What? A Cap asked Lib out?

...and she said yes? No effin way!! 😏

Yep...you heard it here folks..I'm going in and giving this sign another try. I sense water in there. He's naturally "cool" but minus the nasty frostbitten demeanor. He's been chatting me up since Saturday when I met him. Picks up the phone and CALLS me too. Anyone here know what that is? (I kid) In fact the first phone call is when he asked me out. Excellent wit and sense of humor. I heard empathy a couple of times as he spoke about friends/family a couple of stories he told.

Very comfortable conversation...flows nicely.

3rd decan too (19th)..no birth details just yet.

This Saturday is the date. Sounds like he wants to start in the afternoon and have it flow into evening. Asked him flat out if was married or in a relationship. He told me he liked that direct approach. Oh boy he has no idea. lol

Will report back Sunday on this adventure. For sure. 😉

Anyone want to start a pool? Go ahead...I know what I've written from my experiences, and pissed some of you off..

I'm challenging myself to prove those opinions wrong.

The challenge I speak of specifically:

Posted by LetltB

Anything short of having water, imo Cap males should have their own element: ICE
They are NOTHING like Virgo or Taurus, and in fact insult the Virgo/Taurus guy's bold honesty.
There is nothing down to earth about Cap males, other than the red carpet they think their feet should walk on. puke..
The women (in most cases) are just as nasty.

As individuals they are bearable..when it comes to relationships/dating, FORGET IT read above. Cowards shivering in a cold dark corner throwing ice darts for anyone who dares to show heart to them.
Anyone can make money, anyone can run a business when they can put their mind to it. If that's all Caps are known for..well, big deal. Nothing nice to say about the chilly schmucks..at all.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/seagoat-scorp-relations-4992326/?p=2

That's a good cusp

Just remember LIB, that just because it's enticing at the first, the let down usually comes a bit later.
So watch the ticker.

I'm a fan of Scorpio Women with Virgo Men and with Capricorn Men.

So far it sounds good.

Best of luck. 🙂

Well if nothing else, it could be a great story and good for a laugh. The cap men I know are straight up people...I like them, down to earth but then again I've never been in a 'romantic' situation with them, lol. Cheers to you and hope you have a fun date 🙂

cap men are really boringgggg. but stable. 😉

Here is one topic we have agreed upon ... WTF LIB!

Hehe, just kidding. 🙂 Have fun and enjoy your date.

P.S. If he heads off to the bing bings just walk out the door ok?

(From what I have gathered and witnessed.)

Seagoat M + Stinger F = Splendid

Good luck, they can surprise you with their hidden depth and intense passion. They smoulder when placed in the right situation.

Posted by FixedWater
Here is one topic we have agreed upon ... WTF LIB!

Hehe, just kidding. 🙂 Have fun and enjoy your date.

P.S. If he heads off to the bing bings just walk out the door ok?

Ironically I immediately thought of you when he called the first time.
I saw the typed words.....DON'T DO ITTTTTTTT! lol...

Have to...it's a challenge, he so far has been a perfect gentleman, and his body language didn't look frozen or robotic. (I know you know what I mean)

It could be a trapped in a freezer scenario I realize...and because he's been opposite so far of what I've experienced, I am giving him the benefit of the doubt, and I will remain completely open as I have so far and let things flow.

@ Firebird... YOU KNOW IT! 😉

What's ironic is the guy I was seeing did his transfer out of state as I expected and knew about. (Gemini Sun, Cancer moon, Cancer venus) Had a great time with him and although he asked me to go with him, he knew from the beginning where I stood with my son who needs a roof over his head when he's home from college.

This guy transferred in and plans to stay as his family/friends are here. 30 minutes away.

Regardless, I never have any expectations which results in no disappointments.

I haven't had any bad run ins with Cap men. The ones I do know have a funny sense of humor and are wonderful gentlemen: they open doors, seem interested, engaged, etc. My youngest is a Cap and he's a true comedian. I have some amazing Cap women friends, and they definitely aren't boring. I only know two Cap women who are complete bitches, but that's pretty standard with how all the signs are, there's always going to be an asshole or two that you'll run into. Enjoy the date! Hopefully he's the real McCoy and isn't wearing a good mask.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by FixedWater
Here is one topic we have agreed upon ... WTF LIB!

Hehe, just kidding. 🙂 Have fun and enjoy your date.

P.S. If he heads off to the bing bings just walk out the door ok?

Ironically I immediately thought of you when he called the first time.
I saw the typed words.....DON'T DO ITTTTTTTT! lol...

Have to...it's a challenge, he so far has been a perfect gentleman, and his body language didn't look frozen or robotic. (I know you know what I mean)

It could be a trapped in a freezer scenario I realize...and because he's been opposite so far of what I've experienced, I am giving him the benefit of the doubt, and I will remain completely open as I have so far and let things flow.

@ Firebird... YOU KNOW IT! 😉

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Darn you heard the first comment I deleted! Lmao Yep, I know the frozen/robotic body language and I could have a lot of fun with that comment but will not since the idea here is to give him a chance. 😄

(Just for fun, watch his fingers)

You will have fun and I see by your comment that you will be in that neutral spot between "I know your sign" VS "I don't know you" which is a perfect place to be.

Chatted last night and then a beautiful "Good Morning" this morning.
2hrs and 45 min before date..

He cancels. lol....

Vague but said he had to leave a day early...very vague.

My response..."Have a safe trip." - Then..."I'll make it up to you"

No response back from me.. Still going out and replacing him with friends. 🙂

This is the typical 8th house stuff I'm used to. At least he let me know.

No time invested other than chatting. After some thinking, I'll probably write him off.



His chart...yep, I snatched that up and lo behold look at that moon and venus eh? lol

Sun Capricorn 28.31 Ascendant Capricorn 20.25
Moon Pisces 7.17
Mercury Capricorn 10.54
Venus Pisces 3.31
Mars Aries 15.27
Jupiter Sagittarius 26.21
Saturn Taurus 29.42 R
Uranus Libra 18.18
Neptune Sagittarius 4.38
Pluto Libra 1.59 R
Lilith Libra 26.02
Asc node Aquarius 5.15



His loss 😉

Absolutely Tiz...I DO practice what I preach around here lol..

and..everything happens for a REASON. I'm all good with this.

Sounds good to me..


Sun in I
Moon in II
Mars in III
Venus in II
Merc in XII

meaning I don't do inconjunct

His Loss ... and he lost. He's a Jerk (trying to keep it clean here, do you see my efforts? Lol)

Besides LIB, aren't experiences like that necessary sometimes just to make sure your beliefs and opinions are still current and valid? It is kind of like the one, twice three times your out theory. Then you can say with conviction that you 'know it's founded".

So I get a casual "good morning" Sunday. I looked at that said and though..oh no you didn't. lol..I chilled, thought about what I wanted to reply with for some time.

I gave him some very good advice in response. Kept it direct to the point and ended it with "good morning".

Figured that took care of that. Nope. He pulled a Virgo move and called. I was driving on my way to meet my Sunday football group and pulled over.

Ended up talking for an hour on the side of the road on my phone. He adamantly apologized..I think 3 or 4 times. Told me he is going to make it up to me..didn't ask, told me. Struck me funny, but I respected that and the fact that he called. I told him I wasn't going to do the back and forth texting, too impersonal and meaninless, and I don't text with someone I don't know well enough. He understood that.

His plate is full...he filled in all the blanks willingly without me asking him anything. Told me he wanted to tell me all of this over dinner. Then he asked,..."if you are available when I call will you give me the time to make this up to you?" Dammit...he sounded very sincere. I just responded, let's cross that bridge at that time. The only other person I can talk to on the phone like that is a Virgo. The comfort level with this guy scares the shit outta me. I just hope he has his shit together when he does call and the plate cleared. Something tells me he will. His determination is remarkable. So....inconjunct doesn't come into play here. Reality and confirming my gut does.


I do believe he gets I know what a welcome mat is used for...To be continued...😉

*cross out "and though" lol...don't know how that popped in there.