@TaurusinTexas
10 Years1,000+ Posts
I am trying to be as positive as possible about my situation. Right now everything is going good. Sex was a lot better than before.
When i told him about my mistake he got angry but started crying. I was crying too. First sentence that he said was, ''I bought flat for both of us, and our future, now what will i do? What should i do? How could you do this to me? I think i lacked in providing you something. It must be my mistake that you had to do this.'' And later he asked me to promise that i will never do this again and also told me that he doesnt want to leave me no matter what , and said this is the only chance i will get. Then same day he asked me to block that guy everywhere on social networks and asked me to change my mobile number. I immediately did that.
Then after some days he was taking doubt on me and sometimes even taunted me about my mistake. One day we had a fight and i said i want to die and he said ''why? Are you not happy with me? Have you found any other guy? I never want to leave you , you are only mine.'' I told him it hurt me that he asked me about any other guy then he said sorry.
But one day i spoke with him clearly that it hurts me and i want to forget all that. Then he said we will not talk about that anymore and even i want to forget all that. And slowly he started trusting me again. Its been 4 months now since i told him about all that. He is now absolutely fine with me. Very caring, and i feel as if he is trying to keep me as happy as possible. Always talks about our future, calls me on time, advices me, helps me if i need something.
wish you the best. nobody's perfect - just make sure this never happens again. reassure him as much as you can.
Thank you 🙂
Posted by venusianbull
Good God, I read it all. And now I'm going to finish making chutney. Holyyyyy sheeeeeit!dxp...still better than any trashy mag in the supermarket checkout line 😛
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Same reaction on my face too. 😛
I dont think he will cheat on me but even if he does i will forgive him. If after that he wants to be with me i will never say no to him. I will never cheat again in my life that is for sure. That was my first and the last. I am addicted and obssesed with him.
Ok. Thank you for advice. Take care. Merry Christmas.
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I really hope this works out for you but trust takes time to rebuild and cheating takes time to get over. For myself, I have found that I said I forgave and tried to move on but then realized, I didn't at all. Not saying this is your case at all just sharing my experience.