Help!!! Taurus guy is confusing ME still!!!

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This isn't my first time on this board searching for some clarity about taurus guy- this taurus guy is still confusing as F!!! We go way back more than a year now of on and off talking/texting/ went on a few dates, and every single time was beyond magical! The connection between us was undeniable! Then he disappeared again- his 2nd disappearing act and this time was longer- 3 months to be exact! So i figured, maybe he was just not into me as much as i was so into him. So i kind of stopped reaching out and has moved on..so we lost contact last year from June-Sept. i joined a company and doing my side gig- and i figured i'd send him an email basically about the business gig that i was doing- coz i know he will be interested with it- and mind you, i was totally ok with us just be acquaintances. So my email intro was this (my exact words) "I hope all is well on your end. It's been a while and i know and clearly understand that we can't be anything more other than being friends ๐Ÿ™‚ So i'd like to share something with you that may pique your interest"..then the next thing i know i got a call from him? I was beyond shocked- then he goes, what do you mean we are just going to be friends? I'm like, i thought that's what you wanted because you stopped the communication and that was it- then he goes, i don't want us to be just friends? See what i mean by i am Confused as F!!! So fast forward to now, the communication between us has been on and off-and tonight he sends me this text "i want you to be mine"! What does he mean by thisโ€”?i am so guarded because i was doing so well with me moving on and now i am back trying to guess what the hell is going on!!!help please!
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I've been there and done and my Taurus guy had someone he was already interested in and when they were get on bad terms he would use me to boost his ego back up not saying that the CSS org you but don't allow or trust someone who can't be consistent in your life .. you can't even trust that he will be there the next day .. he clearly try to keep you around so he said what he had to say to do that .. don't you think if he really felt that way he would have reached out to you first
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Oh boy seems they do use to boost their ego

Yes Better end. It now or get damaged by it

Mistake I made

Never understood his behavior but reading the above yup

Ego boost
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I made the same mistake as well โ˜น๏ธ Honestly broke my heart ..I was down bad .. I didn't pay attention to the signs ... and even when he disappeared I would act like nothing happen because I just wanted him around .. but lesson learned nothing ever good from from someone who doesn't try to stay in your life
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He has someone else. You are second choice or maybe third. If he wanted you he knew where to find you. He didn't find you.

Nothing has changed. If you had not emailed him, which you did to gain his attention because you wanted it especially by stating the 'friends' bit, he would not have contacted you. By emailing him you have opened the door. Now he gets to decided if he can be bothered to knock. Your plan back fired.

All he had to do was send you some bullshit text about wanting you as he's hoping you'll chase him or drop your pants for him.

He was prepared to let you go.

Be prepared to let him go... again.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
Omg why are you so disrespectful ? All yo to do was give her advice .. you calling her hoes and dumb as if you have never been confused about anything in your life ... sheesh
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He has someone else. You are second choice or maybe third. If he wanted you he knew where to find you. He didn't find you.

Nothing has changed. If you had not emailed him, which you did to gain his attention because you wanted it especially by stating the 'friends' bit, he would not have contacted you. By emailing him you have opened the door. Now he gets to decided if he can be bothered to knock. Your plan back fired.

All he had to do was send you some bullshit text about wanting you as he's hoping you'll chase him or drop your pants for him.

He was prepared to let you go.

Be prepared to let him go... again.
Yeah this.

Although she could've not responding. But I can see that she's directly where she standing with (to be friends).

Now that he shows some red flag. Claiming to be his while 3 months of no responding. Best to move on and not to deal with him anymore.
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I don't think she really wanted or needed to clarify regarding the 'are we friends' or the 'let's be friends' situation. She doesn't actually want to be friends with him. She wants something more from him but she pretended to be ok with the friends options and used it in the email to attempt to gain his attention.

That's fine. I just don't think it worked out in her favour. Now it has created a 'dilemma' and a drama for OP which didn't need to happen. Who needs that in their life? Perhaps OP needs to be more honest with herself with what she wants in general and what she wants from this guy.

He's not been offering anything for the last three months. That doesn't mean he hasn't anything to offer OP be it friends, sex, relationship, nothing. I just think a different approach from OP, more honest and direct, would have been helpful.

There's potentially more to this story but as it stands based on what's been posted I'd question why he's not bothered with OP for the last three months but if you have to ask then it's not good.

There's billions of people on this planet. No point wasting time with someone who is only luke warm about you.

That's just my view.
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"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
Omg why are you so disrespectful ? All yo to do was give her advice .. you calling her hoes and dumb as if you have never been confused about anything in your life ... sheesh
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It's good advice from Rocky. Spot on.

Sugar coated or not.
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Posted by BeautyandTheBull
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"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
Omg why are you so disrespectful ? All yo to do was give her advice .. you calling her hoes and dumb as if you have never been confused about anything in your life ... sheesh
Aw, you're cute. You have much to learn, young Padawan.

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@rockyroadicecream- i am definitely not dumb and not desperate.. but thanks for your input anyway
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Why yes, yes you are.

You're the one coming to DXP asking stupid advice. I know it gets cloudy when you're in the thick of it, but seriously? Reread what you wrote sweetie. You come off desperate and dumb.

"Here's all this shitty behavior and hot/cold bs. It's SO confoooooooosing!!!" A term is used by ALL desperate chicks to cling onto something that's obviously failing.

It's not confusing. You're just trying to justify shitty behavior because you can't BEAR the thought that prince charming has now turned into a troll.

Have some self respect and ditch the loser. If you're here seeking validation, which you clearly are, you should probably fuck off and stop wasting everyone's time.
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This isn't my first time on this board searching for some clarity about taurus guy- this taurus guy is still confusing as F!!! We go way back more than a year now of on and off talking/texting/ went on a few dates, and every single time was beyond magical! The connection between us was undeniable! Then he disappeared again- his 2nd disappearing act and this time was longer- 3 months to be exact! So i figured, maybe he was just not into me as much as i was so into him. So i kind of stopped reaching out and has moved on..so we lost contact last year from June-Sept. i joined a company and doing my side gig- and i figured i'd send him an email basically about the business gig that i was doing- coz i know he will be interested with it- and mind you, i was totally ok with us just be acquaintances. So my email intro was this (my exact words) "I hope all is well on your end. It's been a while and i know and clearly understand that we can't be anything more other than being friends ๐Ÿ™‚ So i'd like to share something with you that may pique your interest"..then the next thing i know i got a call from him? I was beyond shocked- then he goes, what do you mean we are just going to be friends? I'm like, i thought that's what you wanted because you stopped the communication and that was it- then he goes, i don't want us to be just friends? See what i mean by i am Confused as F!!! So fast forward to now, the communication between us has been on and off-and tonight he sends me this text "i want you to be mine"! What does he mean by thisโ€”?i am so guarded because i was doing so well with me moving on and now i am back trying to guess what the hell is going on!!!help please!

Why are you tolerating this?

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Because she's desperate and dumb. Some Scorps think they'll shrivel up and die without a relationship, so they cling on to anything that resembles it. It's fucking pathetic.
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it ๐Ÿ™‚ i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it ๐Ÿ™‚ i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
And I don't come here to be subjected by your silly bitch bullshit.

But have fun being the "throw away" chick. ๐Ÿ™‚

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@themilkyway36- i pulled away- now he clearly made known to me that he's still around. His exact words were "i want u to be mine"..and i'm like ?..see what i mean by confusing as f***? How can you want me to be yours, yet you've disappeared for a while before. He kept me informed of his plan for the week- and mind you i never asked him. He said he wanted to see me. He then sent me a pic of him and his friends from the business trip he took. ..i am trying to understand how taurus deals with their emotions-as far as how are they when they are falling for a person.
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Posted by ScorpioNluv
@themilkyway36- i pulled away- now he clearly made known to me that he's still around. His exact words were "i want u to be mine"..and i'm like ?..see what i mean by confusing as f***? How can you want me to be yours, yet you've disappeared for a while before. He kept me informed of his plan for the week- and mind you i never asked him. He said he wanted to see me. He then sent me a pic of him and his friends from the business trip he took. ..i am trying to understand how taurus deals with their emotions-as far as how are they when they are falling for a person.
Well..Taurus can like someone for a long time and have them on their mind even without talking to them. Once someone has been in their life, I think a part of them always cares about that person at least on some level So maybe he does truly like you and didn't stop thinking about you. But you gotta see if his ACTIONS match his words. If you still have feelings for him, go along with it and see what happens. Taurus don't really like to play games..they're pretty straightforward people. If they don't like you, they wouldn't even give you the time of the day.

What are his other placements? (moon, mars and venus)
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@themilkyway36- i pulled away- now he clearly made known to me that he's still around. His exact words were "i want u to be mine"..and i'm like ?..see what i mean by confusing as f***? How can you want me to be yours, yet you've disappeared for a while before. He kept me informed of his plan for the week- and mind you i never asked him. He said he wanted to see me. He then sent me a pic of him and his friends from the business trip he took. ..i am trying to understand how taurus deals with their emotions-as far as how are they when they are falling for a person.
Well..Taurus can like someone for a long time and have them on their mind even without talking to them. Once someone has been in their life, I think a part of them always cares about that person at least on some level So maybe he does truly like you and didn't stop thinking about you. But you gotta see if his ACTIONS match his words. If you still have feelings for him, go along with it and see what happens. Taurus don't really like to play games..they're pretty straightforward people. If they don't like you, they wouldn't even give you the time of the day.

What are his other placements? (moon, mars and venus)
A Taurus guy will use a woman for part of his harem ....

If a Taurus man wants a woman, he will not wait 3 months or for her to contact him first. The OP contacted him..

Had she not, he would have continued in his life without her... His actions speak loud and clear...
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Harem?

It depends on the guy I guess. Maybe he has motives
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@themilkyway36- i pulled away- now he clearly made known to me that he's still around. His exact words were "i want u to be mine"..and i'm like ?..see what i mean by confusing as f***? How can you want me to be yours, yet you've disappeared for a while before. He kept me informed of his plan for the week- and mind you i never asked him. He said he wanted to see me. He then sent me a pic of him and his friends from the business trip he took. ..i am trying to understand how taurus deals with their emotions-as far as how are they when they are falling for a person.
Well..Taurus can like someone for a long time and have them on their mind even without talking to them. Once someone has been in their life, I think a part of them always cares about that person at least on some level So maybe he does truly like you and didn't stop thinking about you. But you gotta see if his ACTIONS match his words. If you still have feelings for him, go along with it and see what happens. Taurus don't really like to play games..they're pretty straightforward people. If they don't like you, they wouldn't even give you the time of the day.

What are his other placements? (moon, mars and venus)
A Taurus guy will use a woman for part of his harem ....

If a Taurus man wants a woman, he will not wait 3 months or for her to contact him first. The OP contacted him..

Had she not, he would have continued in his life without her... His actions speak loud and clear...
Harem?

It depends on the guy I guess. Maybe he has motives
Harem? Yes, young Taurus males have a harem ... a selection of women they just simply rotate should the need to arise!
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Lol...this Taurus male has been persistently trying to hang out with me recently but our schedules just don't match up and I don't go out of my way to meet him. But a long while ago whenever we planned to meet up, he would always cancel on me last-minute and make up reasons/excuses for not being able to make it
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Posted by ScorpioNluv
@themilkyway36- i pulled away- now he clearly made known to me that he's still around. His exact words were "i want u to be mine"..and i'm like ?..see what i mean by confusing as f***? How can you want me to be yours, yet you've disappeared for a while before. He kept me informed of his plan for the week- and mind you i never asked him. He said he wanted to see me. He then sent me a pic of him and his friends from the business trip he took. ..i am trying to understand how taurus deals with their emotions-as far as how are they when they are falling for a person.
Yeah guys can say a lot of stuff doesn't mean you should fall for it. If he wants you to be his then he should be making steps to make that happen. Has he? If not, then it is all fur coat and no knickers.
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This isn't my first time on this board searching for some clarity about taurus guy- this taurus guy is still confusing as F!!! We go way back more than a year now of on and off talking/texting/ went on a few dates, and every single time was beyond magical! The connection between us was undeniable! Then he disappeared again- his 2nd disappearing act and this time was longer- 3 months to be exact! So i figured, maybe he was just not into me as much as i was so into him. So i kind of stopped reaching out and has moved on..so we lost contact last year from June-Sept. i joined a company and doing my side gig- and i figured i'd send him an email basically about the business gig that i was doing- coz i know he will be interested with it- and mind you, i was totally ok with us just be acquaintances. So my email intro was this (my exact words) "I hope all is well on your end. It's been a while and i know and clearly understand that we can't be anything more other than being friends ๐Ÿ™‚ So i'd like to share something with you that may pique your interest"..then the next thing i know i got a call from him? I was beyond shocked- then he goes, what do you mean we are just going to be friends? I'm like, i thought that's what you wanted because you stopped the communication and that was it- then he goes, i don't want us to be just friends? See what i mean by i am Confused as F!!! So fast forward to now, the communication between us has been on and off-and tonight he sends me this text "i want you to be mine"! What does he mean by thisโ€”?i am so guarded because i was doing so well with me moving on and now i am back trying to guess what the hell is going on!!!help please!

Why are you tolerating this?


Because she's desperate and dumb. Some Scorps think they'll shrivel up and die without a relationship, so they cling on to anything that resembles it. It's fucking pathetic.

My two cents...

You were never over the Taurus. The claim that you were is utter bullshit - if that was the case, you wouldn't have contacted him again (and the business context is a lame excuse). Typical Scorpio woman unable to move on and desperately resorting to manipulation tactics...

Now, he's trying to work his charms again (and you already knew this would happen, hence getting back in touch with him). Cue projecting all the blame onto him, while feeding off all the drama with the enthusiasm of a meth head in a meth lab... and all the while acting like you never wanted any of this in the first place.

*smh*



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Best post of the day.

Pretty much what I told OP in my post. She didn't need to contact him at all.
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it ๐Ÿ™‚ i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
Ignore Rockyroadicecream or block her. She is a condescending and bitter bitch who has to put others down, so she can feel better about herself.
But at least Rocky tells the truth....
I disagree. She said the OP was dumb, desperate, and a hoe. The OP wasted her time in defending herself and countering these statements as false.
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Actually that's not quite true. She did not say she was dumb.

She asked why the OP was so dumb. Therefore, she only inferred it based on her own reasoning and evidence.

She also didn't say the OP was desperate and she did not say the OP was a hoe.

She made a suggestion towards OP's action and state of mind by saying 'less hoe desperation' and suggested OP have 'more self respect' rather than calling her a desperate hoe.

The context in which the post was written makes a big difference here. See post below.



"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it ๐Ÿ™‚ i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
Ignore Rockyroadicecream or block her. She is a condescending and bitter bitch who has to put others down, so she can feel better about herself.
But at least Rocky tells the truth....
I disagree. She said the OP was dumb, desperate, and a hoe. The OP wasted her time in defending herself and countering these statements as false.


Actually that's not quite true. She did not say she was dumb.

She asked why the OP was so dumb. Therefore, she only inferred it based on her own reasoning and evidence.

She also didn't say the OP was desperate and she did not say the OP was a hoe.

She made a suggestion towards OP's action and state of mind by saying 'less hoe desperation' and suggested OP have 'more self respect' rather than calling her a desperate hoe.

The context in which the post was written makes a big difference here. See post below.



"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
When the OP wasted time in defending herself and said, "I am not dumb or desperate", Rockyroadicecream said "why yes, yes you are". Go back and read the entire exchange between them.

Rockyroadicecream could get her points across without putting down others. But instead, she has to consistently put down others to make herself feel better. She is mean, condescending, and bitter.

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I read it all. Thoroughly.

I'm sorry but I missed the section where we must all convey things in exactly the same way as everybody else. Heaven forbid we have different communication style s and view points. You must be one of those liberals.

You see mean, condescending, and bitter.

I see honesty, frankness, and common sense. Something the OP is missing.
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it ๐Ÿ™‚ i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
Ignore Rockyroadicecream or block her. She is a condescending and bitter bitch who has to put others down, so she can feel better about herself.
But at least Rocky tells the truth....
I disagree. She said the OP was dumb, desperate, and a hoe. The OP wasted her time in defending herself and countering these statements as false.


Actually that's not quite true. She did not say she was dumb.

She asked why the OP was so dumb. Therefore, she only inferred it based on her own reasoning and evidence.

She also didn't say the OP was desperate and she did not say the OP was a hoe.

She made a suggestion towards OP's action and state of mind by saying 'less hoe desperation' and suggested OP have 'more self respect' rather than calling her a desperate hoe.

The context in which the post was written makes a big difference here. See post below.



"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
When the OP wasted time in defending herself and said, "I am not dumb or desperate", Rockyroadicecream said "why yes, yes you are". Go back and read the entire exchange between them.

Rockyroadicecream could get her points across without putting down others. But instead, she has to consistently put down others to make herself feel better. She is mean, condescending, and bitter.


I read it all. Thoroughly.

I'm sorry but I missed the section where we must all convey things in exactly the same way as everybody else. Heaven forbid we have different communication style s and view points. You must be one of those liberals.

You see mean, condescending, and bitter.

I see honesty, frankness, and common sense. Something the OP is missing.
We'll just agree to disagree. I see no honesty in jumping to quick conclusions that a person is desperate, dumb, or a hoe over just this scenario. It's on a consistent basis, so the OP isn't the first or the last. And what does our political affiliation have to do with it?

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What you are missing here is that you're also jumping to conclusions that the OP is NOT desperate, dumb, or a hoe. You don't know that she isn't just as much as Rocky doesn't know that she is. You and Rocky are just at different ends of the same spectrum.

The honesty here is that the guy had not bothered to contact the OP in three months. There could be a multitude of reasons for that but there is a strong likelihood it is because he's not interested in her. She emotionally manipulated to provoke a reaction in the bull. That's pretty desperate. Dumb too but that's just my view. I can't comment on the hoe section but OP should be checking in with herself regarding her motives and actions.

Liberal. Thought so.
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it ๐Ÿ™‚ i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
Ignore Rockyroadicecream or block her. She is a condescending and bitter bitch who has to put others down, so she can feel better about herself.
But at least Rocky tells the truth....
I disagree. She said the OP was dumb, desperate, and a hoe. The OP wasted her time in defending herself and countering these statements as false.


Actually that's not quite true. She did not say she was dumb.

She asked why the OP was so dumb. Therefore, she only inferred it based on her own reasoning and evidence.

She also didn't say the OP was desperate and she did not say the OP was a hoe.

She made a suggestion towards OP's action and state of mind by saying 'less hoe desperation' and suggested OP have 'more self respect' rather than calling her a desperate hoe.

The context in which the post was written makes a big difference here. See post below.



"Confusing" = he's not into you.

The big question is, why are you so dumb that you think this "confusing" behavior is worth your precious time?

Less hoe desperation and more self respect.
When the OP wasted time in defending herself and said, "I am not dumb or desperate", Rockyroadicecream said "why yes, yes you are". Go back and read the entire exchange between them.

Rockyroadicecream could get her points across without putting down others. But instead, she has to consistently put down others to make herself feel better. She is mean, condescending, and bitter.


I read it all. Thoroughly.

I'm sorry but I missed the section where we must all convey things in exactly the same way as everybody else. Heaven forbid we have different communication style s and view points. You must be one of those liberals.

You see mean, condescending, and bitter.

I see honesty, frankness, and common sense. Something the OP is missing.
We'll just agree to disagree. I see no honesty in jumping to quick conclusions that a person is desperate, dumb, or a hoe over just this scenario. It's on a consistent basis, so the OP isn't the first or the last. And what does our political affiliation have to do with it?




What you are missing here is that you're also jumping to conclusions that the OP is NOT desperate, dumb, or a hoe. You don't know that she isn't just as much as Rocky doesn't know that she is. You and Rocky are just at different ends of the same spectrum.

The honesty here is that the guy had not bothered to contact the OP in three months. There could be a multitude of reasons for that but there is a strong likelihood it is because he's not interested in her. She emotionally manipulated to provoke a reaction in the bull. That's pretty desperate. Dumb too but that's just my view. I can't comment on the hoe section but OP should be checking in with herself regarding her motives and actions.

Liberal. Thought so.
You didn't answer my question on what this had to do with political affiliation, but thank you for making your's clear as day. I will return the favor. I am a registered Independent and vote based on the candidates running along with their stances on the issues. Everyone that I have voted for has not been elected. For example, I did not vote for Obama. I voted for John McCain and then didn't vote the 2nd time that Obama ran. I still don't know what our political affiliations have to do with this. Do you mind telling me what it has to do with this? You may also keep assuming that I am a liberal because I simply don't care.

Now, you go from saying Rockyroadicecream didn't say she was a hoe, dumb, or desperate to being in agreement with her. No, I am not jumping to quick conclusions that the OP isn't these things. I am giving her the benefit of doubt, especially since she claimed that she wasn't. I agree with some of the posters have said. If she wouldn't have contacted him, he wouldn't have contacted her. I think it is in her best interest to move on. I don't think she was desperate to contact him, but she was seeking a reaction, which she got. I don't think the OP is dumb either or that makes her dumb. Again, giving her the benefit of doubt.
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I'm glad it's clear as day to you but I'm afraid you've got the wrong end of the stick but that's what happens when you go assuming.

I said liberal as in a liberal thinker. Intolerant of intolerance. Unable to comprehend that others see things differently and communicate differently. Only able to see and comprehend things that align with your own view and your own expressions.

Not liberal fucking democrat as in political parties in the USA.

I'm not American. I don't live in America. The whole world doesn't revolve around you and your country.

I don't give a fuck who you did or did not vote for. That's your business but I'm glad you got that shit off your chest as it's clearly been brewing for a while.

Go Trump โ€”
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I am so back in here!!! Update..since my "confusing concern" harnessed a bit of momentum based on each other's perceptions of course? But glad i posted this here coz some of you were so right, i have not truly moved on from Mr Taurus- i realized i never even left- i just burried the deep feelings down to avoid more emotional imbalance of all sort. So, i followed my intuition- the path of least resistance was to ask Mr Taurus where he's at when it comes to "our situation". He said to me that he wanted me and that has never changed or faded away. We met on another date again after so many months of not seeing each other and as usual the date was amazing. We picked up where we left off. We talked for hours- he kissed me on my cheek and said our goodnights. Then we continued with our communication- he's always been a "one or two words texter"..lol fast forward to now- Mr Taurus finally made it to my apt on Saturday morning? And when i say it was the most magical Saturday i've ever had- i am not exaggerating! The first intimate moment we had together and omg i could have melted?? every minute we had together that day was perfection. And then reality hits again and back to the cold treatment! Why why why.. it's borderline mental torture just because it puts me back into wondering if he's legit and just needed more time and space to sort his emotions out or he's still not sure if he likes me enough or not?
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@AnotherTaurusGuy will it eventually settle though? I mean the hot and cold approach? He said to me he wish we could have spend much longer time on Sat. Then he said that we'll see each other again more often, etc. but then when i sent him a text asking if he made it back to his place alright - he replied "yes" and that was it. I am honing my ability to be as patient as possible but i can't help but also wonder about the what ifs. Thanks for your input!
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Mr Taurus finally made it to my apt on Saturday morning? And when i say it was the most magical Saturday i've ever had- i am not exaggerating! The first intimate moment we had together and omg i could have melted?? every minute we had together that day was perfection. And then reality hits again and back to the cold treatment! Why why why.. it's borderline mental torture just because it puts me back into wondering if he's legit and just needed more time and space to sort his emotions out or he's still not sure if he likes me enough or not?
Was this a long lingerinig kiss....or sex?

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@TaurusBull1977- sex and it was in the morning- and it was freaking magical and amazing! He was very "touchy feely" even after the sex. He noticed some of my art wall decor and asked me what is it that i liked about the decor. He said he likes how my apt was set-up. He noticed my collection of crystals, etc. that moment was just magical! But why am i back to somewhat of a limbo- maybe i am thinking about it too deep? He sent me a text message or two but i honestly thought that the momentum between us will keep going and not go back to the super slow pace.
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How long did he court you before the two of you had sex (ie, how many dates)?

Were the dates and phone conversations daily, weekly, sporadic?

Were there only text messages exchanged between the both of you?

What topics were discussed in these conversations (family, friends, work, leisure, etc)?

Not passing judgement on you, but I need to see his consistent/vs inconsistent process/actions?
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@TaurusBull1977- Geez i will try my best to remember the timeline..lol ok so we met Nov of 2015- we must have went on 6-7 dates total. At one point, he completely disappeared for 3 months- and when we reunited again, i found out that he got irritated with me the last time we went out and that was the reason why he disappeared. The date prior to him coming to my apt was a dinner date- and it was the date after he disappeared for 3 months but we did not dwell on it at all and we picked up where we left off. He talked about his business, family and he asked about my job, my family, what's new and if i dated or entertained any guy at all- i asked him if he was in the hunt as well and he said no. He said there's women wanting his attention but he he said he was not interested at all. Then it was amazing and he gave a kiss on the cheek and we hugged and that was it. We exchanged text messages and pics after that date and kept fhe communication flowing at his pace- slow and short..lol then a month later which was Sat- he came and we finally had our first magical moment. We talked about a lot of things as well after the intimate encounter- he shared with me about stuff that's going on with his company, he shared that he needed to study for another certification that's needed to take place, he shared with me about his son, etc. overall, it was pure bliss. We hugged and kissed and hugged and kiss some more before he walked out the door. So now not sure what is next. I know he is extremely busy so i don't bother to text him at all but i also don't want to slow the momentum again.
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I can say from experience, I've been with a lot of bulls in my life (Cancer with Scorpio moon), in fact my longest relationship was with a Bull. When a Bull wants you, or really any man, but you won't be questioning it like this.

My Taurus used to even update me like "hey I'll be quiet for a few days, I have family things and work issues." And then he would be back. He wouldn't answer my texts right away but when he did they were never one word "yes/no/lol."

Taurus wants to be in your life when they want you, almost all of my male cousins are Taurus and I see this in them. No quedtion.

I had a Taurus keep going silent on me and I let it go. He's happy keeping you for now cause you're there, and Taurus like having that feeling of having someone. But if he wanted you, his behaviour would not be like this. And I've dated several Taurus men. Like a lot.
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@CG04- i hear what you are saying. I just wonder has any of the taurus guy you dated proceeded in a such a slow pace? I kept reading that this is the norm in the taurus world.


Yeah it was slow but consistent. Consistent is the key word, maybe he is going through things but going off the grid altogether...it's not consistent. Like I had a Taurus who would reply to text infrequently but that didn't change until he became more comfortable. But he didn't go missing for periods at a time.

I had another Taurus who would reply huge long essays but mostly about superficial stuff and that changed when we got closer. He would go missing but let me know why.

I feel if Taurus cares for you, they let you know they may fall off the map for some time. I don't think they would be oblivious to how that makes someone feel.

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@CG04- i hear what you are saying. I just wonder has any of the taurus guy you dated proceeded in a such a slow pace? I kept reading that this is the norm in the taurus world.


Yeah it was slow but consistent. Consistent is the key word, maybe he is going through things but going off the grid altogether...it's not consistent. Like I had a Taurus who would reply to text infrequently but that didn't change until he became more comfortable. But he didn't go missing for periods at a time.

I had another Taurus who would reply huge long essays but mostly about superficial stuff and that changed when we got closer. He would go missing but let me know why.

I feel if Taurus cares for you, they let you know they may fall off the map for some time. I don't think they would be oblivious to how that makes someone feel.

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He's been consistent as far as letting me know that he wants me- texts and occassional calls. The only time that i questioned his consistency was when he disappeared- only to re-appear again (after i sent him an email saying that i am ok with us just being friends)- then he told me the reason why he disappeared- he got annoyed with me from the last time that we went out prior to his disappearance because i had a gum stuck on his shirt? I said to him it's a shallow reason but he said it's was a big deal for him- and then we moved past that. As far as his text messages, he's never been the type who will send long messages via text. He's more the talk in person type. At one point he told me that he's very buys with his biz and family life and did not have much time to really text back and forth- i got annoyed with it for a moment but then i was fine after that.

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@CG04- i hear what you are saying. I just wonder has any of the taurus guy you dated proceeded in a such a slow pace? I kept reading that this is the norm in the taurus world.


Yeah it was slow but consistent. Consistent is the key word, maybe he is going through things but going off the grid altogether...it's not consistent. Like I had a Taurus who would reply to text infrequently but that didn't change until he became more comfortable. But he didn't go missing for periods at a time. Yeah

I had another Taurus who would reply huge long essays but mostly about superficial stuff and that changed when we got closer. He would go missing but let me know why.

I feel if Taurus cares for you, they let you know they may fall off the map for some time. I don't think they would be oblivious to how that makes someone feel.


He's been consistent as far as letting me know that he wants me- texts and occassional calls. The only time that i questioned his consistency was when he disappeared- only to re-appear again (after i sent him an email saying that i am ok with us just being friends)- then he told me the reason why he disappeared- he got annoyed with me from the last time that we went out prior to his disappearance because i had a gum stuck on his shirt? I said to him it's a shallow reason but he said it's was a big deal for him- and then we moved past that. As far as his text messages, he's never been the type who will send long messages via text. He's more the talk in person type. At one point he told me that he's very buys with his biz and family life and did not have much time to really text back and forth- i got annoyed with it for a moment but then i was fine after that.

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Taurus says lots of times they want someone, what shows they actually want someone is their gradual progression in being emotional. And it seems he is not giving you that. I feel he is using you from some rebound...the gym excuse seems very fake. May be my Scorpio moon picking up signs, but I hope my feeling is wrong. Taurus can send you on a whirlwind for years but still know in their heart you are not the one.

And yes, he disappeared on you, but he didn't appear. You reached out to him. Just remember that was not of his own initiative.

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@MaxPower- no he did not stop texting- he's still the same like he was before intimate moment. I guess i was hoping for more a more emotional text exchanges..lol i don't see it as a disrespect at all. I felt pure connection and he's always the type that's affectionate in actions but never with words- if this makes sense.
Well, that's better. I don't want to kick his ass as much now. ๐Ÿ™‚

What changed to prompt this reunion?
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-Lol no ass kicking needed! What prompted the reunion was the email i sent him after he disappeared for 3 months- i emailed him saying that i was ok with us being just friends. He called the very same day i sent the email and he said he does not want to be just a friend. Then we picked up where we left off.
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@CG04- i hear what you are saying. I just wonder has any of the taurus guy you dated proceeded in a such a slow pace? I kept reading that this is the norm in the taurus world.


Yeah it was slow but consistent. Consistent is the key word, maybe he is going through things but going off the grid altogether...it's not consistent. Like I had a Taurus who would reply to text infrequently but that didn't change until he became more comfortable. But he didn't go missing for periods at a time. Yeah

I had another Taurus who would reply huge long essays but mostly about superficial stuff and that changed when we got closer. He would go missing but let me know why.

I feel if Taurus cares for you, they let you know they may fall off the map for some time. I don't think they would be oblivious to how that makes someone feel.


He's been consistent as far as letting me know that he wants me- texts and occassional calls. The only time that i questioned his consistency was when he disappeared- only to re-appear again (after i sent him an email saying that i am ok with us just being friends)- then he told me the reason why he disappeared- he got annoyed with me from the last time that we went out prior to his disappearance because i had a gum stuck on his shirt? I said to him it's a shallow reason but he said it's was a big deal for him- and then we moved past that. As far as his text messages, he's never been the type who will send long messages via text. He's more the talk in person type. At one point he told me that he's very buys with his biz and family life and did not have much time to really text back and forth- i got annoyed with it for a moment but then i was fine after that.


Taurus says lots of times they want someone, what shows they actually want someone is their gradual progression in being emotional. And it seems he is not giving you that. I feel he is using you from some rebound...the gym excuse seems very fake. May be my Scorpio moon picking up signs, but I hope my feeling is wrong. Taurus can send you on a whirlwind for years but still know in their heart you are not the one.

And yes, he disappeared on you, but he didn't appear. You reached out to him. Just remember that was not of his own initiative.

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You have a point. I am a scorpio as well- and my scorpio intuition tells me he's sincere but maybe because i like the guy a lot? I think we are not on a "committed" status yet- which is why the pace is still slow. But when we are together, everything just feels so right and the connection is undeniable. I

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@CG04- i hear what you are saying. I just wonder has any of the taurus guy you dated proceeded in a such a slow pace? I kept reading that this is the norm in the taurus world.


Yeah it was slow but consistent. Consistent is the key word, maybe he is going through things but going off the grid altogether...it's not consistent. Like I had a Taurus who would reply to text infrequently but that didn't change until he became more comfortable. But he didn't go missing for periods at a time. Yeah

I had another Taurus who would reply huge long essays but mostly about superficial stuff and that changed when we got closer. He would go missing but let me know why.

I feel if Taurus cares for you, they let you know they may fall off the map for some time. I don't think they would be oblivious to how that makes someone feel.


He's been consistent as far as letting me know that he wants me- texts and occassional calls. The only time that i questioned his consistency was when he disappeared- only to re-appear again (after i sent him an email saying that i am ok with us just being friends)- then he told me the reason why he disappeared- he got annoyed with me from the last time that we went out prior to his disappearance because i had a gum stuck on his shirt? I said to him it's a shallow reason but he said it's was a big deal for him- and then we moved past that. As far as his text messages, he's never been the type who will send long messages via text. He's more the talk in person type. At one point he told me that he's very buys with his biz and family life and did not have much time to really text back and forth- i got annoyed with it for a moment but then i was fine after that.


Taurus says lots of times they want someone, what shows they actually want someone is their gradual progression in being emotional. And it seems he is not giving you that. I feel he is using you from some rebound...the gym excuse seems very fake. May be my Scorpio moon picking up signs, but I hope my feeling is wrong. Taurus can send you on a whirlwind for years but still know in their heart you are not the one.

And yes, he disappeared on you, but he didn't appear. You reached out to him. Just remember that was not of his own initiative.



You have a point. I am a scorpio as well- and my scorpio intuition tells me he's sincere but maybe because i like the guy a lot? I think we are not on a "committed" status yet- which is why the pace is still slow. But when we are together, everything just feels so right and the connection is undeniable. I

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Why did you create this thread you're not listening to a f****** thing that anybody is telling you! You have an excuse for every bad behavior so since you have all of the answers why the f*** are you posting on here?

A man who is in love with you will not leave or disappear from your life for 90 days now you may accept that because you want to be with him but normal women do not accept that because we know that it is a strong indication of his ambivalent lack of interest just like after screwing you he has turned cold again a man who is in love with you will not do that do you get that what are you not gettingโ€”??

You are not trying to get clarity why are you wasting our time you want to continue to deal with this man - so deal with him and leave us alone you're not listening to a thing that anybody is saying.

You obviously have never been with a man that's in love with you because those of us who have a man who is in love with us, are trying to tell you how a man who is in love with you behaves!!!###

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STOP WASTING OUT TIME!

When a man really wants to be with you and he wants you to be his, he does not go cold after sex even when he moves slow.

He loves you and cares about your feelings too much to go cold after and momentum does grow when a man is in love with you. But you're too sick right now!!

Your mental capacity to handle the truth is greatly diminished by a profound amount of denial so why are you wasting our time?



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And yes I'm coming on strong because I don't like when women suffering from mental problems get taken advantage of by men; it's obvious that this girl is "off."

And this guy he knows that this poor woman is off he's taking advantage of her and then having sex with her telling her what she wants to hear.



Her brain is not allowing her to see what the rest of us can see and and I have a lot of compassion for her because there are a lot of people who suffer from mental health issues and they don't even know it. Like they think that their reality is real reality but she's having a break in reality. There's a part of her that can see reality and then she goes back into like fantasy real fast this is a mental health concern.

I didn't mean to sound harsh to you because it's obvious that you there's some mental health issues going on I just hope that you get the help that you need because you're having a break in reality.
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