Is Possible fair Taurus woman & Scorpio man to have a long lasting relationship?

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mskuran
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I met this Scorpio guy at work, at first glance I find him really attractive. The way he looks is like he's trying to undress you or something. Hahaha idk! We do get along.. 🙂 he's fun to be around even tho he always annoys me & makes fun of me at work. So when I decided to quit in that workplace he started to message me & he asked me out to eat somewhere. & then after that we didn't stop seeing each other till we made out & we almost had sex. Till I found out that he's a player.. Well I know he attracts a lot of women. One of my previous co worker said he's just gonna bed me & he was once told me he don't want a relationship? So am I just a fling? We're like good friends tho. I've decided to stop seeing & talking to him.. Cause I want a relationship.. Something that lasts.. I don't sleep around!
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& he was once told me he don't want a relationship? So am I just a fling? We're like good friends tho. I've decided to stop seeing & talking to him.. Cause I want a relationship.. Something that lasts.. I don't sleep around!
@Infinite8 I took this statement as being from her, maybe I mis-read, is she saying the friend told her this? I love the Scorp/Taurus relationship but if this is him saying this - then you can't make someone want something if they aren't ready.
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& he was once told me he don't want a relationship? So am I just a fling? We're like good friends tho. I've decided to stop seeing & talking to him.. Cause I want a relationship.. Something that lasts.. I don't sleep around!
@Infinite8 I took this statement as being from her, maybe I mis-read, is she saying the friend told her this? I love the Scorp/Taurus relationship but if this is him saying this - then you can't make someone want something if they aren't ready.
Yeah, I agree 100% with you if he said that to her.


But OP said a co-worker said "he will sleep with you and leave you". Which is something to consider and look into. I would if someone said that to me about a guy I'm going out with... BUT, I won't cut him off for it... That's not fair to him at all And not fair to OP either. We have to consider the co-workers intentions. We also have to consider trying proper communication.

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I completely agree with not taking the friends perspective - even the most well meaning friend will color it with their experiences/opinions and while hearing people out is one thing, using that to solely base a decision on, isn't fair.
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There are lots of rumour about this Scorpio guy being with couple of women. (I think just hookups) & that colleague that told me knows him better.Because they've been working together. & when we were still friends (b4 physical touching) he keeps telling me stories about those women. But he didn't told me about him being in a relationship with them.. I don't know what to do next? I'm afraid that if he already got everything, he'll just leave? But to others( people at work) he's very secretive about his personal life.. Like he don't even want me to tell them about us... Seeing each other? I don't get him. Do you guys think I'm just a fling? I don't know where to stand.
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If the tables turned where they were both ready and talked less around work because people are nosy. Then okay both want each other and a better way of observing a person better is if they work together. You can see actions, thoughts, facial expression, a bunch of females trying to get in between them. But you got to have trust cause this is still a work environment.
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He told me he likes me... But he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship.. I think since the first time we met, we already like each other. We just both deny it.. the reason why I cut him off is I don't want to get too attached. I'm scared to get hurt.. before when we still work together, he's always on his phone while on break talking to a woman I heard him saying "she's the only one? " stuffs like that? It seems like they're in a relationship. I've seen it myself he's a player..but when we're together he takes good care of me. I don't know... I miss him tho. 😢
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I have a good friend that is a Taurus that has been in a long term relationship with a Scorpio man. They have things in common but more things that are NOT in common. That goes with everything. The way they both go about communicating is terrible. The only reason I think they're still together is mainly for stability. The spark has died years ago.
This is why I believe that the taurus-scorpio relationship heavily depends on constant communication.
Additionally, it is crucial that there is a compatible intellectual and emotional rapport. Without it, the relationship will go up in flames...and I would expect there to be actual flames.
These two are too stubborn and strong-willed, that if they aren't on the same page the majority of the time, these attributes will do nothing but drive a bigger wedge between them as time passes.

Not only that, but one has to be more flexible than the other...and...that's not gonna be me.

Kidding, but not really, but kidding...but...
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You hit the nail on the head. They're both VERY stubborn. That wedge has been between them for years. They aren't happy except for comfort/stability/financial which is huge with both Taurus & Scorpio
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He told me he likes me... But he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship.. I think since the first time we met, we already like each other. We just both deny it.. the reason why I cut him off is I don't want to get too attached. I'm scared to get hurt.. before when we still work together, he's always on his phone while on break talking to a woman I heard him saying "she's the only one? " stuffs like that? It seems like they're in a relationship. I've seen it myself he's a player..but when we're together he takes good care of me. I don't know... I miss him tho. 😢
Apparently you miss this guy, but don't be too eager. Just do the eye contact thing and be mysterious when you see him. He'll come chase you.

When he chases, make it verbally clear that you would only consider a man who wants a committed relationship. Be sweet but direct about it. Rinse and repeat until it gets into his thick skull.

If nothing happens, you didn't really waste your time.
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Mmm how to be mysterious?i heard Scorpios likes mysteries.
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That way you get to appreciate all the good things of being near him without seeing him as anything deep. It's just a matter of shifting your point of view of him. It should be easy if it turns you off that he has playerish or flirtatious ways that you don't appreciate in a potential mate.

That way, you get to know him and be his friend but don't complicate things by putting yourself in a position where you might get hurt by him.





Thank you!! I really do appreciate it❤ thanks a lot. But I heard Taurus & Scorpio attracts each other sexually/physically ? Is it just in the sexual level? Cause I want emotional connection too. Is there a chance for a Scorpio to fall in love with a Taurus?