pirophobia
@pirophobia
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All the red flags on this Taurus, but I can't seem to give up
“However, I've held back certain flirtations and compliments because he has a girlfriend, but he doesn't seem to care. We ended up having sex and unfortunately, it was amazing.”
Do you care?
Do you care?
Wtf. No. You can't win this with keeping up having sex with him and being available whenever he wants.. he is in a relationship. Karma's a bitch. Time to retreat, that's the only way of figuring out his true intentions. The bull won't move, why should he?
"Regardless of his cheating actions and closed off personality, I still genuinely think he is really into me"
i bet his girlfriend thinks he is really into to her as well.
stop or keep going, it really depends on what your aim is.
is it to keep having sex with guy? then keep doing it. if you can live with the girlfriend's eventual emotional breakdown that you are playing a role in creating even better.
if you think that there is more to this than just sex and that you've found an amazing guy then i predict you are setting yourself up for a terrible fall. he can either stick with her or dump her to be with you, either way he'll still be a complete cock at the end of the day.
you also have to come to a decision about the person you want to be. any answer is fine here, ultimately, you're the one who will have to live with yourself.
i bet his girlfriend thinks he is really into to her as well.
stop or keep going, it really depends on what your aim is.
is it to keep having sex with guy? then keep doing it. if you can live with the girlfriend's eventual emotional breakdown that you are playing a role in creating even better.
if you think that there is more to this than just sex and that you've found an amazing guy then i predict you are setting yourself up for a terrible fall. he can either stick with her or dump her to be with you, either way he'll still be a complete cock at the end of the day.
you also have to come to a decision about the person you want to be. any answer is fine here, ultimately, you're the one who will have to live with yourself.
there is nothing left to say ...
See this is why I keep saying from the first day I joined to stay away from Taurus men. They always gotta have some form of harem. Aqua and Taurus do not work. Just stop that shit ok. Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit. It might be in his nature to be courteous but he honestly doesn't give a shit. Accept that and move on. This is all overlooking the ridiculous side bitch category who's becoming emotional you've put yourself in.
If you're gonna play the bad part, play it till the end. Continue the affair, do whatever you feel like, but let the poor girl know. Once shit goes down, you'll find out who he 'likes better'. And until then if youre smart enough, kick him to the curb. You deserve better. Dont let the good d!cking mess with your mind.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by pirophobia"but I can't quite seem to let him go yet"... because you are a "dickmatised hoe" who is a part of his already growing "harem"...
Hi! I'm new to this forum but astrology has interested me for some time. Whenever I like someone I try to figure out what their astrology chart is because it can sometimes give me a hint as to how they are as a person.
To my story: So, I met this Taurus three weeks ago now and we've hit things off insanely well. He's a Taurus with a Virgo moon (if I did his astrology chart correctly) and I'm an Aquarius with a Cancer moon. I am very easy to open up to for most people and tend to be very relaxed and non-judgmental usually so he began telling me about all the issues in his life. We texted for several days straight, him being very responsive and energetic initially but then slowed down as soon as I returned interest a bit. That isn't surprising, it's kind of a Taurus thing. However, I've held back certain flirtations and compliments because he has a girlfriend, but he doesn't seem to care. We ended up having sex and unfortunately, it was amazing. We were even able to joke and hang out after and he made it very clear that he didn't want it to seem like he was using me for just that.
Since, the first time, we have had sex on a handful of occasions, and the more we did the more conflicted I felt. It became this ritual of him kissing me and charming his way further. Me being lonely, would eventually give in. I've been honest with him that I don't really feel comfortable with the situation, and explained that I'm not asking him to dump his girlfriend to date me, because we've only known each other for a while; but that I didn't want to get hurt or hurt her. He's been not very responsive on that front, but when he is it's sincere. At first he said he wasn't the good type to date because he would be leaving the country after joining the military. Then he said he wanted to test the waters and didn't really know me well. I'm aware that Taurus' tend to not like exposing their emotions to someone so that they can have the upper hand in that kind of situation, but I also know I'm definitely being naive and blindly hopeful.
Regardless of his cheating actions and closed off personality, I still genuinely think he is really into me and is not using me for the sex or a form of escape from the crumbling relationship with his girlfriend. We've talked on the phone for hours at a time with him initiating the call just cause and never speaking sexually. I have caught him looking at me in a way that seems to be more than physical desire.
To top it off, we hung out two days ago and made plans to see each other as of tomorrow. He hasn't responded to me through text although I only tried to get in contact with him today just once. I'm thinking it's because of the fact that I told him I can't keep having sex with him or else I'll develop feelings which we both know I already have. Perhaps it's him needing space after me being emotional one too many times or he is just busy?
All in all, I know I'm making a mistake in a lot of ways, and I should simply stop this whole scenario based on principle but I can't quite seem to let him go yet.click to expand
lmao dickmastised
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by SassyKiwi" Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit." and even Gemini's I would put in this category.
See this is why I keep saying from the first day I joined to stay away from Taurus men. They always gotta have some form of harem. Aqua and Taurus do not work. Just stop that shit ok. Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit. It might be in his nature to be courteous but he honestly doesn't give a shit. Accept that and move on. This is all overlooking the ridiculous side bitch category who's becoming emotional you've put yourself in.
In the beginning it feels like the air signs have the "upper hand" in the love stakes but as time moves on, they fall deep and HARD for the Taurus energy... by that time, the Taurus is ready, willing and able to cut their heads off..... GONE...
BYE BYE air signs....
They are left with unbearable deep traumatic wounds and the Taurus has totally switched off into not feeling a damn thing.
Taurus knows how to switch it on and off as and when they like....
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How does this fold out for the Taurus men when they're older and considering settling down? I find it hard to believe they'll easily be able to change their ways... they crack eventually in a marriage? I can't see them doing well monogamous long term.
People who want real relationships need to hold off on sex until there's some genuine promise of committment. That includes holding off until the other person breaks up with their current BF/GF. That means maybe never having sex and just moving on.
I blows my mind how many people act like stupid animals. Horny? Pornhub has tons of shit you can watch. As the old saying goes: Masturbation keeps you from fucking the wrong person.
I blows my mind how many people act like stupid animals. Horny? Pornhub has tons of shit you can watch. As the old saying goes: Masturbation keeps you from fucking the wrong person.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by SassyKiwi" Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit." and even Gemini's I would put in this category.
See this is why I keep saying from the first day I joined to stay away from Taurus men. They always gotta have some form of harem. Aqua and Taurus do not work. Just stop that shit ok. Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit. It might be in his nature to be courteous but he honestly doesn't give a shit. Accept that and move on. This is all overlooking the ridiculous side bitch category who's becoming emotional you've put yourself in.
In the beginning it feels like the air signs have the "upper hand" in the love stakes but as time moves on, they fall deep and HARD for the Taurus energy... by that time, the Taurus is ready, willing and able to cut their heads off..... GONE...
BYE BYE air signs....
They are left with unbearable deep traumatic wounds and the Taurus has totally switched off into not feeling a damn thing.
Taurus knows how to switch it on and off as and when they like....
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You were married to an Aqua right?
I don't think they are like that with all air signs..
But she's helping this dude cheat.. there's no way he gives a damn about her because of that fact.
All the sound advice has been given but I'm just here to show my appreciation for:
DICKMATISED
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I can't wait to use this in RL.
DICKMATISED
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I can't wait to use this in RL.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Oh of course! I'll even do the " " like a proper academic.Posted by VampScorpOnly is you use my "name" after it...lol
All the sound advice has been given but I'm just here to show my appreciation for:
DICKMATISED
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I can't wait to use this in RL.click to expand
@Pirophobia,
What I am sensing from you is that you're attempting to play both sides of the fence, creating gray areas to indicate a possible love triangle. You're VERY comfortable with the situation you're in, you're just not comfortable with the role that you're playing. THAT is your dilema. You don't feel sorry for his girlfriend, you want her title, her status, and all the astrological benefts that you read about being linked to a Taurus.
Here is the reality of being with a Bull. This is a 'fixed' conventional sign.
There is no such thing as the Aqua's go with the flow motto when it comes to a Bull.
Just compartmentalization stemming from our innermost desires to our most basic conventional needs.
He desires you, but he doesn't need you.
How this Bull starts out is EXACTLY how he plans to keep out.
Is his current relationship crumbling?
This could be a possibility
Will he continue to deal with you if this happens?
...Could also be a possibility.
However, because there are no gray areas with a Bull, if you met him cheating, he will continue to cheat.
Sure, you may get all the other great benefits of being with a Bull, unfortunately, cheating will be something that will accompany those compensating traits.
Is this what you want?
What I am sensing from you is that you're attempting to play both sides of the fence, creating gray areas to indicate a possible love triangle. You're VERY comfortable with the situation you're in, you're just not comfortable with the role that you're playing. THAT is your dilema. You don't feel sorry for his girlfriend, you want her title, her status, and all the astrological benefts that you read about being linked to a Taurus.
Here is the reality of being with a Bull. This is a 'fixed' conventional sign.
There is no such thing as the Aqua's go with the flow motto when it comes to a Bull.
Just compartmentalization stemming from our innermost desires to our most basic conventional needs.
He desires you, but he doesn't need you.
How this Bull starts out is EXACTLY how he plans to keep out.
Is his current relationship crumbling?
This could be a possibility
Will he continue to deal with you if this happens?
...Could also be a possibility.
However, because there are no gray areas with a Bull, if you met him cheating, he will continue to cheat.
Sure, you may get all the other great benefits of being with a Bull, unfortunately, cheating will be something that will accompany those compensating traits.
Is this what you want?
Thanks....🙂
Sounds like every Taurus except one was a complete asshole to you .... maybe that should speak more volumes to than anything else.
They all say they refuse to change, so that means they're just assholes in general, all the time. Also, it means that even they know they are wrong, and in the wrong, and have the obligation to change ... they said that they refuse. think about the long and hard.
Is that the type of person you want to be with?
Here's a Fishes point of view .......
Posted by pirophobia
1. I met this Taurus three weeks ago
2. has a girlfriend, but he doesn't seem to care. We ended up having sex
3. unfortunately, it was amazing. We were even able to joke and hang out after and he made it very clear that he didn't want it to seem like he was using me for just that.
4. I've been honest with him that I don't really feel comfortable with the situation, and explained that I'm not asking him to dump his girlfriend to date me, because we've only known each other for a while; but that I didn't want to get hurt or hurt her.
5. I also know I'm definitely being naive and blindly hopeful.
6. Regardless of his cheating actions
7. .... because of the fact that I told him I can't keep having sex with him or else I'll develop feelings which we both know I already have.
8. Perhaps it's him needing space after me being emotional one too many times or he is just busy?
1. three weeks is barely enough time to even say a proper hello. Seems you have very little emotional control over yourself (see #8 above) if you've become this attached to a person in 3 weeks. Perhaps what you should be thinking about is why you fell so easily over someone you've only just met.
2. you don't seem to care either. It appears to me that you are putting all blame on him for not caring, when in reality, you are equally guilty of cheating by being with a taken man. Perhaps you need to reconsider the part you are playing, to realize you are guilty of doing what you accuse him of.
3. He can laugh as much as he wants, and you can joke and laugh all you want ... but, he IS using you for sex. don't be so gullible. Any/all people who are partnered and have sex with you ARE using you period.
4. yet, telling him that you will withhold the goods from him if he doesn't comply IS conveying to him that you want him to break up with her to be with you. You're playing a game here and telling yourself that you're not. Or maybe you do know that you're trying to manipulate him and merely trying to get other people to believe you're not so you can feel better about yourself. Who knows what your justification is .... but, what we do know that you ARE giving him an ultimatum and YOU ARE USING SEX to get it.
5. You're not being naïve ... you sound tricky. You don't appear blind either. Maybe a little stupid since you have no clue that man who cheats with you, will cheat on you - so, in your puny mind you think he's a catch, when in reality, he's a scumbag. I would call that blind, I would call it dumb.
6. see #2 in your quote and #2 in my answer. You are only blaming him and accusing him of being a cheater ... yet, you are equally participating in cheating WITH him. You having cheating ways about you, and don't seem to mind.
7. see #4 ..... here again you attempt to use sex against him, by means of withholding it from him with a promise of pussy if only he becomes single for you. Manipulating is written all over that. This also adds as proof to the conclusion that you have natural instincts to cheat, since you using sex as a tool and not taking it seriously with a loving partner. Which of course after 3 weeks, there's no partnership here in the first place.
8. Yet, this one is the one that really boggles my mind. You're being so emotional with him that even you believe you may have done one too many times. Seriously? You have so much emotional baggage you're carrying around that you're just busting at the seams with it having to dump your shit onto a guy who just said hello to you 3 weeks ago? You don't even fucking know each other yet ... but, here you are drowning this poor guy in tons of emotional shit? Just wow.
All in all, my counsel for you would be to pull away and not date anyone until you've sort your shit out, gained some security and independence. But most of all, learn to dump your emotional baggage elsewhere so it doesn't contaminate the next person you are interested in. Maybe yoga or meditations.
2. you don't seem to care either. It appears to me that you are putting all blame on him for not caring, when in reality, you are equally guilty of cheating by being with a taken man. Perhaps you need to reconsider the part you are playing, to realize you are guilty of doing what you accuse him of.
3. He can laugh as much as he wants, and you can joke and laugh all you want ... but, he IS using you for sex. don't be so gullible. Any/all people who are partnered and have sex with you ARE using you period.
4. yet, telling him that you will withhold the goods from him if he doesn't comply IS conveying to him that you want him to break up with her to be with you. You're playing a game here and telling yourself that you're not. Or maybe you do know that you're trying to manipulate him and merely trying to get other people to believe you're not so you can feel better about yourself. Who knows what your justification is .... but, what we do know that you ARE giving him an ultimatum and YOU ARE USING SEX to get it.
5. You're not being naïve ... you sound tricky. You don't appear blind either. Maybe a little stupid since you have no clue that man who cheats with you, will cheat on you - so, in your puny mind you think he's a catch, when in reality, he's a scumbag. I would call that blind, I would call it dumb.
6. see #2 in your quote and #2 in my answer. You are only blaming him and accusing him of being a cheater ... yet, you are equally participating in cheating WITH him. You having cheating ways about you, and don't seem to mind.
7. see #4 ..... here again you attempt to use sex against him, by means of withholding it from him with a promise of pussy if only he becomes single for you. Manipulating is written all over that. This also adds as proof to the conclusion that you have natural instincts to cheat, since you using sex as a tool and not taking it seriously with a loving partner. Which of course after 3 weeks, there's no partnership here in the first place.
8. Yet, this one is the one that really boggles my mind. You're being so emotional with him that even you believe you may have done one too many times. Seriously? You have so much emotional baggage you're carrying around that you're just busting at the seams with it having to dump your shit onto a guy who just said hello to you 3 weeks ago? You don't even fucking know each other yet ... but, here you are drowning this poor guy in tons of emotional shit? Just wow.
All in all, my counsel for you would be to pull away and not date anyone until you've sort your shit out, gained some security and independence. But most of all, learn to dump your emotional baggage elsewhere so it doesn't contaminate the next person you are interested in. Maybe yoga or meditations.
Posted by P-AngelDone and dusted!
1. three weeks is barely enough time to even say a proper hello. Seems you have very little emotional control over yourself (see #8 above) if you've become this attached to a person in 3 weeks. Perhaps what you should be thinking about is why you fell so easily over someone you've only just met.
2. you don't seem to care either. It appears to me that you are putting all blame on him for not caring, when in reality, you are equally guilty of cheating by being with a taken man. Perhaps you need to reconsider the part you are playing, to realize you are guilty of doing what you accuse him of.
3. He can laugh as much as he wants, and you can joke and laugh all you want ... but, he IS using you for sex. don't be so gullible. Any/all people who are partnered and have sex with you ARE using you period.
4. yet, telling him that you will withhold the goods from him if he doesn't comply IS conveying to him that you want him to break up with her to be with you. You're playing a game here and telling yourself that you're not. Or maybe you do know that you're trying to manipulate him and merely trying to get other people to believe you're not so you can feel better about yourself. Who knows what your justification is .... but, what we do know that you ARE giving him an ultimatum and YOU ARE USING SEX to get it.
5. You're not being naïve ... you sound tricky. You don't appear blind either. Maybe a little stupid since you have no clue that man who cheats with you, will cheat on you - so, in your puny mind you think he's a catch, when in reality, he's a scumbag. I would call that blind, I would call it dumb.
6. see #2 in your quote and #2 in my answer. You are only blaming him and accusing him of being a cheater ... yet, you are equally participating in cheating WITH him. You having cheating ways about you, and don't seem to mind.
7. see #4 ..... here again you attempt to use sex against him, by means of withholding it from him with a promise of pussy if only he becomes single for you. Manipulating is written all over that. This also adds as proof to the conclusion that you have natural instincts to cheat, since you using sex as a tool and not taking it seriously with a loving partner. Which of course after 3 weeks, there's no partnership here in the first place.
8. Yet, this one is the one that really boggles my mind. You're being so emotional with him that even you believe you may have done one too many times. Seriously? You have so much emotional baggage you're carrying around that you're just busting at the seams with it having to dump your shit onto a guy who just said hello to you 3 weeks ago? You don't even fucking know each other yet ... but, here you are drowning this poor guy in tons of emotional shit? Just wow.
All in all, my counsel for you would be to pull away and not date anyone until you've sort your shit out, gained some security and independence. But most of all, learn to dump your emotional baggage elsewhere so it doesn't contaminate the next person you are interested in. Maybe yoga or meditations.
Nothing I can say to help .. u will continue to sleep with him & it will go nowhere .. I don't condone sleeping with other ppls significant others
Posted by P-Angel
1. three weeks is barely enough time to even say a proper hello. Seems you have very little emotional control over yourself (see #8 above) if you've become this attached to a person in 3 weeks. Perhaps what you should be thinking about is why you fell so easily over someone you've only just met.
2. you don't seem to care either. It appears to me that you are putting all blame on him for not caring, when in reality, you are equally guilty of cheating by being with a taken man. Perhaps you need to reconsider the part you are playing, to realize you are guilty of doing what you accuse him of.
3. He can laugh as much as he wants, and you can joke and laugh all you want ... but, he IS using you for sex. don't be so gullible. Any/all people who are partnered and have sex with you ARE using you period.
4. yet, telling him that you will withhold the goods from him if he doesn't comply IS conveying to him that you want him to break up with her to be with you. You're playing a game here and telling yourself that you're not. Or maybe you do know that you're trying to manipulate him and merely trying to get other people to believe you're not so you can feel better about yourself. Who knows what your justification is .... but, what we do know that you ARE giving him an ultimatum and YOU ARE USING SEX to get it.
5. You're not being naïve ... you sound tricky. You don't appear blind either. Maybe a little stupid since you have no clue that man who cheats with you, will cheat on you - so, in your puny mind you think he's a catch, when in reality, he's a scumbag. I would call that blind, I would call it dumb.
6. see #2 in your quote and #2 in my answer. You are only blaming him and accusing him of being a cheater ... yet, you are equally participating in cheating WITH him. You having cheating ways about you, and don't seem to mind.
7. see #4 ..... here again you attempt to use sex against him, by means of withholding it from him with a promise of pussy if only he becomes single for you. Manipulating is written all over that. This also adds as proof to the conclusion that you have natural instincts to cheat, since you using sex as a tool and not taking it seriously with a loving partner. Which of course after 3 weeks, there's no partnership here in the first place.
8. Yet, this one is the one that really boggles my mind. You're being so emotional with him that even you believe you may have done one too many times. Seriously? You have so much emotional baggage you're carrying around that you're just busting at the seams with it having to dump your shit onto a guy who just said hello to you 3 weeks ago? You don't even fucking know each other yet ... but, here you are drowning this poor guy in tons of emotional shit? Just wow.
All in all, my counsel for you would be to pull away and not date anyone until you've sort your shit out, gained some security and independence. But most of all, learn to dump your emotional baggage elsewhere so it doesn't contaminate the next person you are interested in. Maybe yoga or meditations.
The part I would like to second-it's all true, but one part in particular can't be emphasized enough-is that three weeks is not enough time to know if you love someone.
You can think you're in love, but you don't know that person from a hole in the wall. You don't really love that person because you don't really know that person. It takes a long time. Months at the soonest, but it can take much longer before you get a good handle on someone. And some people hide shit and you don't find out about some important things for a very long time, if ever.
I read posts on here about people knowing each other for a month, sleeping together almost immediately and taking vacations together. Whenever they try next-level shit with this person they hardly know, it doesn't work out. The vacation was a disaster. He was hot-and-cold with her. All they did was fight. Then the OP wants to know if the dude is just acting like a typical Scorpio or whatever. It's a fucking joke.
It isn't even safe to do shit like that. Dude could be a rapist. He could be anything. I'm a guy and I wouldn't take a trip with some girl I knew for a month. Things happen to guys, too. Women can be nuts.
If you want to bang randoms, fine. But if you want an exclusive relationship, don't bitch and moan to other people when you exercised poor judgment and now you're eating it. Either keep your pants on while you get to truly know someone, or jump right in with a clear understanding of the consequences and suck it up.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You just described my Taurus friend. He cheats all the time, but as soon as the side chick gets too close or starts demanding more time, he leaves them behind. Then finds another...what they started as is what he wants them to stay.Posted by jane84Yes in my youth. My descendent sign is aqua .Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by SassyKiwi" Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit." and even Gemini's I would put in this category.
See this is why I keep saying from the first day I joined to stay away from Taurus men. They always gotta have some form of harem. Aqua and Taurus do not work. Just stop that shit ok. Aquas end up falling harder than the Taurus who literally does not give a shit. It might be in his nature to be courteous but he honestly doesn't give a shit. Accept that and move on. This is all overlooking the ridiculous side bitch category who's becoming emotional you've put yourself in.
In the beginning it feels like the air signs have the "upper hand" in the love stakes but as time moves on, they fall deep and HARD for the Taurus energy... by that time, the Taurus is ready, willing and able to cut their heads off..... GONE...
BYE BYE air signs....
They are left with unbearable deep traumatic wounds and the Taurus has totally switched off into not feeling a damn thing.
Taurus knows how to switch it on and off as and when they like....
You were married to an Aqua right?
I don't think they are like that with all air signs..
But she's helping this dude cheat.. there's no way he gives a damn about her because of that fact.
People fall under the misconception that Taurus is sooooooo into relationships and stability blah blah blah , loyalty etc. and think that once they get into "something" with us whether it is sex etc. they can change us and that is when the tables turn on them.
We are a FIXED sign. We will not change. We will stick to the ORIGINAL agreement so have your paperwork ready to sign in blood before you become dickmatised!
We are loyal to those who are loyal to us.. a "you scratch my back and I will scratch your back mentally" afterall, the scales have to balance...
Cheating is not based on a sun sign and should never be...
If a woman starts out with a Taurus as just sex it will rarely change no matter how good the sex is.. but the judgment is this, sure he may cheat on his gf with the OP but he will NEVER see the OP anything other than sex and will quickly discard her when he becomes bored, she becomes too demanding or expects him to change....click to expand
But yes, I do agree that cheating is not a sun sign thing. Although I personally know many Taurus who cheat. I don't see any sign as a "loyal" sign anymore. Just loyal people vs. those who are not.
No one is an angel in this damn thread. However, female Tauruses tend to be prideful on certain things in life hence the reaction/replies you're getting on this thread. I can't speak on Taurus males good or bad because I've never dated one.
Secondly, 99% of the time when you're the "other woman", not only are you going to get snarls in here but the few people that are mature enough to just give you decent advice instead of gutter juice judgement with a hint of one or two with serious mental psycho issues, are being as honest as possible with you based on either life experience or etc.
My honest advice coming from years of life experience with a few dark skeletons in my closet from my past is to, never give your heart, time and body to someone who is going to put you in 2nd place & never try break a happy home. Whether that home is truly happy or not, it is not your place to go in and destroy what they built before you came into the picture. The person you slept with is not a man, he is a boy who has no respect for himself, his woman or you. Guys like that will try to apologize and say they let their greed get the best of them. Before you go and waste months of your life in a spiraling cycle of bs and drama, end it now while lust hasn't turned into "love" yet. If someone really wants to be with you, they will do so, the right way. You wouldn't like it if some chick came into your man's life and slept with him knowing he was in a relationship with you right? So put yourself in her place. Whether she's a good gf or not, at the end of the day, that scumbag currently belongs to her, not you. So step off something you don't belong in.
No matter what we say, you're the one that has to make a final decision in what truly makes you happy. But think of it like this, how many side chicks actually got their happy endings? Little to none. And for the ones that did, how many of those got played in the end because the same thing happened to them in return? Most.
P.S. Ladies, males of different signs cheat, not just Taurus males. Just saying.
Secondly, 99% of the time when you're the "other woman", not only are you going to get snarls in here but the few people that are mature enough to just give you decent advice instead of gutter juice judgement with a hint of one or two with serious mental psycho issues, are being as honest as possible with you based on either life experience or etc.
My honest advice coming from years of life experience with a few dark skeletons in my closet from my past is to, never give your heart, time and body to someone who is going to put you in 2nd place & never try break a happy home. Whether that home is truly happy or not, it is not your place to go in and destroy what they built before you came into the picture. The person you slept with is not a man, he is a boy who has no respect for himself, his woman or you. Guys like that will try to apologize and say they let their greed get the best of them. Before you go and waste months of your life in a spiraling cycle of bs and drama, end it now while lust hasn't turned into "love" yet. If someone really wants to be with you, they will do so, the right way. You wouldn't like it if some chick came into your man's life and slept with him knowing he was in a relationship with you right? So put yourself in her place. Whether she's a good gf or not, at the end of the day, that scumbag currently belongs to her, not you. So step off something you don't belong in.
No matter what we say, you're the one that has to make a final decision in what truly makes you happy. But think of it like this, how many side chicks actually got their happy endings? Little to none. And for the ones that did, how many of those got played in the end because the same thing happened to them in return? Most.
P.S. Ladies, males of different signs cheat, not just Taurus males. Just saying.
I stand by every single judgment I've passed.
OP is playing a dirty game and wants reassurance about the guy she's playing dirty games with. Cry me a river. The only thing she can do to right the ship is break it off with him and not go back to him unless and until he leaves his girlfriend. Even then, I'm not sure how she could ever trust the guy. Users are great liars.
I have zero respect for people who lack self-control.
Some of the posts I read here, part of me wonders if they're even real stories or just bs written by people who are bored. Hard to believe that people wouldn't anticipate the responses they get or know the answers already.
OP is playing a dirty game and wants reassurance about the guy she's playing dirty games with. Cry me a river. The only thing she can do to right the ship is break it off with him and not go back to him unless and until he leaves his girlfriend. Even then, I'm not sure how she could ever trust the guy. Users are great liars.
I have zero respect for people who lack self-control.
Some of the posts I read here, part of me wonders if they're even real stories or just bs written by people who are bored. Hard to believe that people wouldn't anticipate the responses they get or know the answers already.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You're not perfect, I'm not perfect, no one on DXP is perfect. One day we will all be in a situation where we once said, "that'll never happen to me", If I'm ever in a situation no matter what it is and I seek help or just advice; good or bad, I would want my fellow human brother or sister to offer the smallest helping hand of words or etc, not treat me like a piece of sh*t. That is what is wrong with this world, too much toxicity. There's intellectual ways to give advice without shaming someone.Posted by SugarandSpunkBy the way, the OP does not need to be treated with "kitten gloves"..
No one is an angel in this damn thread. However, female Tauruses tend to be prideful on certain things in life hence the reaction/replies you're getting on this thread. I can't speak on Taurus males good or bad because I've never dated one.
Secondly, 99% of the time when you're the "other woman", not only are you going to get snarls in here but the few people that are mature enough to just give you decent advice instead of gutter juice judgement with a hint of one or two with serious mental psycho issues, are being as honest as possible with you based on either life experience or etc.
My honest advice coming from years of life experience with a few dark skeletons in my closet from my past is to, never give your heart, time and body to someone who is going to put you in 2nd place & never try break a happy home. Whether that home is truly happy or not, it is not your place to go in and destroy what they built before you came into the picture. The person you slept with is not a man, he is a boy who has no respect for himself, his woman or you. Guys like that will try to apologize and say they let their greed get the best of them. Before you go and waste months of your life in a spiraling cycle of bs and drama, end it now while lust hasn't turned into "love" yet. If someone really wants to be with you, they will do so, the right way. You wouldn't like it if some chick came into your man's life and slept with him knowing he was in a relationship with you right? So put yourself in her place. Whether she's a good gf or not, at the end of the day, that scumbag currently belongs to her, not you. So step off something you don't belong in.
No matter what we say, you're the one that has to make a final decision in what truly makes you happy. But think of it like this, how many side chicks actually got their happy endings? Little to none. And for the ones that did, how many of those got played in the end because the same thing happened to them in return? Most.
P.S. Ladies, males of different signs cheat, not just Taurus males. Just saying.
She did not just fall on his dick with her eyes open... Her eyes were wide open and she knew EXACTLY what she was doing. If the Taurus had given in to his demands she would have gladly have him throw his gf to one side without batting an eye lid..
In fact the OP is a dirty tramp just lie the scumbag she is dickmatised by... they probably deserve each other. But is the gf I feel sorry for, but karma is a bitch and she and dickhead will get their just deserts...click to expand
I used to be just like you when I was younger, thinking I was better than everyone else and felt like I had the right to call people wh*res, etc and think the majority was beneath me for not sharing the same thoughts and beliefs as me. It's called being judgemental. Then I grew up and grew older and wiser. I'm not going to call someone I don't know toxic names and verbally stone them. I don't know their history, the battles/wars they go through, etc. So if insulting people and belittling people helps you sleep better at night, then do you boo boo and continue with foaming sh*t out your mouth and don't let me stop your flow. At the end of the day, she knows what she did is wrong. If she wants to fail, let her. Who are we to stop her?
*brushes shoulders off*
Posted by SugarandSpunk
then do you boo boo and continue with foaming sh*t out your mouth and don't let me stop your flow.
Then practice what you just preached and shut the fuck up.
You are here judging another person for how they are communicating when nobody asked for your approval. You just impose yourself onto that person with your critical and judgmental bullshit ..... essentially making a fucking hypocrite out of yourself.
Furthermore, since you arrogantly brushed off your shoulder, this means that you're too stupid to even realize the fool you made out of yourself by doing exactly what you scolded a person for.
So, let's see if you can actually have honor and control yourself and act upon what is quoted above.
Posted by P-AngelFirst of all sweetie, relax & slow your role. From your bio, I see you're older than me, so I'll respect my elders on this one & keep it short & sweet. Esp since this is a forum that I enjoy being on during my spare time.Posted by SugarandSpunk
then do you boo boo and continue with foaming sh*t out your mouth and don't let me stop your flow.
Then practice what you just preached and shut the fuck up.
You are here judging another person for how they are communicating when nobody asked for your approval. You just impose yourself onto that person with your critical and judgmental bullshit ..... essentially making a fucking hypocrite out of yourself.
Furthermore, since you arrogantly brushed off your shoulder, this means that you're too stupid to even realize the fool you made out of yourself by doing exactly what you scolded a person for.
So, let's see if you can actually have honor and control yourself and act upon what is quoted above.
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Secondly, maybe you're not used to people like me and where I'm from, but most of aren't judgmental a-holes. More like blunt a-holes with sometimes good intentions whether you agree with it or not, just like NY'ers lol which is where I'm originally from. Do I care? Absolutely not. If I was truly scolding, this person would know & that person would come at me with their horns themselves since Tauruses don't fear anyone. Never came at her before or acknowledged her existence till today. Seen this person type reckless sh*t on too many occasions which I usually scroll on by, but today I felt the need to just quote this one time. My blunt-ness might come off a little too abrasive, but that's just how I speak/type. For the most part, no one ever has an issue with it. Anyways, The most mili-second moment they got from me is a "like" once in a blue moon on a response. So my response was more of a "telling it how it is" or "telling it how it is seen" since it's not the first time. Do I want her to change? No. Do I need her to? Could care less, hence why I said "don't let me stop your flow". Brushing my shoulders is me saying, I've said my response, now I'm dusting it off & keeping it moving, which I will since that's what life is all about. However, I am allowed to type how I feel and I'll be damned if someone older or younger than me is going to think they can come at me and believe they can shut me down over the one time I decided to be blunt and 100 about it lol. No one has to like what each of us has to say, but if we disagree or want to put in our 2 cents, then that's the beauty/liberty of clicking reply. If I was truly judgmental then the sh*t ton of friends I have would all disappear unfortunately. So other than that, keeping it moving I go. Good day to you 🙂
you must have a lot of Neptune in your chart lmao
I'm an aquarius and I DO NOT condone cheating! This "dickmatised" (Johnthebaptist100) aqua hoe has issues and does not represent all aquas. Hahaha
I think the OP is now feeling guilty or shamed to come here and respond anymore.
Agree that any Sun sign can cheat. We should watch for character more when going into relationships.
Mature people do not condone cheating.
And correction: JohntheBaptist is a Taurus with an Aqua descendent.
Regardless of Sun sign, it is how we interact and accept each other that keeps a good relationship going.
Cross fingers and hope I don't fall into the same situation as OP. Life is too long for mistakes to happen (think Harvey Dent)
Agree that any Sun sign can cheat. We should watch for character more when going into relationships.
Mature people do not condone cheating.
And correction: JohntheBaptist is a Taurus with an Aqua descendent.
Regardless of Sun sign, it is how we interact and accept each other that keeps a good relationship going.
Cross fingers and hope I don't fall into the same situation as OP. Life is too long for mistakes to happen (think Harvey Dent)
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