Confused about a Taurus man any Taurus males Help!

Posted by TaurusBull1977
You're not confused.

You know EXACTLY how this Bull feels about you.

Your issue here is CODEPENDENCY.

You can't stand to be alone.

Your marriage was over a long time ago.

This Bull had nothing to do with it.

So why should your decision to leave your husband be contingent on what this Bull is promising.

This should be irrelevant.

My advice.

End your marriage. It's toxic!

If it's in the cards for you and the Bull to be together....

Then let the Universe play itself out.

Posted by Virgogirl78
I guess it's just the fear of failure. I have been with him since we were 15. Until my Taurus he's all I have known.

Posted by Virgogirl78
But I really don't know how he feels about me. I don't know if it's love or a need to have control over me....

Posted by Virgogirl78
I got a divorce because of the bull pretty much. We were apart for about 3 months and I did well. My bull was by my side making sure I was ok checking up on me etc. the whole time. But he and I had a major falling out and he was gone from my life for a while. Because I dated a guy and he lost it on me. But I was alone. It was one date but he got really angry. Anyways I got back with my ex because he showed up crying at my door while me and my bull were on the outs. He came back in my life a cpl months later said he missed me and was going crazy. Then the whole thing started all over again. I know it's a mess was never my intention to be where I am or to hurt anyone. I love the bull headed taurus more than he will ever know. When I'm with him I never worry about a thing he is different from any man I've ever known. The only issue we have ever had is he's very jealous. Does not want me arnd other men gets mad if he sees me with my ex and with that he has said some mean things but I know it's out of jealousy and anger I can understand that. If he won't be with me in the end so be it. I have flaws but all in all I'm a good person. Just made some poor choices.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuy
Did you tell him you don't like it when he doesn't respond. It won't be malicious from the other things you've said but sometimes we need space to consider things. I wouldn't take it personally but if it upsets you tell him and I'm sure it will become less of a problem.

Posted by jeane
I hate it when I sleep with people I never meant to.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Virgogirl78,

Note: The person who sticks it out at the end isn't always the person for you. It just means they just stuck it out with you...and may have their own ulterior motivies (ie, your husband).

As an Earth sign myself, this was a life lesson that I had to learn.

I understand what it means to crave stability and security from a partner, and most importantly certainty.

But sometimes, the Universe has something else planned for us....

And it's not always pre-packaged with what we're looking for.

Posted by Virgogirl78
yep he is. They have a pretty craph relationship don't get along at all.

Posted by Taurus_tamed_Ram

Posted by Virgogirl78
yep he is. They have a pretty craph relationship don't get along at all.

Hi Vergogirl78,

Men in general will say what "You want to hear"...especially men with wives!! How can you be so sure what his relationship is with his wife unless, you are actually in their bedroom. This comment speaks volumes, because it shows just how gullible you are with your emotions. That is not your concern...your only concern should be getting your life together, so you can be the best for YOUR SELF!

Most Taurus men operate in a practical and strategic manner with most major decisions and in life. And, if the relationship starts "messy" it will most likely will end messy. Taurus has many layers and depths to their personality. And only when, stability, trust and a strong communication is established will the bull open up...and slowly!!!

Taurus men have a special way they compartmentalize their life, and loved ones to fit the stability and comfort that they want! Hence, why many say the bull can lead a double life...When a bull is serious you will know...how will you know?? You will know when you have a sense of comfort and trust, even when he goes to hibernate...or (ignore) as you call it.

Your quote, is why so many women "miss the mark" when dealing with our emotions and messy situations...it's troubling you want to appear like the damsel in distress, while speaking the "gospel" about how much "they don't get along" like everything he tells you is true...It's Not!

The bull takes a lot of patience, maturity and work! Don't damage what you both could have for the short term of both messy situations.

My words maybe a little harsh, but they are not meant to be mean or hurtful....just simply said!

Take a step back from it all, and actually feed and water your grass, and watch how it grows!!!

Take care.

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
What is your husband's zodiac sign?

Posted by Aqua27
^^^^ this is so right. You will not be with your Bull until you leave your toxic marriage and show some degree of independence. From what i have seen Bills dislike drama and like their women to have some ability to be capable and independent. ..its practical!

Posted by Leogirl1238
This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.