Signs relationship is ending

Last night I went to dinner with my boyfriend.

I was being playful with him verbally and then he said “ you’re acting weird and hyperactive but I still love you”.

It sorta hurt my feelings because I was just excited to be getting quality time with him after a busy day of traveling.

At the end of the night I asked him about it and he was like, “It just started when we got to the restaurant when you said let’s sit on the same side of the booth...It seemed aggressive and even the waitress gave a weird look. I was gonna sit with you anyways. In fact when I saw that table I knew it would be perfect...”

So I defended myself and said that I just get excited to spend time together, plus we haven’t had the opportunity to sit on the same side in a loooooong time. He was just like “well anyways that’s why I love you”.

I’m just worried he’s starting to fall out of love. Why would he mistake my excitement for aggression? I thought I was being harmless.

Now I feel like I have to repress myself, but that means when the excitement boils over it’s gon come out even stronger.

Please help. Am I overthinking this? Maybe I need to go back on my ADHD meds.

Yeah your overthinking.

I'd blame the waitress if I were you.

Scorp, you are worrying too much

Get yourself a Cap.

Posted by GOATAction
Get yourself a Cap.

Why ?

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Get yourself a Cap.

Why ?

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Cause we consistent and can put it down!

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Sounds like me and my hubs the first year of being together. He is moody and we’d go through this same scenario.. He’d reassure me, say he’s got a lot on his mind and I’d keep overthinking it.. Sometimes we would wind up fighting over nothing at all. Eventually I figured out that it’s best to just let him work it out, and like someone said it usually passes as quick as it started. 🙂

Somewhat relatable. Except my bf doesn’t take responsibility for his emotions he’s projecting on to me; it’s always a psychoanalyzation of my behaviors or criticisms like “you seem angry” followed by “it’s okay to be”.

But like you said he also offers a lot of reassurance and says I’m worrying too much.

Posted by OneKnight
What's his placements? lol

Gemini sun & mercury

Cancer moon

Aries Venus

Leo mars

Scorpio Jupiter & Pluto

Capricorn Neptune & Uranus

Possibly Leo rising

Posted by AerialView
I'd blame the waitress if I were you.

I suspect he was reflecting his own feelings on to her, because she laughed when I said “let’s sit together”. He insisted she made a face when I turned my back tho.

Posted by Whorpio
Last night I went to dinner with my boyfriend.

I was being playful with him verbally and then he said “ you’re acting weird and hyperactive but I still love you”.

It sorta hurt my feelings because I was just excited to be getting quality time with him after a busy day of traveling.

At the end of the night I asked him about it and he was like, “It just started when we got to the restaurant when you said let’s sit on the same side of the booth...It seemed aggressive and even the waitress gave a weird look. I was gonna sit with you anyways. In fact when I saw that table I knew it would be perfect...”

So I defended myself and said that I just get excited to spend time together, plus we haven’t had the opportunity to sit on the same side in a loooooong time. He was just like “well anyways that’s why I love you”.

I’m just worried he’s starting to fall out of love. Why would he mistake my excitement for aggression? I thought I was being harmless.

Now I feel like I have to repress myself, but that means when the excitement boils over it’s gon come out even stronger.

Please help. Am I overthinking this? Maybe I need to go back on my ADHD meds.

It's a sign that the "honeymoon" period is ending.

Posted by VenusAquarius
It's a sign that the "honeymoon" period is ending.

Is that bad?

Posted by Whorpio

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It's a sign that the "honeymoon" period is ending.

Is that bad?

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No, just sad. Shit's just about to get real. No more rose colored glasses.

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Posted by Whorpio

Posted by VenusAquarius
It's a sign that the "honeymoon" period is ending.

Is that bad?

No, just sad. Shit's just about to get real. No more rose colored glasses.

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I mean he still says he loves me in his sleep and puppy dogs me.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Was it a formal dinner?

If yes, we care about decorum. I know surprise! But most people mistake us here.

It was a casual lazy Sunday dinner...

If he says he loves you, believe him 🙂

My Gemini friend is similar, when I get excited, he takes that as me talking irrelevant stuff and I feel like he's mad at me 😄

Don't worry, he loves you, but Geminis sometimes have to vent, at least in my experience

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Get yourself a Cap.

Why ?

Cause we consistent and can put it down!

🤔🤔🤔🤔

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🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

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Get yourself a Cap.

Why ?

Cause we consistent and can put it down!

🤔🤔🤔🤔

🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Yep yep

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Moody day I guess.

Is he a water moon?

Cancer

Posted by ScorpioTruth
He’s communicating his feelings with you. It’s better that he communicates those quirks with you rather than keeping you in the dark and talking about your quirks behind your back. It does not mean the relationship is ending, it just shows that he’s emotionally secure enough to communicate with you, even when it’s not all fuzzy feelings.

Didn’t think to look at it that way. Thanks gurl 🤗🤗

You‘ll be fine🌷

I have a Gemini Moon and know two. I also know three Gemini Suns. We're all sooooooo moody and say exactly what we're thinking. However, in 5 minutes we're cool. I'm sure it is fine!

Posted by HearttofTopaz
How old is he? I have many gemini men in my family lol almost too many. My dad has almost the same placements as your bf and he is very "methodical" in his thinking when it comes to emotions and expressing them. He can definitely can come off as offensive when it's not meant that way.

Hard to explain but I know what you mean. It can be annoying af but I have found out when it comes to Geminis if they are around, and reassuring you then you usually have nothing to worry about. Cause if their mind or heart isn't in it.. you wont see or hear from them.

Scorpio and Sag placements can be alot to deal with for some lmao

He’s 24.

You say I wouldn’t see or hear from him if his heart wasn’t in it...Does that still stand if we’re cohabitating? How old were you when you met your hubs? When did your honeymoon phase end? How many times has your dad been divorced lol

Posted by DeleterNerd
Yes the honey moon phase is over and he's showing you how bitchy cancer moons are for no reason sometimes.

What if the honeymoon phase is over for one person but not the other...what’s the protocol for that?

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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yes the honey moon phase is over and he's showing you how bitchy cancer moons are for no reason sometimes.

What if the honeymoon phase is over for one person but not the other...what’s the protocol for that?

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It can’t be over for one because if it’s over for one it means it’s over!

So another one will comply and calm down to proceed in a different manner.

Or else...

But all what happened isn’t what it seems.

He seemed been in a bad mood and wanted to be a bitchy little...then he said your name in his sleep...all fine!

eee! another scorpio woman with gemini man. it's a rare breed this one. lol good luck.

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Hey I thought you were to make a sad video. Is that why you broke up? I was curious how you were doing and what was to come of that after your thread.... I'm still lolzing.

I dont even want to say lol. I just cant go from dating a change their mind all the time mutable to the most stubborn muthfka in the world who wont give me something simple but then will bombard me with texts and phone calls in attempt to manipulate me to submit to him after I already did so much. Naw. You will bow to the venus king I say.

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Posted by HearttofTopaz
Sounds like me and my hubs the first year of being together. He is moody and we’d go through this same scenario.. He’d reassure me, say he’s got a lot on his mind and I’d keep overthinking it.. Sometimes we would wind up fighting over nothing at all. Eventually I figured out that it’s best to just let him work it out, and like someone said it usually passes as quick as it started. 🙂

Somewhat relatable. Except my bf doesn’t take responsibility for his emotions he’s projecting on to me; it’s always a psychoanalyzation of my behaviors or criticisms like “you seem angry” followed by “it’s okay to be”.

But like you said he also offers a lot of reassurance and says I’m worrying too much.

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Why does that sound like a Virgo...is he one?

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Posted by HearttofTopaz
Sounds like me and my hubs the first year of being together. He is moody and we’d go through this same scenario.. He’d reassure me, say he’s got a lot on his mind and I’d keep overthinking it.. Sometimes we would wind up fighting over nothing at all. Eventually I figured out that it’s best to just let him work it out, and like someone said it usually passes as quick as it started. 🙂

Somewhat relatable. Except my bf doesn’t take responsibility for his emotions he’s projecting on to me; it’s always a psychoanalyzation of my behaviors or criticisms like “you seem angry” followed by “it’s okay to be”.

But like you said he also offers a lot of reassurance and says I’m worrying too much.

Why does that sound like a Virgo...is he one?

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0 Virgo placements. He’s a Gemini