Does the no contact work on taureans males

Really answer to above message if u broke up with a person and they texted u a lot to sort it out then stopped how would u react if u still loved them

From a Taurus perspective,

It depends on why I broke up with the person.

If I loved them, then yes, it would be very hard.

I was very much in love with this guy when I was younger.

He was amazing in every way, but I couldn't handle the other women.

Of course, a deal-breaker for a Bull.

He didn't make it any easier, showing up at my job, calling from different numbers, private numbers, parked outside of my apt.

But for some reason, I couldn't help but to get butterflies in my stomach when he was this persistent.

As if I was worth fighting for.

But this feeling was only temporary.

That Bull rage would kick in, and then I would be reminded why I cut him off to begin with.

He eventually got the hint.

A Bull that has you on 'ice' is NO JOKE.

I never budged.

When he stopped calling...

It was a conflicted emotion for me.

Sadness overcomed by relief.

Yeh I'm doing no contact a to help me move on feel more in control b I've said everything I needed to say c I'm sick of confusing replies like I'm heartbroken I'm sad etc . I just wondered if it works . I love this man but I love myself more

He's still got key to my house and I have som of his stuff here so there will have to be contact at some point . I'm shocked he hasn't dropped them into my ex office (we all get on ) as its round the corner from him and at one point I told him to drop them in then I said I didn't want him involved (ex) but I thought he would have

I have been thinking that actually lol . It's the cowardness I hate do all taureans hate confrontation it doesn't bother me

Posted by nds
12 years no contact here

Still going strong

Hahaha.

Posted by Shelleywoo
I have been thinking that actually lol . It's the cowardness I hate do all taureans hate confrontation it doesn't bother me

Do it. So he will feel that you are moving on.

What I don't get is the replies heartbroken sad I'm hurting too u know etc and then sometimes nothing inbetween . To be honest I've said there's all to say its his issues with ex the hate for here he needs to get over

Oh YES. Taurus are good in writing so is my bull and tls. They construct words properly.

Yeah I'm a scorp..had lots of ex taurs.

Posted by Shelleywoo
What I don't get is the replies heartbroken sad I'm hurting too u know etc and then sometimes nothing inbetween . To be honest I've said there's all to say its his issues with ex the hate for here he needs to get over

You might misunderstood it Ms. Shellywoo

In my own opinion. He is heart broken with the stalker ( current gf). Probably she broke up with him. And that made him broke up with you too.

Have time to analyze the situation. Dont be fool.

He broke up with her , she did a lot of damage to him his family his work place

In a game of battle of the wills, always bet on bull.

Lol so it won't bother him . I need clarity over witch in case I was played

Tbh I've said all I can say . Ive heard from his sister who has given me proof who's stalking who and she saw him weekend said he was upset and loves me and misses me but is worried he. Can't do long term hence walking away

Posted by nds

Posted by Shelleywoo
I have been thinking that actually lol . It's the cowardness I hate do all taureans hate confrontation it doesn't bother me

I'd rather grab a burger than confront someone if that is what you are asking

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What kind of burger though?

Yes this is what I plan to do it's only cos I know what we had and we were super close didn't argue apart from witch stuff . I broke up with him one of those times because of her he can back .I'm not begging I know him inside out and I know this is him scared because of his past . But I also know my own self worth and that he will regret it when it's too late . I've cut off his family on Feb me and his sister are friends but I e xolained why I've had to cut off on Facebook he was deleted day one his children which I classed as my step kids and loved them deallrly he will have to deal with . It's just the answers I need but I didn't realise until this forum and past few days the cold side . But that's the thing by telling me he's upset and. Heartbroken it's not giving me closure . .but j will confront him and get my key

I'm not sure I actually get what you want to work.

Are you asking if no contact will work for you to be able to move on?

Or are you asking if no contact will prompt him to come harder for you?

Or are you hoping that no contact will make him say he is wrong, and so apologize for something?



You ask if it will work ... but, you don't actually specify what you are trying to accomplish. And reading through the responses, people have answered the question as if it has multiple meanings, which means I'm not the only one who realizes you aren't clear.

Are you trying to play on his attention, or help yourself?

Posted by nds


Double patty bacon cheeseburger extra egg and avocado with the bun switched out for lettuce wraps

eeeewwwww ......

Posted by nds

Posted by Shelleywoo
He's still got key to my house and I have som of his stuff here so there will have to be contact at some point

Change the locks and buy new shit

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This is some of the best advice I've read on here in a very long time!

Posted by nds

Posted by Shelleywoo
I have been thinking that actually lol . It's the cowardness I hate do all taureans hate confrontation it doesn't bother me

I'd rather grab a burger than confront someone if that is what you are asking

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^^^ Hahaha I second this

Well I got a message about sorry he was in self destruct mode which he had warned me in a first message at beginning of row . He had a tough few years . I take my daughter abroad for therapy and while I as away he did all these wonderful things in my home for me so my daughter wouldn't suffer from fumes and fixed things etc . I was a bit worried he was a bit depressed just before I went his eldest son rejected him badly he did loads for his boss whilst his was away and came back and asked why certain thing wasn't done and he worked late and worked his arse off . Then when I was away he saw a pic of his son with stepdad with s arms wrapped round him and this man is a real arsehole so I went into a bit of a state over that then he did all this stuff for me and tried to protect everyone from witch . I know your opinion of that but I know situ better and know he wouldn't go back . And me getting pissed at him when he thought he was doing right thing I think tipped him over his words he snapped and went sf destruct mode and couldn't stop and thought of me not being with him never crossed his mind . He couldn't stop self destruct his words . I think he got depressed and shut me out and took it out on me . I know this man side out and I know how much he loved loves me and my daughter . I could be mugging myself off but I really don't think this is about me and him as such I think it's his state of mind . He's a very strong bull and very determined and protective of loved ones but I do think he gets depressed . His message yesterday wasn't I love u I want things to work more about self destruct and sorry he hurt me and he didn't not want to be with me he couldn't stop self destruct .

Posted by Shelleywoo
I have been thinking that actually lol . It's the cowardness I hate do all taureans hate confrontation it doesn't bother me

I think it would depend more on the influence of other planets besides his Sun as to whether or not he'll hate confrontation. I don't hate it, but that's me. Others Taureans might dislike confrontation but not like a Libra, let's say. In other words if it's necessary to get material possessions back, I think he'd rather confront the issue, and you, rather than lose his stuff.

Posted by Shelleywoo
Well I got a message about sorry he was in self destruct mode which he had warned me in a first message at beginning of row . He had a tough few years . I take my daughter abroad for therapy and while I as away he did all these wonderful things in my home for me so my daughter wouldn't suffer from fumes and fixed things etc . I was a bit worried he was a bit depressed just before I went his eldest son rejected him badly he did loads for his boss whilst his was away and came back and asked why certain thing wasn't done and he worked late and worked his arse off . Then when I was away he saw a pic of his son with stepdad with s arms wrapped round him and this man is a real arsehole so I went into a bit of a state over that then he did all this stuff for me and tried to protect everyone from witch . I know your opinion of that but I know situ better and know he wouldn't go back . And me getting pissed at him when he thought he was doing right thing I think tipped him over his words he snapped and went sf destruct mode and couldn't stop and thought of me not being with him never crossed his mind . He couldn't stop self destruct his words . I think he got depressed and shut me out and took it out on me . I know this man side out and I know how much he loved loves me and my daughter . I could be mugging myself off but I really don't think this is about me and him as such I think it's his state of mind . He's a very strong bull and very determined and protective of loved ones but I do think he gets depressed . His message yesterday wasn't I love u I want things to work more about self destruct and sorry he hurt me and he didn't not want to be with me he couldn't stop self destruct .

How did you respond?

I told him what I thought and he replied with a kiss but did tell him if he was mugging me off he must tell me he told his sister he was really missing me yesterday . Told him that I'm here for him . But wondering if I should let him have his space now for a few days .

Posted by Shelleywoo
I told him what I thought and he replied with a kiss but did tell him if he was mugging me off he must tell me he told his sister he was really missing me yesterday . Told him that I'm here for him . But wondering if I should let him have his space now for a few days .

I think give him a few days but it seems vague at the moment. Does he want to stay together? Is this the end? You need some clarity. If it is we're still together but we need to slow things down at least you know where you stand.

Thank u for your advice . I think if we are still together then I will slow things down anyway to protect myself I know I need to protect myself too . He's been there for me when things were bad with my daughter and when I was moving from marital home and was with me 100% looking for places when I lost two houses and helped with move and lots of other stuff so I wanna be there for him too . But I know I need to protect my heart

Well after a gut feeling I decided to go over my ex has my daughter on this day and so glad I did I always go with my gut . He was a mess house which is normally immaculate was not st all he looked awful all bearded drawn and so sad we hugged he was so pleased to see me we spoke about everything for hours he ended up pouring everything out , he's been there so much for me I had to go there even if it was heartbreak for me . He showed me stuff witch has been even worse than normal with everything with son work me he just shut down was very sorry didn't see a way out felt worthless . I put him straight on that because he so isn't . He opened up about fears for my daughter but that he could handle it but he needed to express then she has two life limiting conditions . We spoke about future I let him talk he never wanted to loose me just got so lost . So we are back together I asked if he wanted to slow things down he didn't I let him no there was no pressure my end and that he puts too much on himself to please everyone else and not himself which he likes helping but u can't juggle too much at once . He's a very strong man he's been through a lot but we all have breaking points and that's ok but you have to get back up . I made him laugh too and he looked much better when I left . So sometimes u have to go with your gut . He knows I'm no pushover but I also know signs of depression . We talked about how we both need to approach things going forward if arguments occur from both sides acknowledging each other's ways needs . So fingers crossed we will come out stronger for this . Thanks for all advice it's helped me realise a few home truths I how I can come across a Leo roaring and winding my neck in how I say things in heat of moment and also how taureans react to things x

That is all good news.

Posted by Shelleywoo
Well after a gut feeling I decided to go over my ex has my daughter on this day and so glad I did I always go with my gut . He was a mess house which is normally immaculate was not st all he looked awful all bearded drawn and so sad we hugged he was so pleased to see me we spoke about everything for hours he ended up pouring everything out , he's been there so much for me I had to go there even if it was heartbreak for me . He showed me stuff witch has been even worse than normal with everything with son work me he just shut down was very sorry didn't see a way out felt worthless . I put him straight on that because he so isn't . He opened up about fears for my daughter but that he could handle it but he needed to express then she has two life limiting conditions . We spoke about future I let him talk he never wanted to loose me just got so lost . So we are back together I asked if he wanted to slow things down he didn't I let him no there was no pressure my end and that he puts too much on himself to please everyone else and not himself which he likes helping but u can't juggle too much at once . He's a very strong man he's been through a lot but we all have breaking points and that's ok but you have to get back up . I made him laugh too and he looked much better when I left . So sometimes u have to go with your gut . He knows I'm no pushover but I also know signs of depression . We talked about how we both need to approach things going forward if arguments occur from both sides acknowledging each other's ways needs . So fingers crossed we will come out stronger for this . Thanks for all advice it's helped me realise a few home truths I how I can come across a Leo roaring and winding my neck in how I say things in heat of moment and also how taureans react to things x

Well done Shelley. You did good.

Thanks guys ?