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Posted by Shrewdsharp
And yes I'm coming on strong because I don't like when women suffering from mental problems get taken advantage of by men; it's obvious that this girl is "off."

And this guy he knows that this poor woman is off he's taking advantage of her and then having sex with her telling her what she wants to hear.



Her brain is not allowing her to see what the rest of us can see and and I have a lot of compassion for her because there are a lot of people who suffer from mental health issues and they don't even know it. Like they think that their reality is real reality but she's having a break in reality. There's a part of her that can see reality and then she goes back into like fantasy real fast this is a mental health concern.

I didn't mean to sound harsh to you because it's obvious that you there's some mental health issues going on I just hope that you get the help that you need because you're having a break in reality.
You are so beyond harsh and totally unnecessary. My issue isn't yours- so be happy. I am here to get insight about taurus traits- i am very capable of fighting my own battle. You on the other hand has to control or at least choose your words more politely- we can all agree to disagree but cursing and talking like you own my "BRAIN" is irrelevant and embarassing to say the least.
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Posted by CG04
@ScorpioNluv I think you sort of made your decisions, if you've decided his intentions are pure then it seems any advice will just bring us back to square one. Good luck to you! I've been there but I also know that sometimes we learn the hard way.



I am taking it all in and will sift through all of these input tonight when i am in my quiet mode. That's the time when i find some clarity of situations. I do took note that his empotional unavailability is questionable as well as his motives. I know for sure that i will back off a little from initiating the communication to stay afloat. Like you mentioned, if he likes me/wants me to be in his circle, he'll find a way to make it happen. Thanks again!
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Okay so let me tell you some b******* since that's the only thing that you seemed to resonate with.... just give him some time and he will cone around.....that's bullshyt!!!

You are not listening to a thing that people are telling you who are wiser and older. We have experience with men who treated us the way that this creep is treating you compared to men who have been in love with us!!!

But Scorpios are such know-it-alls that you can't tell them a got damn thing!

SO STOP WASTING OUR FUC K ING TIME OR FU KING LISTEN!!!

You don't know di


You know what? This wasn't necessary.

You know what when women are in this deep level of denial, it takes tough love to get through to them because nobody is getting through to her and she's not listening.

Even on the psychic lines you can't tell a Scorpio a goddamn thing I don't even know why this know-it-all girl created this thread since she knows every goddamn thing she's not listening to anybody


I think she got the message before you tripled down and used a bunch of F-bombs.

you are more than welcome to block me but something is wrong with this chick and she's not getting it and she's not getting it because she's off and when you're dealing with somebody with mental health issues you have to communicate with them strongly otherwise they just don't get it like she's not getting it.

And in addition to that I think that that man oughta be ashamed of himself because it doesn't take very long to figure out that this chick got some mental health issues he knew that she was off and he went ahead and slept with her that's a damn shame and she's going to defend herself and she's going to come up with some other excuse to his behavior because she's crazy and sometimes you need to come in hard with crazy people.


I don't think she has said anything to indicate she has a mental problem. She sounds like someone going through a typical case of wishing the silence meant something more than it does because she cares about this dude.

However, your over-the-top reaction to a stranger's story makes me think you need to see someone about your own mental health.
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You are the OP; exact same energy .?

My Mars is Aquarius so the planet of War is in words and communication; and yes when I see an injustice I go in hard . Especially when I feel an injustice has occurred like this man toying with your heart knowing that you're a little off.

I mean you're sweet like most Scorpios but it took maybe three to four of your posts defending this situation to know that you're a little off and he knows that and he has such little character that he went ahead and had sex with you anyway that's disgusting.



Another reason that I know that this is the Scorpio because - you can't see the truth; you can't see it because God has not blessed you with that ability. Everybody can see this situation very clearly but you.

It's like a beautiful mind it's like they're people in the room that only a schizophrenic can see and it's like there's things happening in your mind about this relationship that only you see but you can't hear me.



But what happens is as soon as reality hits you you can't take it or tolerate it too long so you make some type of ridiculous excuse for his behavior and you think that that's normal and we know that that's crazy.

I hope one day somebody falls in love with you so that you know the difference between jerks like this and somebody who really loves you.

I'm done with it because talking to a Scorpio is a f****** waste of time!!! Im done. Good luck. ?☺?
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
And yes I'm coming on strong because I don't like when women suffering from mental problems get taken advantage of by men; it's obvious that this girl is "off."

And this guy he knows that this poor woman is off he's taking advantage of her and then having sex with her telling her what she wants to hear.



Her brain is not allowing her to see what the rest of us can see and and I have a lot of compassion for her because there are a lot of people who suffer from mental health issues and they don't even know it. Like they think that their reality is real reality but she's having a break in reality. There's a part of her that can see reality and then she goes back into like fantasy real fast this is a mental health concern.

I didn't mean to sound harsh to you because it's obvious that you there's some mental health issues going on I just hope that you get the help that you need because you're having a break in reality.



I am laughing out loud because of your comment "mental health issues"— But all is good. Thank you for your heartfelt input 🙂 i learned a thing or two
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And yes I'm coming on strong because I don't like when women suffering from mental problems get taken advantage of by men; it's obvious that this girl is "off."

And this guy he knows that this poor woman is off he's taking advantage of her and then having sex with her telling her what she wants to hear.



Her brain is not allowing her to see what the rest of us can see and and I have a lot of compassion for her because there are a lot of people who suffer from mental health issues and they don't even know it. Like they think that their reality is real reality but she's having a break in reality. There's a part of her that can see reality and then she goes back into like fantasy real fast this is a mental health concern.

I didn't mean to sound harsh to you because it's obvious that you there's some mental health issues going on I just hope that you get the help that you need because you're having a break in reality.



I am laughing out loud because of your comment "mental health issues"— But all is good. Thank you for your heartfelt input 🙂 i learned a thing or two


This crazy bitch thinks we're the same person. LOL
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I am lost..lol totally lost..lol - fyi- i am the OP?
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Why not?

Why didn't you probe about the relationship status between the both of you?
I just didn't feel like i needed to at the time- given that we were just on the getting to know each other phase and there was really no serious talk about us declaring that we're officially a couple- even up till now. I'm even thinking of asking him if we're exclusively dating now..or maybe that would rub off as needy

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I just didn't feel like i needed to at the time- given that we were just on the getting to know each other phase and there was really no serious talk about us declaring that we're officially a couple- even up till now. I'm even thinking of asking him if we're exclusively dating now..or maybe that would rub off as needy


The conversation should have been introduced prior to deleting the dating profiles.

The conversation should have also been introduced prior to the reconcilation, dates, and the morning sexual encounter....

I think it's about the time the both of you have that 'talk.'

A Bull's motto is "if it aint broke, don't try to fix it."

We can can be quite 'fixed' in our disposition and complacent.

You created a 'gray' area, and allowed him to move at his own leisure, sporadically.

Being firm and clear about what you want doesn't make you needy.

We prefer for people t be upfront about what they're looking for.

We wouldn't want it any other way.

In my opinion, he seems interested, just complacent, and quite aloof.

He must be an Air-dominated Bull.

You're not on his top list of priorities.

This can change, but this will be left up to you.

SPEAK up.

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I just didn't feel like i needed to at the time- given that we were just on the getting to know each other phase and there was really no serious talk about us declaring that we're officially a couple- even up till now. I'm even thinking of asking him if we're exclusively dating now..or maybe that would rub off as needy


The conversation should have been introduced prior to deleting the dating profiles.

The conversation should have also been introduced prior to the reconcilation, dates, and the morning sexual encounter....

I think it's about the time the both of you have that 'talk.'

A Bull's motto is "if it aint broke, don't try to fix it."

We can can be quite 'fixed' in our disposition and complacent.

You created a 'gray' area, and allowed him to move at his own leisure, sporadically.

Being firm and clear about what you want doesn't make you needy.

We prefer for people t be upfront about what they're looking for.

We wouldn't want it any other way.

In my opinion, he seems interested, just complacent, and quite aloof.

He must be an Air-dominated Bull.

You're not on his top list of priorities.

This can change, but this will be left up to you.

SPEAK up.

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His moon is in Aquarius. Thank you for your input. I will def have the talk with him about our current status. I am guilty of the grey area- coz i did not want to proceed like we're an item right from the get go coz i was also hesitant about the idea in the beginning. I just know that when i ask him something- he always give me a straight answer. So i will ask him now..keeping my fingers crossed..lol thank you so much!

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Why not?

Why didn't you probe about the relationship status between the both of you?
I just didn't feel like i needed to at the time- given that we were just on the getting to know each other phase and there was really no serious talk about us declaring that we're officially a couple- even up till now. I'm even thinking of asking him if we're exclusively dating now..or maybe that would rub off as needy


Maybe that woman was right.

Good grief. I'm out.
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Lol thanks for your input 🙂

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In my opinion, he seems interested, just complacent, and quite aloof.

He must be an Air-dominated Bull.

You're not on his top list of priorities.

This can change, but this will be left up to you.



His moon is in Aquarius.

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I knew it! I have an air moon placement as well (Moon in Gemini).

His actions doesn't indicate disinterest, just aloofness.

There is a difference.

Most Bulls with Air Moons have unorthodox ways of bridging the gap of emotional ties.

It's not a priority, unless the other person makes it a priority.

With Bulls, this may also be contributed to the cards that are presented to them as well.

Adapting more of a 'a spade is a spade' mentality, and 'if it aint broke, don't try to fix it' concept as well.

Have that discussion with him.

The two of you are not going to get any closer the way things are going now.

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In my opinion, he seems interested, just complacent, and quite aloof.

He must be an Air-dominated Bull.

You're not on his top list of priorities.

This can change, but this will be left up to you.



His moon is in Aquarius.


I knew it! I have an air moon placement as well (Moon in Gemini).

His actions doesn't indicate disinterest, just aloofness.

There is a difference.

Most Bulls with Air Moons have unorthodox ways of bridging the gap of emotional ties.

It's not a priority, unless the other person makes it a priority.

With Bulls, this may also be contributed to the cards that are presented to them as well.

Adapting more of a 'a spade is a spade' mentality, and 'if it aint broke, don't try to fix it' concept as well.

Have that discussion with him.

The two of you are not going to get any closer the way things are going now.



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Thank you for this much needed clarity! I will send him an email today and genuinely lay it all out. If he wants me just as much as i want him it will be amazing. Will update as soon as i hear back from him. Thanks again!

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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.
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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?
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In my opinion, he seems interested, just complacent, and quite aloof.

He must be an Air-dominated Bull.

You're not on his top list of priorities.

This can change, but this will be left up to you.



His moon is in Aquarius.


I knew it! I have an air moon placement as well (Moon in Gemini).

His actions doesn't indicate disinterest, just aloofness.

There is a difference.

Most Bulls with Air Moons have unorthodox ways of bridging the gap of emotional ties.

It's not a priority, unless the other person makes it a priority.

With Bulls, this may also be contributed to the cards that are presented to them as well.

Adapting more of a 'a spade is a spade' mentality, and 'if it aint broke, don't try to fix it' concept as well.

Have that discussion with him.

The two of you are not going to get any closer the way things are going now.





Thank you for this much needed clarity! I will send him an email today and genuinely lay it all out. If he wants me just as much as i want him it will be amazing. Will update as soon as i hear back from him. Thanks again!

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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?

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Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.

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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.

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You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.


You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
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Ik but is there any sort of advice you could give me to get him back?
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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.


You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
Ik but is there any sort of advice you could give me to get him back?

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No because you shouldn't be worrying about these things. He's just a guy. There will be hundreds, thousands that you will meet.
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@rockyroadicecream- you must have had some ill issues towards scorps? It shows in your comments! I am certain you've had your own share of "dumb and desperate" moments as you like to label it 🙂 i came into this forum to seek for a better understanding from people who's had similar encounters with tauruses..i did not come here to solicit your acidic point of view just because you are not a fan of scorps..get on with the alkaline water girl, your tap water must be making your mouth too acidic hence the low vibe, low frequency comment??
Her harshness aside, I understand her point. From what I read, he ghosted you. Yet, you want him around after he's caused you so much pain. What purpose does he serve in your life? What does he add to it, objectively?

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It's easy really'

She haven't met anyone so she will dwell on last relashionship until someone new will come along.

Yep that email was act of desperation!

Denying it is a lie! Who cares about your project after he had been gone for a long time? You really believe he does? No! It was a chance to get in touch! So she took it and BOOM! Call from a friend! Who wants her to be his!!! Where was his ass - we will never know because she doesn't ask right questions.
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@JohnTheBaptist100- she may have a point but it's overshadowed by her negative energy. I came to this forum to help me understand Taurus guys in general when it comes to dating- did not come here to entertain Rocky's uneducated critic. No need for "hoe and dumb" comments- as if she's never been confused her whole life..lol
This is kind of forum it is!

Some will slap you silly. Some will try to understand you. Some will feel sorry for you. But you clearly getting on ppl nerves playing dumb - I sent

Him an email thinking he will care about project that woman he dumped is working on!!!

Just think how it's sounds!
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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.


You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
Ik but is there any sort of advice you could give me to get him back?


No because you shouldn't be worrying about these things. He's just a guy. There will be hundreds, thousands that you will meet.
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I know I may be young to you but I can guarantee that I am a lot more mature than most my age, I am a Leo so love is really important to me. I was hoping to get some advice and insight on my situation from people with more experience with Taurus boys. So I would really appreciate if you would help me 🙂

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And yes I'm coming on strong because I don't like when women suffering from mental problems get taken advantage of by men; it's obvious that this girl is "off."

And this guy he knows that this poor woman is off he's taking advantage of her and then having sex with her telling her what she wants to hear.



Her brain is not allowing her to see what the rest of us can see and and I have a lot of compassion for her because there are a lot of people who suffer from mental health issues and they don't even know it. Like they think that their reality is real reality but she's having a break in reality. There's a part of her that can see reality and then she goes back into like fantasy real fast this is a mental health concern.

I didn't mean to sound harsh to you because it's obvious that you there's some mental health issues going on I just hope that you get the help that you need because you're having a break in reality.
You are so beyond harsh and totally unnecessary. My issue isn't yours- so be happy. I am here to get insight about taurus traits- i am very capable of fighting my own battle. You on the other hand has to control or at least choose your words more politely- we can all agree to disagree but cursing and talking like you own my "BRAIN" is irrelevant and embarassing to say the least.
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Your behavior calling for harsh words!!!

You DO wasting everyone's time.

He hot your email and bulb lit up - sex!

He worked hard for sex - he got it and he went on with his life!

Email h agai and you will probably have sex again! And again and again until you will get older and he will want someone fresher.

You have to stop this nonsense!
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Posted by Leogirl1238
This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.


You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
Ik but is there any sort of advice you could give me to get him back?


No because you shouldn't be worrying about these things. He's just a guy. There will be hundreds, thousands that you will meet.
I know I may be young to you but I can guarantee that I am a lot more mature than most my age, I am a Leo so love is really important to me. I was hoping to get some advice and insight on my situation from people with more experience with Taurus boys. So I would really appreciate if you would help me 🙂

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we all think we are mature at 15. that's what happens at that age.

i'm giving you advice and trying to help. the problem is it's just not what you want to hear.

focus on you. become you. boys are fun to learn about but don't even focus on falling in love for now. by doing that you will have the men (not boys) falling all over you. concentrate on yourself for now. don't rush. have patience. be wise. it will pay off in ways you cannot even begin to imagine.
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Posted by Leogirl1238
This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.


You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
Ik but is there any sort of advice you could give me to get him back?


No because you shouldn't be worrying about these things. He's just a guy. There will be hundreds, thousands that you will meet.
I know I may be young to you but I can guarantee that I am a lot more mature than most my age, I am a Leo so love is really important to me. I was hoping to get some advice and insight on my situation from people with more experience with Taurus boys. So I would really appreciate if you would help me 🙂



we all think we are mature at 15. that's what happens at that age.

i'm giving you advice and trying to help. the problem is it's just not what you want to hear.

focus on you. become you. boys are fun to learn about but don't even focus on falling in love for now. by doing that you will have the men (not boys) falling all over you. concentrate on yourself for now. don't rush. have patience. be wise. it will pay off in ways you cannot even begin to imagine.

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Posted by Leogirl1238
This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?


Because he has done this before after our first date saying he was not interested but after I got him to share his feelings he said he was just afraid to hurt me and thought I could not handle him.


You're too young. Have fun, learn lots. There is so much time for boys later.
Ik but is there any sort of advice you could give me to get him back?


No because you shouldn't be worrying about these things. He's just a guy. There will be hundreds, thousands that you will meet.
I know I may be young to you but I can guarantee that I am a lot more mature than most my age, I am a Leo so love is really important to me. I was hoping to get some advice and insight on my situation from people with more experience with Taurus boys. So I would really appreciate if you would help me 🙂

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Here's my advice to you.

Don't chase boys.

Don't try to 'help' him understand if he does or doesn't like you.

You are not his mother.

You asked him if he was interested. He said no. That's it. That's your answer. Leave him alone. It doesn't matter what was said or what happened last time. This is now THIS time. Therefore, it proceeds the 'last' time.

It's his loss. If he doesn't know his arse from his elbow, and sits there wallowing in his 'woe is me' shit then let him.

Learn when to walk away. When he sees you're not waiting for him or chasing him then he might wake up to his feelings quicker.
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Posted by ScorpioNluv
This isn't my first time on this board searching for some clarity about taurus guy- this taurus guy is still confusing as F!!! We go way back more than a year now of on and off talking/texting/ went on a few dates, and every single time was beyond magical! The connection between us was undeniable! Then he disappeared again- his 2nd disappearing act and this time was longer- 3 months to be exact! So i figured, maybe he was just not into me as much as i was so into him. So i kind of stopped reaching out and has moved on..so we lost contact last year from June-Sept. i joined a company and doing my side gig- and i figured i'd send him an email basically about the business gig that i was doing- coz i know he will be interested with it- and mind you, i was totally ok with us just be acquaintances. So my email intro was this (my exact words) "I hope all is well on your end. It's been a while and i know and clearly understand that we can't be anything more other than being friends 🙂 So i'd like to share something with you that may pique your interest"..then the next thing i know i got a call from him? I was beyond shocked- then he goes, what do you mean we are just going to be friends? I'm like, i thought that's what you wanted because you stopped the communication and that was it- then he goes, i don't want us to be just friends? See what i mean by i am Confused as F!!! So fast forward to now, the communication between us has been on and off-and tonight he sends me this text "i want you to be mine"! What does he mean by this—?i am so guarded because i was doing so well with me moving on and now i am back trying to guess what the hell is going on!!!help please!
You should be like "Oh, thats nice Im flattered you want me... but here are my terms"

Relationships are agreements, he will only continue to do to you what you allow, maybe have a convo about the things in him that you do not agree with
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This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.


Why are you chasing a boy who has already told you he is not interested in you?



Ego comes up in my mind.

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She is a Leo ??
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@BeautyandTheBull- thank you!


Du siehst ziemlich hübsch ..und interessant aus ! ...lass dich nicht von so Ego Monstern ...runterziehen...bei Taurus ...weißt du nie was ...Sache ist ! ...sie wollen dich nicht verletzen ...aber brechen dir das Herz ...ohne zu überlegen ! ...ich geh durch was ähnliches ..mit einer Frau ...sie is emotional ... abwesend ...und einen Tag sah es so aus als ..würde sie mich lieben ..und nun tötet sie mich ...mit ...leeren Aussagen ...und ich weiß nicht hier ..und ich weiß nicht da

.....Test für ....unser Selbstwertgefühl ! ...

Sie können gute Menschen sein ! ...

Aber ..sie haben oft keine Empathie ...weil sie nur an sich selbst denken ...absolute Ego Monster ....nimm's nicht persönlich (: du bist großartig