Dumping a cheating Taurus man

So my taurus man cheated on me. I saw a hickey on his neck... I refuse to ever speak to him again. I didn't even break up with him, I left with zero closure. I literally just stopped responding to texts and calls. Nothing drives a person crazy like being ignored. I'm not going back. He texted me saying "if you're going to play the silent treatment then go ahead and fuck off, I'm done." I'm pretty sure he said that to try to get a reaction from me.

How do Taurus men act when they are dumped? Do you think he'll keep bugging me and try to get back with me? I know Taurus men are extremely possessive but I just don't wanna be bothered by him anymore.

His chart: taurus sun, Venus Gemini, Leo rising, Virgo moon, cancer mars

Posted by RainDancer88
It will probably drive him bonkers to not even get an explanation lol.

Good. He doesn't deserve one lol that's why I did it cuz I know I would go insane if someone just left me out of the blue with no closure

Leaving him is a great idea. No worries anymore..

that venus gemini

Posted by AL4813
that venus gemini

I'm a Venus Gemini too but I don't act the way he did

A hickey? You sure that he cheated?

I think in the long run this may come back to haunt you. Leaving him is a great idea but not confronting him and officially breaking it off kind of shows a bit immature character on your part. it may help him grow up a little by your courageous action of showing him that you will not tolerate any bs from him or anyone!

That Venus in Gemini. Man I can't image ever expecting a gemini element of any kind in their chart to stay faithful. They aren't emotional. And they like conversations anything but damn emotions.

Good luck find another guy. It wasn't meant to be. Stay single and enjoy life to the fullest.

Well then since there's a different Venus in Gemini, that ranges from person to person..

Then astrology is bullshit. Go with what you feel. How long is the relationship? Go by experience..go by the pro's and con's. Fuck it its not astrology.

I'm a Venus in Gemini too though and I would NEVER cheat.

Posted by thewateryram
So my taurus man cheated on me. I saw a hickey on his neck... I refuse to ever speak to him again. I didn't even break up with him, I left with zero closure. I literally just stopped responding to texts and calls. Nothing drives a person crazy like being ignored. I'm not going back. He texted me saying "if you're going to play the silent treatment then go ahead and fuck off, I'm done." I'm pretty sure he said that to try to get a reaction from me.

How do Taurus men act when they are dumped? Do you think he'll keep bugging me and try to get back with me? I know Taurus men are extremely possessive but I just don't wanna be bothered by him anymore.

His chart: taurus sun, Venus Gemini, Leo rising, Virgo moon, cancer mars

If you really don't want to be bothered with him anymore, which probably isn't the case, then block him from calling, emailing and texting you. It's as easy and simple as that. But clearly that's not the case here. You want to see him contact you, try to get back with you, and more then likely, you're gonna take him back. Why? Because you don't believe you can do any better then him.
Sounds like he has moved on from you. He just needed a reason to leave and you gave that to him.
Move on to a man that will treat you better boo.

Aw I'm so sorry.

Venus in Gemini dont always cheat. It's about the maturity of the person. My boyfriend doesnt cheat and he's Taurus sun Venus in Gemini. I'm psychic I know.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
That Venus in Gemini. Man I can't image ever expecting a gemini element of any kind in their chart to stay faithful. They aren't emotional. And they like conversations anything but damn emotions.

Good luck find another guy. It wasn't meant to be. Stay single and enjoy life to the fullest.

I agree...
While not everyone cheats, I have cheated on a love in the past and I have Gemini in Merc & Mars. If I am not happy, I am always on the look out for the "next best thing". Once I find him, I'll use every excuse to distance myself from the one I don't want to be with, including start arguments and break up with them.
So glad I've matured from those childish ways.

I think Gemini's are selfish people (even in chart placements). If we are not happy you will know.

This is why I am sure the OP had to of known about his cheating way before now, or maybe she had a gut feeling about it? Trust your gut girl!!!

The distancing, excuses, and starting arguments was my experience of Gem Venus along with an inability to make a decision about many things or stick with anything be it work or people, and generally being full of shit. Lots of words, no follow through.

That's not all Gem Venus people obviously.

Keep it consistent for a change.. We'll get along...I know a Gem in sun and an Aries with Venus in Gemini. I have Gemini in on of my houses. I even read the topic in this forum about Gemini moon people. Just seems to me by reading, it all leads back to.

Indecisive behaviour
great conversationalists
honest
your talking to two different people; at the same time even..
You guys are hilariously funny. You guys rock.
But make really great friends. I'll always want you to be in my life one way or another..
Now it seems that being flighty and fickle is your forte, that's not cool. Because that even leads to hurting someone who is more consistent and sturdy than the average person you are interested in. And you are not aware unless I say something about.
You guys are smart
You guys are hands on type of people.


Slow and steady wins the race Mars in Taurus talk..
My Mercury in Taurus says I am cool, calm, and collected always...

The difference between Air and Mutable- I think therefore I am.
Fixed= I feel therefore I am.

Can you imagine the ups and downs we are going through in life.. Constant battle of trying to just be who you are..

Either you are fixed with air
Mutable with fixed
Cardinal with water or fixed or air
There are alot of combos there. It's weird how Astrology plays into our upbringing, friendship, and relationships. Or it's truly just the individual and their past childhood-adulthood experiences..

Welp, I went ahead and stopped ignoring him because I needed closure. I did it through text because I didn't want to see him or talk to him. Call it immature, I don't care.

I simply told him how bad he hurt me, and that I know he cheated no matter how much he denies it, and I respect myself enough to walk away. Then of course he flooded my phone with texts trying to guilt trip ME. Trying to make it seem like I did something wrong and saying I'm making a mistake by throwing everything away, and I never really cared if I leave. HA!

I ignored this for 2 hours until he said "So relationship wasn't that important I guess..." I told him that he should speak for himself because I'm not the one who cheated. Then the truth comes out. He told me he cheated on me with his ex and said it was hilarious.

Anyway, I'm done, and I told him I'm done with everything. I feel like a weight has been lifting off my shoulders, and I feel AMAZING. I'm pretty sure he's gonna keep texting me later but I'm not gonna answer.

To everyone saying Venus in Gems are known for cheating need to read Hotbeefy's thread. I have very similar placements as my ex: Taurus Sun, Venus Gem, Cancer Mars, and I am extremely faithful, and would never cheat!!!!

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Posted by thewateryram
Welp, I went ahead and stopped ignoring him because I needed closure. I did it through text because I didn't want to see him or talk to him. Call it immature, I don't care.

I simply told him how bad he hurt me, and that I know he cheated no matter how much he denies it, and I respect myself enough to walk away. Then of course he flooded my phone with texts trying to guilt trip ME. Trying to make it seem like I did something wrong and saying I'm making a mistake by throwing everything away, and I never really cared if I leave. HA!

I ignored this for 2 hours until he said "So relationship wasn't that important I guess..." I told him that he should speak for himself because I'm not the one who cheated. Then the truth comes out. He told me he cheated on me with his ex and said it was hilarious.

Anyway, I'm done, and I told him I'm done with everything. I feel like a weight has been lifting off my shoulders, and I feel AMAZING. I'm pretty sure he's gonna keep texting me later but I'm not gonna answer.

To everyone saying Venus in Gems are known for cheating need to read Hotbeefy's thread. I have very similar placements as my ex: Taurus Sun, Venus Gem, Cancer Mars, and I am extremely faithful, and would never cheat!!!!

Good for you! Sometimes you just need that closure and then jog on without him! He sounds like an arsehole!

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by thewateryram
Welp, I went ahead and stopped ignoring him because I needed closure. I did it through text because I didn't want to see him or talk to him. Call it immature, I don't care.

I simply told him how bad he hurt me, and that I know he cheated no matter how much he denies it, and I respect myself enough to walk away. Then of course he flooded my phone with texts trying to guilt trip ME. Trying to make it seem like I did something wrong and saying I'm making a mistake by throwing everything away, and I never really cared if I leave. HA!

I ignored this for 2 hours until he said "So relationship wasn't that important I guess..." I told him that he should speak for himself because I'm not the one who cheated. Then the truth comes out. He told me he cheated on me with his ex and said it was hilarious.

Anyway, I'm done, and I told him I'm done with everything. I feel like a weight has been lifting off my shoulders, and I feel AMAZING. I'm pretty sure he's gonna keep texting me later but I'm not gonna answer.

To everyone saying Venus in Gems are known for cheating need to read Hotbeefy's thread. I have very similar placements as my ex: Taurus Sun, Venus Gem, Cancer Mars, and I am extremely faithful, and would never cheat!!!!

Good for you! Sometimes you just need that closure and then jog on without him! He sounds like an arsehole!

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He is a complete asshole! So pathetic and childish. That was the clean version, I didn't even include the horrible text he sent me. Moving on with my life!