@Danistylee26
5 Years
Very mysterious Scorpio does he like me or what
Hi guys this is nothing serious , we aren’t dating , we are just living. But, I met this Scorpio a few years back yes we have messed around. Before I was a crazy drunk and he kinda left me alone because of that..Any ways long story short. I’m going through it right now. He offered to help me out. He payed for my hotel for two nights and u know bought me some food, mind you I have not seen this guy for 2 years.. but we hve kept in touch online … okay so basically after that I haven’t heard from him.. he is so weird! I let him know I made it to the hotel and he hearted my message. I texted him good night and nothing.. lol 😂 last thing he said in person was “we will figure it out”.. is this a Scorpio thing to do?
Is he single?
He sounds like he genuinely wants to help you, no underlying motive other than that.
is there any sexual tension ?
No we have great time in bed tbh, he is much older than me too..
You don't have a situation worth examining here.
Come back when he formally asks you out and has shown consistency.
My actual advice: Go read a book or do some squats at the gym.
maybe he knows you can't afford housing and food so genuinely just wants to help you out
sounds like a good guy
Hi guys this is nothing serious , we aren’t dating , we are just living. But, I met this Scorpio a few years back yes we have messed around. Before I was a crazy drunk and he kinda left me alone because of that..Any ways long story short. I’m going through it right now. He offered to help me out. He payed for my hotel for two nights and u know bought me some food, mind you I have not seen this guy for 2 years.. but we hve kept in touch online … okay so basically after that I haven’t heard from him.. he is so weird! I let him know I made it to the hotel and he hearted my message. I texted him good night and nothing.. lol 😂 last thing he said in person was “we will figure it out”.. is this a Scorpio thing to do?
He knows for sobriety you must heal alone
Dude sounds serious with helping you.
As a man this is a tricky situation, If he is interested, got to feel it out. So nothing is taken the wrong way.
IF YOU ARE interested got to be a bit forward about it yourself so it's clear to him you are.
Otherwise chill out and feel it out, without making any assumptions. You gave no real info. Let things take there course.
When a Scorp man wants you, you will know.
Just ask @GenericUsername.
is there any sexual tension ?
No we have great time in bed tbh, he is much older than me too..
I would not steer it in that direction unless you’re ok with having that type of “arrangement”.
Originally I got vibes that he is just being friendly and helping a friend in distress but now you’re coming across with “reaching” vibes and if I can sense it, I’m sure he can too. and if he decides to take advantage, the power imbalance is a ripe breeding ground for a toxic situationship.. so tread lightly.
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I get what you mean, that’s why I asked this question. Me being me and receiving help like this makes me want to I don’t know , be around more you know to show that I am not using the person and that I appreciate the help. But I don’t want to lose him and his Genuine actions. Also he and I were supposed to “work” tg he wants to invest in my company. So him not texting me I get , he’s busy. But I just wanted to know if this was a Scorpio gesture u know or something a Scorpio only does if he does indeed want to form something
Dude sounds serious with helping you.
As a man this is a tricky situation, If he is interested, got to feel it out. So nothing is taken the wrong way.
IF YOU ARE interested got to be a bit forward about it yourself so it's clear to him you are.
Otherwise chill out and feel it out, without making any assumptions. You gave no real info. Let things take there course.
Yes that’s what I got to do is just feel it out. I’m afraid to be too forward because I don’t want to push him away. He is also a bit older than me so I notice he moved very different. I don’t mind anything he does. I don’t mind a busy person. He did tell me he is too busy and focused on his road to money that he doesn’t have time to commit fully
Wait, so you have a sexual relationship with him? I did not get that from your op. It sounded like a platonic friend helping a platonic friend.
When is the last time you guys fucked.
Dude sounds serious with helping you.
As a man this is a tricky situation, If he is interested, got to feel it out. So nothing is taken the wrong way.
IF YOU ARE interested got to be a bit forward about it yourself so it's clear to him you are.
Otherwise chill out and feel it out, without making any assumptions. You gave no real info. Let things take there course.
Yes that’s what I got to do is just feel it out. I’m afraid to be too forward because I don’t want to push him away. He is also a bit older than me so I notice he moved very different. I don’t mind anything he does. I don’t mind a busy person. He did tell me he is too busy and focused on his road to money that he doesn’t have time to commit fully
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"He did tell me he is too busy and focused on his road to money that he doesn’t have time to commit fully"
Ah, This statement. He is telling you his situation and priority at the moment. This is not a reflection of his sentiment or interest in you btw. Just a fyi.
As everything in life situations and priorities it can change 🤷
For now if you are interested, don't have any expectation of something very serious. Just get to know each other and exploring the options.
"He is telling you his situation and priority at the moment."
"As everything in life situations and priorities it can change 🤷"
Keep this in mind with men and others. It's a mistake to ask too much too soon before someone is open to it.
It's like dancing with someone and one wants to slow dance and the other break dance. Gonna cause issue lol
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Hi guys this is nothing serious , we aren’t dating , we are just living. But, I met this Scorpio a few years back yes we have messed around. Before I was a crazy drunk and he kinda left me alone because of that..Any ways long story short. I’m going through it right now. He offered to help me out. He payed for my hotel for two nights and u know bought me some food, mind you I have not seen this guy for 2 years.. but we hve kept in touch online … okay so basically after that I haven’t heard from him.. he is so weird! I let him know I made it to the hotel and he hearted my message. I texted him good night and nothing.. lol 😂 last thing he said in person was “we will figure it out”.. is this a Scorpio thing to do?