Why would he suddenly say “ i dont feel it” after being deeply in love ?!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by N_leo on Sunday, November 11, 2018 and has 46 replies.

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I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

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And he refused to give me straight answers at the beginning!!! He only answered that he dont want it after i ran after him for a month to understand !! And on top of all this he says “ actually i know how u feel.. and i would do exactly the same if someone did this to me.. but shit happens.” Lol. !!!!!!! Whaaaaat is thisssssss !!

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he is 21st of november 1991 could be the scorpio saggitarious cusp ?

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And he refused to give me straight answers at the beginning!!! He only answered that he dont want it after i ran after him for a month to understand !! And on top of all this he says “ actually i know how u feel.. and i would do exactly the same if someone did this to me.. but shit happens.” Lol. !!!!!!! Whaaaaat is thisssssss !!

Whats his moon. He sounds like an AQUA moon lol or a Fire moon

no chill

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congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

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is the lucifer phase, what can you expect, worse 2 weeks of my entire year.... sigh

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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

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Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

is the lucifer phase, what can you expect, worse 2 weeks of my entire year.... sigh

I've never heard of the "lucifer phase"...

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For the last two weeks of the Venus retrograde period (Nov 3 to 16), Venus is Lucifer the morning star. This is the time when you are most likely to get involved in a ‘Dark Cupid’ or narcissistic affair. You will most definitely be thinking with your reproductive organs and not your brain, so do try to resist the sex if you can. You may get a series of red flags but still ignore them. A one night stand might during this time might seem harmless and disposable, but on a spiritual level, this goes far deeper. Your body is your temple so don’t give into the Luciferian psychic vampires. You might find yourself drained for many months afterwards. It’s simply not worth it.

Aphrodite’s bad points are often overlooked. She had a reputation for jealousy, revenge, possessiveness, and infidelity. The stress and misery caused by this behavior can attract unwanted hyperdimensional entities which feed of the drama. Sometimes we think we need a sexual fling because it has been a while, we just want to have fun and we feel we can take it or leave it. But with Venus retrograde, we might develop an obsessive attachment to the so-called “friend with benefits”, which we hadn’t bargained for. We could find we are kept in a very unpleasant psychic, sexual bondage.

So I would say proceed with caution with any new relationships. However Venus Retrograde doesn’t have to play out like ‘50 Shades’ of cringe, for like Mercury retrograde, Venus turned inward has its uses. Lyn Koiner says it “is an excellent time for buying antiques, flea market items and secondhand goods wherein you know the real worth and value of the item but the seller does not.” It’s also good for selling your own unwanted items.

I believe the first two-thirds of Venus Retrograde (Oct 6 to Nov 3) could be an ideal time for creativity that explores your inner world. Make music, art or poetry just for yourself and not for the public.

darkstarastrology.com/venus-retrograde

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Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

Stop trying to do monkey flips for a guy who clearly says that you ain‘t the one! You could do backflips and jump through fire hoops, it won‘t change his mind.

YOU need to be the one who chooses who‘s going to be in your team! Not the other way around 🌷 you shouldn‘t feel the desperate need to convince any guy to pick you. Instead of jumping like „pick me pick me“ you need to be the one choosing.

Good luck girl 🌷 I‘m sure you‘ll find the right one

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I think you need to retrain your brain OP... start thinking things logically instead “heart first”. The narrative you need to be using is “After SAYING he was deeply in love” be careful of rushed/ fast paced relationships and a lot of words, with lacking actions.

Clearly he just said it, however either he was lying or just caught up in the moment(only you know the truth if you listen to your gut). Either way, the wrong guy just shows you what you really want/need so think of this as a blessing and say “thank you” now NEXt! 😉

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Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

He’s full of shit, that’s what happened. He love bombed the hell out of you. Be wary of big declarations and things that seem too good to be true. I’m sure there were red flags but you were so caught up yoi didn’t heed to them.

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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

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When does it end?

Does venus retro mean that people feel things temporarily?

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Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

What you described above - that's a typical case of infatuation...

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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

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Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

When does it end?

Does venus retro mean that people feel things temporarily?

I think it ends on the 15th. Venus Retro basically just fucks up your love life. It's not wise to commit to any serious romantic affairs during this period. Exes come back, your feelings get tossed around if they're not strong enough for whoever you have those feelings, etc. Like during Mercury Retro, it's best to keep things light and casual and low key now.

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Ok good to know. Dont make any sudden romantic moves until 16th.

Funny, I’ve had zero exes come back and zero romantic up/downs. This period has actually been one of the most calm times for me romantically. Even the Libra’s hot/cold behavior is not bothering me as much as it used to.

Maybe im just coming into my own or something. The Saturn return last year impacted me in some big ways and maybe continues to do so.

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Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

What you described above - that's a typical case of infatuation...

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💯 want to know which one applies to your relationship? Fart, burp loudly, go to the bathroom in front of your S/O and find out real quick 😆

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

When does it end?

Does venus retro mean that people feel things temporarily?

I think it ends on the 15th. Venus Retro basically just fucks up your love life. It's not wise to commit to any serious romantic affairs during this period. Exes come back, your feelings get tossed around if they're not strong enough for whoever you have those feelings, etc. Like during Mercury Retro, it's best to keep things light and casual and low key now.

Ok good to know. Dont make any sudden romantic moves until 16th.

Funny, I’ve had zero exes come back and zero romantic up/downs. This period has actually been one of the most calm times for me romantically. Even the Libra’s hot/cold behavior is not bothering me as much as it used to.

Maybe im just coming into my own or something. The Saturn return last year impacted me in some big ways and maybe continues to do so.

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that's a good venus Rx transit them, maybe your good with scorpio energy or you can actually cockblock them.

in that case is probably a good moment for introspection in what you want that love life to be and some creative urges to express 🙂

"Even the Libra’s hot/cold behavior is not bothering me as much as it used to"

ah, you're the one having lesser feeling for the other person!!! you damn succubus 😆

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Oh my god !! Maybe this is true ! ALL my relationships ended at exactly the same period september the beginning of the end ... and ends forever on november LOL !!

blockquote> Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

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Posted by N_leo

Oh my god !! Maybe this is true ! ALL my relationships ended at exactly the same period september the beginning of the end ... and ends forever on november LOL !!

blockquote> Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

not every year we have a Rx in scorpio, that only happens once every 8 years.

nevertheless, that sound to bad aspects with every venus libra/scorpio transit, let just say this one is far worse for most of us.

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Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

"he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why?"

why would you ask this? allowing him to add insult to injury?

he is saying jump and you ask how high?

how long you 2 have been dating?

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Posted by neves

Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

What you described above - that's a typical case of infatuation...

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💯 want to know which one applies to your relationship? Fart, burp loudly, go to the bathroom in front of your S/O and find out real quick 😆

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Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

is the lucifer phase, what can you expect, worse 2 weeks of my entire year.... sigh

I've never heard of the "lucifer phase"...

For the last two weeks of the Venus retrograde period (Nov 3 to 16), Venus is Lucifer the morning star. This is the time when you are most likely to get involved in a ‘Dark Cupid’ or narcissistic affair. You will most definitely be thinking with your reproductive organs and not your brain, so do try to resist the sex if you can. You may get a series of red flags but still ignore them. A one night stand might during this time might seem harmless and disposable, but on a spiritual level, this goes far deeper. Your body is your temple so don’t give into the Luciferian psychic vampires. You might find yourself drained for many months afterwards. It’s simply not worth it.

Aphrodite’s bad points are often overlooked. She had a reputation for jealousy, revenge, possessiveness, and infidelity. The stress and misery caused by this behavior can attract unwanted hyperdimensional entities which feed of the drama. Sometimes we think we need a sexual fling because it has been a while, we just want to have fun and we feel we can take it or leave it. But with Venus retrograde, we might develop an obsessive attachment to the so-called “friend with benefits”, which we hadn’t bargained for. We could find we are kept in a very unpleasant psychic, sexual bondage.

So I would say proceed with caution with any new relationships. However Venus Retrograde doesn’t have to play out like ‘50 Shades’ of cringe, for like Mercury retrograde, Venus turned inward has its uses. Lyn Koiner says it “is an excellent time for buying antiques, flea market items and secondhand goods wherein you know the real worth and value of the item but the seller does not.” It’s also good for selling your own unwanted items.

I believe the first two-thirds of Venus Retrograde (Oct 6 to Nov 3) could be an ideal time for creativity that explores your inner world. Make music, art or poetry just for yourself and not for the public.

darkstarastrology.com/venus-retrograde

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This explains why I'm freaking out about my Aries friend moving away. I havent seen him in a year and I go hang out with him for a few hours b4 he moves away and I'm like freaking out and obsessing over him and planning to visit him, yet if I really missed him that bad I would have hung out with him more the past year and I know I'll probably never make that trip. Fuck venus retro.

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX

He made himself clear. You tried and it didn't work.

Seeing you willing to embarrass yourself over someone who clearly doesn't love you is only making him more turned off I'm sure.

No one wants to be with someone who doesn't love themselves enough to walk away when they aren't wanted.

Right! Like have some self respect. Groveling will never be respected.

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The thing is OP never mentioned nature of an argument!

I suppose she hurt him and feeling evaporate! It happens!

Arguments about squizzing toothpaste on a middle or personal insult are different shit though both called argument!

Which one was it?

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

When does it end?

Does venus retro mean that people feel things temporarily?

I think it ends on the 15th. Venus Retro basically just fucks up your love life. It's not wise to commit to any serious romantic affairs during this period. Exes come back, your feelings get tossed around if they're not strong enough for whoever you have those feelings, etc. Like during Mercury Retro, it's best to keep things light and casual and low key now.

Ok good to know. Dont make any sudden romantic moves until 16th.

Funny, I’ve had zero exes come back and zero romantic up/downs. This period has actually been one of the most calm times for me romantically. Even the Libra’s hot/cold behavior is not bothering me as much as it used to.

Maybe im just coming into my own or something. The Saturn return last year impacted me in some big ways and maybe continues to do so.

that's a good venus Rx transit them, maybe your good with scorpio energy or you can actually cockblock them.

in that case is probably a good moment for introspection in what you want that love life to be and some creative urges to express 🙂

"Even the Libra’s hot/cold behavior is not bothering me as much as it used to"

ah, you're the one having lesser feeling for the other person!!! you damn succubus 😆

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You’re right it does feel like a great time to review what i want in my romantic life.

Haha i feel

More loving!!

I actually dont like Scorpio energy when it comes to love but i got Mars in 8.

Maybe i AM the Scorpio energy everyone is scared of— 👀 lol i call the Libra mine whether he agrees or not lmao 😂 He doesn’t because what i consider u is none of ur business. But im also still on the market, it’s just an emotional expression, not a binding one if that makes sense.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

Posted by Endless

congratulation you have been screwed by our lovely venus retrograde of 2018, don't let the door hit your heart too hard on the way out.

run before it turn into a dark cupid stuff, or maybe it is and you're pretty much ruined, anyway it probably was a good run.

Right towards the end of Venus Retro too, lol

When does it end?

Does venus retro mean that people feel things temporarily?

I think it ends on the 15th. Venus Retro basically just fucks up your love life. It's not wise to commit to any serious romantic affairs during this period. Exes come back, your feelings get tossed around if they're not strong enough for whoever you have those feelings, etc. Like during Mercury Retro, it's best to keep things light and casual and low key now.

Ok good to know. Dont make any sudden romantic moves until 16th.

Funny, I’ve had zero exes come back and zero romantic up/downs. This period has actually been one of the most calm times for me romantically. Even the Libra’s hot/cold behavior is not bothering me as much as it used to.

Maybe im just coming into my own or something. The Saturn return last year impacted me in some big ways and maybe continues to do so.

I would wait at least a few days after Venus Retro is over because I feel like it takes time for things to settle down. And well... Lol I'm not sure if I'm excited about having my Saturn return. Aging got me like 😭

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Hmmm i got lots going on in 10th, sun and mc in Cap so it was something i was waiting for. Supposedly for Caps its a positive mive forward. I had put in the hard work and layed down the bricks so i was expecting good changes. ( not cuz i was calculating astro shit. I dont do that but just in general i tend to do the right things)

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Posted by elllle

It's crazy how men can be demonized by a few words on a one sided story.

You all have made him out to be a love bombing narcissistic sociopath from one post.

Because he is a Scorpio! And if she said I’ve seen bigger dicks...yep! He was supposed to be marrying her anyway. 😱

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Posted by neves

Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

What you described above - that's a typical case of infatuation...

Image Not Found

💯 want to know which one applies to your relationship? Fart, burp loudly, go to the bathroom in front of your S/O and find out real quick 😆

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I would like your advice

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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX

He made himself clear. You tried and it didn't work.

Seeing you willing to embarrass yourself over someone who clearly doesn't love you is only making him more turned off I'm sure.

No one wants to be with someone who doesn't love themselves enough to walk away when they aren't wanted.

I really want some of that Alicia advice

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So the nature of an argument will never be revealed? Because it’s not Scorpios fault? Or why? It’s not fair to shit over man without knowing if he had legit reason to leave?

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Posted by Gemitati

So the nature of an argument will never be revealed? Because it’s not Scorpios fault? Or why? It’s not fair to shit over man without knowing if he had legit reason to leave?

imma blame on him though, will be the 3rd scorpio dumping partners this month

between the last scorpio new moon, and the venus Rx in scorpio last month, they think they are invincible

and worse, they appear to be right!!!! 😱😱😱

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Endless

Posted by Gemitati

So the nature of an argument will never be revealed? Because it’s not Scorpios fault? Or why? It’s not fair to shit over man without knowing if he had legit reason to leave?

imma blame on him though, will be the 3rd scorpio dumping partners this month

between the last scorpio new moon, and the venus Rx in scorpio last month, they think they are invincible

and worse, they appear to be right!!!! 😱😱😱

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That always are! Lol

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11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by neves

Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

What you described above - that's a typical case of infatuation...

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💯 want to know which one applies to your relationship? Fart, burp loudly, go to the bathroom in front of your S/O and find out real quick 😆

I would like your advice

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How long were you guys together?

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7 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by neves

Posted by N_leo

I dont understand ... he was sooooo deeply in love with me ...he was fighting at the beginning to convince me that loving him means i’ll be treated as a queen and he did.. i dont think anyone showed love and constantly stated it the way he did .. i deeply loved him .. but then we had this fight and its our very first fight .. and none of us wanted to compromise in ... then he asked for a break .. i gave him this break .. then when he started talking to me i showed him my real feelings and that i want to do what ever it takes to fix it and that am sorry for what happend .. but he was cold and i sensed he doesnt care anymore ... and it was shocking because its our first fight he shouldnt be this cold from the first fight especially how he felt aboyt me !...

Then after me running after him for answers.. he said i just dont see you as my wife .. i asked why? Because what ever was missing or wrong i can fix it and will do what it takes to make you happy i promise !! He said i dont feel it anymore am sorry..

I dont understand.. what does “ i dont feel it means” .... also is it possible that someone who was crazy in love with you simply leaves you there im this coldest way ever !!!

Am I messing something .?!.. cuz i’m davistated .. and my mind isn’t processing this AT ALL !! <\3 3

What you described above - that's a typical case of infatuation...

Image Not Found

💯 want to know which one applies to your relationship? Fart, burp loudly, go to the bathroom in front of your S/O and find out real quick 😆

I would like your advice

How long were you guys together?

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No no. Not relationship advice. Advice on my eye contact topic I created

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@N_leo
8 Years

He was charitiesing my style that am classic “ heels” not casual “ sneakers” like all his female friends .. for example and then say am just joking and then do it again and again and again .... at thay same time i felt he got cold ... so i used to ask whats wrong cause he seem not to like me and i told him there is something off ... but with no luck ... then “ u wont understand this because i come from another culture so different than yours “ but i’ll state it this way ... it was obvious .. he changed his intentions... and he at some point not taking it seriously nor wanted to get married ... hence .. i wanted to talk .. at the beginning to see whats wrong but he always gets mad and reject any attempt to diacuss anything with me saying he dont like to talk about things i just need to accept and go on in this relationship... i accepted at first then it chocked me ... i feel like am forced and not happy and i don’t understand many things ... but no way on earth i’de leave him !! I wanted to give us time then fix it what ever was wrong ... i wanted him with all the good and the bad ... but then after him denied many times ... he finally confessed this which was beyond heart breaking for me.

Posted by Gemitati

The thing is OP never mentioned nature of an argument!

I suppose she hurt him and feeling evaporate! It happens!

Arguments about squizzing toothpaste on a middle or personal insult are different shit though both called argument!

Which one was it?

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@N_leo
8 Years

My time zone is different its 7 am now ... i just andwered you.

Posted by Gemitati

So the nature of an argument will never be revealed? Because it’s not Scorpios fault? Or why? It’s not fair to shit over man without knowing if he had legit reason to leave?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Will we ever find out? I don’t think so. She said some crap that no men would take lightly! And Scorpios aren’t to be shitting on! Just try baby!

Once and you are a history! Fuck! I miss his ass...never had one argument because we loved and respected each other...

Stupid people. Know who are you dealing with! You get what you deserve! Nothing!

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@PiscesLoverGirl
7 Years

Well my Scorpio did the same thing except I was pregnant. So at least you didn’t have it as bad. Just move on, once they feel like they are in the right it’s no coming back. They just move on. Even if you’re pregnant. It will hit him one day or maybe it won’t. Either way just do better and move on as best you can.

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@PiscesLoverGirl
7 Years

My ex also did this right when his ex left her husband, so maybe there is an ex back in the picture. Either way if he sees how hurt you are and that you need him, he will only use this to his advantage. Scorpios love having the upper hand.

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Impulsv

Tell me what the argument was about

she said something on the last page that the argument was about some cultural differences, that she is more a "heels" girl than a "sneakers" girl or what

it was vague

Edit: maybe she wanted to fix how she dresses? so if she starts to wear burka or something, she would be a wife material? I cant imagine any other cultural reason for mocking heels