WTF HAPPENED?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Lil.ladie.taurus on Wednesday, June 24, 2009 and has 12 replies.

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
19 Years500+ Posts

okay, so about 2 months ago i randomly started texting a phone number, n we ahve been talking everyday, msn, phone, texting facebook, everyway possible all day everyday....

i have a bf... and he knew this form the very beginning..... we chilled a few times, very friendly. nothing innapropraite.

but one day we were tlaking, and he snapped. we were just joking about a place he loves going and didnt wnat me to go there and i jokingly said i would anyway and take a leak on it to mark territory...(OBVIOUSLY JOKING)

and then he flipped and said it was so disgusting and he lost all interest and never wnats tot alk to me again.........

AND ITS BEEN 3 DAYS AND HES BEEN IGNORING ALL MY CALLS TEXTS AND MESSAGES.... WTF?!?!

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@Scorpion sting
18 Years500+ Posts

''He saw your true clolours and didnt like what he saw...pretty simple really!!!''

I agree.

as scorpio's, we have value for things, you have made it clear that you don't....

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
19 Years500+ Posts

no, im sorry. i will be who i am. i am not the typical female,and im not ashamed of it.

and u know wut, if i can put up with his diamond earrings and perfect hair and clothes and cologne even when hes WORKING HIS CONSTRUCTION JOB, then im pretty sure i can jokingly say im going to take a leak.

And even it is a turn off... which i could understand....i still dont think it is a good enuff reason to completely shut a person out of your life. thats just alil too extreme. but he is a spoiled little princess, so who knows.

well my cuzin gave me his number. it was jus an experiment. then we ended up really hitting it off.

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
19 Years500+ Posts

but its all over with now anyway. i did what any Taurus would do and pursue him. i tried for a week. he finally responded telling me to leave him alone.

so that's that.
once a Scorpio says goodbye. they mean it.

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

The clue is in your last but one message..where you said diamond earrings and perfect cologne working a construction job....he's probably having an identity crisis....he is trying to be someone he ASPIRES to be not someone he is...so your comment "leak" goes against his perfect image/world that he's living in..

What does he do in Construction? is he a bricklayer? if so, then I can see where you are coming from, however I know a Pisces who works as a technical project manager in the construction industury..he earns loads..so its wrong to be judgemental of ones career unless you fully know what he does. And you know how you taurus can be materialistic..

I know a cancer guy like that at work..god I hate him.

Anyways, plenty more Scorps in the sea...or rather on baron land..

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@rancid
17 Years

Perhaps he just got a real girlfriend...or maybe his existing girlfriend wasnt happy with this texting with a stranger girl!

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@TAC
17 YearsTaurus

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
okay, so about 2 months ago i randomly started texting a phone number, n we ahve been talking everyday, msn, phone, texting facebook, everyway possible all day everyday....

you cant make this shit up, this is why I love dxp...solid entertainment

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@IsabelScorpia
18 YearsScorpio

"then im pretty sure i can jokingly say im going to take a leak."

well, i'm sure it wasn't the fact that you said you would "take a leak" (although the choice of words certaintly did not help), but more about the fact that you said you would do so on a place that means something to him. he even said he didn't want you going, that indicates that it was a personal place, held importance to him. and you just basically desecrated it in his eyes by saying that. and to add to it you said you would do so to claim it as your "territory." c'mon. scorps are EXTREMELY possessive. in his eyes that was HIS place and he made it clear he didn't want to share by telling you not to go there. so many mistakes in just one sentence!! ;P haha. maybe he'll get over it but he will probably always remember that you "disrespected" him that way. just move on. he does sound high maintanence, but you shouldn't have said something like that. i know from personal experience that taurus' can come off as insensitive and tactless because of their "down-to-earth" attitude. it's just a different kind of perspective from scorps.