Apparently we are the most stubborn sign... why?

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this is just a word - used to label us by others who do not understand - they take the easy way out - but that's ok, that is just the way they are

F um I say - I do what I want when I want and with whom I want - or not - and I don't GAF what anyone else thinks about what I do or don't do cause it really isn't their business

what I want to know is why does this bother you so much cause most Taurus feel like I do - I thought - perhaps that does come with a bit of age - not sure but I've always been this way

note my Cap moon as well so you know I ain't playin` when it comes to other people's drama about me

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Sorry I don't understand this aspect. Maybe the word "stubborn" is too broad for me. What does it mean to be stubborn? That I can't change my mind on something? That I'm too fixed in my ways?

I'll admit that I can be stubborn about certain things, sure, but who isn't regardless of sign? Just like how all these non-Taurus folk seem to stubbornly think that all Taurus are stubborn as hell. Well, uhh, you're being stubborn now aren't you? I've met non-Taurus folks who are more stubborn than I am.

Depending on the topic, I definitely change my mind or view of things if I'm wrong or if the other person makes a valid point. Now if we're talking stubborn on a goal oriented stance, I can see how I can be stubborn in that regard sure, but still I can be convinced otherwise.

You can call me stubborn all you want, even if I may not feel that way, but look in the mirror if you make that claim about me. It's like people who say Taurus folk love food. Sure, but uh who doesn't like food when they're starving? I have Taurus friends who barely eat a damn thing. Lol, this is when astrology generalizations puzzle me and make me skeptical.

(Yes I'm very well aware that folks will think I'm being stubborn with this post. 😄)
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Posted by tctap
this is just a word - used to label us by others who do not understand - they take the easy way out - but that's ok, that is just the way they are

F um I say - I do what I want when I want and with whom I want - or not - and I don't GAF what anyone else thinks about what I do or don't do cause it really isn't their business

what I want to know is why does this bother you so much cause most Taurus feel like I do - I thought - perhaps that does come with a bit of age - not sure but I've always been this way

note my Cap moon as well so you know I ain't playin` when it comes to other people's drama about me


Great to know. It doesn't exactly bother me coz so far it has served me good I'm just curious as to what I can improve or work on. I do know that once I made my mind up about something it takes me a while to budge and change them. Normally I don't really listen like I pretend I do coz half of my chart is air so I can pretend like ur opinion is super awesome and stuff but I always go aback to my original opinion. The reason why is me and the Aqua had a fight and we both r stubborn people but now that I think about it perhaps I am worst than him without realising it lol....
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Being "stubborn" is why I saved up and bought my house outright no rent or mortgage. Obviously now Im happy I was so stubborn...and wouldnt want it any other way. But it can be applied in less beneficial ways too I think. Thinking and analyzing goals and more whats going on. Why Im still at my job after nearly 4 years (seen a lot come and go haha) etc. Its not all being stubborn it goes into other territory like determination, desire, instincts, needs, fear of coming up short, wanting to succeed...
Yay that and sometimes stubbornness comes with a failure to take any scary risks and challenges and that's my down fall. like I have big dreams and goals but the safety of my comfort zone is high. I do think I have a stubbornness of loving my comfort zone so much. Am I making sense? Like I hated my old job but loved my friends at my old work place it gave me security and comfort and I was there for too long. I succeeded at my job there but thinking about it now if I wasn't a Taurus I wud have gotten out a lot faster. I think sometimes the Taurus stubbornness comfort and need for security is too high. Am I making sense?
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Sorry I don't understand this aspect. Maybe the word "stubborn" is too broad for me. What does it mean to be stubborn? That I can't change my mind on something? That I'm too fixed in my ways?

I'll admit that I can be stubborn about certain things, sure, but who isn't regardless of sign? Just like how all these non-Taurus folk seem to stubbornly think that all Taurus are stubborn as hell. Well, uhh, you're being stubborn now aren't you? I've met non-Taurus folks who are more stubborn than I am.

Depending on the topic, I definitely change my mind or view of things if I'm wrong or if the other person makes a valid point. Now if we're talking stubborn on a goal oriented stance, I can see how I can be stubborn in that regard sure, but still I can be convinced otherwise.

You can call me stubborn all you want, even if I may not feel that way, but look in the mirror if you make that claim about me. It's like people who say Taurus folk love food. Sure, but uh who doesn't like food when they're starving? I have Taurus friends who barely eat a damn thing. Lol, this is when astrology generalizations puzzle me and make me skeptical.

(Yes I'm very well aware that folks will think I'm being stubborn with this post. 😄)
IMAo yes u r very stubborn in this post hahaha it cracks me up actually. Cuddle hug for u Taurus . We just need a cuddle bear hug and we will b all ok. though I'm sorry but I will die if I don't get to eat good food. I rather die lol
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Posted by LentoBull91
Nah Virgo's can beat us at being stubborn.

My sister is a Virgo and it's taken me years to realize how stubborn she is because it doesn't initially look or feel like stubborness, if that makes sense?! She has a way about her that will make you relax if you are furious about something she's doing, but she won't change or stop and you won't realize it until after you've relaxed.

My sister has her ways/habits and I've seen her not change for anybody.
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Girl, now you just being stubborn. Embrace it LOL! Other signs are petty AF or hardheaded, etc.

We may be stubborn, but look on the bright side, we have great taste in clothes, home decor, good places to eat, travel, etc.
You have double Taurus wow. Tell me plz how r u stubborn ?
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LOL! Can't tell is you're trolling me or not. I'm stubborn because I do what I want, when I want, however I want. I'll listen to people's advice even though I never asked for it, but it'll most likely go in one ear and out the other. I'm difficult to keep and understand and not everyone can handle that. Some people like control and I don't do well with authority. In my eyes, the only person that I'll listen to for now, is my boss and that's only because he pays me. So I think I defined the word stubborn quite well. I will say this though, for the friends that I've had for over a decade now, I would take many bullets for them. For those that I consider my family, I'll always be loyal to. Nobody's perfect and neither am I. And if someone tells me they're close to perfect, I'll just tell them the truth, that they're full of shit. 🙂
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Sorry I don't understand this aspect. Maybe the word "stubborn" is too broad for me. What does it mean to be stubborn? That I can't change my mind on something? That I'm too fixed in my ways?

I'll admit that I can be stubborn about certain things, sure, but who isn't regardless of sign? Just like how all these non-Taurus folk seem to stubbornly think that all Taurus are stubborn as hell. Well, uhh, you're being stubborn now aren't you? I've met non-Taurus folks who are more stubborn than I am.

Depending on the topic, I definitely change my mind or view of things if I'm wrong or if the other person makes a valid point. Now if we're talking stubborn on a goal oriented stance, I can see how I can be stubborn in that regard sure, but still I can be convinced otherwise.

You can call me stubborn all you want, even if I may not feel that way, but look in the mirror if you make that claim about me. It's like people who say Taurus folk love food. Sure, but uh who doesn't like food when they're starving? I have Taurus friends who barely eat a damn thing. Lol, this is when astrology generalizations puzzle me and make me skeptical.

(Yes I'm very well aware that folks will think I'm being stubborn with this post. 😄)
IMAo yes u r very stubborn in this post hahaha it cracks me up actually. Cuddle hug for u Taurus . We just need a cuddle bear hug and we will b all ok. though I'm sorry but I will die if I don't get to eat good food. I rather die lol
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LOL i am tired of such accusations! 😛
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Nah Virgo's can beat us at being stubborn.

My sister is a Virgo and it's taken me years to realize how stubborn she is because it doesn't initially look or feel like stubborness, if that makes sense?! She has a way about her that will make you relax if you are furious about something she's doing, but she won't change or stop and you won't realize it until after you've relaxed.

My sister has her ways/habits and I've seen her not change for anybody.

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^^^ I totally get it my Virgo best friend is exactly like that also other Virgos I've met. They get me furious at times and not want to talk to them because they are so stubborn but I just lig. The whole time I've known my best friend 15 years he has never changed still the same person today as he was when I first met him with the same ways/habits that I love and hate.