Is this Tauras guy ignoring me?

I met this guy around 2 weeks back online on an app. We started texting on a daily basis. He extends the offer to help me in my work and we started to have regular calls.

He guided me in my work and in fact, offered me to move to his city and stay at his apartment. I was anyway planning to move to his city.

Three days back, he informed me that he is going out for dinner. I casually asked who is your date and he mentioned that its some girl he met online on the same app. I said very casually that have a good date and I won't disturb him. He further texted me that I'm the most chilled out girl on this app he has met so far. I said-'' you are pretty cool too".

The moment I said that he started calling me. I was sitting on a train next to my mum so I texted him that let's talk later. All I get from him is - For sure and that's it. He disappeared. I texted him yesterday if we can talk to discuss some work related stuff, he said he will call me but I have heard nothing from last two days. Have I done something wrong?

Can any Tauras male help me here, please? Should I text him or wait?

I would appreciate some point of view on this from a Tauras male.

I'm a Virgo btw

Also, it's driving me nuts 😢 I need a quick help. I so want to text him but I don't want to take a wrong move.

*make

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
I’d just chill out if I was you. Don’t contact him again today. Two days is nothing. Maybe contact him again in a week but then let him be the one to contact you first.

Why do you think he is doing this?

Posted by Cachet
I'd be more suspicious of someone whom I'd only met a couple weeks prior offering to stay at his place.

From what you've told us, it doesn't sound like your interaction was about any kind of romantic interest. But maybe you just left that part out.

I don't know, I could be wrong, but he doesn't sound interested. Maybe some casual chatting?

Nope it is romantic ! He has been very flirty with me all the time we talked or texted.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by pompower
you shouldn’t want to text him

he is probably balls deep inside tinderella

Maybe...

I'm thinking he's sulking and testing to see if she would text him first... If she does, he will get to set the tone for the next few months

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Could be! But that will be very said 😢

Posted by pompower
you shouldn’t want to text him

he is probably balls deep inside tinderella

Could be true! But that will be very sad 😢

Posted by El_toro_loco
Does he know you like him? Do you work together?

He helped me in the planning and strategy of my work and he was constantly helping me and supporting me. We live in different cities and I had mentioned that I was planned to move to his city in April to which he said that I can stay at his place.

The app where I met him is for serious dating, (not like tinder ). He was the one to approach me, and I'm pretty sure he knows that I like him. Offcourse it's too early to say anything.

Posted by virgotau

Posted by El_toro_loco
Does he know you like him? Do you work together?

He helped me in the planning and strategy of my work and he was constantly helping me and supporting me. We live in different cities and I had mentioned that I was planned to move to his city in April to which he said that I can stay at his place.

The app where I met him is for serious dating, (not like tinder ). He was the one to approach me, and I'm pretty sure he knows that I like him. Offcourse it's too early to say anything.

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But not to early to freak out about him ‘ignoring you’?

Not yet

he might just be busy with other stuff.

Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow

Posted by pompower
you shouldn’t want to text him

he is probably balls deep inside tinderella

Maybe...

I'm thinking he's sulking and testing to see if she would text him first... If she does, he will get to set the tone for the next few months

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Might be the only logic here, although petty, i just don't understand why men and women cannot be transparent, what is with this chase. Its another human being with feelings and emotion. Just play it cool and do not text now, whenever he gets back tell him that you are not into mind games. Either he will run away or start liking you a lot.

Thanks a lot everyone for the quick advice and suggestions. So the guy texted me today and I have a more strange thing to share.

Apparently, he went camping for the weekend in jungles with his last to the last ex. Isn't it weird? I'm already not interested in him anymore.

Hanging out with exes and travelling with them, while trying to date other women! who does that? I feel I have saved myself a lot of time and energy.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

I'm in a way happy that I have known this pretty early. I will focus on other guys now haha 🙂

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

What if they are still friends?

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

What if they are still friends?

If it was just the two of them camping it would be weird. Big group then yes that’s not a problem. I’m not generally friends with exes.

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Yup just two of them!

Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

What if they are still friends?

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I didn't ask that. I don't want to know now. Although he is still helping me in my work but that's it! I would like to restrict it to work only now.

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

What if they are still friends?

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or maybe friends with benefit!

Think about it, a boy and a girl who dated in past, still go out and camp together alone. Do you think nothing will happen between them? It's impossible 🙂

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by virgotau
Not yet

I wouldn’t be serious about anything until you actually meet in real life

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you were right! I will be in fact very careful from next time.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by virgotau

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

I'm in a way happy that I have known this pretty early. I will focus on other guys now haha 🙂

Don’t be surprised if he contacts you again in a few days.

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oh well he has, we are still in touch through texts. But I have limited it to work-related talk only.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
@virgotau sorry it didn’t work out. I agree, why try to hang out with exes if you’re trying to date other people.

What if they are still friends?

or maybe friends with benefit!

Think about it, a boy and a girl who dated in past, still go out and camp together alone. Do you think nothing will happen between them? It's impossible 🙂

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yeah possible but taurus like a strong friendship with their partners.

if i broke up with my bull, i'd hope that we'd still be good friends (after a period of time has passed). we were friends before, i'd hope that we would be friends after. with that said, i can understand your hesitancy.

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Posted by virgotau
Not yet

I wouldn’t be serious about anything until you actually meet in real life

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