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I cheated on my taurus boyfriend whom i really love :( (Page 4)
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Posted by chinkypinky
I am a Pisces with a Scorpio rising. I am very much emotional and need love and care often. Yes my Taurus meets me only once a month. He is workaholic. He has lot of family problems. He has managed to buy his own house. He is 26 year old. He does not have any family support as he is living with his aunt (His parents died when he was a child). I know what i did was wrong but some people are using some very harsh comments it hurts. I was angry with him because for me a relationship means spending time together. I spoke with him many times about it but he never changed. He was always same.Why are you blaming him for your actions? If you where not happy with how the relationship was, you should have ended it not fucked some other guy. Just wait, he will leave you after the fog of the betrayal and shock wears off.
He has already left her. He has been stringing her all along. He is not an innocent man., he has something he is hiding and well hidden.
She just can't see it clearly.
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maybe he's gay
Wow that's messed up. Even tho he said he's forgiven you, he hasn't.
This post makes me think of Jhene Aiko
Damn sex once a month tho. And in a committed relationship? Hellz NO! *pulls out rabbit*
Well unless we are in a LDR then that's understandable.
But Taurus man is going to dump you eventually. He is just bidding his time.
did OP ever come back?
LOL
Posted by chinkypinky
I am a Pisces girl in a relationship with a Taurus guy from last 6 years. recently i was angry with him because he was always busy in work and would not spend much time with me. He would call me everyday 2-3 times without fail but i needed a lot more than that. So i started chatting with my childhood classmate who is a Sagittarius. I supported him always in all the difficult times and also helped him financially. He always said he loves me, he never had any girl in life and will die if i don't get married to him. I started getting closer to him but never said yes for relationship i always wanted to get married to my Taurus boyfriend. Once we even had sex i really regret that happened 😢 . when i constantly refused to get married this Sagittarius told me he already has a girlfriend from last 5 years and also has secret relationships with many other woman including one of his girlfriends younger sister. He even started blaming me for the things i didn't do. I always spoke truth and he always lied about everything. wow. He was such a lair.I was devastated i realized this guy just used me and lied all the time. I cut off all contacts with him. and told my Taurus boyfriend everything that happened including the sex part. I apologized. He got angry but forgave me and said he will never leave me no matter what but this should never happen again. I feel really sorry for hurting him. I feel a lot guilty and try to keep him happy as much as possible. But we did not have sex from last 2 months since when i told him about my mistake. We used to have sex at least once a month before. He says he wants to do that but then he cancels. He calls me everyday like before but i don't understand the sex part.
Will he ever trust me again? I am 100% sure i will never trust any other guy again not even for friendship. I just want to be with my Taurus boyfriend and never want to loose him 😢
If you loved him you never should have cheated.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
did OP ever come back?LOL
no, she is a sensitive lil fish. Imagine a fish eaten alive by these bulls...
and even the damn fishes at it too.I'd run away as fast as I could too. lulz
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hmm I didn't get the impression she was that sensitive and as far as bulls, she emotionally murdered one...
Posted by LentoBull91
The bull would not give a shit I know I wouldn't I would thank her for letting me be free to pursue someone else who would appreciate me and my hard work for financial stability because that's the number 1 cause for break ups and divorces. Instead of thinking I may have something with her like he did apparently for 6 Years. I would respect a girl for that instead of staying with me and letting another man stick his finger in my sugar bowl that's hurts a lot more to us then getting dumped the only time I cried over an ex is because she cheated on me if she would have dumped me then go on to another guy it's no problem for me no tears because atleast she cared enough about my feeling to let me go instead of thinking everything was peaches and creme then have to find out that guy is my Eskimo brother disgusting. She should let him be free so he can find a hard working independent classy girl who works just as hard as him so they can have the best possible future for themselfs and their future children. But clearly she doesn't want to let him go because she knows she would have no more foundation no more financial stability selFISH B**ch he should've 86 her right after he found out she cheated so he could find his independent queen.you as a man have never cheated on a woman before?
If you have not, and since you will never do in your entire life, you are one of a kind man who needs to be adored, glorified and worshiped. 😄
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There are men out there who have never cheated before. I know of a few myself and I have upmost respect for them. I know it's hard to believe.
Actually argee with Arielle, man such a shame and disappointment.. There are some serious personality disorders or illnesses unexpectedly happen every day. Don't take advantage of people we have no idea what that person has endured...I have many patients that come to the hospital for alot of reasons above. I can't imagine a 21 year old going through chemo and go home to find your partner is cheating.. I would never talk to you again.
My best friend's ex was in the hospital the whole time, she was there for him all day and night. Come to find out he was cheating on her..This nurse nursed him back to health and this is what she wasn't expecting. They had a kid together too. I felt bad for her.
Posted by Arielle83
What if you're married and something happens to the sex drive of one of the spouses and you can't be bothered having sex.What if ones suffering depression?
Impotence?
Post partum depression?
Disease/illness?If it's okay to cheat on a man because he's working all the time or distant and you believe he isn't being a good bf and paying you attention, what happens when REAL LIFE shit gets in the way of your attention?
Are these excuses to cheat as well or leave the person?
Like I said, it's all ego.
Arielle, actually, there is a big difference: disease and illness is not your choice, but working endlessly is your choice
if the other one is il, then its not able to perform, so it is not about wilfull abandonment, the ill person still loves you and would like to have sex with you
but if somebody choses to not have sex with you and abandon you, even if they can, then cheating may happen
Posted by MindControl
Some Pisces women are just so clueless and weak.I pity your sign.. You guys generally live in a fantasy world and most Pisces I know are just too fragile. They don't have two sterdy legs to stand on.
What a shame.
i thought that aries domiannt pisces like Rihanna was strong, she appears strong. But then, she took abusive Chris Brown back, even after everyone supported her not to. Then i saw Rihanna's domiannt signs: Capricorn and Sagittarius. Very forgiving when they love someone to the point of delusion.
plus she's neptune dominant.
Hehe
Posted by MindControl
Some Pisces women are just so clueless and weak.I pity your sign.. You guys generally live in a fantasy world and most Pisces I know are just too fragile. They don't have two sterdy legs to stand on.
What a shame.
i thought that aries domiannt pisces like Rihanna was strong, she appears strong. But then, she took abusive Chris Brown back, even after everyone supported her not to. Then i saw Rihanna's domiannt signs: Capricorn and Sagittarius. Very forgiving when they love someone to the point of delusion.
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Is she back with him?
Omg I can't believe this post is still going strong!
Smh. ðŸ'ðŸ¼
Posted by MindControl
Some Pisces women are just so clueless and weak.I pity your sign.. You guys generally live in a fantasy world and most Pisces I know are just too fragile. They don't have two sterdy legs to stand on.
What a shame.
i thought that aries domiannt pisces like Rihanna was strong, she appears strong. But then, she took abusive Chris Brown back, even after everyone supported her not to. Then i saw Rihanna's domiannt signs: Capricorn and Sagittarius. Very forgiving when they love someone to the point of delusion.
plus she's neptune dominant.Is she back with him?
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no she isn't from what i read last. but i think it takes a long time to get over someone you fall in love with.
that's why she stayed with him again. i understand the feeling.
Lmao!!!...and this thread is a trainwreck!
Posted by MindControl
Some Pisces women are just so clueless and weak.I pity your sign.. You guys generally live in a fantasy world and most Pisces I know are just too fragile. They don't have two sterdy legs to stand on.
What a shame.
i thought that aries domiannt pisces like Rihanna was strong, she appears strong. But then, she took abusive Chris Brown back, even after everyone supported her not to. Then i saw Rihanna's domiannt signs: Capricorn and Sagittarius. Very forgiving when they love someone to the point of delusion.
plus she's neptune dominant.Is she back with him?
no she isn't from what i read last. but i think it takes a long time to get over someone you fall in love with.
that's why she stayed with him again. i understand the feeling.
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there are rumors she is... but I guess it's to her advantage to keep that low key. People really disliked her for staying with him early on.
Posted by MindControl
Some Pisces women are just so clueless and weak.I pity your sign.. You guys generally live in a fantasy world and most Pisces I know are just too fragile. They don't have two sterdy legs to stand on.
What a shame.
i thought that aries domiannt pisces like Rihanna was strong, she appears strong. But then, she took abusive Chris Brown back, even after everyone supported her not to. Then i saw Rihanna's domiannt signs: Capricorn and Sagittarius. Very forgiving when they love someone to the point of delusion.
plus she's neptune dominant.Is she back with him?
no she isn't from what i read last. but i think it takes a long time to get over someone you fall in love with.
that's why she stayed with him again. i understand the feeling.
there are rumors she is... but I guess it's to her advantage to keep that low key. People really disliked her for staying with him early on.
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yes. people like to control other people's feelings. I think if i were her mother i would be upset. I saw a link on Chris brown's father, who said that Rihanna was bad for Chris Brown....
it goes to show how parents get involved and Always blame the other.
i understand their deep concern though.
....Says the woman who can't even spell "passed" correctly and has the grammar of a retarded box turtle.
....Says the woman who is here, siding with the selfish bitch who cheated. You've just looked like a stupid cunt when you've piped up, as you've taken all the Pisces generalizations personally. Go get that insecurity in check and come back when you can participate like a semi intelligent adult who knows how to make logical arguments.
kthxbai
oohhh i kind of like that song. good beat.
there's a lyric in there, "bitch better have my money..." and this was recorded in 2013, so i wonder if Rihanna's songwriters were also inspired by this song, or at least some of the lyrics.
Posted by idk
ok what'd i miss. i just got out of the hospital. my buddy dared me to get into a bounce house with a bowling ball he had in his trunk....but i think i should wear a helmet next time
Lmboooooo!!!!!!!!
Posted by BlackMamba
It just amazes me how easily one can throw words like "weave" "ghetto" "ratchet" at a black women for having opinions.that's just fuking ridiculous and racist as hell.
puta C $ nt
jump off the bridge you stupid pisces dog sheet.
Smh... We learn to ignore it and go on with our day.
Posted by chinkypinky
I feel like i am answering an interview. But no problem. I know you feel that i am a troll. But right now i am not in a situation to make imaginary stories. This is something very serious and very close to my heart. The house he is living right now belongs to his aunt. I met her only few times but i think she doesn't like me. He bought house to live after we get married. He bought it with lot of hard work. He saved money. That is the reason he didn't meet me often he works on Sundays too. But sometimes i feel it becomes too much. I need my time too. I know i am wrong but am i wrong in asking for some time for myself?
Omg this really sucks. I'ma taurus woman and spending time with my loved ones is very important to me but I also care about making them happy. I think Taurus's can be pretty into traditional gender roles. In order to afford all the nice things he wants hes going to have to work, and he's also thinking about you and your future children. Maybe you should ask him if it would be alright if you got a part time job to help. No way he is totally happy being at work all the time. Also about spending more time situation, the only way to get more time with him would be to live with him. Since his excuse is hes to tired or busy to see you? I wouldn't be comfortable seeing my partner once a month so I understand and think that's ridiculous. Let him know your unhappy and want more of him or you dont know if you can continue the relationship, just to scare him a little bit. I mean hes not a child he doesn't need his aunt permission to live his life. Hope everything works out for you guys xo.
Posted by chinkypinky
I am a Pisces girl in a relationship with a Taurus guy from last 6 years. recently i was angry with him because he was always busy in work and would not spend much time with me. He would call me everyday 2-3 times without fail but i needed a lot more than that. So i started chatting with my childhood classmate who is a Sagittarius. I supported him always in all the difficult times and also helped him financially. He always said he loves me, he never had any girl in life and will die if i don't get married to him. I started getting closer to him but never said yes for relationship i always wanted to get married to my Taurus boyfriend. Once we even had sex i really regret that happened 😢 . when i constantly refused to get married this Sagittarius told me he already has a girlfriend from last 5 years and also has secret relationships with many other woman including one of his girlfriends younger sister. He even started blaming me for the things i didn't do. I always spoke truth and he always lied about everything. wow. He was such a lair.I was devastated i realized this guy just used me and lied all the time. I cut off all contacts with him. and told my Taurus boyfriend everything that happened including the sex part. I apologized. He got angry but forgave me and said he will never leave me no matter what but this should never happen again. I feel really sorry for hurting him. I feel a lot guilty and try to keep him happy as much as possible. But we did not have sex from last 2 months since when i told him about my mistake. We used to have sex at least once a month before. He says he wants to do that but then he cancels. He calls me everyday like before but i don't understand the sex part.
Will he ever trust me again? I am 100% sure i will never trust any other guy again not even for friendship. I just want to be with my Taurus boyfriend and never want to loose him 😢
its over im sorry
Posted by chinkypinky
I am a Pisces girl in a relationship with a Taurus guy from last 6 years. recently i was angry with him because he was always busy in work and would not spend much time with me. He would call me everyday 2-3 times without fail but i needed a lot more than that. So i started chatting with my childhood classmate who is a Sagittarius. I supported him always in all the difficult times and also helped him financially. He always said he loves me, he never had any girl in life and will die if i don't get married to him. I started getting closer to him but never said yes for relationship i always wanted to get married to my Taurus boyfriend. Once we even had sex i really regret that happened 😢 . when i constantly refused to get married this Sagittarius told me he already has a girlfriend from last 5 years and also has secret relationships with many other woman including one of his girlfriends younger sister. He even started blaming me for the things i didn't do. I always spoke truth and he always lied about everything. wow. He was such a lair.I was devastated i realized this guy just used me and lied all the time. I cut off all contacts with him. and told my Taurus boyfriend everything that happened including the sex part. I apologized. He got angry but forgave me and said he will never leave me no matter what but this should never happen again. I feel really sorry for hurting him. I feel a lot guilty and try to keep him happy as much as possible. But we did not have sex from last 2 months since when i told him about my mistake. We used to have sex at least once a month before. He says he wants to do that but then he cancels. He calls me everyday like before but i don't understand the sex part.
Will he ever trust me again? I am 100% sure i will never trust any other guy again not even for friendship. I just want to be with my Taurus boyfriend and never want to loose him 😢
its over im sorry
Posted by idk
ok what'd i miss. i just got out of the hospital. my buddy dared me to get into a bounce house with a bowling ball he had in his trunk....but i think i should wear a helmet next time
it seemed to make perfect sense when i thought about it before getting into the bounce house....
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You're so funny
Posted by Nemilicious
Did pisces and taurus marry and have children? Cause i really cannot read 538 messages.🍹
the OP was a troll
but some people are not able to respond to things without personal insults and "holier then thou" attitude.... so here you go🙂
Can we get a 35th page guys
Posted by LibWman
Can we get a 35th page guysyou wrote this on page 36 ....
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My bad it's probably because people I've blocked posted too. Let's get a page 37 guys
Thread too long.
Cliff notes?
I'm not going to judge you Chinky.
You were honest, and I always commend honesty.
Here is the truth.
Bulls LIVE, EAT, BREATHE and Sh&t money.
We're hedonists, attentive, and loving ONLY when our finances are in order.
I am incognito when my money is funny. Good luck in finding me.
Does this mean I'm cheating?
No.
It just means Leave me the "F" alone until I have my' ish' in order!
I think you required a lot more attention than your Bull was willing to give you.
Which is OK.
But...
He will NEVER forgive you.
You will have a better chance at climbing Mt Everest than being forgiven by a Bull.
Seeking advice here will not serve you well.
To love a Bull is to simply understand a Bull.
For those who think we're card boards, here is the breakdown.
We love REALISTICALLY.
1. Sitting down all day and blowing sunshine up your rear end each day doesn't pay the bills. The Sag did this, got you in the sack and didn't even offer you a job.
2. We love you in sickness, poverty, and changing physical appearance, we're pragmatic enough to know that romance isn't all smoke and roses. Yes, we love you unconditionally.
3. We understand the importance of traditional roles, if we fall short in this aspect, we have failed our partner. Yes, how you perceive us means EVERYTHING to us! If we can't support the people we love, we avoid relationships all together.
...And for the Water Signs (not all) that are criticizing us...
If the Bulls are not reciprocating in the romantic department than you're not as loving and affectionate as you say you are.
Bulls are more receptive to 'touches' than we are for verbal communication.
My guess, there is probably more 'whining' than 'touching.'
OP, you seem real sweet, sorry things couldn't work out.
Good Luck to you.
Chunky pinky I'm not gonna judge you but i know for a fact he will never treat you the same taurus hold grudges every time yal argue he will bring up what u did and throw it in ur face. And he will start to treat u different and ur gonna hate I suggest u leave before he starts to ignore u or starts leaving u or retaliating by messing with someone else and allowing u to find out. Cuz once he leaves he's done. I know he will never ever trust u again. He may say what he said but u will see his behavior if u continue u stick around u will see the true bull come out of him eventually. Trust me yal are not gonna make it because the mistake u made. He's just gonna start using u to get what he wants til he gets enough. Then leaves u dry. Or he might make u trust him and when u do he just fails u or disappears on u without a word. Soon as u don't do what he wants he will leave. Mark my words. And ddon't get pregnant by him ur life will be a living hell. Good luck on ur decision but I know u need to move on quickly. Even if he calls and blows u up he's just trying to keep u so he can get what he wants from u. But i suggest you Don't cheat on another person because by u doing that u just don't know u messed up big time. Really he thinks u don't care about him because u did that. So u better believe as long as u stay he will make u mmiserable because u made him miserable when u cheated. He wants u to feel his pain. He won't tell u that but he will eventually show u. Leave him and be faithful to the next person. Stop cheating if the person don't cheat on u just because they don't give u all the attention u want. Don't mean betray them. It's called being a woman. A woman that truly loves u will not cheat on u no matter what. I believe u was just looking for love in all the wrong places. Stop it and appreciate when u have something good. Then u will be happy with that one person. God bbless.
This is the longest thread on the Taurus boards since I've been on here. Bravo. Still going.....
oohhh i kind of like that song. good beat.
there's a lyric in there, "bitch better have my money..." and this was recorded in 2013, so i wonder if Rihanna's songwriters were also inspired by this song, or at least some of the lyrics.
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One of my favorite Drake songs. The cold thing about it is, Imho, I think the song is about his father, who is in the video dancing in the white. Its the only thing that explains Drakes aggression and the lyrics aswell as him shooting the video in Memphis, where his father lives. Love the get back at his dad on this one... scorpios lol.
Posted by chinkypinky
I am a Pisces girl in a relationship with a Taurus guy from last 6 years. recently i was angry with him because he was always busy in work and would not spend much time with me. He would call me everyday 2-3 times without fail but i needed a lot more than that. So i started chatting with my childhood classmate who is a Sagittarius. I supported him always in all the difficult times and also helped him financially. He always said he loves me, he never had any girl in life and will die if i don't get married to him. I started getting closer to him but never said yes for relationship i always wanted to get married to my Taurus boyfriend. Once we even had sex i really regret that happened 😢 . when i constantly refused to get married this Sagittarius told me he already has a girlfriend from last 5 years and also has secret relationships with many other woman including one of his girlfriends younger sister. He even started blaming me for the things i didn't do. I always spoke truth and he always lied about everything. wow. He was such a lair.I was devastated i realized this guy just used me and lied all the time. I cut off all contacts with him. and told my Taurus boyfriend everything that happened including the sex part. I apologized. He got angry but forgave me and said he will never leave me no matter what but this should never happen again. I feel really sorry for hurting him. I feel a lot guilty and try to keep him happy as much as possible. But we did not have sex from last 2 months since when i told him about my mistake. We used to have sex at least once a month before. He says he wants to do that but then he cancels. He calls me everyday like before but i don't understand the sex part.
Will he ever trust me again? I am 100% sure i will never trust any other guy again not even for friendship. I just want to be with my Taurus boyfriend and never want to loose him 😢
6 years? Damn that is rough. If I was him I would have said thanks for being honest, but you do realize that we can not be together. That's just me though. I need a strong pillar by my side, and if there are problems on my end I would expect her to bring them up and be completely open and honest before anything like this happened. You got used, and its just a lesson now. BTW, is this common with Pisces?
I always ask have you ever cheated, top five questions..
Oh, my. This thread is still going?
Posted by AgentP911
Congratulations. You discovered the grass is not greener. Now please feel lots of guilt for tossing your six year relationship in the trash and discarding what seemed like a decent fella.Ps: seriously 'devastated' to discover sag was using you? Oh please...
+1
Posted by champranger
Can't believe it is 36 pages 😱 ...
Whatever has been happening in those 36 pages! 😛
lol....I havent read a single page in this thread but am shocked at the length of it....can someone give me the cliff notes? lolol
Posted by wxyx33
Tell you whatthis Taurus is probably planning on leaving you in the nicest way possible
L O L !
Cool story bro
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
lol....I havent read a single page in this thread but am shocked at the length of it....can someone give me the cliff notes? lolol
she cheated on her boyfriend who she really loves.
Best thing you could have done is not to tell him that you cheated. Because you know inside that you didn't mean to do it and made a commitment to yourself that you are not gonna cheat on him again.
Now you confessed, he is gonna put you through lot of emotional tantrums and finally leave you. Sorry but true. 😢
Chinky, Taurus will NEVER forgive you. No matter what he says. Take it from a Taurus lady. We Taurus hold grudges beyond forever and find little insidious ways of torturing people we claim to have forgiven. I don't know why this is, but it is.
Hello friends, i am back. I forgot my password and couldnt login my email too. So updating through my other account which i had created years ago from my other email id i recoverd my password.
So i met my taurus bf twice. Last month we had sex 4 times in a day it was really passionate. And last week he spent 4 days with me and its the first time he spent so much time at once with me. We even went for my best friends wedding together that time. I am totally relieved now. Last month when i wanted to talk about the topic in which i cheated he said to me that he doesnt want to talk about it again. He is really very caring and told me will marry me in 2017 as he planned. He spent lot of money on me last week now i really think he forgiven me for everything.
Hope everything goes well in future.
But he is really nice to me. Calls me on time, everyday. He is making plans for future buying things for our flat. Should i still worry that he will leave me or take revenge?
He just dont want to talk about that topic again. I am sure that i will never cheat again on him ever in my life and i think he realised and accepted it now. and this was the first time we went together for a wedding function. It was my best friends wedding he even bought gift. We went on a trip and spent time on beach he clicked our pictures together. He was super nice and romantic.
Thank you sooooo much..... 🙂
Good God, I read it all. And now I'm going to finish making chutney. Holyyyyy sheeeeeit!
Posted by AgentP911
Congratulations. You discovered the grass is not greener. Now please feel lots of guilt for tossing your six year relationship in the trash and discarding what seemed like a decent fella.Ps: seriously 'devastated' to discover sag was using you? Oh please...
Lol
I thought Pisces supposedly see through bullshit.
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I dont think so, women goes for the bad cool looking dudes even though they know that those dudes are not genuine to them but they still fall for them. The good guys are just back tyres or emotional dump for these woman.