CancerianGoddess
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How To Seduce A Taurus
This will be slow and intimate, with a lot of touching, stroking and general procrastination and teasing. Set aside enough time to enjoy it, as it can be some of the sweetest torture, and may leave you wondering what you ever saw in quickies!
The good news is that your new Taurus will be loyal to you beyond question. Like so many other aspects of their lives, nothing and no one will dent their love or dedication once their mind is set.
WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN SEDUCING A TAURUS:
Tactics such as flashing too much skin, or making provocative conversation wont help accelerate this much, and likely will do more harm than good. You??re better off leading the object of your desire into the bedroom than giving a lap dance. At this point you will either need to initiate, or be (very) patient.
The good news is that your new Taurus will be loyal to you beyond question. Like so many other aspects of their lives, nothing and no one will dent their love or dedication once their mind is set.
WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN SEDUCING A TAURUS:
Tactics such as flashing too much skin, or making provocative conversation wont help accelerate this much, and likely will do more harm than good. You??re better off leading the object of your desire into the bedroom than giving a lap dance. At this point you will either need to initiate, or be (very) patient.
Hhhhhmmmm....very interesting as I gather information and tips for the new Taurus I will be seeing again! 😉
Posted by virg_goki
I'll need this... I just found the taurus of my life. She seems to be in the long haul for me, pray this goes good
Crosses fingers and legs for you 😉 Good luck!
Best of luck to you virg_goki. 🙂
Posted by virg_goki
I'll need this... I just found the taurus of my life. She seems to be in the long haul for me, pray this goes good
I will pray for you and I truly hope it is fantastic for you! Keep DXPer's posted on the progress. I will be hanging around the Taurus boards as well since I am preparing for a budding romance with a Taurean hunk! 😉
I will be looking for advice and guidance just as you are...lol.
Someone has been passing out the guide book again. *shifty eyes*
Posted by venusianbull
Someone has been passing out the guide book again. *shifty eyes*
*Looks around with eyebrows raised with VB*
LOL Complete innocence shining out of my hazel eyes ( if you leave out the wicked glint ). How about those lush browns of yours USC? 😉
Posted by Awake
Taures women are odd, funny creatures-but the ideal woman for a MAN, not a boy.
Damn straight - only MEN need apply for this position to be filled (pun intended 😉 )!
Posted by Awake
Tantrums...give them space....
My ex-Libra was really good at "handling" me. 🙂 He loved me a lot though and put up with my "spoiled tantrums." I'm not proud of it, but I can be a bit of a prima donna, and I like to have what I want, when I want it; however, I don't ask anybody for ish, I'll get it myself - just move outta' my way!
Posted by Awake
To rope in a bull, one needs to be strong, but strong not in a domineering/oppressing way..You have to control to an extent, but the moment it violates emotions,comfort or happiness is when hell will break loose.click to expand
Yes, for me, the only thing worse than a pushy/over aggressive man, is a highly sensitive man who is always whining and crying. I don't like either extremes! Show emotions, be aggressive, but show balance in the way you conduct yourself, and I will do the same.
*whispers to Awake - stop giving away all our secrets 😉 *
Posted by venusianbull
LOL Complete innocence shining out of my hazel eyes ( if you leave out the wicked glint ). How about those lush browns of yours USC? 😉
*Looks around* "I do declare, lil ole' me." *bats eyelashes * and yes, they are lush brown, not heavenly hazel like you dear VB, but I like my peepers and glad I have sight and am able to see.
LOL Awake is pretty on the ball, wonder what Bull has been camping under his Fish gills, hmmmmmm?
Aww, and I've always wanted just brown, mine I always call 'pond water', or 'bracken'. Amen on the sight dear USC. There are two and they work quite well. 🙂
Aww, and I've always wanted just brown, mine I always call 'pond water', or 'bracken'. Amen on the sight dear USC. There are two and they work quite well. 🙂
Posted by Awake
Taures women are odd, funny creatures-but the ideal woman for a MAN, not a boy. I love taurean women, but boy...when yalls bad side comes out..its rough. Tantrums...give them space....insecure...reassure them.....acting clingy/needy...be a little extra mushy and remind them how special they are...getting pushy...keep her happy/comfortable but grab that bull by the horns. Learn to read between the lines mostly, of all signs taures women are most like men in that they dont seem to be able to express themselves well and tend to keep a very guarded, insecure-needs to be loved-feminine heart. Pay attention to subtle things, be strong and be yourself. To rope in a bull, one needs to be strong, but strong not in a domineering/oppressing way..You have to control to an extent, but the moment it violates emotions,comfort or happiness is when hell will break loose...and the only thing I can say, a TAURES women scorned..wrote that saying 'hell hath no wrath like a women scorned'.
wow! dat boy good!
He sho' nuff is. *shielding eyes from sun and watching ball soar towards goal post* 🙂
yeah venus. is that piscean insight or did military men just get a lil HOTTER? that was one of the best summations of a taurus woman ever.
and USC is right, i do have occasional "I'M THE PRINCESS!" moments but i'm not the type of chick to ask for help. i think there's a difference between a taurus woman's neediness and the types of chicks that "need" a man's assistance for everything.
i always have my big girl panties on so although i can do it ALL my damn self (if need be), there are moments when i want attention and i want it NOW so do as you're told or "MOVE!" because the stampede cometh.
and USC is right, i do have occasional "I'M THE PRINCESS!" moments but i'm not the type of chick to ask for help. i think there's a difference between a taurus woman's neediness and the types of chicks that "need" a man's assistance for everything.
i always have my big girl panties on so although i can do it ALL my damn self (if need be), there are moments when i want attention and i want it NOW so do as you're told or "MOVE!" because the stampede cometh.
Military has always been hot, any time you put a man in a uniform, oh la la. 😉 Dress uniform? Puhhhlease, wiping drool. I tidily put fire fighters, police officers in that bracket too. Yum.
I rarely have a tantrum, but when I do I made a damned good show of it. I have to be pushed to the absolute brink. At wits end for that to happen. I'm a flash in the pan at times too. Quick blow up, then it's all smooth as glass. Tighter than a frogs butt.
I rarely have a tantrum, but when I do I made a damned good show of it. I have to be pushed to the absolute brink. At wits end for that to happen. I'm a flash in the pan at times too. Quick blow up, then it's all smooth as glass. Tighter than a frogs butt.
I think that the military teaches certain skillsets that everyday people don't hone into, ie, being perceptive to your surroundings; listen to what is said, but pay attention to the actions and those things that are NOT spoken. Analyzing all information in a fairly quick timeframe (as their life can literally depend on it). I'm not saying everybody in the military has these skillsets, nor that people who are NOT in the military don't have these, but I think from the people I've known that were in the military, they were exceptionally perceptive. I am too, so I can definitely see how their mind is working and figuring out the smallest details and/or things that are not even on the radar for most people, but they still pick it up.
I have to admit that I appreciate people who are perceptive and just "get" me without a lot of pomp and circumstance.
I have to admit that I appreciate people who are perceptive and just "get" me without a lot of pomp and circumstance.
lmao @ tighter than a frog's butt 🙂
my tantrums are generally topic specific. i.e. both the leo and aqua would tease me sexually which i love but drives me nuts in the moment. i'd invariably have an adult version of child being told "NO!" in a toy store.
lesson: don't deny a taurus woman (sex, sleep or food).
i can be selfish when it comes to some things but selfless in so many other ways so hearing "No" when i'd go balls to the walls for you is like taking my binky away.
my tantrums are generally topic specific. i.e. both the leo and aqua would tease me sexually which i love but drives me nuts in the moment. i'd invariably have an adult version of child being told "NO!" in a toy store.
lesson: don't deny a taurus woman (sex, sleep or food).
i can be selfish when it comes to some things but selfless in so many other ways so hearing "No" when i'd go balls to the walls for you is like taking my binky away.
My Granddaddy ( gone now ) and father are both Navy, and when they latch eyes on you it's like being X-rayed. I got about all of nowhere in the BS arena with either one of them growing up. I think both were intuitive to begin with, Capricorn and Pisces respectively, but military boosted it up to levels unheard of.
I completely appreciate people that just understand me, inside and out.
Denying sex? *brows raised high*. OH HELL NO. Don't produce the peen if you aren't going to put out. Might be a male attitude, don't give a flip, but holding out on something that feels that good for both parties is just wrong.
I completely appreciate people that just understand me, inside and out.
Denying sex? *brows raised high*. OH HELL NO. Don't produce the peen if you aren't going to put out. Might be a male attitude, don't give a flip, but holding out on something that feels that good for both parties is just wrong.
great sex is like kryptonite. it's why i hold my goodies close. in the wrong hands, bad things happen.
luckily "man rape" by a woman isn't a widely accepted crime cause i can't tell you how many shirt got ripped off the leo.
luckily "man rape" by a woman isn't a widely accepted crime cause i can't tell you how many shirt got ripped off the leo.
Can't rape the willing. I don't recall any man in my clutches calling for help. "Help meeeeeee".
Great sex is a mind bender. I never saw the sense of withholding the poonanny either. Some women do that in a fit of pique and I think "WTF is your problem woman? You're suffering too ya dumb COW."
Great sex is a mind bender. I never saw the sense of withholding the poonanny either. Some women do that in a fit of pique and I think "WTF is your problem woman? You're suffering too ya dumb COW."
exactly!
"i have a headache" was not invented by a taurus woman.
"i have a headache" was not invented by a taurus woman.
It sure the hell wasn't. A good meal and "Clothes off, NOW" however, was. 😄
lol!
I prefer, "why aren't you naked?"
I prefer, "why aren't you naked?"
LOL Classic. Of course being much sneakier is always perfectly acceptable in my book too. "Oh dear, I've dropped something." I better slowly pick that up. Oopsie, was I not wearing any underpants again? Gracious me, what's to be done other than look fetching?
LMAO!
hush...i don't have an accessible wee at the moment so you're just reminding of how hot and bothered i am.
hush...i don't have an accessible wee at the moment so you're just reminding of how hot and bothered i am.
LMAO You?! Try TWO YEARS woman! Wonder I don't start off a damned brush fire when I walk!
oh wow! poor thing. you're neglecting her.
sometimes "all you gotta do is say yes" to the first sturdy buck that comes along. single mommies need TLC too.
sometimes "all you gotta do is say yes" to the first sturdy buck that comes along. single mommies need TLC too.
which reminds me, my virgo aunt was telling me about when she went to the store the other day and that a young guy was hitting on her.
i told her to "get it cause some of the the young ones want dig older chicks."
she said, "those young boys want to have sex all the time."
all i could think was, "and...?"
i told her to "get it cause some of the the young ones want dig older chicks."
she said, "those young boys want to have sex all the time."
all i could think was, "and...?"
god...can't type, multitask and come back and type. things get all a-jumble 😛
LOL I do not see this as a problem. Of course there is training issues involved. They can go all night..don't know what they're doing with it, but they can go all night. I'm hanging onto the goodies until someone worth a hill of beans comes along and owns it. I never could just latch onto a guy just for a joy ride. Mores the pity that, because heaven knows I could stand with getting my oil changed.
this is one space where it doesn't pay to have taurus sensibility.
does every man you date have to be capable of owning it? the one gift that a scorpio chick gave me was the notion that i needed to stop looking for superman. i think every woman does but fixed sign women seem to be more beholden to this ideal...with the exception of scorps.
i thought i was open/datable but the reality was, my standards kept me from being receptive. at the end of the day, if he has all his teeth, can string a few sentences together, has a job, is clean and single, what's the big deal? y not dinner and a movie?
i'm not saying you gotta have sex but the reality is, dating is an art form. if you're not in a rhythm of doing it, it becomes VERY difficult to master it. in fact, how do you know what you really want if you don't try the sampler? how do you know what's "right" if you haven't determined what's "wrong?"
if you're doing it, stop setting the bar so high. he doesn't have to be marriage material and just because he doesn't appear to be your future hubby doesn't make him unworthy of your company. "SAY YES!" he takes you out, you get dressed up, you eat food, you laugh and you go home.
"would you like to go out?" is a date...not a proposal.
does every man you date have to be capable of owning it? the one gift that a scorpio chick gave me was the notion that i needed to stop looking for superman. i think every woman does but fixed sign women seem to be more beholden to this ideal...with the exception of scorps.
i thought i was open/datable but the reality was, my standards kept me from being receptive. at the end of the day, if he has all his teeth, can string a few sentences together, has a job, is clean and single, what's the big deal? y not dinner and a movie?
i'm not saying you gotta have sex but the reality is, dating is an art form. if you're not in a rhythm of doing it, it becomes VERY difficult to master it. in fact, how do you know what you really want if you don't try the sampler? how do you know what's "right" if you haven't determined what's "wrong?"
if you're doing it, stop setting the bar so high. he doesn't have to be marriage material and just because he doesn't appear to be your future hubby doesn't make him unworthy of your company. "SAY YES!" he takes you out, you get dressed up, you eat food, you laugh and you go home.
"would you like to go out?" is a date...not a proposal.
I know that's correct. I just wouldn't be comfortable doing that. Dating yes, casual sex, NO. I know what I'm like. If I did something like that I wouldn't feel right in my own skin. I'd feel used. I have to have a connection with intimacy.
I'm not looking for Superman. Honest, intelligent, good sense of humor, good outlook on life. Someone who makes me laugh and rocks my world. That doesn't require washboard abs, a bank account fluttering with bills, nor a Fortress of Solitude.
I'm not looking for Superman. Honest, intelligent, good sense of humor, good outlook on life. Someone who makes me laugh and rocks my world. That doesn't require washboard abs, a bank account fluttering with bills, nor a Fortress of Solitude.
hmm...
stop putting the pu**y on a pedestal.
i think taurus women, after a breakup, subconsciously try to revirginate themselves. you can not recapture it. it's gone.
sex is primal. unless you're having sex to procreate, you're doing it because it feels good. right? you know that sweets are bad but sometimes you want a big slice of cake. indulging in your desires is only a bad thing if you're not doing so responsibly. all cake isn't bad and neither are all men sans "mr. right."
YES! there are some things that are necessary for a taurus chick to feel comfortable enough to give herself to another human being. i am in TOTAL agreement with that BUT it goes back to that whole "security" conundrum that keeps many of us from changing. there are no guarantees and yet in love and life, taurus can find it difficult to move without them.
so who's to say that you can't enjoy the company of another human being who is respectful of you and your children and who simultaneously values your friendship? developing a bond with a man doesn't automatically result in sex. you're in control of your body and if your body says YES!, why deny it? if you choose to say no, say no. but denying and choosing to say no are different things. the latter is an option, the former is not.
i dunno about you but i operate a lot on feel and if it doesn't feel right, i ain't saying yes to nothin 😛 i guess what i'm trying to say is that it doesn't have to be earth shattering to prompt a yes. just get out there and let men folk treat you for the queen that you are.
stop putting the pu**y on a pedestal.
i think taurus women, after a breakup, subconsciously try to revirginate themselves. you can not recapture it. it's gone.
sex is primal. unless you're having sex to procreate, you're doing it because it feels good. right? you know that sweets are bad but sometimes you want a big slice of cake. indulging in your desires is only a bad thing if you're not doing so responsibly. all cake isn't bad and neither are all men sans "mr. right."
YES! there are some things that are necessary for a taurus chick to feel comfortable enough to give herself to another human being. i am in TOTAL agreement with that BUT it goes back to that whole "security" conundrum that keeps many of us from changing. there are no guarantees and yet in love and life, taurus can find it difficult to move without them.
so who's to say that you can't enjoy the company of another human being who is respectful of you and your children and who simultaneously values your friendship? developing a bond with a man doesn't automatically result in sex. you're in control of your body and if your body says YES!, why deny it? if you choose to say no, say no. but denying and choosing to say no are different things. the latter is an option, the former is not.
i dunno about you but i operate a lot on feel and if it doesn't feel right, i ain't saying yes to nothin 😛 i guess what i'm trying to say is that it doesn't have to be earth shattering to prompt a yes. just get out there and let men folk treat you for the queen that you are.
I have no problem NOT confusing lust w/love. Have I fallen for somebody I've lusted for...umm, yeah 2 times, but overall I just don't mistake sex with love. With that being said, I don't think there is anything wrong with women who are being selective. I am the first person to say I have no problem with the FWB's scenario BUT MOST WOMEN DO. It's not a good or bad thing, it just is what it is. It could be society, upbringing, religion, emotions; whatever the case may be, I just don't think most women are set-up to truly handle a FWB situation. That doesn't mean that I just go around sleeping with random people or even my friends, but what I can say is if I have an itch...it will be scratched. I'm highly selective too, but I've had some duds/uh-oh's/omgIcan'tbelieveIsleptwithhim moments too. This is treading on the realm of TMI, but I'll say this, when I was getting my Master's, I let go of (coughs) three guys that each satisfied me in different ways (ummm, yummm). I felt that I needed to direct my time, energy and attention to studying, so I cut them all off...grrrrrr, that was a huge mistake, because that left me in the celibate state for 2 1/2 years! It was hell, pure and unadulterated hell, but I did it to myself by trying to be "responsible." LOL, I don't know what the moral of THAT story was, but honestly, while sex isn't everything, I think it's like air for me. I hate when I can't have it. Like Tubby said, a Taurus woman likely wouldn't be saying, "Not tonight dear, I have a headache."
Thank you both. 🙂 I don't think I'm put it up on a pedestal per se, I am just picky about who I let into the inner sanctum. I do agree that if it feels right between two people, then there's the green light. But the point is, there hasn't BEEN anyone within a 40 mile radius. It isn't just myself I'd have to consider either, there are beings I birthed that are due their rights as children to not see their mother catting around. Don't misunderstand me, I am not using my children as an excuse, just that they are most definitely a factor.
Thank you for the compliment, I am a queen, every woman is and should be treated as such. That's me, Queen VB, and you Queen Tubby, and you Queen USC, Queens all over the planet. And as a Queen I demand honest feeling and respect flowing from one human being to another.
I am not geared to do FWB, I'm just not. My feelings would get in the way, and that's not what the whole gig is about, now is it? It's not that I don't want sex, all Above and Below know that I am a girl who really digs some sheet time, it's just that I'm a heart on her sleeve utter sappy, soppy romantic. And the two are constantly at war. Lust and Heart. And I groove on being within the parameters of a relationship. Cross my heart.
I am also wary. Wary as anyone is 2 years fresh from one marriage going toe up and unsure after a decade and longer how to move around in the world as a single woman. Everything I've ever wanted to be and do crumbled, and I had to rebuild. Am still rebuilding.
Grief is also a factor. I am a mess, straight up and honestly. I have good days, mediocre days and some days where I'm a complete loon, I can't change that either. No more than I could change my eye color or that I have a freckle between two toes. It is part of who I am now.
I want more for myself. I want to be met here *pointing to head*, here *pointing to heart* as well as there *pointing down.*
Thank you for the compliment, I am a queen, every woman is and should be treated as such. That's me, Queen VB, and you Queen Tubby, and you Queen USC, Queens all over the planet. And as a Queen I demand honest feeling and respect flowing from one human being to another.
I am not geared to do FWB, I'm just not. My feelings would get in the way, and that's not what the whole gig is about, now is it? It's not that I don't want sex, all Above and Below know that I am a girl who really digs some sheet time, it's just that I'm a heart on her sleeve utter sappy, soppy romantic. And the two are constantly at war. Lust and Heart. And I groove on being within the parameters of a relationship. Cross my heart.
I am also wary. Wary as anyone is 2 years fresh from one marriage going toe up and unsure after a decade and longer how to move around in the world as a single woman. Everything I've ever wanted to be and do crumbled, and I had to rebuild. Am still rebuilding.
Grief is also a factor. I am a mess, straight up and honestly. I have good days, mediocre days and some days where I'm a complete loon, I can't change that either. No more than I could change my eye color or that I have a freckle between two toes. It is part of who I am now.
I want more for myself. I want to be met here *pointing to head*, here *pointing to heart* as well as there *pointing down.*
but i'm not speaking of a FWB situation. i think you're missing the point and the irony is, it took me forever to get it to. why have the assumption that dating leads to sex? why even presume that a man you go out with would even have the opportunity to meet your children? how do you know at hello if a man is worthy of ANYthing? what makes one man worthy of a "green light" and another, not so much?
i know and you know that i know that right now, you don't give a shit about a man. i also know that i grew up with a mother who lived for her children. beyond my father and my mom's (leo) bff (taurus), there was no other male. for her, it was about her kids. she put us first and i just know that for you right now, that sentiment is 10-fold.
with the nearest man 40 miles away (sheesh), all i'm saying is, you have to accept that there are plenty of duds out there. in fact, knowing that there are duds is the freeing part. you can go out, enjoy yourself and leave it to him to convince you otherwise. if he didn't rise above, hell, you weren't expecting anything anyway...but you got a free steak 🙂 if he did, well then, maybe he's worth another date?
try something for me. the next time you meet a man, 40 mile radius or not, if he asks you out, if he's not repulsive, even if he's not your type..., if he asks you out, say yes. get dressed up. do your hair. put on some smell goods. and have a good time. what's wrong with that?
right now, you're setting the example for your kids. your happiness is their happiness. trust me. my only regret for my mom is that she didn't get to live HER life. you gotta do right by them but doing right by them means doing right by you. take care of you so that you can be healthy and happy and here to take care of them.
i know and you know that i know that right now, you don't give a shit about a man. i also know that i grew up with a mother who lived for her children. beyond my father and my mom's (leo) bff (taurus), there was no other male. for her, it was about her kids. she put us first and i just know that for you right now, that sentiment is 10-fold.
with the nearest man 40 miles away (sheesh), all i'm saying is, you have to accept that there are plenty of duds out there. in fact, knowing that there are duds is the freeing part. you can go out, enjoy yourself and leave it to him to convince you otherwise. if he didn't rise above, hell, you weren't expecting anything anyway...but you got a free steak 🙂 if he did, well then, maybe he's worth another date?
try something for me. the next time you meet a man, 40 mile radius or not, if he asks you out, if he's not repulsive, even if he's not your type..., if he asks you out, say yes. get dressed up. do your hair. put on some smell goods. and have a good time. what's wrong with that?
right now, you're setting the example for your kids. your happiness is their happiness. trust me. my only regret for my mom is that she didn't get to live HER life. you gotta do right by them but doing right by them means doing right by you. take care of you so that you can be healthy and happy and here to take care of them.
and the bigger point is, who cares if he's not worthy of being a stepfather? what's wrong with having a male "friend" in the TRUE sense of the word. no benefits, just a male friend. maybe he knows someone who can be more than a friend, more than an FWB. maybe he will be your "in" to finding someone within an hour drive?
imagine if you went to a mixer with the expectation of meeting your husband? how realistic is that? even if you don't meet mr. right, getting out of the house, getting all gussied up, mingling...it's good for the soul. especially when you haven't done it in a while. you need practice! just enjoy dating. enjoy the communication and learning about another person.
*tsk*
i swear if i was in a 40 mile radius of you i'd drag your ass out of the house and force you on the nearest man with his own teeth.
imagine if you went to a mixer with the expectation of meeting your husband? how realistic is that? even if you don't meet mr. right, getting out of the house, getting all gussied up, mingling...it's good for the soul. especially when you haven't done it in a while. you need practice! just enjoy dating. enjoy the communication and learning about another person.
*tsk*
i swear if i was in a 40 mile radius of you i'd drag your ass out of the house and force you on the nearest man with his own teeth.
Posted by tubbyscubby
i'd drag your ass out of the house and force you on the nearest man with his own teeth.
Egads! Well VB, I would do you a little better than that! ROFLMAO! Seriously laughing here. I totally get what Tubby is saying. Most women (and I'm NOT speaking of you VB, just women) have this thing about going out with a guy. They (typically) have a difficult time going out with more than one man, and god forbid they go out more than 3 times with the same man because they are then writing their name w/their last name; planning babies names; planning their wedding/honeymoon/babyshower/family trips, etc. Sometimes it's ok to to just .... BE. Be you. Go out, have fun - eat, drink and be merry. The first, second, third person you go out with does NOT need to be your next lover/future ex-husband/baby daddy, or anything else. Sometimes it's great to commune with males. I'm fortunate in that I have more male friends than female friends, so I'm surrounded by LOADS of testosterone that's strictly platonic. So, I have the dinners, movies, talking, coffees, drinks, etc, without a lot of the BS. It's also a blessing and a curse, because I also know a lot of men that are straight up dogs, so in some respects it hinders me in my personal relationships (simply because I allow it too, it's not them...it's me). In short, you do you. I wish that you would get out there and stick your toe in the waters, but if you don't want to or feel that you can, that's ok too. You have to do it when you are ready, but don't wait too long because tomorrow is NOT promised to any of us, as you so sadly know. So I try to live each day as if it were my last. Even when I'm having a bad day, I try to toughen up and just do what I need to do.
Posted by tubbyscubby
but i'm not speaking of a FWB situation.
My B.A.D. I am the one who spoke of an FWB, not Tubby.
ok, maybe he'd have to have more than a full set of natural teeth but at this point, i still say if he chews with his mouth closed, venus should go out with him.
Posted by tubbyscubby
ok, maybe he'd have to have more than a full set of natural teeth but at this point, i still say if he chews with his mouth closed, venus should go out with him.
OY Vay! VB, she wants you out lady! I suggest you find your own victim...er, um, date 😉
i posted in the wrong place, was looking and templates, reading your post here (you're welcome by the way), reading TOC's BS about herb and your post about cankles.
ugh...looking AT templates.
LOL I understand ladies, I do. And I do enjoy men. Most of my friends are male.
And I understand you didn't bring up FWB tubby, I was speaking to both of you, same as if we were all around a table having coffee and chatting. Though I'd have to hang onto my cup for dear life because I'd be getting some cuffs to the head. 😛
Posted by CancerianGoddess
A key to seducing Taurus is to propose a date at least a few days in advance. One of their quirks is that that if you invite them on a date —tonight?? the answer will likely be —no??. This isn't due to them having particularly busy social lives; they just really don't like last minute surprises or unplanned events (and to a Taurus —last minute?? = about 24 hours!) Similarly, don't change your mind or cancel, as that will be a major turn off.
If you have a choice between something sexy and something that feels good to the touch, pick the later. Silk, cashmere, lace etc. This isn't a sign which is impressed by blatant sexiness, so wear something comfortable, as you may end up wrestling in it later. More on that shortly.
The best approach to seducing Taurus is to invite him or her over for dinner. A good home cooked meal, served in a comfortable home environment will impress them ten times more than the fanciest restaurant or most extravagant entertainment ever could.
As to recipes, we??re looking for something traditional and down to earth. If the recipe has some history to it, such as being passed down from your grandma your Taurus will definitely be impressed. For extra points, try to find out one of your Taurus??s favorite childhood dishes, and you may get a marriage proposal the same evening. In the absence of a nominated recipe, a pie, roast or stew is a safe bet.
IS THIS THOROUGH OR WHAT—??
Good topics of conversation include anything to do with money and investment. If you have a curiosity about stocks or bonds for example, this is a good opportunity to get advice, whilst your interest in the subject will impress meanwhile.
Other recommended subjects include anything related to your past, or that of your Taurus. Memories of childhood, time spent with a favorite elder, activities you used to enjoy etc. Show a healthy respect for tradition and your roots and you??ll score more points.
As long as you establish yourself as down to earth, then there's not much you need to avoid talking about. Accomplishments, dreams and goals are no bad thing. Your Taurus admires a sense of adventure and ambition.
On a first date this is no easy thing. Alas, your Taurus probably doesn't want to jump you yet, but if they??re attracted they will very likely want to touch you. A lot. So let them! (you are wearing that feel-good mater
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The best approach to seducing Taurus is to invite him or her over for dinner. A good home cooked meal, served in a comfortable home environment will impress them ten times more than the fanciest restaurant or most extravagant entertainment ever could.
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