Sags and breakups...

For the men ladies but women are welcome to reply too......

After a bad break-up.... Do you move on fast? Have you ever went back to that person? If so, why?

How do you handle break-ups? ?

If the love is real, i find it very hard to move on.

Posted by DMV
If the love is real, i find it very hard to move on.

Like how long? I think it's way different for woman than men bc they don't have feelings in my case.

It's hard to move on emotionally but I will still talk to others... More than likely. But once someone is in my heart, it's not that easy...

It took me a long time to get over my Aries lover. He was my first love. He had my heart.

Posted by sagiluv
As a sag women it's hard to fall in love with people, I'm very picky. But when I'm in love I'm pretty loyal pretty much I only have eyes for my love! If we break it off or take a break depending on the situation, there's chances I will consider it a done deal & I'll move on, I'll try not to look back, if I feel as he doesn't want to be with me I won't ever force it, I'll let him walk, I'll keep busy, I won't be with other men, but I will keep myself busy to get him out of my mind sooner. Eventually if he doesn't reach out I forget him & move on. Then they no longer exist to me. Eventually another man will catch my eye, usually takes a pretty long time to feel this way again.... I'm forgiving depending on the situation. I will forgive and give it a second try if I truly love the person as long as I feel as if he's genuinely sorry and our relationship will improve. I take things as lessons.

What if you broke things off with the person bc they have insecurities? Would you let things cool off and go back? Or will you just move on?

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by sagiluv
As a sag women it's hard to fall in love with people, I'm very picky. But when I'm in love I'm pretty loyal pretty much I only have eyes for my love! If we break it off or take a break depending on the situation, there's chances I will consider it a done deal & I'll move on, I'll try not to look back, if I feel as he doesn't want to be with me I won't ever force it, I'll let him walk, I'll keep busy, I won't be with other men, but I will keep myself busy to get him out of my mind sooner. Eventually if he doesn't reach out I forget him & move on. Then they no longer exist to me. Eventually another man will catch my eye, usually takes a pretty long time to feel this way again.... I'm forgiving depending on the situation. I will forgive and give it a second try if I truly love the person as long as I feel as if he's genuinely sorry and our relationship will improve. I take things as lessons.

What if you broke things off with the person bc they have insecurities? Would you let things cool off and go back? Or will you just move on?

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we never move on mentally if we love u (passion love inlove love)

never

if we dont love you

2 days

if we cared about you

3-4 months

but we will always care

but thats it is and was and will ever be

because we only (passion love ) once

if we passion love you we will always go back unless ofcourse u a psycho or criminal

then we would rather choose to be without love completely

thats why we dont commit

guess why?

because we already committed to the love we lost

Posted by Sagsagsags

Posted by yellowsaggitarius
if we passion love you we will always go back unless ofcourse u a psycho or criminal

then we would rather choose to be without love completely

thats why we dont commit

guess why?

because we already committed to the love we lost

Geez.. that last line though ??

True on so many levels. My heart was stolen 8 years ago by a psycho. Have spent these past 6 years feeling numb. Even got married once but never truly commit.

Hoping one day someone could breathe life back into me again and maybe I could grow a heart again ?

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my heart was stolen 8 years ago too by a psycho

what a coincidence

what was he?

mine was a cap..

was feeling numb for 8 years

but i came to terms with it a few weeks ago

i realised its time to live for myself now

its time to love me and my life

somebody came into my life an aquarian

he is d one who made me realise my life doesnt revolve around anybody but myself

now im having my fun and freedom

as i always wanted

the archer in me u know...

but my soul still lingers still remembers the past cap

sad story

but life itself is sad

we born to die

awkward

Posted by Sagsagsags

Posted by yellowsaggitarius
if we passion love you we will always go back unless ofcourse u a psycho or criminal

then we would rather choose to be without love completely

thats why we dont commit

guess why?

because we already committed to the love we lost

Geez.. that last line though ??

True on so many levels. My heart was stolen 8 years ago by a psycho. Have spent these past 6 years feeling numb. Even got married once but never truly commit.

Hoping one day someone could breathe life back into me again and maybe I could grow a heart again ?

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and yes i will never truly commit either

its impossible now that i have a past

im human

im sag

thats just how i am cant help it

ive been open with my aquarian

he gets me

he understands

he said it doesnt matter

aslong as his shoulders are the ones i get to cry on

been with my aqua 1 and half year now

married

When I divorced my Gemini ex. I had some holes in my heart. We fought too much and I thought it was for the best interest of my kids that we divorce. Kids don't like to hear their parents fight. I am still in good terms with her as in regards of my kids. What's done is done. Must move on and she must move on.

Posted by Sagsagsags
@yellowsaggitarius

Oh wow! what a coincidence! Mine was a Taurus. What is it with us and earth signs? ? It was everything I ever wanted in a relationship, we got along really well, and we complement each other really well too.

I have come to terms with it too (or I think I have). When I was in the process of healing, I would avoid any contacts at all cost, changed my numbers so many times.

But as I was going through a divorce 2 years ago, I know I needed a rebound and I needed to do it with someone who will not question my motives. So yea we got back together. After 6 months, we separate our ways again but this time in peace and not avoiding each other again ? We both know that we can't be together, because we always became so toxic.

I am now with a gemini, Sags total opposite. Been with him for 2 months now. Starting off great, we'll see how it goes.

I miss the feeling of being totally in love with somebody ?

i never had time to make no contact coz we have kids so i dont think ill have a process of healing ever

so my poor soul will just remain in trauma

Posted by Sagsagsags
@yellowsaggitarius you have kids with the Cap or with your current Aqua?

with the psycho cap

Posted by Sagsagsags
@yellowsaggitarius you have kids with the Cap or with your current Aqua?

and they look like their bloody dad

trauma i tell u

Years.

Doesn't mean I don't get back into the game. I just don't committ to anything. Not even a time to meet up.

Posted by NobleSag
Years.

Doesn't mean I don't get back into the game. I just don't committ to anything. Not even a time to meet up.

I'm trying to give it a fair shot.. but I find myself making every excuse in the book to.. I'm too afraid of commitment now, would rather play it safe...

That and my ex still crosses my mind daily.. I'm trying to forget about the whole thing though, giving myself time.

Posted by Sagithehunter
It took me a long time to get over my Aries lover. He was my first love. He had my heart.

Aries dudes can be jerks.

Posted by Solesan

Posted by Sagithehunter
It took me a long time to get over my Aries lover. He was my first love. He had my heart.

Aries dudes can be jerks.

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Yea but they can be so so alluring. Make you feel like you're in a love movie. I mean with the one I dated. He was dark mentally. He was physically attractive and so sweet.

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Posted by NobleSag
Years.

Doesn't mean I don't get back into the game. I just don't committ to anything. Not even a time to meet up.

I'm trying to give it a fair shot.. but I find myself making every excuse in the book to.. I'm too afraid of commitment now, would rather play it safe...

That and my ex still crosses my mind daily.. I'm trying to forget about the whole thing though, giving myself time.

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You'll never forget. It's the ability to accept what it was and could have been. To smile and say that's ok. I'm still here and I'll be fine. I try to figure out what I could have done better. Just learn and grow. I have met one person who stopped me in my tracks. I'm just not ready to let them know. Plus she's got some issues that I would only complicate with my involvement. So I quietly wait. Relax and watch.