Why

Why does my ex taurus want to be friends with me and continue to live and sleep in the same bed. I feel extremely friendzoned right now. I try for her everyday, I do all the nice things and I'm always there when she needs anything. But I want her to be my girl again. Not my friend. However if it really is over I wouldn't want her out of my life.. at all ever. Just curious

Weirdest relationship ever. How can you be "just friends" but share the same bed? Unless y'all are both women.

We We're together for 3 years and she broke up with me 2 months ago. Will let me cuddle with her but she won't let me kiss her, when I try she turns away.

Posted by Ace2009
Why does my ex taurus want to be friends with me and continue to live and sleep in the same bed. I feel extremely friendzoned right now. I try for her everyday, I do all the nice things and I'm always there when she needs anything. But I want her to be my girl again. Not my friend. However if it really is over I wouldn't want her out of my life.. at all ever. Just curious

Oh fuck no.

Let me break this down for you. She's not really an ex. Your still in a relationship if you live together and fall asleep in the same bed together.

If you really want to move on from the relationship you need to buy a blow up mattress and sleep in another room.

Then you need to move out.

This is non negotiable.

You can't get over someone if your around them 24/7.

I actually don't want to move on, I want us to be together. She broke up with me.

Posted by Whorpio
Weirdest relationship ever. How can you be "just friends" but share the same bed? Unless y'all are both women.

Trust me (an eye roll)...it's called marriage!

I'm trying to get her back. I'm not trying to get over her at all. That's not what I want.

Then pull away, right now the only thing she's missing from this relationship is sex - so make her miss you, stop being so available.

I've wondered about doing that but I feel she is an out of sight out mind type

I am in love with her. I love the way her mind works and how caring and driven she is. I love her personality and sense of humor and how I feel at home with her always. There's a million reasons why.

I feel stuck like nothing's going to change. I don't know what she's waiting on. I'm making changes. Maybe she's waiting for me to screw up

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Whorpio
Weirdest relationship ever. How can you be "just friends" but share the same bed? Unless y'all are both women.

Trust me (an eye roll)...it's called marriage!

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Don't do it! ?

Posted by edgelord
@LadyNeptune

the thing about living with your ex before you can find a place (or they can) is that one of you needs to sleep on the couch. no sex. no kissing. no cuddling.

just as if you lived with a stranger.

it gets really messy really quick if you don't treat them as you'd do some random person.

Which is why you don't move in together in the first place unless you can afford to cover the whole rent yourself, or get a two bedroom.

Posted by Ace2009
I am in love with her. I love the way her mind works and how caring and driven she is. I love her personality and sense of humor and how I feel at home with her always. There's a million reasons why.

But the point is how she feels, and she has chosen to end the relationship.

It's better that you let her do her thing, have some space. Or else you could have a geminati situation in your future.

Posted by GC02

Posted by Ace2009
I am in love with her. I love the way her mind works and how caring and driven she is. I love her personality and sense of humor and how I feel at home with her always. There's a million reasons why.

If she's still sleeping in the bed with you every night she might not be over you either.

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Exactly she's not over u yet either

Posted by Ace2009
I feel stuck like nothing's going to change. I don't know what she's waiting on. I'm making changes. Maybe she's waiting for me to screw up

Why did she end it ?

I think the problem is that you haven't solidified what this new thing is - and the only way to do that is to talk it out.