Letting go

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FantasticLyfe_89
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I’m confused on his behavior. He acts sweet says he wants to take care of me I’m a part of him now. He says we are friends he doesn’t want a relationship he said I’m a cool chick he says we never know what the future could hold for us. He says ill make a good mother and wife one day and also said he can’t be what I want him to be ? But he contacted me mostly everyday told me what he had going on and seen me when he had a chance.
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FantasticLyfe_89
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Honestly, sounds like he really likes you but is trying to figure out how you feel. So when he says he wants to be friends he’s probably hoping you’ll object and say you wanted more.

Do you just want to be friends? If so it’s probably best just not to stay in contact. He’ll get over it eventually.
So he does like me so he is upset thinking I don’t feel the same ? So basically he’s taking it as a rejection because I asked for space.
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AriesLady8
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Respectfully, I don’t think the focus should be about him and trying to decoded his behavior.

Situations expose character. I’m sure he has a lot of great traits that disarm you. Most male Taurus do. But why would you want to work to be with a man you resorts to name calling? That’s a lack of self control. Based on your version of this situation he sounds manipulative and low vibrational. I think you should focus more on yourself and understanding why you still see him an an option for a life mate.
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AriesJo
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Seems like a total shame to throw it away, and sounds like you are being overly defensive. But if you wanted to be with him, then you would have made more effort to persuade him you weren't seeing someone else, so you got what you wanted.

And understandably he's a bit p'd off because he thought you both had more going on together. But what now, you feel guilty or something, if you didn't have feelings for him then move on?
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FantasticLyfe_89
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Posted by earlorg16
Sounds like an immature Taurus.
We are cool. But I just don’t understand where all that bs was coming from. He assumes I was seeing someone else and I told him I wasn’t. He says he doesn’t believe me which I never gave him no doubt not to. And I don’t know if he’s insecured or what ? But he did contact me recently. He always tells me what he got going on. Hmm ?
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Posted by AriesJo
Seems like a total shame to throw it away, and sounds like you are being overly defensive. But if you wanted to be with him, then you would have made more effort to persuade him you weren't seeing someone else, so you got what you wanted.

And understandably he's a bit p'd off because he thought you both had more going on together. But what now, you feel guilty or something, if you didn't have feelings for him then move on?

I told him we are friends that’s fine. So no one never said about being with anyone. He accuse me with being with someone out of no where. I seen on posts before Taurus like to get reactions out of you sometimes. I don’t know if he was trying to do that or what ? But we are on two different pages in our lives so I needed space.