venus in scorpio (Page 2)

Men:

May prefer a partner with the above qualities. May be the type to have sex for fun (more than average LOL.) May be obsessed with sex or could have the tendencies to be a sex addict. May have secret affairs and relationships. May keep his love life hidden, loves privacy. Will not like a partner who kisses and tells. May date women that are “darker” than him physically or figuratively. May be very obsessive in relationships.

May have a secret or hidden life, keeping secrets from his family and friends about social activities, other friends, and relationships that he truly enjoys. This increases if he has other planets in Libra. May lead a double life. May enjoy doing things at night and exploring mysterious things. May enjoy doing weird, kinky stuff. May be interested in the occult, magic, or scary things. May prefer the exotic over the more mainstream in his social life and romantic life. May be a counter-culturalist and may refuse to take part in anything he considers common, typical or mainstream.

Men, if Venus is dominant in your chart or conjunct your AC, Sun, or Moon. Please feel free to interpret the “Women” interpretation for yourself, just substitute the pronouns where necessary.

In one word intense... I can only speak for myself, but when I love someone the rest of the world does not exist. Be prepared for a whirlwind of emotion, passion and adventure. Imagine everything you will ever want, getting it and the person giving it feeling it isn't enough. Some people can't handle that or are not ready for it. I dont know if it applies to all VinS but I rarely fall in love but when I do I love hard. Just make sure the person you are with is mature, sign placements mean nothing if the person is immature and does not know what they want.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
My love is steady, long-lasting and very devoted. It takes a lot to affect my love for someone, even multiple betrayals. I would still give another chance in hopes that love will prevail. But I never forget. I'm not possessive, but I can become jealous. However, I use rationality when I feel jealousy because most things are no reason to be jealous. Only when action is involved is when I will react. I do not tolerate bullshit. I am confrontational. However, if someone were to leave me for someone else, my heart would just cry over it and it would take a very long time for me to get over it.

People do not understand what it is like to be slighted so often by lovers and not have the ability to fully forget. It is like living in a mental prison, never knowing if or when they could betray you again (if they were given a second chance).

Venus in Scorpio knows much of pain. I do at least. I wish I did not have ViS. It is honestly horrible to not be able to let go. It is horrible to care so much that you mentally destroy yourself and suffer. Nobody understands. Nobody ever will. That is why I live in my pain silently. It is the best way to live. I still learn and grow, but love has never served me well. I am typically slighted and hurt. A few guys I just decided to be friends with but it still took a long time to fully get over them. Who wants to live like that? Not me. Thank god for my Sag Mars. I am trying to forget about love and focus on my freedom and ambitions.

The older I get, the more I wonder if love is really for me anyways.

You are speaking my suffering. I know that suffering of not knowing how to let go completely. I just keep playing out what went wrong, why it went wrong and how could you love someone so much and then you don't even speak anymore. I do great on my own. I try every day to become a better man. I just feel I am stronger in a relationship, its just when they dont give you the same passion that it begins to hurt and weaken. I too have thought about giving up on love, just love myself. Learn to be happy alone. Do you think Mars in Aquarius would help in getting over it?

U all have so many amazing advice for this. My fear is the woman im talking to was very much i to her ex. U feel this is 85 of why we are going so slow. Because from what im reading they love hard. Secondly they dont fall easily. I dont think this person is a bad person but maybe the wrong timing. My VIT wants reciprocity and for me to feel acknowledge. Them on the other hand takes things slow which im ok with. BUt a year and 1 month? They bring up the ex alot sometimes...and our arguments r over the ex and of how i feel they dont acknowledge me. Of course this will change of they were in love but from the sounds of things they need to get over this ex. I feel ive done alot for them in this past year. And we were only dating. Idk ill let u guys know how this works out. Ive even called a few psychics qnd none said anything bad none said 4 me to walk away even one said i need to be patient....ok but im just going by their actions it's not adding up to me. Maybe its something I'm not seeing. I want this type of love feom VIS but they have to want me too i feel it would be beautiful.

it's all or nothing with ViS, BUT....i notice it depends on the other placements....just something ive observed in real life with relatives and their relationships with people. But then again, it is their upbringing too.
i only have one ViS to go on and that's my husband. he really is all or nothing. If he doesn't like you, or likes you, his mind never changes. that kind of thing. Lots of people on this site seem to have gone through several.

Posted by lovely77
U all have so many amazing advice for this. My fear is the woman im talking to was very much i to her ex. U feel this is 85 of why we are going so slow. Because from what im reading they love hard. Secondly they dont fall easily. I dont think this person is a bad person but maybe the wrong timing. My VIT wants reciprocity and for me to feel acknowledge. Them on the other hand takes things slow which im ok with. BUt a year and 1 month? They bring up the ex alot sometimes...and our arguments r over the ex and of how i feel they dont acknowledge me. Of course this will change of they were in love but from the sounds of things they need to get over this ex. I feel ive done alot for them in this past year. And we were only dating. Idk ill let u guys know how this works out. Ive even called a few psychics qnd none said anything bad none said 4 me to walk away even one said i need to be patient....ok but im just going by their actions it's not adding up to me. Maybe its something I'm not seeing. I want this type of love feom VIS but they have to want me too i feel it would be beautiful.

Hummm you have to be careful with pyschics because a lot of them will tell you everything is fine and to hang in there because they know at some point when you don't see any improvement, you're going to call again wanting updates. It's a bait and switch to hook you and keep you calling so they can make a loyal client and make money off you. One of my friends experienced this with a guy she was dating, all the pyshics kept telling her he cared about her and they would work it out, well he might have indeed cared about her but he ended having a child with another woman and they got married. She was so hurt and upset and very angry for all the money she spent on calling pyschics and being convinced she was doing the right thing waiting for him.

A psychic can't control someone's free will, they really can only tap into your energy and give you advice based on your circumstances but they cannot predict you will end up with someone because that person has free will and can change their minds. You could get them but it might only last a week, month, whatever energy which is what psyhics pick up on is continually changing and not set in stone. Also as I stated the only person you can control is yourself and if that person doesn't decide to be with you then they don't, it doesn't matter if they care for you or not. It's their choice and free will to make that decision and that is not something a psychic can guarantee which is why a lot of people get disappointed when they go to psychics for love advice.

Please do not waste your money with something you can see using common sense. She's not committed to you after a year, its time to walk period.

True cancer lady

Posted by lovely77
Does it take a long time to fall in love do u hide your feelings @harleytwinflame

No it really doesn't
I do hide my feelings, most of the time I fall in love and I can't control it and I do hide it usually when I'm uncertain of how they feel about me

How do I love? Sometimes, very painfully.

Venus is in detriment in Scorpio. Planets in detriment "misbehave", they lead to trouble. Venus "misbehaves" in Scorpio. Venus is domicile in Libra and Taurus. Relationships should be balanced, harmonious, laid-back, pleasant, etc (Libra). In Scorpio, well... they are not. they are intense, often painful. Our self-esteem should be matter-of-fact, stable, etc (Taurus). In Scorpio, well... it's not. We are often not sure whether we are worthy of love at all... and so on.

ps: a sum up of the essential dignities

Posted by lbug
Venus is in detriment in Scorpio. Planets in detriment "misbehave", they lead to trouble. Venus "misbehaves" in Scorpio. Venus is domicile in Libra and Taurus. Relationships should be balanced, harmonious, laid-back, pleasant, etc (Libra). In Scorpio, well... they are not. they are intense, often painful. Our self-esteem should be matter-of-fact, stable, etc (Taurus). In Scorpio, well... it's not. We are often not sure whether we are worthy of love at all... and so on.

ps: a sum up of the essential dignities

detriment placements are my very favourite.
i have a couple and my man has a couple too. i feel that what the vid says that too much exaltation gives someone too much of an EASY life....like they take advantage of it because they are "gifted" so much in the world. so i feel that detriment and even FALL planets give balance to those who need humility in life.

because you can't have it all.