Bored in relationships

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Posted by taurusgirl9000
I have a Taurus Sun, Aqua Moon, Scorpio Mars, Aries Venus... I find that I get bored in relationships pretty quick and need to really make an effort to work through this boredom.

I am not the "dating" type, therefore I'm usually in a long relationship or single and not looking.

Anyone else?
How old are you supposed to be to be 'usually' in LTR or single in between?

What's long for you? 3 months?
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Posted by taurusgirl9000
I have a Taurus Sun, Aqua Moon, Scorpio Mars, Aries Venus... I find that I get bored in relationships pretty quick and need to really make an effort to work through this boredom.

I am not the "dating" type, therefore I'm usually in a long relationship or single and not looking.

Anyone else?
How old are you supposed to be to be 'usually' in LTR or single in between?

What's long for you? 3 months?
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I'm in my 30's. Long for me is 2 years or more.
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Posted by Redbull
Im Taurus sun Aquarius moon. My answer has been to be single. Mainly because I have been "getting things together" Taurus style which means some things must be done it takes how long it takes. Rather take the necessary time/sacrifices to get it right. If it takes a while then thats how it goes. As far as the dating and such, I find all that too be too much stress and too much when I have my hands full doing what Im doing. Plus people are too fast, reckless and get around to much and easily for me out here. I dont know if I would phrase it the same as far as getting bored, but I think my sun/moon combo makes me more aloof in these aspects. I use it to my advantage for improving my life. Like "give me space". Im comfortable being single. Dating, it has to be a comfort level in my life and time that I can even do that. Im not the type to be broke and stuff but still on the bus or with my money not together and stuff and still being out here "dating". Not a teen any more and have grown stuff to do.
I understand you. Are you also aloof in friendships? I find I always have a distance between myself and others, no matter how "close" I consider them to be as friends.
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Posted by taurusgirl9000
I have a Taurus Sun, Aqua Moon, Scorpio Mars, Aries Venus... I find that I get bored in relationships pretty quick and need to really make an effort to work through this boredom.

I am not the "dating" type, therefore I'm usually in a long relationship or single and not looking.

Anyone else?
I'm gonna sound like a real jerk right now, but personally I never found someone THAT interesting as a personality that would keep me interested enough. In this sense I admit that I get bored quickly too. I mean... sometimes I find my own personal hobbies and interests more interesting than guys I met in my life. Maybe I still didn't find that one guy that has the same level of depth as me, I don't know.
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Posted by Impulsv
Sometimes it's about you

I mean make ur life exciting why are you waiting for other to bring that in.

I told this to

A Taurus

What I find ironic is that he wasn't adventurous himself yet he expected that from other

I mean he admitted it n I didn't require it ( him having to be adventurous n not boring lol why cuz mylife is pretty good
Ha! You're right, actually. Touché... 🙂
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Posted by saweetz1988
Isn't ur Aqua man keeping u interested enough? If he isn't? I don't think there's much hope for u. I love it with my Aqua he is the only one that know how to keep things spice for me to keep coming back for more
He is but... my situation with him is complicated because I just ended an 8 year relationship with a divorce and realized recently there are lingering feelings for my ex and unbelievable sadness... I think because instead of dealing with the pain and feelings, I jumped into a new relationship right away. Stupid of me
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Posted by taurusgirl9000
I have a Taurus Sun, Aqua Moon, Scorpio Mars, Aries Venus... I find that I get bored in relationships pretty quick and need to really make an effort to work through this boredom.

I am not the "dating" type, therefore I'm usually in a long relationship or single and not looking.

Anyone else?
How old are you supposed to be to be 'usually' in LTR or single in between?

What's long for you? 3 months?
I'm in my 30's. Long for me is 2 years or more.
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still a Taurus Sun after all.
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Isn't ur Aqua man keeping u interested enough? If he isn't? I don't think there's much hope for u. I love it with my Aqua he is the only one that know how to keep things spice for me to keep coming back for more
He is but... my situation with him is complicated because I just ended an 8 year relationship with a divorce and realized recently there are lingering feelings for my ex and unbelievable sadness... I think because instead of dealing with the pain and feelings, I jumped into a new relationship right away. Stupid of me
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Wow. What r ur exs placements?
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Posted by saweetz1988
Isn't ur Aqua man keeping u interested enough? If he isn't? I don't think there's much hope for u. I love it with my Aqua he is the only one that know how to keep things spice for me to keep coming back for more
He is but... my situation with him is complicated because I just ended an 8 year relationship with a divorce and realized recently there are lingering feelings for my ex and unbelievable sadness... I think because instead of dealing with the pain and feelings, I jumped into a new relationship right away. Stupid of me

Wow. What r ur exs placements?

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I know that my ex is my soul mate... I feel one day we are going to be married again. We split due to circumstances, not because of any issue like cheating or abuse. Here is our synastry chart...



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Posted by KittyKnitter

i am taurus moon. he is taurus sun.

we are both easily bored. we like variety in all things. so we have some personal interests and some in common. we like being busy and we work and play hard. in other relationships, the other person had very little going on or expected me to give up everything and focus on them. i hate being bored. i want to live my life. not someone else's. and life is too short to be bored. i am easy to distract if i am doing something i don't like. taurus sun knows that. i am always up for something new. even if i am a little scared, i will try it because there is something i can learn from it. it's refreshing to be with a guy who understands i like to be challenged and isn't afraid of a challenge himself. i have no idea why no other guy i met before taurus didn't understand that. maybe it takes a taurus to understand one.

Absolutly ...i think only Taurus can understand ...how slooooow you Guys are ...(;