What would you do

What would you do if you love someone so madly and deeply, and she says she does too but you can't feel it? what would you do if your soulmate is not as passionate and intense as you? what if you feel that emotionally you give more than what you receive? what would you do if that someone can't love more than that, or maybe that someone doesn't know what love means?

Make the assessment that she isn't the soulmate ...

Just remember that not everyone shows love in the way you want them to, but that doesn't necessarily mean they don't love you. Some people are verbal about it. Some are affectionate and some buy you things and do things for you to show they love you. If none of those things are present then I doubt she is really in love.

well i agree with SGlove, even thou i think that no matter HOW you show someone that you love them...when you love...you love..and somehow that comes out...but i think you know what i mean dont you...hypno—

or maybe its a case to say...i love you, but im not in love with you—?

i dont know about the others, i dont know if its a sign thing...but when i love...i move mountains to show that person what i feel!!!

I would think she probably loves ... women love quite easily, with very little effort from the male.

The problem here is your perspective ... if you put someone on a high platform and call her "Soulmate" .. then this is a mighty bill for her to fill. Your expectations of her will be deluded, because then you will fail to see what her love that she has to give is really worth, and will only see that she isn't fulfilling your vision of what you want her to be.

A woman has worth to value .... but, it has to be within what she is capable of giving you, and not what you expect of her to give you because you put her on a shelf.

So, the problem here isn't that she is non-giving of things she has to give you ... she simply cannot live up to your vision.

Make the assessment that she isn't a soulmate, rather, just a woman who has feelings to give you .... and you would be able to accept her for who she is, and what she has to give you.

Maybe you are right P.

lol Elena, you kill me with your answers!!!
🙂

what would i do? I'd get rid of her.

i mean hypno, you're essentially agreeing to be some b1tch's lurve slave.

Fukc that. You know exactly what I mean; if not, blame that on your wussy Sag influences 😉

eh shut up SR, without my Sag influence i would be completly fuked up like you guys.
At least there is a lihjt at the end of the tunnel.Oh no, it's Kris's ass with candels in it.

and no, she is not a b1tch nor i am her slave..she is my angel and i am here king 😉

"Stop being demanding"

Demanding?!! maybe i should only breath,eat and drink in my life.

"eh shut up SR, without my Sag influence i would be completly fuked up like you guys."

Sag = f@g

"she is my angel and i am here king"

spoken like a punch-drunk illusionist. i think you should put on a straitjacket before you inflict more self-damage.

""At least there is a lihjt at the end of the tunnel.Oh no, it's Kris's ass with candels in it.""

^ this comment definitely makes it to the top of the "gayest dxp moments ever" list.

some people genuinely don't know how to express feelings of love. some people live a lifetime without having love expressed to them and so they have no template for such emotions. it doesn't mean that they don't feel these things though and it doesn't mean they don't feel as deeply as the next person either. there is also fear of expressing too much emotion because perhaps in the past, doing just that has lead to their feelings being trampled on.

love hurts. when you are in love with someone you can guarantee there will be pain. that is another reason behind a difficulty in expressing such things.

life is complicated. distance brings even more complication. some people show love in tangible ways that are not detectable without seeing their expression or witnessing their actions.

SR. you are a jerk. you wouldn't know what love was if it punched you in the face. you need to get laid real soon before the bitterness chews you up and spits you out.

Tell her how you'd like to be loved and listen while you speak...are you being foolish in your wants?

"SR. you are a jerk."

preaching to the choir cunt.

"you wouldn't know what love was if it punched you in the face."

what's the matter baby? am i cutting too close to the bone here?

"you need to get laid real soon before the bitterness chews you up and spits you out."

yawn.

scorpio i believe.

love is a verb
love is a DOING word
fearless on my breath.

SR: AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!!!!

cute.

you know baby, i find venom to be trite and malice to be boring.

Everything is ok actually now..and am back to being happy 🙂
And yes she is a Scorpio.

"Everything is ok actually now..and am back to being happy"

Manic depression, perhaps?

Scorpio mood swings + Sag mutability = Absolute Disaster.

Can you shut the fuk up for one minute SR?
Here 2 dollars, buy 2 dildos for you and Kris.

"buy 2 dildos for you and Kris."

ironic considering you're the one always threatening to rape him.

Listen Hypno, I call like I see it. If you don't like it, don't post a topic soliciting feedback. Or better yet, go the Pisces board and get your ego fluffed.

SR: and i find ignorance so entertaining LOL!

and why would hypno want a fluffy ego? that's your domain surely.

how come no one cared about my lee israel story? lol the woman made a career out of forging the names of dead notables!

Scorpio.

"Listen Hypno, I call like I see it. If you don't like it, don't post a topic soliciting feedback. Or better yet, go the Pisces board and get your ego fluffed."

Now since you are somewhat a new member here SR, i will remind you of the rules again:
I "Hypno" can post whatever i want in whatever board i want whenever i want..clearly you don't have these priviligies and i don't even need to boast my ego, so simply just fuk away.

"So she's a Scorpio and she's not as passionate and intense as you—"

She could be passionate and intense but can't show it or maybe she so passionate and intense actually but not to my level 😛

"That's interesting. Do you know what the rest of her chart is like?"

Virgo rising, moon in libra...hmmm..can't remember her venus placement.

Why? is there something in her chart indicates if she is young or not? 😉

well, she is a young soul to me 🙂

"But this... Virgo rising, moon in libra

does not exactly equal "passionate and intense" anyway"

the ascendent has nothing to do with this anyway, i think sun, moon and venus only count in this area. but yeah right, moon in libra is bad, actually anything in libra is bad 😛

oh come on gimme a break...HYPNO, why didnt the both of you just talked it out— i guess if you werent so explosive and she wasnt too cool to be true, you guys would understand eachother better, but thats just me...a simple taurus talkin🙂

good to know you happy again thou...just waiting to see how long will that last this time!!!!

"why didnt the both of you just talked it out—"

We did.

"just waiting to see how long will that last this time!!!!"

It's gonna be forever honey, forever 🙂

bTW, i was right then when i figured out it's your other account, without a pic and from your first post..damn i am really really genius, and i am proving that to myself day after day.
amen.

Why did you hide your post Satori? i read it and everything in there is true.
But hey, we have a lot of things in common, maybe we should get together 😉

it's one of my ultimate fave's blingy 🙂

what's with the hiding of posts guys? who are you bitching about now—??

hypno: you should have more faith in this woman - despite libran influences. perhaps her intensity simmers where yours boils over. perhaps her feelings are more constant than you imagine - always there, bubbling below the surface. it is a mistake to judge someone by your own standards. it shows misunderstanding of their nature. no two people are the same whatever the astrology. the more you get to know someone, the easier it is to read them.

another thing that is important in successful relationships is never to take someone for granted and never to assume what they do or don't feel.

and btw hypno, you seem to have given the impression that this woman is a complete cold fish!!! passion isn't all about writing sonnets and making proclamations from the rooftops you know!!

passion is best expressed physically imo 😉

no Fukna...none of the above mentioned...she is closer than you think...by the way Roxanne, i agree with you but assuming that she knows hypno well and how he is, she should make the effort of showing him how she feels ..dont you think—
even thou ppl is different, when 2 ppl love eachother they should adapt and understand the others needs in order to please them...unless my definition of love is really old skool

"I haven't been paying attention to thread, but is this woman you're speaking of your supposed Scorp queen or is it an Aries woman?'"

Yes, she is my Scorpio queen 🙂 that Aries story finished before even it started.

"you should have more faith in this woman - despite libran influences"

Yeah, libra influence sucks 🙂 moon and venus in libra? phewww

" perhaps her feelings are more constant than you imagine - always there, bubbling below the surface"

Right, but there is nothing wrong to errupt on the surface from time to time.

"never to take someone for granted and never to assume what they do or don't feel. "

I never take anybody for granted, and i would never do, actually this thread is a prove of that.

"and btw hypno, you seem to have given the impression that this woman is a complete cold fish!!!"

yeah, i am just trying to distort her reputation 😛 she is an ice queen , isn't what she likes to call herself? 😉

"I landed on 69 again!! Damn, I'm good!!"

Maybe cuz you talk too much and post all the time?

She told me to say that she is soo pasionate and soo intense..
So people, i was wrong, she is sooo passionate and so intense 😛

and no, she is not a b1tch nor i am her slave..she is my angel and i am here king

Thats so sweet 🙂 My goodness, thats so sweet 🙂 🙂 🙂 I love stuff like this 😄

I agree with P-Angel, more then likely if you don't feel the same intensity from her, then maybe she is not your soulmate. This doesn't mean that you can't have a meaningful relationship with her -- hardly anyone finds their soulmate. Usually the one you love/ marry is not a soulmate.

She told me to say that she is soo pasionate and soo intense..
So people, i was wrong, she is sooo passionate and so intense

Nope 😉 Never believe what comes out of someone's mouth, look for actions 🙂

CS, are you trying to ruin this relationship so you can get me? 😉

No, seriously, i was wrong (for the first time in my life) but i am a human being and i needed to get wrong for once to know i am not God, sorry God to think that i am you, you should be proud of that..eh what was the subject?

yeah, i beleive she is my soulmate, and i am deeply in love and that is ladies and gentelmen is a great beautiful feeling. 🙂

CS, are you trying to ruin this relationship so you can get me?

*rolls eyes* Ahhh Hypno ...