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Posted by seavixen2
On the subject of Power...eh, I don't care so much but I found this and this is for &2gednow, cuz he brought it up:
"The first problem in the relationship between Fish and the Eagle is that of weakness and strength.?? Guess who usually wins that battle in the final inning - which is stronger, which is weaker— Don't be afraid to hazard a guess.?? You know enough about astrology now to be tested.?? —?The Scorpio is stronger, the Piscean weaker— No, it's the other way around.?? Maybe you didn't notice the structure of the question, which included the phrase 'in the final inning.'?? Admittedly, Scorpio would seem at first to be the stronger of the two.?? They are both of the Water Element, and since water is the strongest of all the elements, for reasons I've told you elsewhere in this book, this means they both have the strength of endurance.?? In addition, Scorpio has all that Pluto power I've been writing about - or that you've read or heard about elsewhere.?? However, Pluto power is based, to a large extent, upon ego.?? Human ego.?? Neptune power (Neptune being the ruler of Pisces) is based upon a force no weapon in Heaven or on Earth, in any solar system, universe or galaxy, can conquer.?? It's name is??_ humility.?? It has a great deal to do with '??_ many that are first shall be last; and (many that are) last shall be first.'?? The message requires meditation.?? —?On a human personality level, the Scorpion who starts out in a relationship with a Piscean believing that he or she can swallow this poor little Fish through the force of a stronger and more intense nature - is going to be surprised.?? You know how difficult it is to surprise a Scorpion.?? But it can be done.?? In a contest of wills or a contest of surprises, the Fish will spring the last surprise.?? And it will be a real shocker, quite unexpected.?? —?Look at it this way.?? If you saw a Nature Scorpion in some sort of contest with a Nature Fish, which of the two could move faster and more unpredictably— You'd rather use the Scorpio Eagle as a symbolic example— Fine.?? You're on!?? Which can disappear more quickly, without leaving a sign or a trace - a fish in the water, or an eagle in the sky— Look.?? The fish is gone, but the eagle??_ well, see that speck over there behind that far cloud— Use your binoculars.?? Now you see the speck, right— Don't try to use your binoculars t
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...what about Phoenix type scorpios and doves of peace?
...what about Phoenix type scorpios and doves of peace?
Before I read the thread from a water sign's perspective, I thought I'd add mine.
Yes I've seen Pisces and Scorpio - these two always end up together somehow or other. Weird. Especailly pisces and scorpio sisters. I've seen this combi more times than nature should permit.
Pisces and Scorpio have this rivalry - the nature only truly beknownst to both of them (though outsiders can have snippets here and there). So, this phenomenon has been intriguing for me, and here's what I found out:
Pisceans are very very sensitive beings. Scorpions, on the other hand, are much more resilient. Though they are also sensitive, they are not so easily hurt as the pisces type. So I believe that its not really so that pisceans are jealous and insecurearound scorpios. Its that theyve been hurt by scorpios and are hurt and resentful that scorpios dont even acknowledge it. Pisceans, are essentially givers, compassionate. But with scorpio, they find themseves depleted because scorpios tend to see things only from their perspective.
What comes across to Scorpio as Pisces' insecurity and jealousy is really, Scorpios need to feel superior and have better things/ situations than Pisces.
So, you have one that feeds the other. Pisces wants scorpio to have less of that hardened wall and be more vulnerable like they are. Scorpio refuses, and Pisces sulks, coming across as insecure and jealous.
Yes I've seen Pisces and Scorpio - these two always end up together somehow or other. Weird. Especailly pisces and scorpio sisters. I've seen this combi more times than nature should permit.
Pisces and Scorpio have this rivalry - the nature only truly beknownst to both of them (though outsiders can have snippets here and there). So, this phenomenon has been intriguing for me, and here's what I found out:
Pisceans are very very sensitive beings. Scorpions, on the other hand, are much more resilient. Though they are also sensitive, they are not so easily hurt as the pisces type. So I believe that its not really so that pisceans are jealous and insecurearound scorpios. Its that theyve been hurt by scorpios and are hurt and resentful that scorpios dont even acknowledge it. Pisceans, are essentially givers, compassionate. But with scorpio, they find themseves depleted because scorpios tend to see things only from their perspective.
What comes across to Scorpio as Pisces' insecurity and jealousy is really, Scorpios need to feel superior and have better things/ situations than Pisces.
So, you have one that feeds the other. Pisces wants scorpio to have less of that hardened wall and be more vulnerable like they are. Scorpio refuses, and Pisces sulks, coming across as insecure and jealous.
Posted by fourthwallbreaker
"What comes across to Scorpio as Pisces' insecurity and jealousy is really, Scorpios need to feel superior and have better things/ situations than Pisces. "
That's pretty bang on, add to the fact the Pisces usually can get it's head around the fact that the reason Scorp has put time and proper graft into getting the good stuff, plus learning thorugh trial and error, rather than playing the victim or emotionally manipulating a situation so someone provides it for them y'know, in a 'Mammma !!! Mamma !!! I want some more milk !' kinda way ?
Yes the Scorpio is definitely stronger (a survivor through hard times) than the Pisces, who cries and cries in the same tough situation a Scorpio would divide and conquer.. Its not that the Pisces is weak, though, its that they are sensitive and would essentially never hurt a fly. So when a baddie (or a fly) hurts them, they get very traumatised..
But Pisces will take on the Mindset of Scorpio (tends to), and try to surpass scorpio, by getting rid of their essential nature (of Neptunian kindnesS), and take on Scorpio's manipulativeness (and other bad traits). But they tend to fail because this hurts them way more - they take on Scorpios nature as a defense of their own nature.. At least those Pisceans who dont have their heads straight (or strongly spiritual)..
Pisces does get very resentful of Scorpio and will start their undermining tasks toward scorpio, who conveniently overlooks it as nothing to be worried about.. which makes Pisces more hurt.. and the cycle never ends.. Scorpio.. just sees that as pisces being jealous and insecure without truly understanding the Piscean's sensitive nature.
Posted by lovelibra
How can one say pisces are jealous and insecure while scorpios are the most jealous and possessive people..
exactly...
and i've been in one real relationship with a scorp and it was nothing about her that made me jealous or insecure..
she was head strong and did dumb things sometimes(which ultimately cost her her life), but overall she was pretty easy to handle
[quote] he admitted to me towards the end that he can't be a friend to me knowing that I'm with other men because he's too sensitive. And those were his words, and pretty much the only time he has admitted any 'weakness' or sensitivity to me.[/quote]
I think thats not sensitivity. It's more like ultimate possession. He can't 'share' because it will hurt his pride; its all or nothing.
I think weakness and strength are very subjective. There is false strength and there is true strength. True strength is when one has really let go of the issues that bother/ hurt them, and false strength is when one pretends things doesnt bother them or put up a wall..
Letting go, or true strength is not easy.. it happens when "strenght" is not consciously flexed or shown to others. Its accepting things with grace, and let them slide off one's back the way water does to a duck, while acknowledging its presence.
Pisceans are very strong people, but when they let materialism get the better of them, they are as weak as a human fledging in a mortal world.. Pisceans, IMO should utilise spirituality strongly in their lives, that is when they are the strongest.
Scorpios, on the other hand, should allow the hurt to singe them deep inside instead of rubbing them off on others (especially UBERUBER sensitive pisces), because PAIN is transformation for scorpio. The more pain they experience, the kinder they become.. they are their own lord and master.
I think thats not sensitivity. It's more like ultimate possession. He can't 'share' because it will hurt his pride; its all or nothing.
I think weakness and strength are very subjective. There is false strength and there is true strength. True strength is when one has really let go of the issues that bother/ hurt them, and false strength is when one pretends things doesnt bother them or put up a wall..
Letting go, or true strength is not easy.. it happens when "strenght" is not consciously flexed or shown to others. Its accepting things with grace, and let them slide off one's back the way water does to a duck, while acknowledging its presence.
Pisceans are very strong people, but when they let materialism get the better of them, they are as weak as a human fledging in a mortal world.. Pisceans, IMO should utilise spirituality strongly in their lives, that is when they are the strongest.
Scorpios, on the other hand, should allow the hurt to singe them deep inside instead of rubbing them off on others (especially UBERUBER sensitive pisces), because PAIN is transformation for scorpio. The more pain they experience, the kinder they become.. they are their own lord and master.
Posted by fourthwallbreaker
"What comes across to Scorpio as Pisces' insecurity and jealousy is really, Scorpios need to feel superior and have better things/ situations than Pisces. "
That's pretty bang on, add to the fact the Pisces usually can get it's head around the fact that the reason Scorp has put time and proper graft into getting the good stuff, plus learning thorugh trial and error, rather than playing the victim or emotionally manipulating a situation so someone provides it for them y'know, in a 'Mammma !!! Mamma !!! I want some more milk !' kinda way ?
I can't speak for Pisces men, but as far as Scorp women and Pisces women are concerned, that is total bullshit in my experiences. The Pisces women I know are successful, financially responsible peeps. I have never witnessed the dynamic described above in any real life situations between Scorp/Pisces women.
Granted, I don't put that much specific stock into astro, but this whole argument about Scorp being powerful and Pisces being weak is rather annoying, as it has proven to be nothing but total nonsense from what I have seen in real life. I think Scorps tend read too much into what the astro books tell them in regard to that little tidbit lol
I can't stand many of the Pisces women I know, although I love them dearly, so its not just me sticking up for Pisceans. I just have to call a spade a spade here.
Posted by fourthwallbreaker
"Scorpios, on the other hand, should allow the hurt to singe them deep inside instead of rubbing them off on others (especially UBERUBER sensitive pisces), because PAIN is transformation for scorpio. The more pain they experience, the kinder they become.. they are their own lord and master."
Most decent people do that anyways, before deciding whether to return fire or not (this borders on something a poster mentioned on another thread, where parasites have a false sense of entitlement, whereas others question themselves first).
deems where is this thread u speak of? sounds lk an interesting read.
scorpios r misunderstood more often than not..
Its funny cause most of the Scorp men I know are not like what is described on DXP, at all! Granted, I've never had a serious relationship with one, except for a Lib/Scorp cusper, but even so, I don't see what everyone is talking about, at all. People have said its because I don't know them well enough intimately, but I just happen to believe most of the women complaining about Scorps here are drama queens themselves, and have read way too many astro books that have made them believe what they want to believe based on what theyre 'supposed' to be like.
I dunno.
I dunno.
Posted by Cinnamon Girl
P-Angel, not you again. You have a hatred for Scorpios so of course you're not going to have anything nice to say. You bash the Scorpios every chance you get ...
The above was on the first page. This was your very first post on dxp, yet, you say .. "not you again" ... reality check, at that point there was no 'again', it was your first post.
Second, you have no clue as to what I hate, for I never talk about what I hate in here.
I'm only bumping this thread up since you have a new one going on ... so people can see your character, they would have a better understanding of you if they realized that you're the hater.
Just skimmed this whole fucking thread. I should be cleaning my apartment. Anyways, reminds me of a part from Linda Goodmans love signs (this woman rules)
Please excuse errors, I am typing this from the book and would like to do it quick lol.
"the Scorpio is stronger the piscean weaker? No. It's the other way around. Maybe you didn't notice the structure of the question, which included the phrase "in the final inning." admittedly, Scorpio would seem at first to be the stronger of the two. They are both of the water element, and since water is the strongest of all elements, for reasons I've told you elsewhere in this book, thus means they both have strength and endurance.in addition, Scorpio has all that Pluto power I've been writing about-or that you've heard or read about elsewhere.
However, Pluto power is based, to a large extent, upon EGO. Human ego. Neptune power (Neptune being the ruler of Pisces) is based upon a force no weapon in heaven or on earth can conquer. It's name is... humility. You notice I capitalized EGO, and write humility in lower case? Thats the very reason the latter is more powerful than the former, when all scores are counted. It has a great deal to do with "... many that are first shall be last; and last shall be first." This message requires meditation."
Please excuse errors, I am typing this from the book and would like to do it quick lol.
"the Scorpio is stronger the piscean weaker? No. It's the other way around. Maybe you didn't notice the structure of the question, which included the phrase "in the final inning." admittedly, Scorpio would seem at first to be the stronger of the two. They are both of the water element, and since water is the strongest of all elements, for reasons I've told you elsewhere in this book, thus means they both have strength and endurance.in addition, Scorpio has all that Pluto power I've been writing about-or that you've heard or read about elsewhere.
However, Pluto power is based, to a large extent, upon EGO. Human ego. Neptune power (Neptune being the ruler of Pisces) is based upon a force no weapon in heaven or on earth can conquer. It's name is... humility. You notice I capitalized EGO, and write humility in lower case? Thats the very reason the latter is more powerful than the former, when all scores are counted. It has a great deal to do with "... many that are first shall be last; and last shall be first." This message requires meditation."
Amen
Could it be because scorpios are so good at manipulating by charm and sheer skill while pisces have to work manipulating via lies?
Idk just what I've observed through watching the boards. I don't mind either sign honestly. They both have their good points, but their has to be some reason why they set off you (a scorp) so badly.
Never really known anyone to be so upset by a sign that was the same element as them o.0 I think I dislike at least one sign out of each of the elements except fire. Love my firey cousins
Idk just what I've observed through watching the boards. I don't mind either sign honestly. They both have their good points, but their has to be some reason why they set off you (a scorp) so badly.
Never really known anyone to be so upset by a sign that was the same element as them o.0 I think I dislike at least one sign out of each of the elements except fire. Love my firey cousins
Don't get me wrong I like scorpios a lot. I feel like both signs are so relate-able. I feel so much more understood by scorpios and fellow pisces than other signs. I just like that book.
I am a Pisces woman that fell hard for my Scorpio friend, and all signs point to him feeling the same about me. From my experience, this astrological pairing is like in the movies and we GET each other. I tell him that I am him in female form- both equally sensitive, deeply emotional, jealous, and, of course, highly sexual. The biggest difference? He sees being too emotional as a weakness and would never admit he is sensitive or jealous. I, on the other hand, wear my heart on my sleeve, which makes me more vulnerable and, in turn, more sensitive...which some see as weak. I have learned to embrace these qualities and now consider then a strength. I looovvvve my Scorpio and think we balance each other perfectly. 🙂
I did post the section from l goodmans book, but, ellybd i think u make a wonderful point. Cheers to peace between the water signs, haha.
Ive had an experience over the weekend of male piscies being jealous and it was a nasty nasty experience in fact probably the worst jealousy I have seen in my entire live 4 hours of solid abuse..Then text my mate and said that I was doing deliberate things to make him jealous.
^ lol @ stinger. cinnamon, and all my fellow scorps, i feel you.
as a scorpio male, i have had negative experiences with both pisces and my own sign. but i have had more with pisces. i dont hate them though. im not hear to diss them, but it is some things that they do that is undesired. i dont think their confidence level is very high to begin with. they are fragile in a sense. if bad things keep happening to them, then they will have a negative outlook towards people and the world. no matter who comes along with positivity, they too will be seen as good for nothing with hidden motives. a miserable pisces' happiness is always be short lived, and they will always turn to superficiality to make them 'think' they are happy.
alot of them say they dont dare, but if they really didnt, they would have no emotion over certain things in the first place. alot of the negative behavior stems from pisces being hurt and never solvign the mountains of pain they have in their life. remember the saying 'hurt people hurt people'. Stinger, you said that never tell pisces your problems; well have you scorps ever stopped to think that maybe the pisces are so bitter because they have all this pain and have no one to talk to? they have no positive outlet to get the drama out, therefore it manifests itself as hateful, or disrespectful behavior. if a person doesnt like themselves deep down inside, how can you expect for them to like you?
my scorpio people, we know only how we deal with things and our pains. we are strong enough to go away and battle them out on our own without tearing people down. pisces are more people oriented - being alone like we do would drive them crazy. in order to be well adjusted, pisces need well adjusted people around them. do not go back and forth and call them weak. scorpios arent weak by any stretch niether. we two water signs can actually learn from each other if we kill the ego. scorps can teach pisces how to be self confident, if only they are willing to learn. pisces can teach scorpio how to better deal with people and the public, since it is a social sign, if they are willing to learn.
Stinger, im sorry you had to deal with that bad fish though. some people, no matter how hard you try, will not cooperate. i understand about the violence; sometimes it's just no other way after you've tried tact, respect, and peace. some people only understand a good ass whipping. and that's sad though.
as a scorpio male, i have had negative experiences with both pisces and my own sign. but i have had more with pisces. i dont hate them though. im not hear to diss them, but it is some things that they do that is undesired. i dont think their confidence level is very high to begin with. they are fragile in a sense. if bad things keep happening to them, then they will have a negative outlook towards people and the world. no matter who comes along with positivity, they too will be seen as good for nothing with hidden motives. a miserable pisces' happiness is always be short lived, and they will always turn to superficiality to make them 'think' they are happy.
alot of them say they dont dare, but if they really didnt, they would have no emotion over certain things in the first place. alot of the negative behavior stems from pisces being hurt and never solvign the mountains of pain they have in their life. remember the saying 'hurt people hurt people'. Stinger, you said that never tell pisces your problems; well have you scorps ever stopped to think that maybe the pisces are so bitter because they have all this pain and have no one to talk to? they have no positive outlet to get the drama out, therefore it manifests itself as hateful, or disrespectful behavior. if a person doesnt like themselves deep down inside, how can you expect for them to like you?
my scorpio people, we know only how we deal with things and our pains. we are strong enough to go away and battle them out on our own without tearing people down. pisces are more people oriented - being alone like we do would drive them crazy. in order to be well adjusted, pisces need well adjusted people around them. do not go back and forth and call them weak. scorpios arent weak by any stretch niether. we two water signs can actually learn from each other if we kill the ego. scorps can teach pisces how to be self confident, if only they are willing to learn. pisces can teach scorpio how to better deal with people and the public, since it is a social sign, if they are willing to learn.
Stinger, im sorry you had to deal with that bad fish though. some people, no matter how hard you try, will not cooperate. i understand about the violence; sometimes it's just no other way after you've tried tact, respect, and peace. some people only understand a good ass whipping. and that's sad though.
i have met good fishes and terrible sharks. i understand about the temper; i have fought with the fish too, but i only felt bad afterwards. i had to put one pisces male in the hospital because he kept trying to destroy my reputation. you dont threaten and try to put your hands on a man, talk about his wife and kids, tell his boss lies about him and almost get him fired. the reason he would tear me down is because he hated i was a valuable worker. we worked at the same place, but i would get recognition. i am a quiet worker that stays to myself and gets the job done. no playing, no games. pisces dude was the one always playing, cracking jokes, trying to be everyone's friend. i thought he was my friend until i got a raise and he didnt; that's when the jealousy came out and he'd try to undo my progress at work.
i found out too that he envied me for marrying a lovely woman; he was still playing the field...long story short, i couldnt handle his constant disrespect when i have done nothing to him to deserve it. so i stood my ground and had to beat the nonsense out of him. he tried to sue and get me in trouble, but the witnesses that saw how he was towards me saved me from all of that. no one in their right minds will sit here and compare lives, and end up hating the other person just because they feel they are 'better'. pisces are the one that came up with that 'you're better than me' attitude. you read into other's success too much instead of trying to find your own. thats how scorp is different from you - if he doesnt like his life, he will not waste time comparing. he will get to business and change his circumstance.
some people you wont be able to gain peaceful resolve from. but after you hold your own, go away and avoid any further trouble. i wish the pisces wouldnt get so nasty over the success and happiness of others. maybe instead of goofing off, if they put that same engery they have in being jealous and put it to working hard towards their goals, then they would get some shine too. i think they just dont like the way scorpio gets his means - through sheer determination and hard work, not being detoured off their path. pisces usually gets his means by manipulation, lying, and being sneaky. kind of hard for them to focus too. so of course naturally you feel inferior if u arent doing ur best.
now please, stop the hate. if everyone would stop looking at the next person or sign and look at themselves, alot of work could get done for the bet
i found out too that he envied me for marrying a lovely woman; he was still playing the field...long story short, i couldnt handle his constant disrespect when i have done nothing to him to deserve it. so i stood my ground and had to beat the nonsense out of him. he tried to sue and get me in trouble, but the witnesses that saw how he was towards me saved me from all of that. no one in their right minds will sit here and compare lives, and end up hating the other person just because they feel they are 'better'. pisces are the one that came up with that 'you're better than me' attitude. you read into other's success too much instead of trying to find your own. thats how scorp is different from you - if he doesnt like his life, he will not waste time comparing. he will get to business and change his circumstance.
some people you wont be able to gain peaceful resolve from. but after you hold your own, go away and avoid any further trouble. i wish the pisces wouldnt get so nasty over the success and happiness of others. maybe instead of goofing off, if they put that same engery they have in being jealous and put it to working hard towards their goals, then they would get some shine too. i think they just dont like the way scorpio gets his means - through sheer determination and hard work, not being detoured off their path. pisces usually gets his means by manipulation, lying, and being sneaky. kind of hard for them to focus too. so of course naturally you feel inferior if u arent doing ur best.
now please, stop the hate. if everyone would stop looking at the next person or sign and look at themselves, alot of work could get done for the bet
Posted by Stinger Baby
i pray i never have pisces kids...they WILL be aborted or left at the hospital. yeh i said it bitches.
You sure spent a lot of time ranting about this Pisces chick. obv she had a real memorable affect on you.
Also, your quote above is pretty disgusting. I like astrology because it's interesting and fun, if you take it THAT seriously... To the point of saying youd abort or leave your own child that grew from within you due to a birth date .. Idk, that's just wiiiiiggity WACK.
Posted by LouLorePosted by Stinger Baby
i pray i never have pisces kids...they WILL be aborted or left at the hospital. yeh i said it bitches.
You sure spent a lot of time ranting about this Pisces chick. obv she had a real memorable affect on you.
Also, your quote above is pretty disgusting. I like astrology because it's interesting and fun, if you take it THAT seriously... To the point of saying youd abort or leave your own child that grew from within you due to a birth date .. Idk, that's just wiiiiiggity WACK.
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Scorpios seem to spend an excessive amount of time ranting over pretty much everything ..... there doesn't appear to be a purpose, a point. other than just that they have to vent off alot of steam.
@ Stinger baby, you just described my brother & sister perfectly. That's why MOST of the women get their asses beat *Rihanna*.
I realized that too, Cinnamon girl. Out of nowhere, fish girls love to initiate trouble or drama. They don't just do it to us Scorp women (which becomes rather short-lived because we can't take their bullshit), but they do it to everybody.
I'm good with Pisces men, but the women irritate me. Although, I must mention my brother's wife is a pisces and I like her.
I'm good with Pisces men, but the women irritate me. Although, I must mention my brother's wife is a pisces and I like her.
Is that ^^^ making a backwards claim that it started well?
Posted by LadyScorpPPosted by Nemesis
fish - Hey cut the crap
scorp - You wish you were like me
fish - slap
both: cry and hug each other
both: i love you!
haha....funny to read the extension Nemesis but I can never recall it every occurring in my lifetime of knowing my mermaid friends *shrugs*
I think it really depends on the person, all three water signs are lovely but as individuals they can come in many different forms not a cookie cutter prototype....just visit all three ponds to see the various species that exists 🙂
But then again the above is my opinion to think that all three water creatures on a whole do get along fairly well (both females and males)
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Agree with this.
And also, if you attract bitches, and drama, more than likely you are a bitch, and dramatic.
@ Satori ...I continuously like to grow as both a person and a woman. Being a Cancer I relate to what you are saying. As I reflect and get older, I can see where I tend to not say anything because I would rather keep the peace than say anything. Or I recognize I may be being or thinking overly sensitive. The flipping thoughts and feelings that constantly run through my head grow tiresome, and it's taken a lot of growth, self reflection, and admitting of hard pills to swallow to begin to realize things of myself. And I pick up on people's thoughts and moods, and it affects me.
I don't find myself to be a jealous 'they have this or that' kind of person, so it doesnt stem from jealousy for that aspect. But yes, I tend to swallow my feelings a lot because if in fact I am feeling irrational or sense I may not be 'right on the mark' I would rather sit back and think about it, reflect, and come to a final resolve in my mind. BUT, if it continues and it builds, I continue to bite my tongue or push those feelings back, then I do blow or can act passive agressive as a result. Not cool I realize, but I try to remain open to that not so nice aspect and try to not do that.
I don't find myself to be a jealous 'they have this or that' kind of person, so it doesnt stem from jealousy for that aspect. But yes, I tend to swallow my feelings a lot because if in fact I am feeling irrational or sense I may not be 'right on the mark' I would rather sit back and think about it, reflect, and come to a final resolve in my mind. BUT, if it continues and it builds, I continue to bite my tongue or push those feelings back, then I do blow or can act passive agressive as a result. Not cool I realize, but I try to remain open to that not so nice aspect and try to not do that.
Part of my keeping mum is the fear of someone not getting it, or seeing where I'm coming from. Or making fun of me, chastising me or my thoughts/feelings. A lot of that happened growing up, being picked on about it, so I just learned to keep quite and over time resentment built towards those people. Realizing how unhealthy that is in soooo many ways, I've learned as I've gotten older to call people out on their BS, so it's not that I never say anything BUT it's being aware that sometimes I may be the one is who being the booger, and not the other person.
And if I am being overly sensitive, and need a minute to 'get past it or over it' I would rather swallow tears knowing I'm being overly sensitive or maybe am misreading someone than say something. To me I look at it as not being fair to the other person, and being open enough to check out the surroundings, put myself in their shoes, are they having a bad day, observing them, and generally I can tell that way. I would feel horrible if I called them out, and it was a matter of a lousy day ... everyone is entitled. But, it's when it is continuous, and I keep keeping my mouth shut and realize it's a pattern, then I blow unexpectedly or not knowing when the time comes.
I've also realized generally if people arent' open to growth, hearing other's thoughts, etc. 99.9% of the time, they won't care if you do say something to them. I tend to try to be nice about it, or add a little joking into it so it doesnt seem harsh or critical, but when someone is hell bent that they are the mold of perfection, or cannot look beyond themselves, you can tell them til their blue in the face. I think we probably all have experienced that.
And if I am being overly sensitive, and need a minute to 'get past it or over it' I would rather swallow tears knowing I'm being overly sensitive or maybe am misreading someone than say something. To me I look at it as not being fair to the other person, and being open enough to check out the surroundings, put myself in their shoes, are they having a bad day, observing them, and generally I can tell that way. I would feel horrible if I called them out, and it was a matter of a lousy day ... everyone is entitled. But, it's when it is continuous, and I keep keeping my mouth shut and realize it's a pattern, then I blow unexpectedly or not knowing when the time comes.
I've also realized generally if people arent' open to growth, hearing other's thoughts, etc. 99.9% of the time, they won't care if you do say something to them. I tend to try to be nice about it, or add a little joking into it so it doesnt seem harsh or critical, but when someone is hell bent that they are the mold of perfection, or cannot look beyond themselves, you can tell them til their blue in the face. I think we probably all have experienced that.
Posted by SatoriFierce
OD, I don't see jealous Cancers that much. I think with us it was just a sibling rivalry thing. But I used the point to illustrate how I do see Cancers bottling their feelings till they boil over sometimes.
Anyway, I also hate to use that example cause it makes me sad. I wish things weren't that way between me and my sis, but she is unremorseful and still talking shit, apparently. But that's more of her depression and mental health issues at hand, not her Sun Sign.
And thanks, Stinger.
Very hard, I can only imagine. Hopefully she'll find her way back. But on your end, tough love is needed too. A person can only try so much, and then stand back. So what you are doing is right. As long as you know you tried, and you love her, you've done your part. I hate to see siblings argue, I have the same in our family. It pains me, a lot. And us Cancers can be stubborn, so that's not something that you should have to burden yourself over when we plant ourselves. I wish you the best, and hope it works out 🙂
Posted by SatoriFiercePosted by OceanDeep
Part of my keeping mum is the fear of someone not getting it, or seeing where I'm coming from. Or making fun of me, chastising me or my thoughts/feelings. A lot of that happened growing up, being picked on about it, so I just learned to keep quite and over time resentment built towards those people. Realizing how unhealthy that is in soooo many ways, I've learned as I've gotten older to call people out on their BS, so it's not that I never say anything BUT it's being aware that sometimes I may be the one is who being the booger, and not the other person.
And if I am being overly sensitive, and need a minute to 'get past it or over it' I would rather swallow tears knowing I'm being overly sensitive or maybe am misreading someone than say something. To me I look at it as not being fair to the other person, and being open enough to check out the surroundings, put myself in their shoes, are they having a bad day, observing them, and generally I can tell that way. I would feel horrible if I called them out, and it was a matter of a lousy day ... everyone is entitled. But, it's when it is continuous, and I keep keeping my mouth shut and realize it's a pattern, then I blow unexpectedly or not knowing when the time comes.
I've also realized generally if people arent' open to growth, hearing other's thoughts, etc. 99.9% of the time, they won't care if you do say something to them. I tend to try to be nice about it, or add a little joking into it so it doesnt seem harsh or critical, but when someone is hell bent that they are the mold of perfection, or cannot look beyond themselves, you can tell them til their blue in the face. I think we probably all have experienced that.click to expand
So true, OD. I'm a Scorp with a Cancer Ascendant and I have to constantly keep my emotions in check. I try to make sure that my gripe is legitimate before I say anything because I know how sensitive I can be to the smallest things.
But at the same time, people can be so dismissive when you are sensitive but really have been hurt by someone, cause they think we're just sensitive about everything. As a result, I used to second-guess my feelings a lot. But I think I've gotten better over the years at seeing when I am truly hurt by something and when I just overreacted to something harmles
I'm trying this again Satori haha
It's nice to hear someone relate, and I agree on the dismissive part of others. It's so internally hurtful. All your water must at times feel so overwhelming, especially when younger. I always felt like an odd ball, or the odd man out :S And I know what you mean when you say you start second-guessing yourself. Blah. So I'm sure you relate too on needing shell time. For me, it is a must must must.
On topic of you and your sister, no thanks needed but you are more than welcome 🙂 (((HUGS)))
P.S. I cringe at my typos haha One in particular quite = quiet. :S lol
It's nice to hear someone relate, and I agree on the dismissive part of others. It's so internally hurtful. All your water must at times feel so overwhelming, especially when younger. I always felt like an odd ball, or the odd man out :S And I know what you mean when you say you start second-guessing yourself. Blah. So I'm sure you relate too on needing shell time. For me, it is a must must must.
On topic of you and your sister, no thanks needed but you are more than welcome 🙂 (((HUGS)))
P.S. I cringe at my typos haha One in particular quite = quiet. :S lol
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
I like your pic fwiw 🙂
Also, Satori and OceanDeep, you guys made a lot of good points. I agree with you 🙂
Well that makes it three female waterbabies consensus, AND one from every water hole. Perfection 🙂
The Pisces I have attempted relationships with, were jealous and insecure before I came along.
*shrug*
*shrug*
Good grief, over 80% of this thread requires a jockstrap..merely to contain the BOLLOCKS. Yeeesh.
Can't we all just be [Internet] friends?
I do and daily. 🙂
Look Cinnamon Girl, I don't know what the **** are you talking about!!!! I frikin' LOVE Scorpios and Scorpios frikin' love me. I am a Pisces and I DONT fight and DONT LIKE fighting. To me it seems like you just came here looking for a fight. I don't even know why I am writing this, your posts just made me so mad! But now read carefully.
You are just retarded, fucked up in the mind or are really stupid, because I think that the actually reason for Pisces fighting whit you is probably because you went looking oh so desperately for a fight! On top of that just by reading your firsts posts I can tell right away that you know close to NOTHING about Pisces and came here to talk crap like you do.
For a fact what's whit you going all like "Pisces are jealous of us Scorpios because we are so much better then them." I mean WTF?! Do you think that we aren't capable of catching someones eyes? Or maybe you really think that we are as stupid as you whit all that ego busting?! I think the only reason Pisces fight whit you is because you go around the planet acting like YOU are a frikin' big deal, so go hang yourself somewhere 'cause you are not! And just for the account I LOVE Scorpios but the Scorpios I know are able to understand me as I understand them, they are sensible and are way more then a big ego, they may have their egocentric moments, but must of the time they are funny and are far more likely to show me their insecurities and the real them than that stupid mask of they thinking they are perfect and of course they don't go around life looking for a fight!
On top of that for your information in a Pisces-Scorpio relationship USUALLY Pisces busts Scorpios ego on purpose because we know how insecure you can be. And just so you f*cking know, most of Pisces insecurities come from wanting love or recognition not feeling "inferior" to someone, okey? And we are sensible, so if you hurt us expect us to at one point man-up and bit you back because no matter how submissive we may be we are indeed tough and strong and at one point or another we will snap and stop putting up whit your stupid crap!
Now in my opinion the one that hates an astrology sign here is YOU okey? 'Cause I don't know what the hell you where thinking when you said that Pisces are jealous of you and look for fight, believe me we DONT look for fights if you got in one you probably looked for it YOURSELF.
You are just retarded, fucked up in the mind or are really stupid, because I think that the actually reason for Pisces fighting whit you is probably because you went looking oh so desperately for a fight! On top of that just by reading your firsts posts I can tell right away that you know close to NOTHING about Pisces and came here to talk crap like you do.
For a fact what's whit you going all like "Pisces are jealous of us Scorpios because we are so much better then them." I mean WTF?! Do you think that we aren't capable of catching someones eyes? Or maybe you really think that we are as stupid as you whit all that ego busting?! I think the only reason Pisces fight whit you is because you go around the planet acting like YOU are a frikin' big deal, so go hang yourself somewhere 'cause you are not! And just for the account I LOVE Scorpios but the Scorpios I know are able to understand me as I understand them, they are sensible and are way more then a big ego, they may have their egocentric moments, but must of the time they are funny and are far more likely to show me their insecurities and the real them than that stupid mask of they thinking they are perfect and of course they don't go around life looking for a fight!
On top of that for your information in a Pisces-Scorpio relationship USUALLY Pisces busts Scorpios ego on purpose because we know how insecure you can be. And just so you f*cking know, most of Pisces insecurities come from wanting love or recognition not feeling "inferior" to someone, okey? And we are sensible, so if you hurt us expect us to at one point man-up and bit you back because no matter how submissive we may be we are indeed tough and strong and at one point or another we will snap and stop putting up whit your stupid crap!
Now in my opinion the one that hates an astrology sign here is YOU okey? 'Cause I don't know what the hell you where thinking when you said that Pisces are jealous of you and look for fight, believe me we DONT look for fights if you got in one you probably looked for it YOURSELF.
I love how people generalize an entire group of people off the bases of one persons action.
Posted by Cinnamon Girl
All the astrology books and websites say that Scorpios and Pisces "are a match made in heaven" but why is it that I cannot get along with most Pisces men and women? I get along fairly good with Cancers but it seems like Pisces get insecure and jealous when they're around me. I'm not trying to sound egotistical but it's true. Most of my fistfights have been with Pisces girls. They are always saying the wrong things to me and it sets me off.I look at most astrology websites and it's mostly Pisces hating on Scorpios. It seems like Pisces are intimidated by Scorpios' power and strong character- something which they are lacking. Pisces seem to feel very inadequate around Scorpios and I'm very annoyed by the. Are there any other Scorpios who feel the same way?
Match made in heaven? I certainly never got the memo.
It was more like hell thinking back but then I would be prejudice, though I have seen successful examples of this match up before, a true example of 'crazy psychos in love' that is 🙂
Posted by xxnightbynight
this thread is 3 years old.
I figured...my statement still withstands nonetheless, never got the memo. Although I wish I did, would have poked that fish boy with a 10 mile stick and kept far away !
Posted by xxnightbynight
i dated a fish boy too.
have u ever gutted a fish? - it's fun.
haha jk. seriously though. 😉
Did not even get to the dating stage, I was a foolish young'un back then, it was pure infatuation, ridiculous. He played me like the back of his hand, it taught me a lot, at least I got a lesson out of it. So much for not wasting all that time, or I really would have wished to have taken that fish gutting lesson 😛 I kid, some Merfolks are still very lovely people, never get on their bad side though or one gets a really cold fish.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Never let a fish play you like a violin. My god that's Fishy 101
Oh, they sure have all the skills to play the field with great expertise on unsuspecting victims, if they so choose, fishy 😄
Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by IntriguedScorp
Never let a fish play you like a violin. My god that's Fishy 101
Oh, they sure have all the skills to play the field with great expertise on unsuspecting victims, if they so choose, fishy 😄
You were young. You just didn't get the full power of your water, hun. ITs okay. You really don't come into your full knowledge until much later. Water is an old soul element.
Once you figure it out--oh boy watch out! Its fun.click to expand
I think I will give the other water elements a try, a chance before going back to attempt Merfolks is what I say.
Of course, time and experience does make a great difference, it is empowering when one transform from old wounds and 'deaths', every day is a work in progress like your evolutionary thread. What an embarrassment I was but it is amusing to look back on it these days, so silly! Always figuring, always learning, riding waves one after another, riding it smooth.
Thank you for your nice words though! 🙂
Ok so I know this is old AF but I'm an aqua female and I can totally relate. Idk if it's because Aquarius and Scorpio share the same traits but I do feel the insecure Pisces is definitely intimidated by us. I have a Pisces friend who I've known for 11 years who is definitely jealous of me. My mom even picks up on it. It's like every guy who likes me all of a sudden wants her too and always act like they want her more when I know for a fact I have a more solid bond w our mutual friends. If we're out together and I'm getting attention she always tries to shade me or put my down to down play me and she lies so much and is so fake it's not even funny.
fish swear we have airs
but we do not at all, ne.
i can only be myself, so
if i have to dumb down
to be around you, then i
do not need you at all.
but we do not at all, ne.
i can only be myself, so
if i have to dumb down
to be around you, then i
do not need you at all.
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