You guys are cheeky!

Probably not just a scorp thing..more men in general!

I had a one night stand over 20 years ago with this Scorp. One of my friends picked up on an old night club photo in my FB album and tagged him in it. Nek min nit...he's adding me as a friend on FB which I accepted and he starts messaging me and chatting. He happens to be working in a field which I was dealing with in my business so we swapped numbers and business email addresses so he could help out with something. We haven't been in contact personally through these contacts.

Anyway last night I was talking to him on FB, he suggested he should drive up my way to meet up with me (he lives 12 hours away) and I threw it out there...aren't you married? Yes he said but that doesn't matter, it didn't matter 20 years ago when you had a bf!!!

WTF, as if. I guess he's a trier! lol

So why can't un-attached men be just as forward?

He already has pussy at home, so he can say whatever he wants. His sure thing is on lock.

With single men who dont get pussy, theyre more inclined to lie to get the pussy.

Lol...from what I heard from the ladies... There are plenty of men who are forward but they get called assholes. It's puzzling to me wanting us to be forward but when we are we, the game starts.

"Perhaps you should be more tactful." Really? Then only to be accused of not being honest or hiding our intentions do to us we can't win either eat. Sorry, its the ladies that complicate things, not us.

so to us we can't win either way. Typos lol

Posted by DMV
He already has pussy at home, so he can say whatever he wants. His sure thing is on lock.

With single men who dont get pussy, theyre more inclined to lie to get the pussy.

The guys got businesses and money and without thinking would be prepared to put all that on the line for a bit on the side when he can get it at home! Talk about thinking with the little head!

I guess he felt he had nothing to lose by throwing it out there to see where my head was at, I mean he didn't even really try to get to know me apart from walk through my FB pics and posts.

The one Scorp I did go out with and was pretty attached to in a short time basically fell all over me and used that hypnotic stare to win me over, even if a single Scorp approached me now, think I'd run a mile...the combination is too explosive!

FB is now used like match.com. hes probably been making his rounds and it doesnt take much fluffing to pull girls who postp pics of themselves looking for "likes".

Yeah, you're right about FB being another dating site. That's why I only add people I know and even then you get them coming on to you saying how they have always had a crush blah blah blah..

You know anything goes these days with the internet, this place is also used to hook up. The guys and gals on here are always flirting with each other and PMing, getting personal. There's some weirdos here who convince themselves that there's more to it too and fall for woman on this site...seriously deluded!!! Stalkers!!

Hey Tiz 😉

I've never been very Tactful tbh....I always just get straight to the point and it always hurts...and I think I am being tactful because I stop and think before I say things!

I think I find honesty is the best policy.

Hypocrisy knows no bounds lol

Neither do stalkers!! FO already

Ooops there I go again...can't get the hang of being Tactful but then some people don't even listen when it is spelt out in BLACK & WHITE!!!

Lmao...whose on a high horse now.

Just so you are really clear on this matter. I don't like you and don't want you, you are not my friend and I would never even consider going out with you...PLUS we live in two different countries. STOP being PYSCHO...this is not a dating site for you to pick up anyone and STOP with the pretence of being such a perfect gentleman..you are merely a predictor looking for love in all the wrong places. And I say this for a few other ladies on this site that you have also had thoughts of and tried to get with!

My horse is way too high for you to reach!! Go away little boy!

Well keep on riding that high horse. It's also known that you come off that high horse too. But in typical fashion you try to have it both ways. Bitching about behavior that you participate in. You flirt on here and no one has to go through your post history to see it. You've have had infatuations in here which means you also have stalked.


Lastly, say what you will about me, yours and other opinions about me don't matter. But I at least have the honor and integrity not to associate with people that I've privately talked shit about and don't like.

Comes from the crazy predators that use this site and prey on people that are vulnerable...you have to watch the ones that pretend to be the good/perfect gentlemen 😉

Wolf in sheeps clothing but then he was outed a few times by some of the guys on here and funnily enough I defended him as well as a few others here.

Learnt fast enough!

Lmao. Gotta watch those that flirt to get attention after a break up to boost their confidence then pretend to be "turned off" by the attention they get in PMs only to gripe about publicly what everyone does while doing the same thing. Real users those types.

Strange behavior to see someone throw dirt on the horse they're riding.

Also, if I was such a wolf why did you talk to me for damn near a year? Maybe because i wasn't as bad as you'd like to portray? Like I said before you don't see me associating with those I don't like on here.

Posted by geminicandle
Hmmm, maybe "sweethearts" isn't so sweet after all!
Didn't you have a bf or a husband sweetheart? I swear you posted about him.
Why are you talking to other men when you are not even single? And it shows your lady mannerism or lack of, to talk about Beautiful Soul the way you do now:/

And for the record, I talk to Beautiful Soul; he is the nicest guy on here for sure and not stalker at all. There is nothing that girls need to be aware of, maybe just that he is super nice and charmy for sure, which is why you talk to him too😉

Thank you for your comments GC. I admire your courage but I don't want you to get involved. This is between me and her. No need to make a huge mess out of this.

Yes, just what he wants you to believe...

I'm sure he'll tell you his side of the story if you are mates, he twisted around a few stories here of other DXPers...we were once friends until I realised he had a wild imagination and was deluding himself.

And for the record, I blocked him when he started harassing me. First person I've ever blocked. So I have no idea what he has to say, nor do I care!

Humorous. It's a recurring theme with you. Look at your words. You yourself said above that you're riding a high horse. Others have seen you flirt in various threads only to come here and knock people for doing it lol. It's even funny that you knocked the Scorp in you're original post for flirting when you recently flirted with a person on here who's married. But I'm a stalker lol. Nope not me. If you blocked me, why am I able to respond on this thread? Wouldn't you always want to protect yourself against a wolf? Which only means that I'm not the stalker you say I am and you never blocked me like you claim.

Like I said, call me what you want but your words show you who are.

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Posted by geminicandle
Hmmm, maybe "sweethearts" isn't so sweet after all!
Didn't you have a bf or a husband sweetheart? I swear you posted about him.
Why are you talking to other men when you are not even single? And it shows your lady mannerism or lack of, to talk about Beautiful Soul the way you do now:/

And for the record, I talk to Beautiful Soul; he is the nicest guy on here for sure and not stalker at all. There is nothing that girls need to be aware of, maybe just that he is super nice and charmy for sure, which is why you talk to him too😉

Thank you for your comments GC. I admire your courage but I don't want you to get involved. This is between me and her. No need to make a huge mess out of this.

Okay, no problem. I just wanted others to know that you are not a harassing stalker. You defended me plenty of times too, and I am only being a friend to you. I don't like to see people attack my friends.

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I appreciate the gesture and understand. Thank you for all you've done. But honestly her words are baseless because people have called me fake before but nobody can say I'm a stalker.

I guess it's true when they say men don't grow up, I was a child still way back then. Most women grow through having a marriage and children of their own, especially when they have children that they want to lead by example.

He threw it out there quite quickly but through this site I have learnt to nip it in the butt immediately or you end up in a mess as you've seen!! Doesn't pay to be "sweet" to everyone 😛

If there is one lesson to be learnt in all this is to pay attention to the "red flags" and gut feeling.

All too many times in hindsight I had these feelings and warnings but I played them down...convinced myself that it's harmless.

Even telling this guy straight up and quite bluntly, he persists on contacting me. Looks like the only action is to ignore!

It's strange but once they get things in their mind they are persistent, even though it's not honourable or even realistic!