MichelleT
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I lied and now I’ve gotten dumped by my bull. (Page 2)
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Posted by MichelleT#whentheentirepostgoesovermichelletshead
I’m no pinning her as the bad guy. I am saying that is HIS perception. From HIS perspective, based on HER statements. Furthermore, she isn’t giving us the full story. Three sides to the story hers his and the truth.
Bottom line, not compatible people for any reason, BUT she came to an astrological discussion board to discuss a relationship problem based on his sign. So that is relevant.
OP sounds like a typical 20 something Leo. Those I am super familiar with.
And at no point did I say she was a shit bag and he wasn’t. If what she says is true, he has problems. They both need therapy, because they both have problems. She should ask herself why she wants a dude like this. Go talk to a therapist about that.
This would be making her out to the bad guy,
“If you know the owner of a club well enough that he felt comfortable enough to touch you, whether you felt it or believed it to be random club goers bumping you or not, you are a party girl. You have multiple stories of partying in your original post that sparked a response from your Bull.“ Then you followed up with acts like a duck quacks like a duck in regards to her being the party girl. Yea sounds like you try to make her out to be bad guy.
Bottom line is OP dude is unstable and needs therapy. I know it’s hard to love someone, remember what they were like before all this stuff happened, and not have a soft spot for them. I’m sure it’s one of those “if only they’d get help”. You love him and it sucks because he needs help and you see that. If he comes to you and has been in steady therapy then I guess you can revisit, but not a moment sooner. You can’t help him at this point.
Posted by vanballmoosI’m merely pointing out that he perceives her as a party girl. I also perceive her as a party girl and I’m not the only one who made that statement in this thread. There’s nothing wrong with being a party girl. Own it. I used to party a lot in my early 20s. There’s nothing wrong with it. But dude doesn’t like it and his perception is she’s out whoring. Is that wrong? Maybe. Probably. Is it extremely sensitive response based on what OP tells us happened? Yeah. Do I believe OP is omitting all kinds of stuff? Yeah. Do I think they both need therapy for their own reasons? Yeah.Posted by MichelleT#whentheentirepostgoesovermichelletshead
I’m no pinning her as the bad guy. I am saying that is HIS perception. From HIS perspective, based on HER statements. Furthermore, she isn’t giving us the full story. Three sides to the story hers his and the truth.
Bottom line, not compatible people for any reason, BUT she came to an astrological discussion board to discuss a relationship problem based on his sign. So that is relevant.
OP sounds like a typical 20 something Leo. Those I am super familiar with.
And at no point did I say she was a shit bag and he wasn’t. If what she says is true, he has problems. They both need therapy, because they both have problems. She should ask herself why she wants a dude like this. Go talk to a therapist about that.
This would be making her out to the bad guy,
“If you know the owner of a club well enough that he felt comfortable enough to touch you, whether you felt it or believed it to be random club goers bumping you or not, you are a party girl. You have multiple stories of partying in your original post that sparked a response from your Bull.“ Then you followed up with acts like a duck quacks like a duck in regards to her being the party girl. Yea sounds like you try to make her out to be bad guy.
Bottom line is OP dude is unstable and needs therapy. I know it’s hard to love someone, remember what they were like before all this stuff happened, and not have a soft spot for them. I’m sure it’s one of those “if only they’d get help”. You love him and it sucks because he needs help and you see that. If he comes to you and has been in steady therapy then I guess you can revisit, but not a moment sooner. You can’t help him at this point.
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Once again. THEY ARE NOT COMPATIBLE on any level.
I love how you women jump on the poor little op as an abused woman and don’t read what I actually wrote.
She isn’t a shit bag. She does need therapy.
#vaginapowersquadmanhaterscantread
@xtra1990
This was incredibly difficult to get through, not because of the length, but because how toxic this whole thing is. The bottom line is, RUN! Run far, far away. You need to stop going back to him. There is nothing you can do to fix this guy and his myriad of complex issues. If you stick around, you are guaranteed to validate his behavior and make yourself miserable.
Also great word choice using "diatribe". I appreciated that.
Lastly you're dealing with a guy with some serious anger/control issues. He's jealous and emotionally immature. There are so many red flags, they are difficult to count. However while it's easy to see his issues, I'm wondering why you have stayed with this person for so long.
From what you've written, there's nothing redeeming about this relationship. It would be best for you to back away from this situation and look into at what attracted you to a person like this for so long. I can't help but wonder how many healthy, loving interactions/relationships you've missed out on by wasting time with this person.
This was incredibly difficult to get through, not because of the length, but because how toxic this whole thing is. The bottom line is, RUN! Run far, far away. You need to stop going back to him. There is nothing you can do to fix this guy and his myriad of complex issues. If you stick around, you are guaranteed to validate his behavior and make yourself miserable.
Also great word choice using "diatribe". I appreciated that.
Lastly you're dealing with a guy with some serious anger/control issues. He's jealous and emotionally immature. There are so many red flags, they are difficult to count. However while it's easy to see his issues, I'm wondering why you have stayed with this person for so long.
From what you've written, there's nothing redeeming about this relationship. It would be best for you to back away from this situation and look into at what attracted you to a person like this for so long. I can't help but wonder how many healthy, loving interactions/relationships you've missed out on by wasting time with this person.
Posted by ChuckcemThanks. I mainly stayed because of his father’s death. He wasn’t like this in the beginning really. It didn’t start to get bad until he said he loved me. I just didn’t feel right leaving someone I love hanging whose father died. I chalked a lot of this behavior to him not processing his dad’s death. He didn’t cry once and didn’t talk about it. So I just figured if he got therapy a lot of this wouldn’t be an issue (stupid on my part). I guess I was thinking of would he could be like once he got therapy instead of taking him for what he is now.... :/
@xtra1990
This was incredibly difficult to get through, not because of the length, but because how toxic this whole thing is. The bottom line is, RUN! Run far, far away. You need to stop going back to him. There is nothing you can do to fix this guy and his myriad of complex issues. If you stick around, you are guaranteed to validate his behavior and make yourself miserable.
Also great word choice using "diatribe". I appreciated that.
Lastly you're dealing with a guy with some serious anger/control issues. He's jealous and emotionally immature. There are so many red flags, they are difficult to count. However while it's easy to see his issues, I'm wondering why you have stayed with this person for so long.
From what you've written, there's nothing redeeming about this relationship. It would be best for you to back away from this situation and look into at what attracted you to a person like this for so long. I can't help but wonder how many healthy, loving interactions/relationships you've missed out on by wasting time with this person.
Welp. Just got ANOTHER message. He said this is hard for him
🙄🙄 *ignores*
🙄🙄 *ignores*
Posted by xtra1990Posted by MichelleTYou clearly didn’t read. In the beginning I said,Posted by piscesmoon2If you know the owner of a club well enough that he felt comfortable enough to touch you, whether you felt it or believed it to be random club goers bumping you or not, you are a party girl. You have multiple stories of partying in your original post that sparked a response from your Bull. You are on an astrology board. We are telling you that from the astrological trait perspective, Bulls don’t like party girls or girls that look like party girls. They are homebodies and get jealous easily. When he saw your little friend dancing with some random, knowing full well she had a bf, he assumed you do that too, because in his mind, birds of a feather, flock together. In the mind of a Taurus, you lie once about something stupid like an emoji, and he can’t trust you on the big stuff. So he thinks you are cheating on him and being a liar face about it.Posted by xtra1990That is what they all say... walks like a duck, looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, then most likely it is a duck.Posted by piscesmoon2I’m not a party girl...
You are just not right for each other however you seem kinda like a party girl. These days it seems to be socially acceptable... in all honesty this is only one side is the story as well. You know where one side is all you hear... I am not going to say you are a bad person but there is not a hole lot in clubs to find other then girls that want attention, drugs, and trouble. As people get older they don't need this as much and well woman often start to realize most men will not stay nor respect any girl that seems to much like a party girl.
As far as porn it has really tainted sex forever... in all honesty people these days seem like they hardly work... live on credit and think they are all rock stars because of instagram and a guy my buy them a drink.
I am not about to say this guy sounds super healthy but be realistic about what you want... if you do ever want to settle down realize you may not be so good looking if you have a kid or social... I say this to many woman... often times they think just because they are good looking that they can get a guy when ever... these days guys are seeing how party girls seem to be... why would they want to settle down with that. I would rather be alone then have to deal with drunk girl drama and constant need for attention.
Understand that most of the woman that give advise here just take your side because you are a girl. Also that most people are also liberal. Again I am not saying you can't or should feel ashamed but be realistic of what you want for a future... do you want to be the 40 year old cougar in the club or would you like to actually have a family. Plan accordingly because neither are accidents.
Piscesmoon
You would like a party girl to me... excepting random shots from guys at clubs... even more so the owner... always a sign of a party girl. The owners just want and wait to pick up on party girls. Ever notice how so many clubs go out of business and so on... these are not really stable business most of the time.
I say this knowing many men that went into this industry just to get ass... door guys, bartenders, promoters, owners, and so on... In the end very few do well in life and few ever have successful relationships due to the environment they are in... beside how do you have a family if you don't ever get home till 4 am or in the am. There are a few people that due well but a lot of time they don't drink I found out and or own many business.
Piscesmoon
I’m no Taurus expert, but I have learned some stuff from the Bulls on this board that has been a thousand percent on the money! Listen to them. They are all probably correct. He may have issues. You definitely have a problem that you wanna be with him in the face of the things you have told us about. I maintain that the rest of the story and the truth are still elusive in the conversation.
You both are incompatible on an astrological and sociophilosphical level.
Delete him from your life and move forward.
“I was out with my girlfriends (who I rarely ever see anymore) one night. My best friend is good friends with the club owner.”
That’s her friend. I don’t even see her that often, so no, no I’m not a party girl.click to expand
This is what they all say...😜
Piscesmoon
Posted by missmissyIt was her actions in the situations... again did not feel people's hands on her really... excepting drinks from a guy she did not know but was owner of the club. Friend dancing with a guy most likely grinding on him when they are out...Posted by MichelleTSo OP mentioned partying twice. One time he was out with her, the other time her friend knew the owner and the boyfriend was out as well (and she invited him to be with her).Posted by piscesmoon2If you know the owner of a club well enough that he felt comfortable enough to touch you, whether you felt it or believed it to be random club goers bumping you or not, you are a party girl. You have multiple stories of partying in your original post that sparked a response from your Bull. You are on an astrology board. We are telling you that from the astrological trait perspective, Bulls don’t like party girls or girls that look like party girls. They are homebodies and get jealous easily. When he saw your little friend dancing with some random, knowing full well she had a bf, he assumed you do that too, because in his mind, birds of a feather, flock together. In the mind of a Taurus, you lie once about something stupid like an emoji, and he can’t trust you on the big stuff. So he thinks you are cheating on him and being a liar face about it.Posted by xtra1990That is what they all say... walks like a duck, looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, then most likely it is a duck.Posted by piscesmoon2I’m not a party girl...
You are just not right for each other however you seem kinda like a party girl. These days it seems to be socially acceptable... in all honesty this is only one side is the story as well. You know where one side is all you hear... I am not going to say you are a bad person but there is not a hole lot in clubs to find other then girls that want attention, drugs, and trouble. As people get older they don't need this as much and well woman often start to realize most men will not stay nor respect any girl that seems to much like a party girl.
As far as porn it has really tainted sex forever... in all honesty people these days seem like they hardly work... live on credit and think they are all rock stars because of instagram and a guy my buy them a drink.
I am not about to say this guy sounds super healthy but be realistic about what you want... if you do ever want to settle down realize you may not be so good looking if you have a kid or social... I say this to many woman... often times they think just because they are good looking that they can get a guy when ever... these days guys are seeing how party girls seem to be... why would they want to settle down with that. I would rather be alone then have to deal with drunk girl drama and constant need for attention.
Understand that most of the woman that give advise here just take your side because you are a girl. Also that most people are also liberal. Again I am not saying you can't or should feel ashamed but be realistic of what you want for a future... do you want to be the 40 year old cougar in the club or would you like to actually have a family. Plan accordingly because neither are accidents.
Piscesmoon
You would like a party girl to me... excepting random shots from guys at clubs... even more so the owner... always a sign of a party girl. The owners just want and wait to pick up on party girls. Ever notice how so many clubs go out of business and so on... these are not really stable business most of the time.
I say this knowing many men that went into this industry just to get ass... door guys, bartenders, promoters, owners, and so on... In the end very few do well in life and few ever have successful relationships due to the environment they are in... beside how do you have a family if you don't ever get home till 4 am or in the am. There are a few people that due well but a lot of time they don't drink I found out and or own many business.
Piscesmoon
I’m no Taurus expert, but I have learned some stuff from the Bulls on this board that has been a thousand percent on the money! Listen to them. They are all probably correct. He may have issues. You definitely have a problem that you wanna be with him in the face of the things you have told us about. I maintain that the rest of the story and the truth are still elusive in the conversation.
You both are incompatible on an astrological and sociophilosphical level.
Delete him from your life and move forward.
Why are you making her out to be a party girl? He was out too, so why not say he’s a party boy? Don’t blame her and say she sparked something. She didn’t do anything.click to expand
I did not say women can't or should not go out to me it sounds like you are a party girl from your story which is what he saw... maybe you should work on your image in these area if you don't want to be seen that way. Now if you do just do your thing... totally get it most woman don't or refuse to settle for one mans attention if they are a party girl. The except drinks and dance with a lot of guys for the self validation. Just be honest with yourself... I am not going to waste more time argueing with you but I am say that is why it did not work. You look like a club rat party girl to him... most guys would just not have said anything until they banged you... however no man will have a high level of respect for you or most likely if you do these things. They would not want a relationship or a meaningful one because yes you most likely will rip their heart out. You are not having any consideration for him just you and your feelings so if you don't want to change keep doing the same thing.
Piscesmoon
Posted by xtra1990Fullmoon in Taurus coming up to get worse for sure...
Welp. Just got ANOTHER message. He said this is hard for him
🙄🙄 *ignores*
Piscesmoon
Posted by AznnationSo pretty much everyone tells OP to basically run from this guy because she doesn’t know what she’s getting into. She listens and takes head, but now she doesn’t seem genuine? You sound very illogical. Damned if she does, damned if she doesn’t.
Like your guts to keep it real MichelleT and lol at the backlash you are getting siding the dude. For those that mentioned OP cant control whoever that approaches or lay their hands on her should just think if its now the ex bf who has women all over him at the club and yeah so its not his fault ^_^. Also, we all know girls that parties with their gf want to have fun, drink, and meet hot guys and fuck.
I have female friends who personally tell me how she wanna fuck that guy that night so badly but she came to the club with her gf so she doesnt wanna leave her alone that night and he got her number and they hooked up later. Another female friend would ask a club promoter whom is my friend who is the hottest/model looking guy that is dtf that night in the club and then it all happens. Well i personally got to clubs/bars with my friends and *ahem ahem* but i know a party girl/ex-party girl will never be a girl i would wanna date.
Cmon OP i dont know what is your intention for posting your story.
You started out as *i lied and now i gotten dumped by my bull* to - "welp i for another message ignores*
You dont seem genuine thats all i can say.
Im glad you don’t want to date an ex party girl/party girl. Want a cookie? No one asked what your taste in women are. Based on your response to OP you sound just as insecure as the guy she was dating. Plenty of women go out with their friends without the intention of sleeping with other people. You seem to forget that OP mentioned the guy going out as well.
Posted by edgelordGah you’re really getting annoying. You haven’t said one constructive thing. Just want to instigate. Here’s a screen grab of the messages he’s sent recently as I have mentioned. So no, no I’m not a troll.Posted by Aznnationi'm beginning to think she's a troll.
Like your guts to keep it real MichelleT and lol at the backlash you are getting siding the dude. For those that mentioned OP cant control whoever that approaches or lay their hands on her should just think if its now the ex bf who has women all over him at the club and yeah so its not his fault ^_^. Also, we all know girls that parties with their gf want to have fun, drink, and meet hot guys and fuck.
I have female friends who personally tell me how she wanna fuck that guy that night so badly but she came to the club with her gf so she doesnt wanna leave her alone that night and he got her number and they hooked up later. Another female friend would ask a club promoter whom is my friend who is the hottest/model looking guy that is dtf that night in the club and then it all happens. Well i personally got to clubs/bars with my friends and *ahem ahem* but i know a party girl/ex-party girl will never be a girl i would wanna date.
Cmon OP i dont know what is your intention for posting your story.
You started out as *i lied and now i gotten dumped by my bull* to - "welp i for another message ignores*
You dont seem genuine thats all i can say.click to expand
https://imgur.com/a/6bpBX
Posted by vanballmoosYou gotta bear mind a lot of the comments making out the OP to be the one at fault are mostly projections.Posted by AznnationSo pretty much everyone tells OP to basically run from this guy because she doesn’t know what she’s getting into. She listens and takes head, but now she doesn’t seem genuine? You sound very illogical. Damned if she does, damned if she doesn’t.
Like your guts to keep it real MichelleT and lol at the backlash you are getting siding the dude. For those that mentioned OP cant control whoever that approaches or lay their hands on her should just think if its now the ex bf who has women all over him at the club and yeah so its not his fault ^_^. Also, we all know girls that parties with their gf want to have fun, drink, and meet hot guys and fuck.
I have female friends who personally tell me how she wanna fuck that guy that night so badly but she came to the club with her gf so she doesnt wanna leave her alone that night and he got her number and they hooked up later. Another female friend would ask a club promoter whom is my friend who is the hottest/model looking guy that is dtf that night in the club and then it all happens. Well i personally got to clubs/bars with my friends and *ahem ahem* but i know a party girl/ex-party girl will never be a girl i would wanna date.
Cmon OP i dont know what is your intention for posting your story.
You started out as *i lied and now i gotten dumped by my bull* to - "welp i for another message ignores*
You dont seem genuine thats all i can say.
Im glad you don’t want to date an ex party girl/party girl. Want a cookie? No one asked what your taste in women are. Based on your response to OP you sound just as insecure as the guy she was dating. Plenty of women go out with their friends without the intention of sleeping with other people. You seem to forget that OP mentioned the guy going out as well.
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Posted by xtra1990You don't really need to explain yourself to anyone here. No one is entitled to know more than you have already explained.Posted by edgelordGah you’re really getting annoying. You haven’t said one constructive thing. Just want to instigate. Here’s a screen grab of the messages he’s sent recently as I have mentioned. So no, no I’m not a troll.Posted by Aznnationi'm beginning to think she's a troll.
Like your guts to keep it real MichelleT and lol at the backlash you are getting siding the dude. For those that mentioned OP cant control whoever that approaches or lay their hands on her should just think if its now the ex bf who has women all over him at the club and yeah so its not his fault ^_^. Also, we all know girls that parties with their gf want to have fun, drink, and meet hot guys and fuck.
I have female friends who personally tell me how she wanna fuck that guy that night so badly but she came to the club with her gf so she doesnt wanna leave her alone that night and he got her number and they hooked up later. Another female friend would ask a club promoter whom is my friend who is the hottest/model looking guy that is dtf that night in the club and then it all happens. Well i personally got to clubs/bars with my friends and *ahem ahem* but i know a party girl/ex-party girl will never be a girl i would wanna date.
Cmon OP i dont know what is your intention for posting your story.
You started out as *i lied and now i gotten dumped by my bull* to - "welp i for another message ignores*
You dont seem genuine thats all i can say.
https://imgur.com/a/6bpBX
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People who call you names, e.g. party girl etc., those are just projections of what they consider acceptable/unacceptable in a girlfriend. Should that affect you in any way?
Posted by xtra1990
Apologies for the length.
Where to start...
Girl, you could write a novel. We see you inside the bubble, but yet, you cannot see us "outside" the bubble. When I read your "novel" I saw your bf holding an old time 20s razor blade; of which a barber would use to shave said clients with. Do you want to continue like this metaphor with this dude? Meaning: you're the "balloon" and he has said razor in his hand.
Can you breathe without asking him how many times a day can you breathe without asking him? The dude has low self esteem 1) he's short 2) he's been cheated on and 3) you forgot to read between the lines when he said, "I wish it was 'just' about you lying one time" to me this seems as if he has a long laundry list of things you've done wrong that pisses him off. He's Taurus. Grrrrrr! You don't live in HIS world! Do you want to walk on egg shells the rest of your life? You're not EVEN thinking of the kids you will have with this "psycho" tagging along w/you (kids) to the lawyer's office.
Dump him! Why do you think he's baggage left over from his exes? They KNEW exactly what you are going thru w/this "azz hole" since they also went thru it themselves. What makes you immune to your boyfriend's attitude towards you that makes you think he didn't react/act like this w/his exes? Run for this hills!
You have done NOTHING wrong, a joke is a joke, and what I've heard/read about Taurean men, they are "sensitive" (some should grow a back bone) when they hear a joke and should shake it off! To me, these "sensitive" men have low self esteem!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by edgelordWell, the REST of us who do CARE read and posted a comment because we DO care.....BULLS!!! 😡
Oh busy where are you for posts like this. 🤔
I just... can’t.
You know when a bish is just gonna ignore every wall of text you post? That’s what this thread will become.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by xtra1990Period (.); he feels as if he's done NOTHING wrong; typical response from a Taruean man. Again, this is your final answer (no more life lines left). Diss him.
Well I just got another message.
He said going to therapy would just be a disservice to me because he wouldn't really take it seriously because he was only going to go for me. He has felt he has needed to assume blame in order to move forward because I'm so 'unrelenting'. He's 'never had issues disagreeing with someone on the sequence of events or what was said, let alone have the same issue numerous times'. Also, that he can only hear "I never said that" before he questions my honesty. He not paranoid and my favorite part,
'Even if I didn't think you were lying your actions look dishonest so I interpreted them as such'.
Sigh. I don't even know why his messages still surprise me...
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by xtra1990Little one the word "gas-lighting" means he's add fuel to the fire (since you're Leo).Posted by LDM90I just looked up gaslighting and now I'm confused. If I was the one who kept saying I didn't say that (he said I told him I used to lie to my ex. I KNOW I never said that because I never did that and who the heck would tell their new SO that anyways?) and according to him he's been feeling like I'm making him out to be crazy-wouldn't that be me gaslighting him? Maybe I'm not grasping what gaslighting is...Posted by xtra1990He’s gaslighting you OP. Rather he realizes it or not, that’s what he’s doing.
Well I just got another message.
He said going to therapy would just be a disservice to me because he wouldn't really take it seriously because he was only going to go for me. He has felt he has needed to assume blame in order to move forward because I'm so 'unrelenting'. He's 'never had issues disagreeing with someone on the sequence of events or what was said, let alone have the same issue numerous times'. Also, that he can only hear "I never said that" before he questions my honesty. He not paranoid and my favorite part,
'Even if I didn't think you were lying your actions look dishonest so I interpreted them as such'.
Sigh. I don't even know why his messages still surprise me...
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by ellesbelles
Be cautious of men who say their ex is crazy....a cheater....etc.
For the next woman.....you will be described as a liar, manipulator and cheater....and you did nothing to get those names.
^5 (high five!). I WISH you (OP) could be the fly on the wall. This is EXACTLY the words that will come outta his mouth so he can "reel" in another girlfriend. AKA he KNOWS the words to use to manipulate to "reel" another woman into his life!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
From what i read i can tell you like drama which is a definite no-no to taurus guys who prefer stability for relationships.
Okay, so answer my question to you. "Why is the Taurean with her if he 'prefers stability'?"
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Okay, so answer my question to you. "Why is the Taurean with her if he 'prefers stability'?"
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by piscesmoon2Who hurt you?Posted by xtra1990That is what they all say... walks like a duck, looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, then most likely it is a duck.Posted by piscesmoon2I’m not a party girl...
You are just not right for each other however you seem kinda like a party girl. These days it seems to be socially acceptable... in all honesty this is only one side is the story as well. You know where one side is all you hear... I am not going to say you are a bad person but there is not a hole lot in clubs to find other then girls that want attention, drugs, and trouble. As people get older they don't need this as much and well woman often start to realize most men will not stay nor respect any girl that seems to much like a party girl.
As far as porn it has really tainted sex forever... in all honesty people these days seem like they hardly work... live on credit and think they are all rock stars because of instagram and a guy my buy them a drink.
I am not about to say this guy sounds super healthy but be realistic about what you want... if you do ever want to settle down realize you may not be so good looking if you have a kid or social... I say this to many woman... often times they think just because they are good looking that they can get a guy when ever... these days guys are seeing how party girls seem to be... why would they want to settle down with that. I would rather be alone then have to deal with drunk girl drama and constant need for attention.
Understand that most of the woman that give advise here just take your side because you are a girl. Also that most people are also liberal. Again I am not saying you can't or should feel ashamed but be realistic of what you want for a future... do you want to be the 40 year old cougar in the club or would you like to actually have a family. Plan accordingly because neither are accidents.
Piscesmoon
You would like a party girl to me... excepting random shots from guys at clubs... even more so the owner... always a sign of a party girl. The owners just want and wait to pick up on party girls. Ever notice how so many clubs go out of business and so on... these are not really stable business most of the time.
I say this knowing many men that went into this industry just to get ass... door guys, bartenders, promoters, owners, and so on... In the end very few do well in life and few ever have successful relationships due to the environment they are in... beside how do you have a family if you don't ever get home till 4 am or in the am. There are a few people that due well but a lot of time they don't drink I found out and or own many business.
Piscesmoon
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LOL!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by jeaneLook at the MONKEY finally nod in agreement!Posted by Gob_Shite
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You guys are so annoying with the “only one side of the story bullshit”
No shit.
It’s illogi to think you’re going to get the other side of the story. Everyone comes here for perspective, you don’t need to hear the other side just give your opinion of the details at hand. Because saying You need to hear the other side is saying nothing.
No shit.
It’s illogi to think you’re going to get the other side of the story. Everyone comes here for perspective, you don’t need to hear the other side just give your opinion of the details at hand. Because saying You need to hear the other side is saying nothing.
Posted by tizianiPosted by bkbella86That's crap. The thread wouldn't be 9 pages long and full of armchair psychology if it were as obvious as you say. Nor did it stop anyone from giving a real opinion.
You guys are so annoying with the “only one side of the story bullshit”
No shit.
It’s illogi to think you’re going to get the other side of the story. Everyone comes here for perspective, you don’t need to hear the other side just give your opinion of the details at hand. Because saying You need to hear the other side is saying nothing.
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That line is thrown around here so often and it’s annoying and irrelevant. There is no way you will likely get the other side of the story so why bring it up?
Posted by vanballmoosNo, they both conversed with each other regarding the situation of the bitmoji. He can’t argue about something with himself. It takes two. She lied. He got fucked off. They are both at fault, not just him.Posted by AgentP911No it doesn’t have to do with being a good match or age. And wrong, HE argued over a bitmoji. Not her.Posted by NevermorePosted by AgentP911I don't think it has to do with the age. NOR even about how "good" the matches are.
Frankly, just reading all of that was very tiring to me. The most concerning thing is that you’re actually living this!
You know when something really isn’t a good idea? Well that’s you two being together. It’s hard work. You don’t match. There’s far too many issues. What’s the point? Why do you want all this bullshit drama?
How old are you both? Early 20’s?
No matter of ages, The victim doesn't even aware of how abusive/toxicated relationship is. It's really draining that you feel lost and unable to escape while letting others step over it. Either it's fear/sex is good/guilt/something else that has reason to stay without aware.
It's sad & trauma psychological thing.
It has everything to do with not being a match. They’re not suited to each other. They don’t gel together. They have different outlooks and approaches to things.
They also sound immature. She’s reduced this relationship down to a fucking emoji. They argued about a fucking emoji text. Really? 🙄 she’s not aware because she doesn’t have the experience and maturity to be aware or she just likes the attention.
Sure, the fella seems to have had a lot on his plate that he needs to deal with but the OP is cold and flippant with the fella. We only have her version. It is unclear why she wants him, what advice she actually wants, and what outcome she envisages.
It doesn’t matter why she wants him that’s not what she came here for. She clearly asked what her part of the demise of the relationship. Quite frankly I would be cold and flippant with him too (though I don’t think she has). Almost everyone said not to engage him. When someone has acted the way he has you don’t feed the best-you ignore it.
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I don’t even know wtf a bitmoji is but the point is they’re arguing over something so petty.
Her part of the demise, along with his, is that they were not compatible in the first place which resulted in said demise.
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