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Posted by starwarsCancer Mars - Leo Venus
where's your mars and venus?

Posted by starwarsThank you. I could use a lesson or two in edgy tactics. I do need to base decisions more based on the other person's actions vs all the sweet talk.
It's true, Virgos can be gullible, give it some time before you let people in and emotionally invest in them.
I don't think its easy to change your nature, but you can do other stuff and use some edgy tactics to not let it get in the way.
just dont hate yourself for it or feel sorry for yourself, It's never one person' fault but two. own up to it and view it as an experience.
for the scorpio-virgo thing, I've been lucky enough to have pretty awesome scorpios in my life. I met few horrible ones but I didn't let them in. learn how to look at situations from a 3rd person point of view, take words and actions into consideration, give 2nd chances but make sure you always put yourself first.
good luck
Posted by Gob_ShiteI know ALOT, and I had a best friend in high school who NEVER stung.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by KoniuchaaPosted by Gob_ShiteOur biggest fan!
Please take heed...Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.
Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129
You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.
What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.
And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...
I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.
I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.
happy individuals don't need to do that.
An evolved Scorpio, who doesn't sting for the pettiest and confounding of reasons, is extremely rare. I'm still on the lookout for one, just to be proven wrong...
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Posted by GemitatiIt was 2amish when I started this thread, after being at the bar, shooting pool and drinking beer. GuinnessPosted by Walkergrlalready— past that? What kind of beer were you drinking—Posted by BottabingThat was the beer talking. I'm past that now.
Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...click to expand

Posted by lady_chatterleyI looked at it more as a relationship simply because I was emotionally invested. Obviously he didn't. As for meeting deadbeat men... I've been single for 9 years, celibate for 7 of those years. I'm not sure where the idea came from that I've had a succession of relationships. I haven't and those that I've had, I've taken very seriously.
Hello, Walkergirl. 🙂
I am sorry that this person hurt you, but I believe we allow people to enter our lives to learn a lesson. And, once we've learned that lesson, only then can we move on.
On finding another scorpio, or another partner:
I think we are attracted to opposites, not in an astrological sense, but in a strength and weakness sense. You will most likely find that the strength in the partner is your weakness and your strengths will indeed be the weakness of your partner.
I don't think two can come together and enter a long-term arrangement, union, or marriage, without first being exactly opposite to themselves.
Opposites attract. Yet in their union, they have become equal. This union gives both partners the opportunity to share a life-path and together, they have within themselves the greatest opportunity for growth, for they can see in the other, like a mirror, that which they do not like about themselves.
To have a successful relationship both partners will need to work at bettering themselves, which allows for growth in both partners.
If one partner decides to not mature/grow then there will be a separation. Relationships are partnerships designed to bring about the greatest opportunities for growth over the life, to allow both to engage in that of understanding of love and the application of love, both in mind and in spirit. It is to become a better person.
If you feel you are constantly meeting dead beat men, then look inside yourself and do a little work. You are attracting this kind of energy based on your soul's needs. If you work a bit at maturing your mind and spirit, you will find a partner with a kinder soul and the lessons that you will need to be learn will be a little more tolerable and less heart breaking.
I hope you find what you need in the most gentle and kindest way.

Posted by lisabethur8Clearly, he is a fragmented, unhappy, individual who is looking to maintain that relationship "high" to mask whatever his issues are.Posted by Gob_ShiteI know ALOT, and I had a best friend in high school who NEVER stung.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by KoniuchaaPosted by Gob_ShiteOur biggest fan!
Please take heed...Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.
Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129
You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.
What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.
And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...
I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.
I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.
happy individuals don't need to do that.
An evolved Scorpio, who doesn't sting for the pettiest and confounding of reasons, is extremely rare. I'm still on the lookout for one, just to be proven wrong...
I find the ones who STING the most are the ones UNHAPPY and they are not scorpio suns, but have scorpio mercuries.
when they are happy, and satisfied, in their lives, they don't sting.
it's not about the sun sign because a lot of peeps are not happy in their lives,
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Posted by lady_chatterleyMoon in Sag. Yes. Where's the "Descendant" in my Natal Chart? My Ascendant is Gemini.Posted by WalkergrlAlso, your descendant sign is a Sagittarius, right? Your moon is also Sagittarius. With the right placements you might get along with a Sagittarius too. 🙂Posted by starwarsCancer Mars - Leo Venus
where's your mars and venus?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneIKR!! *cringe*
Hooray for liquid courage!!

Posted by lady_chatterleyWow. You're right. Sag in 7th house.Posted by WalkergrlAscendant and Descendant are an axis.Posted by lady_chatterleyMoon in Sag. Yes. Where's the "Descendant" in my Natal Chart? My Ascendant is Gemini.Posted by WalkergrlAlso, your descendant sign is a Sagittarius, right? Your moon is also Sagittarius. With the right placements you might get along with a Sagittarius too. 🙂Posted by starwarsCancer Mars - Leo Venus
where's your mars and venus?
I guessed your descendant sign is Sagittarius because your Ascendant is Gemini (astrologically speaking they are opposites). 7th house is about partnerships and that's where Sagittarius would land, if Gemini is your ascendant sign.![]()
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Posted by PootyButtI heart you. For some reason I can't put an actual heart on here... thus my stupidity. 😉
Anyway, @Walkergrl, you're not stupid. Sometimes being mature and flexible ends up looking stupid when the other person refuses to reciprocate.
Posted by Walkergrldid you read what the guy said earlier today?Posted by lisabethur8Clearly, he is a fragmented, unhappy, individual who is looking to maintain that relationship "high" to mask whatever his issues are.Posted by Gob_ShiteI know ALOT, and I had a best friend in high school who NEVER stung.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by KoniuchaaPosted by Gob_ShiteOur biggest fan!
Please take heed...Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.
Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129
You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.
What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.
And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...
I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.
I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.
happy individuals don't need to do that.
An evolved Scorpio, who doesn't sting for the pettiest and confounding of reasons, is extremely rare. I'm still on the lookout for one, just to be proven wrong...
I find the ones who STING the most are the ones UNHAPPY and they are not scorpio suns, but have scorpio mercuries.
when they are happy, and satisfied, in their lives, they don't sting.
it's not about the sun sign because a lot of peeps are not happy in their lives,
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Posted by lisabethur8I"m not quite sure what you're referring to? Scorpios stinging themselves because they're not happy?Posted by Walkergrldid you read what the guy said earlier today?Posted by lisabethur8Clearly, he is a fragmented, unhappy, individual who is looking to maintain that relationship "high" to mask whatever his issues are.Posted by Gob_ShiteI know ALOT, and I had a best friend in high school who NEVER stung.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by KoniuchaaPosted by Gob_ShiteOur biggest fan!
Please take heed...Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.
Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129
You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.
What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.
And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...
I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.
I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.
happy individuals don't need to do that.
An evolved Scorpio, who doesn't sting for the pettiest and confounding of reasons, is extremely rare. I'm still on the lookout for one, just to be proven wrong...
I find the ones who STING the most are the ones UNHAPPY and they are not scorpio suns, but have scorpio mercuries.
when they are happy, and satisfied, in their lives, they don't sting.
it's not about the sun sign because a lot of peeps are not happy in their lives,
I was on earlier and quoted it too.
I don't think it's him.
and I know you said earlier you have been single a long time, for years,
have you tried online dating?
maybe it's too expensive or something? I don't know how it goes, but maybe those suggestions would help you.
there are single men here but I think a lot of them are more into understanding astrology or just messing around while at work? maybe I don't know.click to expand
Posted by WalkergrlPosted by lisabethur8I"m not quite sure what you're referring to? Scorpios stinging themselves because they're not happy?Posted by Walkergrldid you read what the guy said earlier today?Posted by lisabethur8Clearly, he is a fragmented, unhappy, individual who is looking to maintain that relationship "high" to mask whatever his issues are.Posted by Gob_ShiteI know ALOT, and I had a best friend in high school who NEVER stung.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by KoniuchaaPosted by Gob_ShiteOur biggest fan!
Please take heed...Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.
Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129
You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.
What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.
And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...
I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.
I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.
happy individuals don't need to do that.
An evolved Scorpio, who doesn't sting for the pettiest and confounding of reasons, is extremely rare. I'm still on the lookout for one, just to be proven wrong...
I find the ones who STING the most are the ones UNHAPPY and they are not scorpio suns, but have scorpio mercuries.
when they are happy, and satisfied, in their lives, they don't sting.
it's not about the sun sign because a lot of peeps are not happy in their lives,
I was on earlier and quoted it too.
I don't think it's him.
and I know you said earlier you have been single a long time, for years,
have you tried online dating?
maybe it's too expensive or something? I don't know how it goes, but maybe those suggestions would help you.
there are single men here but I think a lot of them are more into understanding astrology or just messing around while at work? maybe I don't know.
I met the Scorp on an online dating site. I don't think I'm ready or interested in going back on there. Everyone is looking for a quick, easy, score. Not in the mood.click to expand

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeBullshit! It is love! If you haven't experienced - it doesn't mean it doesn't exist'Posted by GemitatiIf love hurts you it's not lovePosted by CaramelizedCoffeePoor putz! Pray you will never find one and die having no idea what love is!
There's no connection strong enough to be strung like a violin.
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Posted by Gob_ShiteI absolutely sting for the pettiest of reasons, something that should be small and insignificant will make me go mad completely.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by KoniuchaaPosted by Gob_ShiteOur biggest fan!
Please take heed...Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios love to suffer themselves, while projecting their guilt outwards with intentions of trying to make other people be responsible by implying that it is someone other than themselves who has chosen to subject themselves to their own misery.
That is pretty much Scorpio in a nutshell, and doesn't sound at all like someone Aqua would care to relate to, since Aqua is fond of people being self-accountible.
Virgo's are probably the only ones dumb enough to make excuses for it once it's figured out, so they would be the likely perfect match. Other signs would figure it out and attempt to tolerate for a short period of time ... but, all the other signs would finally walk away and just let the Scorpio sting itself .... whereas the Virgo would spend a longer time falling for it = very gullible.
Aqua would last maybe half a dozen times that the Scorpio tried this ...... give or take a self-inflicted sting or two
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/This-is-only-for-scorpios-2981129
You know, I think Scorpios have the potential to be one of the best zodiac signs. I really do. Sadly, all the above prevents that from happening. It wouldn't be so bad if Scorpios didn't frequently inflict (or project) their shit onto others.
What's most annoying, though, is that wasted potential to enrich the lives of themselves and others, BUT more on a long-term basis. Just because you have a stinger, doesn't mean you have to use it with wild abandon. Unfortunately, many of you do.
And as for needing to control and manipulate others to compensate for your own insecurities...
I guess it's just one of those cases of close but no cigar.
I think that just sounds like an unhappy person/individual. they sting but only if they are unhappy. they are stinging because of something they are unhappy in their lives with. the long-suffering of it. Not all of them are like this. A scorpionic person/individual who is gonna sting and project their unhappiness is because they don't like their life and holds it in.
happy individuals don't need to do that.
An evolved Scorpio, who doesn't sting for the pettiest and confounding of reasons, is extremely rare. I'm still on the lookout for one, just to be proven wrong...
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWho said unrequired?Posted by GemitatiI've experienced unrequited love. I'm a crab we've gone down the depths of hell!Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeBullshit! It is love! If you haven't experienced - it doesn't mean it doesn't exist'Posted by GemitatiIf love hurts you it's not lovePosted by CaramelizedCoffeePoor putz! Pray you will never find one and die having no idea what love is!
There's no connection strong enough to be strung like a violin.
Ain't no Gemini going to tell me about loveclick to expand

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI'm not pining. I'm processing and working through it.Posted by WalkergrlWhy are you down? You're doing that to yourself.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThank you. For kicking a girl while she's down. You're special.
You're 52 lol you sound stupid as fuk instead of looking for a healthy relationship you're looking for another Scorpio.
You pathetic lady. In the end it don't matter the zodiac it's all about
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You're down because you built a fantasy. You put expectations on something based on emotion but not logic.
Now look at the reality. If u want love why would you waste your time feeling down . why pine for someone whose not into you.
If you want love you'll have to stop disrespecting yourself this much.
I been there, it's not worth it.
My x tore my heart out, but I was the problem too.
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Posted by WalkergrlPosted by starwarsThank you. I could use a lesson or two in edgy tactics. I do need to base decisions more based on the other person's actions vs all the sweet talk.
It's true, Virgos can be gullible, give it some time before you let people in and emotionally invest in them.
I don't think its easy to change your nature, but you can do other stuff and use some edgy tactics to not let it get in the way.
just dont hate yourself for it or feel sorry for yourself, It's never one person' fault but two. own up to it and view it as an experience.
for the scorpio-virgo thing, I've been lucky enough to have pretty awesome scorpios in my life. I met few horrible ones but I didn't let them in. learn how to look at situations from a 3rd person point of view, take words and actions into consideration, give 2nd chances but make sure you always put yourself first.
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Posted by SunsetvirgoI am and I will. It's so much easier having him blocked as much as I possibly can. Out of sight makes it easier to be out of mind.
❤️ You're much stronger than you think. You'll get through this

Posted by GemitatiIs it proposition or disposition?Posted by BottabingOh...it's for my friend...Posted by GemitatiPosted by BottabingExactly!
Sorry you can't plan to meet a Scorpio .... They are very mysterious ... Hidden... The Scorpio finds you... You can't force something to become with them...
However one thing...you can technically 'force' one to be with you - it's called seduction...
But it won't last... Anything with a motive or a manipulation with a Scorpio ... Be prepared to get stung .....
Also seduction and manipulation is 2 different things. I might really want you so I am deducing you into liking me and then we will see...click to expand
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I have been attracted to exactly the same person as I am!
So you just relax girl! 😉