then I want to hang out with the person and if they show no effort, I get upset and basically leave them alone lol. I will flirt but not that much. I will just want the person secretly. I only show major interest when it’s shown yo me. Otherwise men think I’m not interested at all and are surprised.
All this of course has to do with a man that I have access to. I need to spend lots of time with the person I like. I need my time filled by him cause I like having things to do and keeping busy. So if he doesn’t fill it. Someone else will till he starts liking me more and
making me a priority.
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So it's always kinda of secret huh?
Hey @neno2 do you have this placement?
Nah
Mars in scorpio😃venus in cap
Somehow I knew you didn't have this. Idk kinda had a feeling you didn't. Seems like people who don't have this placement will feel free to not hold back on telling op "how feaky people with this placement are". That's a shit show to enjoy! ☺️
I actually know a girl with this placements,shes playing hard to get😃the chemistry is great,must bring those walls down
No walls are going down bc construction/infrastructure workers are really the ones playing hard to get. Hey what’s having a Scorpio mars like? I’m curious cause I don’t have it..
You love sex and probably scare people 😂😂
That's about right I think lmao
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😂
Will, I’m sag sun, so my venus in scorpio is hard for me to take.
But I will say that I attract men so easily (and I really don’t want them)
It’s hard to fall in love, Like really really hard, cuz if I don’t like something about the person, then it’s not gonna happen.
If I don’t like you, then don’t touch me or talk to me or try to stalk me, Leave me alone.
Also I always know all the secrets about men I’m with, they don’t even tell me anything, I just know everything even about their past and childhood, it’s weird cuz I don’t wanna know.
What else lol
If someone did something bad to me, I cutt them off, completely, and I don’t even talk about it with them, I just leave because when I “realize” they can’t be in the same level as me, I walk away.
The best relationship is with cancer venus (even tho they are crazy and very jealous and emotional AF)
And the hardest one was with Aquarius Venus 😔💔 (he still around 🤯)
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Mine does too! I never thought of that. My Pluto Libra is in my first house and Scorpio Venus is in second.
For the OP
I’m a Sag so I just want loyalty, sex and a connection.
But when I love I do tell the person the are mine and that I own them. 😄
How do you act when you like someone??
I’m shy at first cause I’m introverted. Then I want to hang out with the person and if they show no effort, I get upset and basically leave them alone lol. I will flirt but not that much. I will just want the person secretly. I only show major interest when it’s shown yo me. Otherwise men think I’m not interested at all and are surprised.
All this of course has to do with a man that I have access to. I need to spend lots of time with the person I like. I need my time filled by him cause I like having things to do and keeping busy. So if he doesn’t fill it. Someone else will till he starts liking me more and
making me a priority.
So it's always kinda of secret huh?
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Yup. I keep everything close to me and especially my emotions until I know I can trust the person fully. Cause then they can have everything. What’s mine m, is theirs.
I kind of have a double Venus in Scorp (its conjunct Pluto), and it's a pretty overpowering placement. I have a pretty busy natal chart and that placement/aspect is by far the most powerful (it's also in the 1st H).
The stereotypes are mostly true -- we're all or nothing types, have possessive/obsessive tendencies in love, and can be overly intense. It can definitely manifest itself negatively if left unchecked. Like Diona said above, if the person is insecure/immature they can be manipulative to the max. I've done a lot of self-reflection to make sure it doesn't manifest itself in that way, and I use music/art as an outlet (Venus/Pluto is absolutely an artistic placement) for deep feelings as well.
But all that said, I can't deny that I'll always have certain tendencies because of it, like getting jealous and needing a certain level of devotion if I'm committed...but I make sure to filter my thoughts/feelings first to make sure I don't get out of line.
Mine does too! I never thought of that. My Pluto Libra is in my first house and Scorpio Venus is in second.
For the OP
I’m a Sag so I just want loyalty, sex and a connection.
But when I love I do tell the person the are mine and that I own them. 😄
How do you act when you like someone??
I’m shy at first cause I’m introverted. Then I want to hang out with the person and if they show no effort, I get upset and basically leave them alone lol. I will flirt but not that much. I will just want the person secretly. I only show major interest when it’s shown yo me. Otherwise men think I’m not interested at all and are surprised.
All this of course has to do with a man that I have access to. I need to spend lots of time with the person I like. I need my time filled by him cause I like having things to do and keeping busy. So if he doesn’t fill it. Someone else will till he starts liking me more and
making me a priority.
So it's always kinda of secret huh?
Yup. I keep everything close to me and especially my emotions until I know I can trust the person fully. Cause then they can have everything. What’s mine m, is theirs.
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My mars feels you lol
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I wanna know everything about this placement. How do they love? And what do they need to feel loved?