@thecrazyariestaurus
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Posted by LibraMudra
Sorry 😢 I would have done the same.He doesn't need to be working out by her.
Also, why have you guys stayed at that gym knowing she's there and around?
But I wouldn't be contemplating it. I would be me finding a different gym and getting far away from that situation.
Idk this gym is just so convenient and I haven't seen her in a while.
Posted by Ravishing
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.
Yeah that shit really hurt. Obviously he denied it for a reason. I feel like complete shit. I feel so betrayed 😢
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Posted by Ravishing
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.
I knew you feel comfortable being locked up.
Posted by Ravishing
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.
Yeah that shit really hurt. Obviously he denied it for a reason. I feel like complete shit. I feel so betrayed 😢
It's OK girl it will get better with time x
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It's so hard. Not only am I grieving the death of my friend but now I have to deal with this bullshit.
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
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Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
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Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
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How did he denied your dating?
He said what?
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
How did he Daniel your dating?
He said what?
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I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
How did he Daniel your dating?
He said what?
I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway
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Are you sure he didn't mean HER?
If he meant you - he needs to be gone!
Sorry hon. It's not something to sweep under the rug! ❤️
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
How did he Daniel your dating?
He said what?
I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway
Are you sure he didn't mean HER?
If he meant you - he needs to be gone!
Sorry hon. It's not something to sweep under the rug! ❤️
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I don't even remember now. It was such a blur that I don't even remember if he meant her or me
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Is she a virgo or gemini or scorpioThose bytches are crazy
Ding ding ding Virgo!!
Posted by LibraMudra
Sorry 😢 I would have done the same.He doesn't need to be working out by her.
Also, why have you guys stayed at that gym knowing she's there and around?
But I wouldn't be contemplating it. I would be me finding a different gym and getting far away from that situation.
Idk this gym is just so convenient and I haven't seen her in a while.
Well, maybe you're not as crazy as I am bc I would have shut down all possibilities for that to happen by switching us to another place lol
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So you see that gym as guilty party?
Switch the gym and happily ever after?
Like ex doesn't know anything about him - just what gym he is going to!
Are you smoking shit?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Is she a virgo or gemini or scorpioThose bytches are crazy
🖕
I've been in this situation. But, it was with a man who was pursuing me - not a boyfriend.
I am too detached to loose my shit. I'm more intrigued into knowing more about the man in question... how deep he is, the level of deceit, duplicity, testing my senses, showing how eerily deep I am, cold fire.
It was at a restuarant. I never saw his ex and she never seen me. But, I "knew" it was her... matched how I sensed his description. I had just got through praying and meditating face down. He was doing everything right but my instincts against him were too strong and I didn't know why.
Saw he and her after I sat across the bar from them. He saw me eventually and stayed cool but, I felt his nervousness. I sipped on it like fine wine. He stepped outside for a cig thinking I would follow. I didn't. I checked her out...sensed her out. He went out twice, I never followed.
When they got their check, I went out to watch them leave. See if it was separate cars... put out more of my feels, continue to be entertained. He scurried away ahead of her. She yelled, "Hey, why are you walking so fast. Wait up." At this point, I couldn't help but belly laugh. He heard me and as he reached for his car door handle, he looked at me. I smiled bright and dark. He was froze for a minute and I sipped on his expression like fine wine.
They were broken up. I sensed it. But, he was still seeing her from time to time.... eventually, not at all. I said nothing about it. I'm void of jealousy or possessiveness... to a fault.
I kept him as a friend. And, he kept begging to be my man.
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
How did he Daniel your dating?
He said what?
I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway
Are you sure he didn't mean HER?
If he meant you - he needs to be gone!
Sorry hon. It's not something to sweep under the rug! ❤️
I don't even remember now. It was such a blur that I don't even remember if he meant her or me
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Now cool off and wait for him to crawl with apologies. And if he will - don't be giving him 'did you meant who' - act like he denied you and listen to the stuff he has to say.
He has to come up with 'it was misunderstanding' - not you asking him 'who did you meant you aren't with'...ok?
If a mans denying you, that should be enough to tell you where things are. Also, women aren’t crazy just to be crazy, he’s clearly still entertaining something with her and that’s why she’s still around. You need to stick up for yourself and let that relationship go for now. He’ll be back and the ball will be in your court. Nobody’s worth feeling like shit over.
Posted by LibraMudra
Sorry 😢 I would have done the same.He doesn't need to be working out by her.
Also, why have you guys stayed at that gym knowing she's there and around?
But I wouldn't be contemplating it. I would be me finding a different gym and getting far away from that situation.
Idk this gym is just so convenient and I haven't seen her in a while.
Well, maybe you're not as crazy as I am bc I would have shut down all possibilities for that to happen by switching us to another place lol
So you see that gym as guilty party?
Switch the gym and happily ever after?
Like ex doesn't know anything about him - just what gym he is going to!
Are you smoking shit?
It certainly didn't help now did it?
Yes, the gym is guilty.
BAD GYM!!!
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Yep! That's what you said. Twice!
And what if it's a small town with one gym? Move to another town?
😂😂😂💦
Posted by Insertusername
If a mans denying you, that should be enough to tell you where things are. Also, women aren’t crazy just to be crazy, he’s clearly still entertaining something with her and that’s why she’s still around. You need to stick up for yourself and let that relationship go for now. He’ll be back and the ball will be in your court. Nobody’s worth feeling like shit over.
Not to make any points but there are crazy bitches who dedicate their like to get what they want. OP being stuck with him will probably will have to watch her back her all life. Bad situation.
terrible news op. how are you feeling about things now? what do you want to do?
Posted by LibraMudra
Sorry 😢 I would have done the same.He doesn't need to be working out by her.
Also, why have you guys stayed at that gym knowing she's there and around?
But I wouldn't be contemplating it. I would be me finding a different gym and getting far away from that situation.
Idk this gym is just so convenient and I haven't seen her in a while.
Well, maybe you're not as crazy as I am bc I would have shut down all possibilities for that to happen by switching us to another place lol
So you see that gym as guilty party?
Switch the gym and happily ever after?
Like ex doesn't know anything about him - just what gym he is going to!
Are you smoking shit?
It certainly didn't help now did it?
Yes, the gym is guilty.
BAD GYM!!!
Yep! That's what you said. Twice!
And what if it's a small town with one gym? Move to another town?
😂😂😂💦
Gym, you're terrible.
Gym, how could you?
Die, gym.
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That's really stupid! You screwed up and now you are trying to giggle like a teen who can't find good come back.
Go ahead with bad gym, bad park, bad street...ready? Set! Type!
If his ex was so crazy, why would he stay there and work out next to her? That doesn't add up to me.
Ugh not a good feeling.
Stay strong.
Posted by nikkistar
If his ex was so crazy, why would he stay there and work out next to her? That doesn't add up to me.
They say crazy people have good _______.
#1 You can't take anything she says as fact because her motives are to drive you away so she can get at him.
#2 Is your boyfriend not allowed to workout on a machine adjacent to the one his ex is on? Really??
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
How did he Daniel your dating?
He said what?
I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway
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'We've' meaning him and HER.
Posted by Miaou
😢 Wow...Honestly.
Believe what you saw, never deny your gut feeling - as heartbreaking as it is.
You know when you know.
Denying you were dating in front of her?
Oh hell no.
Whatever you decide - don't forget that part.
Yeah that's the only thing out of everything that just is sticking out to me
Why didn't you talk to HIM? And ask him to answer that question about denying you?
What exactly did he say?
Because I was too angry to even stop and ask. I was just cussing him out telling him he's a piece of shit. Cancer mars was triggered
How did he Daniel your dating?
He said what?
I was just yelling at him saying wtf are you doing here with her? And after I kept saying it he just said it doesn't matter it's not like we've even been together anyway
Are you sure he didn't mean HER?
If he meant you - he needs to be gone!
Sorry hon. It's not something to sweep under the rug! ❤️
I don't even remember now. It was such a blur that I don't even remember if he meant her or me
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Yeah you got heated and crazy at just the sight of them. Maybe your not ready to be in a relationship if your so easily triggered.
He meant him and her. Think about it.
"He said it doesn't matter because it's not like we've been together".
It being the gym interaction, we've meaning her and him not together. CAUSE HE'S WITH YOU.
Posted by Ravishing
It not about what to believe. It's about the facts you know. You went to the gym and he was with that bitch and then DENIED being with you. That's enough information for me personally.What a cunt. I hate cheaters. My Mars Square Pluto gets so triggered. I think I would have gotten violent in your situation. LOL.
Yeah that shit really hurt. Obviously he denied it for a reason. I feel like complete shit. I feel so betrayed 😢
It's OK girl it will get better with time x
It's so hard. Not only am I grieving the death of my friend but now I have to deal with this bullshit.
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(((hugs)))
😢
Posted by LadyNeptune
#1 You can't take anything she says as fact because her motives are to drive you away so she can get at him.#2 Is your boyfriend not allowed to workout on a machine adjacent to the one his ex is on? Really??
Do machines get adjacent to each other?
I need to hit the gym!
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.
Oh baby! I am so sorry. If there is a bright side - it's that you haven't found out about it with his child on your arms.
You are young and strong and hurt will pass. Just hugs.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.
Pics of her and him together prove nothing, unless there are time stamps on them.
Cause she's his ex, of course she has pics of them together. Because they were together in the past.
Instead of talking to your man your continuing to talk to this psycho bitch. If you believe a single word out of her mouth then your foolish.
Why not talk to your bf, after all he's the one in the relationship with you...seems more logical.
Here is my assessment of this situation,
I could be wrong, but just call it a gut instinct.
I believe that his mother is telling the truth. However, I think she is observing her son's actions, and not what is really in his heart. The way she sees it, this ex-girlfriend is harrassing him, and her son is blowing her off....rather than see it as "Why hasn't he called a permanent stop to it?" She may just have dismissed it as her son being non-confrontational.
He may have physcially checked out of the relationship with his ex, but I don't believe he has emotionally checked out of the relationship. (Translation: He isn't physically cheating on you, he is actually telling you the truth...however, he is still emotionally connected to her).
If I had to take an educated guess, she was probably the one to break his heart, pursuing him vigorously to make amends, and he is amorously enjoying all the attention. He's telling her to leave him alone, but I don't think he wants her to leave him alone, if that makes any sense. In other words, he's subliminally telling her "You broke my heart, you break down those walls if you want to make it right again"
Deep down inside he knows she's no good for him, but his heart will not allow him to move on, which is what he prefers to do, subconsciously.
He denied you because he wants her to keep pursuing him, not because they're having an affair.
My advice,
Hand him over to her. Clarity and closure will take him out of limbo.
His heart and her actions will be the deciding factor.
If he doesn't do this now, he may walk out on you in the near future.
Trust me, you don't want that.
The dilemma here is not a physical connection...it's an emotional one.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.Pics of her and him together prove nothing, unless there are time stamps on them.
Cause she's his ex, of course she has pics of them together. Because they were together in the past.
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Bingo!
Both him and his family have told you repeatedly that this girl is stalking and harassing him. It's not a great stretch of the imagination that she stalked him to the gym.
Kinda silly of you to expect him to be loyal to you but you don't give him that loyalty back.
Right now the only 'proof' you have is her word. The word of a spurned stalker ex.
Aries/Taurus,
Stop communicating with her.
She'snot your friend.
She's playing you like a fiddle because she knows your emotional and reactionary.
I would simply just hand him over.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.Pics of her and him together prove nothing, unless there are time stamps on them.
Cause she's his ex, of course she has pics of them together. Because they were together in the past.
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I told her to show me the date and time on all the pics. They all range from June-September. I told her send me recent texts and she did and I know they're recent because of the subject they were talking about.
Both him and his family have told you repeatedly that this girl is stalking and harassing him. It's not a great stretch of the imagination that she stalked him to the gym.
Kinda silly of you to expect him to be loyal to you but you don't give him that loyalty back.
Right now the only 'proof' you have that he is cheating on you with her is her word. The word of a spurned stalker ex.
Demand that he breaks off all contact with her. Block her number, social media, etc. if he refuses to accommodate you then you have a right to be mad and end the relationship.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.Oh baby! I am so sorry. If there is a bright side - it's that you haven't found out about it with his child on your arms.
You are young and strong and hurt will pass. Just hugs.
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Thank you
Posted by LadyNeptune
Both him and his family have told you repeatedly that this girl is stalking and harassing him. It's not a great stretch of the imagination that she stalked him to the gym.Kinda silly of you to expect him to be loyal to you but you don't give him that loyalty back.
Right now the only 'proof' you have that he is cheating on you with her is her word. The word of a spurned stalker ex.
Demand that he breaks off all contact with her. Block her number, social media, etc. if he refuses to accommodate you then you have a right to be mad and end the relationship.
lol did you not see my reply? I caught him that's it.
I told her to show me the date and time on all the pics. They all range from June-September. I told her send me recent texts and she did and I know they're recent because of the subject they were talking about.
What did those text messages tell you?
I told her to show me the date and time on all the pics. They all range from June-September. I told her send me recent texts and she did and I know they're recent because of the subject they were talking about.
What did those text messages tell you?
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He was telling her about the charges he got after his court date which was in May
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Idk what to believe. I went to the gym and I saw my bf's ex and then next to her I saw my bf. So I grabbed my shit and ran up to them and started going off on my bf who looked like he was about to cry. He said nothing was going on and that he just came to the gym and saw her and that they were working out. But then he started denying we were together in front of her wtf. Then he left.Then the crazy bitch told me that they've been dating since march, and she had no idea I was in the picture. She said after his brother died, they took a trip to Palm Springs after the funeral for 3 days. She said she talked to his mom and asked about me and his mom said she hasn't seen me around. She said he took her to Disneyland for her bday.
Then I went to his house and got all my shit. I talked to his mom and she said he's been home majority of the time because he's been working crazy hours and she hasn't seen her around. She said the ex calls him constantly, and shows up in places where he's at and basically stalks him. She said she always over hears him answering the phone and cussing her out telling her to leave him alone.
Now after settling down, here's the flaws I see in the exes story:
1. The bitch claims she never knew we were together, but around march I saw her at the gym and told her tin stop calling my bf and to fuck off so obviously she's knew we were together.
2. There's no way they went to Palm Springs for 3 days after the funeral. He went up to his brothers house which is like an hour away, and then he came back the next day and we hung out. The funeral was on a Wednesday. I was with him in Thursday. Friday he went to his bros and Came back on Saturday and we hung out and I was with him til Sunday.
3. She said she's been going to his house and spoke to his mom. She's not allowed in their house. His dad is very strict and he's kicked her out of the house before and told her she's not allowed back. So I know she hasn't been there. There's no way the dad would let her in. And the mom wouldn't have either cuz she doesn't like her.
4. Knowing my bf I doubt he would've taken her to Disneyland. His pass is expired and she was always the one spending money on him.
5. She's obsessed with him. Literally will not leave him alone. No matter what I do she won't go away. I've caught her in a bunch of lies before when I've confronted her. She's really psycho.
Now I'm skeptical about believing his mom, but his mom is extremely honest and never really lies. She's super blunt.
I just don't know what to believe and I'm so heartbroken. Many of you know about the situation with his brother. I dropped everything and was there for him and his family that whole week, and I just feel like I got the biggest slap in the face right now. I'm heartbroken. I don't know if he actually cheated on me or not but just seeing them together made me lose my shit. Sorry for the long ass post.
You confronted a Taurus in public... he is pissed at you and that was payback. They always keep in touch with their exes... however he should've never been in contact with her yet alone "working out" there is a lot of loop holes here and I would tell you to move on. Easier said than done and I am sorry this has occurred.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
Well everyone, it's been confirmed. He's been in a full on relationship with her since April. She sent me all the pics and everything. I will never understand how someone can be so heartless. I was there for him and his family when his brother died, and ALL of them lied to my face and said they didn't know anything about her. I feel so betrayed. I feel broken.Pics of her and him together prove nothing, unless there are time stamps on them.
Cause she's his ex, of course she has pics of them together. Because they were together in the past.
I told her to show me the date and time on all the pics. They all range from June-September. I told her send me recent texts and she did and I know they're recent because of the subject they were talking about.
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1. She could've photoshopped the time stamps.
2. She can save another number as his name/number and fabricate the texts.
I'm telling you. Don't. Trust. This. Bitch.
If she wants to show/send you stuff, cool...look at it. Keep asking questions. And talk to your boyfriend! Don't take what she says as fact.
You said yourself that it's well known that she's crazy AND her story doesn't add up.
I told her to show me the date and time on all the pics. They all range from June-September. I told her send me recent texts and she did and I know they're recent because of the subject they were talking about.
What did those text messages tell you?
He was telling her about the charges he got after his court date which was in May
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Does he call her babe, sweetie, miss you? Anything to indicate intimacy.
i'm sorry this happened. you were a good girlfriend. you didn't deserve this.
i agree with lady n. you should talk to him though. i'm sure you will in time.
eventually he'll regret this. in the meantime, feel proud that you did everything you could to make this relationship a success. that's a great quality. after all this, let that be one thing that you hold on to.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Both him and his family have told you repeatedly that this girl is stalking and harassing him. It's not a great stretch of the imagination that she stalked him to the gym.Kinda silly of you to expect him to be loyal to you but you don't give him that loyalty back.
Right now the only 'proof' you have that he is cheating on you with her is her word. The word of a spurned stalker ex.
Demand that he breaks off all contact with her. Block her number, social media, etc. if he refuses to accommodate you then you have a right to be mad and end the relationship.
lol did you not see my reply? I caught him that's it.
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You didn't catch him. You were spoon fed some texts from his ex.
All those texts prove if they are his is that he was talking about his charges. Not that they are flirting, dating, fucking.
It's wrong that he's entertaining her at all. Focus on that and let him know it won't stand.
🚩🚩🚩Red flags all over the place
Dealbreaker for sure. Forget this jerk.
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Idk what to believe. I went to the gym and I saw my bf's ex and then next to her I saw my bf. So I grabbed my shit and ran up to them and started going off on my bf who looked like he was about to cry. He said nothing was going on and that he just came to the gym and saw her and that they were working out. But then he started denying we were together in front of her wtf. Then he left.
Then the crazy bitch told me that they've been dating since march, and she had no idea I was in the picture. She said after his brother died, they took a trip to Palm Springs after the funeral for 3 days. She said she talked to his mom and asked about me and his mom said she hasn't seen me around. She said he took her to Disneyland for her bday.
Then I went to his house and got all my shit. I talked to his mom and she said he's been home majority of the time because he's been working crazy hours and she hasn't seen her around. She said the ex calls him constantly, and shows up in places where he's at and basically stalks him. She said she always over hears him answering the phone and cussing her out telling her to leave him alone.
Now after settling down, here's the flaws I see in the exes story:
1. The bitch claims she never knew we were together, but around march I saw her at the gym and told her tin stop calling my bf and to fuck off so obviously she's knew we were together.
2. There's no way they went to Palm Springs for 3 days after the funeral. He went up to his brothers house which is like an hour away, and then he came back the next day and we hung out. The funeral was on a Wednesday. I was with him in Thursday. Friday he went to his bros and Came back on Saturday and we hung out and I was with him til Sunday.
3. She said she's been going to his house and spoke to his mom. She's not allowed in their house. His dad is very strict and he's kicked her out of the house before and told her she's not allowed back. So I know she hasn't been there. There's no way the dad would let her in. And the mom wouldn't have either cuz she doesn't like her.
4. Knowing my bf I doubt he would've taken her to Disneyland. His pass is expired and she was always the one spending money on him.
5. She's obsessed with him. Literally will not leave him alone. No matter what I do she won't go away. I've caught her in a bunch of lies before when I've confronted her. She's really psycho.
Now I'm skeptical about believing his mom, but his mom is extremely honest and never really lies. She's super blunt.
I just don't know what to believe and I'm so heartbroken. Many of you know about the situation with his brother. I dropped everything and was there for him and his family that whole week, and I just feel like I got the biggest slap in the face right now. I'm heartbroken. I don't know if he actually cheated on me or not but just seeing them together made me lose my shit. Sorry for the long ass post.