help me read bulls

Hi, need some insights regarding the charts il post below. i hope u can help me get a good read. just a quick story, im dating a taurus guy and he's amazing. we get along really well, he makes me laugh, the first date was amazing, i went home wondering "what is it abt this guy that draws me, he's not that goodlooking but he's got this x-factor if i can call it like that. i feel safe and secured right off the bat. i feel he is too coz after our first date the next day he called if he can visit me at home, then more meet ups and calls that follows. he's told me he likes me, he's even said he's blessed to have found me, that im beautiful inside and out. I have kids and he'll always ask about my kids too which means a lot to me. i appreciate every inch about him and he knows. He thanked me for being so understanding and accepting of him. i can see that he's opening up lil by lil, which i appreciate even more. But sometimes he gets a lil possessive and jealous. Yesterday were together, he travels for work and he took me with him, he was driving and we passed by a town and he said he had a gf on that place, she's pretty, kind and blah blah blah, i was just listening then he told me "is it okay if i talk abt things like that, wont u get jealous?" So i responded with smiles and a calm and cool exterior "its totally fine, im not jealous at all" but i actually wanna throw him out the window, lols then he said "are sure u not jealous?" he's started teasing that i am, but kept my cool and told him i am not (and this time i wanna kill him) lol. also when were together he'll keep playing love songs and 1 particular song "God gave me you" by bryan white. Yesterday told him that i love the message of the song and he said "is the message sent?" So im not sure if he's joking or if he means anything with that at all. he's also told me that one of these sundays he'll come to my place and will clean the backyard. Sometimes he'll even tell me what to do with this and that which i like hehe. And he touches me a lot esp when his driving his hand wont leave my legs lol but often times he teases me which leaves me feeling "what's his problem? does he really like me or wat?". i like him a lot and i love the man that he is. i have so much respect for this guy. our charts:

Him:
rising : leo
Sun: taurus
Moon: taurus
Merc: taurus
Mars :libra
Ven: pisces

Me:
Rising: cancer
Sun:pisces
Moon:pisces
merc:aries
mars: taurus
Ven: aries

Thank you in advance. Btw hi p-angl

pp: he's got this x-factor if i can call it like that.

>>>His Venus is in Pisces so maybe its that.

pp: So i responded with smiles and a calm and cool exterior "its totally fine, im not jealous at all" but i actually wanna throw him out the window, lols

>>>You should just be honest about what you're jealous of. Why hide your emotions? a) he's jealous, and associates that jealousy with feelings for someone, so you're in danger of being perceived as not that into him, or emotionally aloof in general, by hiding your jealousy. A lot of bulls like to see a little jealousy in their partner; it shows that your interest/passion, b) if you play that game, he may keep probing, and never learn to set boundaries properly around what does/doesn't bother you. You keep stuffing things that legitimately make you mad, and you're going to act out in some negative way eventually that affects the relationship. He's not going to understand it.

pp: So im not sure if he's joking or if he means anything with that at all.

>>Seems obvious he's playing it *for* you.

pp: often times he teases me which leaves me feeling "what's his problem? does he really like me or wat?

>>>We do this a lot, especially with people we like. He isn't trying to hurt your feelings; we just have a rough sense of humor and water signs are particularly sensitive.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

b) if you play that game, he may keep probing, and never learn to set boundaries properly around what does/doesn't bother you.

+1. Bulls strive for consistency. I can't stress this enough.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
You keep stuffing things that legitimately make you mad, and you're going to act out in some negative way eventually that affects the relationship. He's not going to understand it.

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+1. Bulls only understand pragmatic, consistent behavior that are backed up by words and actions. Bulls don't project, we don't assume, if we probe, our intuition is guiding us for detecting any inconsistencies or BS, but if you continue to defend an argument (that's based on a lie), don't expect to spoon-feed that to him in the near future.

TLS is right, he will never understand it, and because he's probably stubborn by nature, he will NEVER try to understand it, but dismissing your statements as deceitful and manipulative.

I don't like it when poker faces are used to solidify a position, and then when things are settled, surprising you with traits you didn't know existed before.

I also know this doesn't sit well with a lot of Bulls.

You don't need to read his chart to figure out he either likes you a LOT or he wants to sleep with you...
But if you are looking for long term compatibility here, I can tell you that there might be a few problems with communication/understanding, but not that strong that you'll lose a relationship over it. I hope you find the answer to your somewhat vague question?

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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

b) if you play that game, he may keep probing, and never learn to set boundaries properly around what does/doesn't bother you.

+1. Bulls strive for consistency. I can't stress this enough.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
You keep stuffing things that legitimately make you mad, and you're going to act out in some negative way eventually that affects the relationship. He's not going to understand it.

+1. Bulls only understand pragmatic, consistent behavior that are backed up by words and actions. Bulls don't project, we don't assume, if we probe, our intuition is guiding us for detecting any inconsistencies or BS, but if you continue to defend an argument (that's based on a lie), don't expect to spoon-feed that to him in the near future.

TLS is right, he will never understand it, and because he's probably stubborn by nature, he will NEVER try to understand it, but dismissing your statements as deceitful and manipulative.

I don't like it when poker faces are used to solidify a position, and then when things are settled, surprising you with traits you didn't know existed before.

I also know this doesn't sit well with a lot of Bulls.

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TB1977, please check your private messages. I sent you a question.

Thanks 🙂