Mark David
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Met the perfect Taurus... now shes completely ignoring me
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If by adult stuff you mean sleeping together, I would say she's probably upset because she still isn't ready for it and you're blowing out when she's turning you down. I like how she put it though - 'you lack the patience of a wise man'. You cannot force anybody to get intimate with you. If you really love her, wait until she's ready. If you can't wait any longer, move on rather than force her or make her feel bad about it. Everybody is untitled to choose when and whom they want to sleep with, consensually.
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If by adult stuff you mean sleeping together, I would say she's probably upset because she still isn't ready for it and you're blowing out when she's turning you down. I like how she put it though - 'you lack the patience of a wise man'. You cannot force anybody to get intimate with you. If you really love her, wait until she's ready. If you can't wait any longer, move on rather than force her or make her feel bad about it. Everybody is untitled to choose when and whom they want to sleep with, consensually.
Yes I realized that after a few days had passed. I realized I had the patience to wait for as long as it took and I wanted to reach out to her but it was too late. She blocked me and there was no way to reach out to her.
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You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
Well I reached out to her to explain to her that I was willing take things slow and her pace. And when I tried to reach out to her she had blocked me. So I went down to her work and had some grub and a drink, so I could apologize to her. She just kept her distance and did her thing and ended up going home.
I didn't know what else to do other than come here on dxp.
Posted by Mark-23Posted by Ilovemyaqua
If by adult stuff you mean sleeping together, I would say she's probably upset because she still isn't ready for it and you're blowing out when she's turning you down. I like how she put it though - 'you lack the patience of a wise man'. You cannot force anybody to get intimate with you. If you really love her, wait until she's ready. If you can't wait any longer, move on rather than force her or make her feel bad about it. Everybody is untitled to choose when and whom they want to sleep with, consensually.
Yes I realized that after a few days had passed. I realized I had the patience to wait for as long as it took and I wanted to reach out to her but it was too late. She blocked me and there was no way to reach out to her.
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If you really think you can wait and want to get back to her, nothing like it! No its not too late, she'll love it that you want to wait for it, that you respect her choice. She still loves you anyway. And what do you mean theres no other way if she blocked you. You went to that food joint where she works right? You can go there again to talk to her!
Just be really sure about yourself before you tell her that.
Posted by Ilovemyaqua1.) yes I can wait, I can wait for as long as she wishes. Took me a while to realize that. And yes I want to get back to her.Posted by Mark-23Posted by Ilovemyaqua
If by adult stuff you mean sleeping together, I would say she's probably upset because she still isn't ready for it and you're blowing out when she's turning you down. I like how she put it though - 'you lack the patience of a wise man'. You cannot force anybody to get intimate with you. If you really love her, wait until she's ready. If you can't wait any longer, move on rather than force her or make her feel bad about it. Everybody is untitled to choose when and whom they want to sleep with, consensually.
Yes I realized that after a few days had passed. I realized I had the patience to wait for as long as it took and I wanted to reach out to her but it was too late. She blocked me and there was no way to reach out to her.
If you really think you can wait and want to get back to her, nothing like it! No its not too late, she'll love it that you want to wait for it, that you respect her choice. She still loves you anyway. And what do you mean theres no other way if she blocked you. You went to that food joint where she works right? You can go there again to talk to her!
Just be really sure about yourself before you tell her that.
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2.) Well what I mean by "there's no other way if she blocked me" is she blocked me on her phone and Instagram. My texts and messages won't go through. And I don't wanna come off as a stalker if you get what I mean, I already went by her work that one day.
3.) It's not that I cannot go to her place and talk to her again it's just that when I was there the other day she didn't wish to speak to me and she was keeping yourself busy either serving customers or sweeping she didn't even come by me when I was having my beer by the bar. I feel that if I go by again I will make her uncomfortable. But have been thinking about going again this time and asking her straight forward that I wish to speak to her.
4.) Yes I'm very sure, 100% about myself so if she gives me the opportunity to express myself, I'll know how to handle it this time.
5.) By the way she has a cancer moon, and her Mercury is in Gemini, and we both have Venus in gemini and Mars in Aries.
I would go with a back up note if she still doesn't want to speak to you.
She might see you trying to talk to her as continuing not to respect her space and wishes so be prepared for that reaction too.
She might see you trying to talk to her as continuing not to respect her space and wishes so be prepared for that reaction too.
Posted by HankJWimbletonHe is an Aries.
You don't happen to be a Gemini yourself do you?
Hmmz, if you are Aries, and then she's Taurus. Then just some advice because I'm going through something similar and I don't know if it's over yet or not, like your situation.
Keep your feelings in check, don't sabotage your own head because Taurus move slow and whilst their moving slow, you could be overthinking it. I know I am. Always think positively.
But at the same time, as you could be thinking the same as me, problem is that the situation isn't closed, it's left in the air. Which can mess with your head, overthinking. Because naturally you'll want to close the situation down, know where you stand either way and move on if you have to. But if you're Aries you don't have patience for this. My advice, just sort your head out first, clear it all out, meditate, be yourself, realise you don't need this girl to be happy, realise you might just have bruised ego, take a bit of time for yourself. Give her some space, and come back to the situation fresh. Not sure if it's the right thing to do, but feels like I should be doing it too, so it's what I'm doing. Hoping Taurus don't mind a bit of space, they move so slow I'm hoping it s good thing. Good luck.
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Hmmz, if you are Aries, and then she's Taurus. Then just some advice because I'm going through something similar and I don't know if it's over yet or not, like your situation.
Keep your feelings in check, don't sabotage your own head because Taurus move slow and whilst their moving slow, you could be overthinking it. I know I am. Always think positively.
But at the same time, as you could be thinking the same as me, problem is that the situation isn't closed, it's left in the air. Which can mess with your head, overthinking. Because naturally you'll want to close the situation down, know where you stand either way and move on if you have to. But if you're Aries you don't have patience for this. My advice, just sort your head out first, clear it all out, meditate, be yourself, realise you don't need this girl to be happy, realise you might just have bruised ego, take a bit of time for yourself. Give her some space, and come back to the situation fresh. Not sure if it's the right thing to do, but feels like I should be doing it too, so it's what I'm doing. Hoping Taurus don't mind a bit of space, they move so slow I'm hoping it s good thing. Good luck.
i think the key with taurus is to let things evolve organically. for aries i imagine this to be quite a difficult thing.
sometimes you just have to sit in where you are. things always progress, they just might not progress at the speed you feel most comfortable in.
this is the lesson i had to learn very early on. i was very quick to try and shut everything down. on some things i had to compromise. in others, i was able to achieve my goal but for those times i needed to compromise, i had to trust the process. it was incredibly difficult at times but it does get easier!
if you are constantly at 100, slowing down to 20 can be done, it just needs patience and a bit of fortitude.
Why am I the only one looking from the outside in? I would go back to her work-site (parking lot) and leave a note on her car. Note: "Yes, I am the love of your life, and yes, I am an ass. I will take things slowly between us as I am willing to also wait for you to unblock me in order to contact me, please do".
PLAIN AND SIMPLE dude. If you don't hear from her within three (3) days, sorry. 😢 You've done your best, cannot force a woman to be with you after you've apologized to her, realized you were an "ass", and now the ball's on her court. Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PLAIN AND SIMPLE dude. If you don't hear from her within three (3) days, sorry. 😢 You've done your best, cannot force a woman to be with you after you've apologized to her, realized you were an "ass", and now the ball's on her court. Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by Mark-23Give her some space, like a few days and then go to her workplace again. As EvatheDiva stated here, write her note and tell her all that you wrote here - that you respect her and her choice and can wait for as long as she wants and that you truly love her. Whatever you write, be honest to your heart. Also tell her you tried contacting but were blocked already. And that's that. It is then up to her to decide.Posted by Ilovemyaqua1.) yes I can wait, I can wait for as long as she wishes. Took me a while to realize that. And yes I want to get back to her.Posted by Mark-23Posted by Ilovemyaqua
If by adult stuff you mean sleeping together, I would say she's probably upset because she still isn't ready for it and you're blowing out when she's turning you down. I like how she put it though - 'you lack the patience of a wise man'. You cannot force anybody to get intimate with you. If you really love her, wait until she's ready. If you can't wait any longer, move on rather than force her or make her feel bad about it. Everybody is untitled to choose when and whom they want to sleep with, consensually.
Yes I realized that after a few days had passed. I realized I had the patience to wait for as long as it took and I wanted to reach out to her but it was too late. She blocked me and there was no way to reach out to her.
If you really think you can wait and want to get back to her, nothing like it! No its not too late, she'll love it that you want to wait for it, that you respect her choice. She still loves you anyway. And what do you mean theres no other way if she blocked you. You went to that food joint where she works right? You can go there again to talk to her!
Just be really sure about yourself before you tell her that.
2.) Well what I mean by "there's no other way if she blocked me" is she blocked me on her phone and Instagram. My texts and messages won't go through. And I don't wanna come off as a stalker if you get what I mean, I already went by her work that one day.
3.) It's not that I cannot go to her place and talk to her again it's just that when I was there the other day she didn't wish to speak to me and she was keeping yourself busy either serving customers or sweeping she didn't even come by me when I was having my beer by the bar. I feel that if I go by again I will make her uncomfortable. But have been thinking about going again this time and asking her straight forward that I wish to speak to her.
4.) Yes I'm very sure, 100% about myself so if she gives me the opportunity to express myself, I'll know how to handle it this time.
5.) By the way she has a cancer moon, and her Mercury is in Gemini, and we both have Venus in gemini and Mars in Aries.
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I'm not really good with how the placements work but I have Mercury and Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries too.
Hmmm idk
Kinda stalkerish to repeatedly go to her job.
I dated a Venus in Aries and he was very pushy.
Tell him no and he has a fit.
Turned me off.
He would also show up to my job and corner me in the parking lot.
I now only tell my family and the IRS where I work and live.
If she is a cancer moon, she needs distance and to miss you.
Cancer lives in the past.
They love reliving in good memories. Hopefully there are enough good ones to outweigh the bad ones.
I would let this one go. You probably shook her with your behavior.
Kinda stalkerish to repeatedly go to her job.
I dated a Venus in Aries and he was very pushy.
Tell him no and he has a fit.
Turned me off.
He would also show up to my job and corner me in the parking lot.
I now only tell my family and the IRS where I work and live.
If she is a cancer moon, she needs distance and to miss you.
Cancer lives in the past.
They love reliving in good memories. Hopefully there are enough good ones to outweigh the bad ones.
I would let this one go. You probably shook her with your behavior.
Showing up repeatedly to my work after I blocked you would be the final nail on the coffin for me.
Try to chill. Give it a few days and then try reaching out again. She will prolly unblock you by then. Maybe...
Try to chill. Give it a few days and then try reaching out again. She will prolly unblock you by then. Maybe...
SO!!! haha I saw the Facebook messenger app that she saw my messages last night. But she hasn't replied at all... it just said seen.
I've yet to go back to her workplace which im planning to, and I will talk to her.
What do you guys think of her silence? I've noticed this is a Taurian thing though.
UPDATE: I was curious so I tested and sent a heart over the Facebook app... and boom. She had blocked me on the Facebook messenger. That hurt folks that hurt a lot.
I've yet to go back to her workplace which im planning to, and I will talk to her.
What do you guys think of her silence? I've noticed this is a Taurian thing though.
UPDATE: I was curious so I tested and sent a heart over the Facebook app... and boom. She had blocked me on the Facebook messenger. That hurt folks that hurt a lot.
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You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
No I actually like wanted to talk to
Her and the place was dead empty and I didn't wanna make a scene. I was quiet shocked at the end, I thought she would make an opportunity for me to talk to her.
I checked my Facebook messenger app today and found out she blocked me after she read everything.
That's a bit cold and harsh right after a guy sends you a bunch of sweet loving text messages.
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Why am I the only one looking from the outside in? I would go back to her work-site (parking lot) and leave a note on her car. Note: "Yes, I am the love of your life, and yes, I am an ass. I will take things slowly between us as I am willing to also wait for you to unblock me in order to contact me, please do".
PLAIN AND SIMPLE dude. If you don't hear from her within three (3) days, sorry. 😢 You've done your best, cannot force a woman to be with you after you've apologized to her, realized you were an "ass", and now the ball's on her court. Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Honestly I can care less too at this point, I wanted her to give me the opportunity to apologize to her in person. But she didn't... and now I see that she's blocked me on Facebook messenger too.
I don't even know if I should go near her work place
Posted by Mark-23Take it as a lesson learned and move on. Sucks but it happens.
SO!!! haha I saw the Facebook messenger app that she saw my messages last night. But she hasn't replied at all... it just said seen.
I've yet to go back to her workplace which im planning to, and I will talk to her.
What do you guys think of her silence? I've noticed this is a Taurian thing though.
UPDATE: I was curious so I tested and sent a heart over the Facebook app... and boom. She had blocked me on the Facebook messenger. That hurt folks that hurt a lot.
Posted by EveryOuncePosted by Mark-23Take it as a lesson learned and move on. Sucks but it happens.
SO!!! haha I saw the Facebook messenger app that she saw my messages last night. But she hasn't replied at all... it just said seen.
I've yet to go back to her workplace which im planning to, and I will talk to her.
What do you guys think of her silence? I've noticed this is a Taurian thing though.
UPDATE: I was curious so I tested and sent a heart over the Facebook app... and boom. She had blocked me on the Facebook messenger. That hurt folks that hurt a lot.click to expand
No no it doesn't suck TBH. It's just funny how she went from "I love you and never let me go" to completely blocking me.
Posted by Mark-23yeah you should have given her space and apologized
SO!!! haha I saw the Facebook messenger app that she saw my messages last night. But she hasn't replied at all... it just said seen.
I've yet to go back to her workplace which im planning to, and I will talk to her.
What do you guys think of her silence? I've noticed this is a Taurian thing though.
UPDATE: I was curious so I tested and sent a heart over the Facebook app... and boom. She had blocked me on the Facebook messenger. That hurt folks that hurt a lot.
then give her more space
of course she blocked you
why would you think she wouldn't ?
Posted by Mark-23there's a thin line between love and hatePosted by EveryOuncePosted by Mark-23Take it as a lesson learned and move on. Sucks but it happens.
SO!!! haha I saw the Facebook messenger app that she saw my messages last night. But she hasn't replied at all... it just said seen.
I've yet to go back to her workplace which im planning to, and I will talk to her.
What do you guys think of her silence? I've noticed this is a Taurian thing though.
UPDATE: I was curious so I tested and sent a heart over the Facebook app... and boom. She had blocked me on the Facebook messenger. That hurt folks that hurt a lot.
No no it doesn't suck TBH. It's just funny how she went from "I love you and never let me go" to completely blocking me.
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everyone knows that
that's why it's a cliche thing to say
Posted by CachetI wasn't expecting the harsh and cold behavior... I wonder what's even a "better" match for me because I love the stability of earth signsPosted by Mark-23Well, there you go. She's blocked you on another platform. That's pretty self-explanatory to me.Posted by Cachet
You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
No I actually like wanted to talk to
Her and the place was dead empty and I didn't wanna make a scene. I was quiet shocked at the end, I thought she would make an opportunity for me to talk to her.
I checked my Facebook messenger app today and found out she blocked me after she read everything.
That's a bit cold and harsh right after a guy sends you a bunch of sweet loving text messages.
Let it go.
Whether you sent sweet loving texts isn't the point. Just because you're "sweet and loving" to her doesn't mean she has to talk to you.
With this little experience you can decide if you want to deal with someone harsh and cold like that. If not, then do yourself a favor and let it go and find a better match.
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Posted by CachetPosted by Mark-23Let it go.Posted by CachetI wasn't expecting the harsh and cold behavior... I wonder what's even a "better" match for me because I love the stability of earth signsPosted by Mark-23Well, there you go. She's blocked you on another platform. That's pretty self-explanatory to me.Posted by Cachet
You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
No I actually like wanted to talk to
Her and the place was dead empty and I didn't wanna make a scene. I was quiet shocked at the end, I thought she would make an opportunity for me to talk to her.
I checked my Facebook messenger app today and found out she blocked me after she read everything.
That's a bit cold and harsh right after a guy sends you a bunch of sweet loving text messages.
Let it go.
Whether you sent sweet loving texts isn't the point. Just because you're "sweet and loving" to her doesn't mean she has to talk to you.
With this little experience you can decide if you want to deal with someone harsh and cold like that. If not, then do yourself a favor and let it go and find a better match.
For the record, sending a heart on FB isn't an apology. You were effectively expecting her to be okay with you without an apology (conjecture, though. I could be wrong). And she showed you that, no, it doesn't work that way.
It also doesn't matter that you intended to apologize when in actuality, you didn't do it. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Instead of a heart and whatever other message you may have sent, an apology would have been better.
Really, dude. Let it go. Learn the lesson and try not to do it again if faced with a similar situation. It doesn't mean it's doomed. Doesn't mean you can't be with an earth sign because it isn't working with this one. And it doesn't mean you can't find the stability you want in any other sign.
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Hahaha I let it go don't worry!!! Lol i can find another one 😂
Posted by CachetBy the way for your information I actually did send her a huge apology message on Facebook days agoPosted by Mark-23Let it go.Posted by CachetI wasn't expecting the harsh and cold behavior... I wonder what's even a "better" match for me because I love the stability of earth signsPosted by Mark-23Well, there you go. She's blocked you on another platform. That's pretty self-explanatory to me.Posted by Cachet
You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
No I actually like wanted to talk to
Her and the place was dead empty and I didn't wanna make a scene. I was quiet shocked at the end, I thought she would make an opportunity for me to talk to her.
I checked my Facebook messenger app today and found out she blocked me after she read everything.
That's a bit cold and harsh right after a guy sends you a bunch of sweet loving text messages.
Let it go.
Whether you sent sweet loving texts isn't the point. Just because you're "sweet and loving" to her doesn't mean she has to talk to you.
With this little experience you can decide if you want to deal with someone harsh and cold like that. If not, then do yourself a favor and let it go and find a better match.
For the record, sending a heart on FB isn't an apology. You were effectively expecting her to be okay with you without an apology (conjecture, though. I could be wrong). And she showed you that, no, it doesn't work that way.
It also doesn't matter that you intended to apologize when in actuality, you didn't do it. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Instead of a heart and whatever other message you may have sent, an apology would have been better.
Really, dude. Let it go. Learn the lesson and try not to do it again if faced with a similar situation. It doesn't mean it's doomed. Doesn't mean you can't be with an earth sign because it isn't working with this one. And it doesn't mean you can't find the stability you want in any other sign.
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It wasn't until today when I was gonna send a heart just to see if she had blocked me on Facebook or not and it turned out she had blocked me on Facebook because the heart message wouldn't go through I hope this makes sense
LOL!!
Posted by Taniwha😂😂😂 IM DEAD!!!!!!'
You lack the patience of a wiseman.
Posted by CachetYes I did apologize to her and I said that I value her and our relationship so much. Ect. That I was at fault and this and that. lol why would a Taurus even do this?Posted by Mark-23Ah, okay. I get it now. Then I retract what I said.Posted by CachetBy the way for your information I actually did send her a huge apology message on Facebook days agoPosted by Mark-23Let it go.Posted by CachetI wasn't expecting the harsh and cold behavior... I wonder what's even a "better" match for me because I love the stability of earth signsPosted by Mark-23Well, there you go. She's blocked you on another platform. That's pretty self-explanatory to me.Posted by Cachet
You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
No I actually like wanted to talk to
Her and the place was dead empty and I didn't wanna make a scene. I was quiet shocked at the end, I thought she would make an opportunity for me to talk to her.
I checked my Facebook messenger app today and found out she blocked me after she read everything.
That's a bit cold and harsh right after a guy sends you a bunch of sweet loving text messages.
Let it go.
Whether you sent sweet loving texts isn't the point. Just because you're "sweet and loving" to her doesn't mean she has to talk to you.
With this little experience you can decide if you want to deal with someone harsh and cold like that. If not, then do yourself a favor and let it go and find a better match.
For the record, sending a heart on FB isn't an apology. You were effectively expecting her to be okay with you without an apology (conjecture, though. I could be wrong). And she showed you that, no, it doesn't work that way.
It also doesn't matter that you intended to apologize when in actuality, you didn't do it. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Instead of a heart and whatever other message you may have sent, an apology would have been better.
Really, dude. Let it go. Learn the lesson and try not to do it again if faced with a similar situation. It doesn't mean it's doomed. Doesn't mean you can't be with an earth sign because it isn't working with this one. And it doesn't mean you can't find the stability you want in any other sign.
It wasn't until today when I was gonna send a heart just to see if she had blocked me on Facebook or not and it turned out she had blocked me on Facebook because the heart message wouldn't go through I hope this makes sense
LOL!!
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Like just ignore?
Her moon is in cancer her Mars is an Aries is Venus is in Gemini and her Mercury is in gemini
Prob cuz it’s mercury retrograde cconcetration/communication is a blur my Taurus is ignoring me to atm .____.
Posted by ariesleo5evaYou know I feel this Mercury retrograde has def been messing with me as well I noticed. Especially when it comes down to communication with those I care for.
Prob cuz it’s mercury retrograde cconcetration/communication is a blur my Taurus is ignoring me to atm .____.
Posted by CachetOk ok before I consider letting it go I'd like to know all the rest of the possibilities. so consider it an undecided moot.Posted by Mark-23I can't tell you for sure why she's doing what she's doing. Only speculate from my own perspective. Just try putting yourself in her shoes, maybe that'll give you some clarity. How would feel if someone got mad because you didn't have sex with them as quickly as they wished? Would you be so quick to say "it's all good"?Posted by CachetYes I did apologize to her and I said that I value her and our relationship so much. Ect. That I was at fault and this and that. lol why would a Taurus even do this?Posted by Mark-23Ah, okay. I get it now. Then I retract what I said.Posted by CachetBy the way for your information I actually did send her a huge apology message on Facebook days agoPosted by Mark-23Let it go.Posted by CachetI wasn't expecting the harsh and cold behavior... I wonder what's even a "better" match for me because I love the stability of earth signsPosted by Mark-23Well, there you go. She's blocked you on another platform. That's pretty self-explanatory to me.Posted by Cachet
You got pissy because she didn't put out. Imo, she did the right thing by distancing herself as your behavior was immature.
Nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship with someone. But there are ways to make that known while still respecting the other person's choice. Do you understand that she may not move at the same pace as you, sexually and might need you to respect that? Are you willing to slow things down to match her pace and be patient?
Did you apologize at any point? Or did you just watch her work?
No I actually like wanted to talk to
Her and the place was dead empty and I didn't wanna make a scene. I was quiet shocked at the end, I thought she would make an opportunity for me to talk to her.
I checked my Facebook messenger app today and found out she blocked me after she read everything.
That's a bit cold and harsh right after a guy sends you a bunch of sweet loving text messages.
Let it go.
Whether you sent sweet loving texts isn't the point. Just because you're "sweet and loving" to her doesn't mean she has to talk to you.
With this little experience you can decide if you want to deal with someone harsh and cold like that. If not, then do yourself a favor and let it go and find a better match.
For the record, sending a heart on FB isn't an apology. You were effectively expecting her to be okay with you without an apology (conjecture, though. I could be wrong). And she showed you that, no, it doesn't work that way.
It also doesn't matter that you intended to apologize when in actuality, you didn't do it. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Instead of a heart and whatever other message you may have sent, an apology would have been better.
Really, dude. Let it go. Learn the lesson and try not to do it again if faced with a similar situation. It doesn't mean it's doomed. Doesn't mean you can't be with an earth sign because it isn't working with this one. And it doesn't mean you can't find the stability you want in any other sign.
It wasn't until today when I was gonna send a heart just to see if she had blocked me on Facebook or not and it turned out she had blocked me on Facebook because the heart message wouldn't go through I hope this makes sense
LOL!!
Like just ignore?
Her moon is in cancer her Mars is an Aries is Venus is in Gemini and her Mercury is in gemini
You didn't handle it well (let's call a spade a spade).
She may be in her feels right now and decided to block you.
I don't know if trying to figure out where her head is at is going to help in any way, because only she can tell you that and well...y'know.
But you said you let it go. So all this is moot.
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Thing is I'm just shocked she had told everyone I'm the love of her life ect ect.
And now all this blocking and ignoring crap.
Posted by TaniwhaIt's been a 8 days since we last was in contact. I don't know what else to say... I never really understood the disappearance and ignoring act of Taurus folksPosted by Mark-23Stop apologizing to her and begging for her forgiveness/attention. Don't bother contacting for a few days to let her cool off then message her. "I still owe you that goodnight kiss"Posted by Taniwha😂😂😂 IM DEAD!!!!!!'
You lack the patience of a wiseman.click to expand
Posted by TaniwhaPosted by Mark-23Ask yourself, would a wise man waste his time if a women gonna treat him like this? probably not.Posted by TaniwhaIt's been a 8 days since we last was in contact. I don't know what else to say... I never really understood the disappearance and ignoring act of Taurus folksPosted by Mark-23Stop apologizing to her and begging for her forgiveness/attention. Don't bother contacting for a few days to let her cool off then message her. "I still owe you that goodnight kiss"Posted by Taniwha😂😂😂 IM DEAD!!!!!!'
You lack the patience of a wiseman.click to expand
I'm gonna be honest while it seems I'm "chasing"
this Taurus; I am talking to other women. ive learned the hard way before not to waste precious time.
Posted by CachetI wasn't trying to make a whos at fault scenario here. I'm trying to figure out why you Taurus folks disappear like that and two, what's the best way to even get in touch with her.Posted by merakiLol. Okay honey, calm down.Posted by CachetYou guys are annoyingly judgmental. bitches
I gotta say you have an interesting way of turning it around as though she's being the unreasonable one, when all of this started because you acted like a little fuckboi.
Interesting.
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I know other than me bringing up sex and all that, she really enjoyed hanging out with me.
Posted by TaniwhaThanks for the backup dearPosted by meraki10/10Posted by CachetYou guys are annoyingly judgmental. bitches
I gotta say you have an interesting way of turning it around as though she's being the unreasonable one, when all of this started because you acted like a little fuckboi.
Interesting.
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Posted by merakiIs that an earth sign trait? Something I'm not aware of folks?Posted by CachetYou guys are annoyingly judgmental. bitches
I gotta say you have an interesting way of turning it around as though she's being the unreasonable one, when all of this started because you acted like a little fuckboi.
Interesting.
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Posted by Mark-23You don't know what nerve (past memories/hurts/traumas....) you may have hit with your behavior towards her in that instance...
Ok ok before I consider letting it go I'd like to know all the rest of the possibilities. so consider it an undecided moot.
Thing is I'm just shocked she had told everyone I'm the love of her life ect ect.
And now all this blocking and ignoring crap.
Think about that.
1. Reasons for the disappearing act: time to sort out thoughts and emotions, which may or may not result in a decision to move on. Sometimes we just simply need that space.
I wasn't trying to make a whos at fault scenario here. I'm trying to figure out why you Taurus folks disappear like that and two, what's the best way to even get in touch with her.
I know other than me bringing up sex and all that, she really enjoyed hanging out with me.
2. Leave her alone.
Posted by TaureanVirgoPosted by Mark-23You don't know what nerve (past memories/hurts/traumas....) you may have hit with your behavior towards her in that instance...
Ok ok before I consider letting it go I'd like to know all the rest of the possibilities. so consider it an undecided moot.
Thing is I'm just shocked she had told everyone I'm the love of her life ect ect.
And now all this blocking and ignoring crap.
Think about that.
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Now that you bring it up, she actually did mention having a traumatic experience in the past and wanted to take things slow. That was round one, round two, she cut me off.
Posted by TaureanVirgo1. Reasons for the disappearing act: time to sort out thoughts and emotions, which may or may not result in a decision to move on. Sometimes we just simply need that space.
I wasn't trying to make a whos at fault scenario here. I'm trying to figure out why you Taurus folks disappear like that and two, what's the best way to even get in touch with her.
I know other than me bringing up sex and all that, she really enjoyed hanging out with me.
2. Leave her alone.click to expand
That's it just like that?
Mark,
I think you need to do some type of self-depricating grand gesture. If she told you she loves purple roses, send her a dozen of purple roses (or something relevant to the two of you) with a funny poem about your stupidity, like:
"Roses are red
And I pray that they work
I'm dying here because
I know I was a jerk..... please let me apologize. If you don't call me today, I promise I will leave you alone. But I will never forget you." What Taurus girl could resist that?
-Don't stalk her because that is annoying.
Best of luck,
Another stubborn Taurus
I think you need to do some type of self-depricating grand gesture. If she told you she loves purple roses, send her a dozen of purple roses (or something relevant to the two of you) with a funny poem about your stupidity, like:
"Roses are red
And I pray that they work
I'm dying here because
I know I was a jerk..... please let me apologize. If you don't call me today, I promise I will leave you alone. But I will never forget you." What Taurus girl could resist that?
-Don't stalk her because that is annoying.
Best of luck,
Another stubborn Taurus
Posted by TrulyTaurusWomanShe emailed me because I forgot to pay a toll road ticket lol.
Mark,
I think you need to do some type of self-depricating grand gesture. If she told you she loves purple roses, send her a dozen of purple roses (or something relevant to the two of you) with a funny poem about your stupidity, like:
"Roses are red
And I pray that they work
I'm dying here because
I know I was a jerk..... please let me apologize. If you don't call me today, I promise I will leave you alone. But I will never forget you." What Taurus girl could resist that?
-Don't stalk her because that is annoying.
Best of luck,
Another stubborn Taurus
I messaged her back stating I'll take care of it and I really am sorry for what I did and I regret it everyday.
This is her reply
"I had a panic attack at work the day you showed up. A bad one. I’ve never felt so powerless before, after going through that, I’m not ready to see you face to face again, at least not for a long while. You did a real number on me and I’m not really into getting screwed a third time. So I’d appreciate that this gets taken care of but I think it’s best for me that we go our separate ways."
My reply was
"I am truly sorry. I'll always be here for you and I'm gonna wait for you if you want me to wait for you. Till your ready. I did not mean to make you feel screwed over. That was not my intentions. I should've slowed things down instead."
This is what she wrote me
"Look, what’s done is done. I don’t want you waiting for me, I’d want you to take whatever positive we took from meeting one another and put that into something good. Work on you and I’ll work on me and happiness will find us one way or another. That’s what I want. I hope you understand."
I'm heartbroken as fuck at this point... like TBH I think she's being a bit too dramatic at this point due to her cancer moon. And I think this retrograde is def messing with us
Lol...now she's the dramatic one.
She actually sounds like a catch.
She actually sounds like a catch.
Posted by Mark-23Sounds like you are disregarding her feelings. She felt like you should've acted the gentleman to be her caller. Now you are ignoring the space she wants by going to her work when she blocked you. I think she's telling you in a nice way what she wants.
What do you folks think i should do?
It wasnt even that bad of a fall out, its just we had such a strong connection, and emotional investment that i thought we were ready to do adult stuff. She declined and I got angry one night so when she dropped me off, i said goodnight without kissing her. When she got home i texted her what she wanted at that point, to which she said i was "perfect in everysingle way except i lacked the patience of a wiseman". Honestly i dont know what the F that meant but i was like forget it she will be over it in a couple of days.
Days pass i send her message on instagram, and imessage, both arent being sent. Great now im blocked. Now she works at a steakhouse a few blocks down my office, so i went in last night for a beer and some grub. She was serving and cleaning, completely ignored me. The whole night and left without a word.
The Bartender, her coworker told me, she pointed me out earlier and told him im the guy, the "love of her life". Yes thats how much she was attached to me emotionally just to point it out. She told everyone at work and home about me. I am saddened by the way things ended.
How should i handle things here on out since she is ignoring me, and i feel she still has deep feelings for me?
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Mark-23Sounds like you are disregarding her feelings. She felt like you should've acted the gentleman to be her caller. Now you are ignoring the space she wants by going to her work when she blocked you. I think she's telling you in a nice way what she wants.
What do you folks think i should do?
It wasnt even that bad of a fall out, its just we had such a strong connection, and emotional investment that i thought we were ready to do adult stuff. She declined and I got angry one night so when she dropped me off, i said goodnight without kissing her. When she got home i texted her what she wanted at that point, to which she said i was "perfect in everysingle way except i lacked the patience of a wiseman". Honestly i dont know what the F that meant but i was like forget it she will be over it in a couple of days.
Days pass i send her message on instagram, and imessage, both arent being sent. Great now im blocked. Now she works at a steakhouse a few blocks down my office, so i went in last night for a beer and some grub. She was serving and cleaning, completely ignored me. The whole night and left without a word.
The Bartender, her coworker told me, she pointed me out earlier and told him im the guy, the "love of her life". Yes thats how much she was attached to me emotionally just to point it out. She told everyone at work and home about me. I am saddened by the way things ended.
How should i handle things here on out since she is ignoring me, and i feel she still has deep feelings for me?click to expand
What she was mentioning was the first time I went to her work place, I did not dare to go second time. Just to make things clear.
And yes I am giving her all the space you need and I'm focusing on myself
Posted by DMVWhich is why I even came here in the first place to discuss what I should do to win her back and yes I know she is a catch.
Lol...now she's the dramatic one.
She actually sounds like a catch.
I feel she is being a little too dramatic.
I'm going to be focusing on myself if she wishes to come back then I hope I'm still available
Stop. Just cool it all down, I’ve been doing the same recently with a Taurus woma and I know it’s really difficult but your head needs to be in the game, calm your emotions and do not act quickly. Any message you get from her, it does not require an immediate response, think about sleeping on t and getting the message right. I think there’s something really weird with Aries right now, like you feel like you are walking on a tight rope?
I think we have to stick to the facts, maybe you did something wrong but also you have to consider it’s nothing to do with you, we have to assume you don’t know all the details, and what she’s going through and I think you have to take on the possibility another guy might be on the scene, and the only way you deal with that is to act not bothered. Give her time and let things calm down, with time she will forget the bad thing you did and hopefully remember the good. But chasing her when she isn’t romantically receptive will drive her away. If, and I’m reading your situation, and somehow mine is very similar, it’s almost like there’s nothing we can do. Except slow it right down, you do the right thing now and you have a chance later, might be six months later but you still have a chance, chase her now and you ruin all chances. Always stay positive, do not sabotage things through fear of losing her. Stay positive and do your own thing, slow it right down and do not listen to anyone telling you it’s over, because sometimes girls come back, and if she doesn’t then (with time) one thing will be very very clear, it wasn’t meant to be. Wise man once said if you love something let it go, if it comes back, it loves you back, if it doesn’t then it was never yours to begin with.
Posted by NevamoreEven if she is done with me, she ain't gonna find another one as good as me. Sorry to brag but Im marriage material. She gonna gonna go through another 6 men till she meets another Romeo like mePosted by Mark-23Sorry to hear this. But yeah shes done with you.Posted by TrulyTaurusWomanShe emailed me because I forgot to pay a toll road ticket lol.
Mark,
I think you need to do some type of self-depricating grand gesture. If she told you she loves purple roses, send her a dozen of purple roses (or something relevant to the two of you) with a funny poem about your stupidity, like:
"Roses are red
And I pray that they work
I'm dying here because
I know I was a jerk..... please let me apologize. If you don't call me today, I promise I will leave you alone. But I will never forget you." What Taurus girl could resist that?
-Don't stalk her because that is annoying.
Best of luck,
Another stubborn Taurus
I messaged her back stating I'll take care of it and I really am sorry for what I did and I regret it everyday.
This is her reply
"I had a panic attack at work the day you showed up. A bad one. I’ve never felt so powerless before, after going through that, I’m not ready to see you face to face again, at least not for a long while. You did a real number on me and I’m not really into getting screwed a third time. So I’d appreciate that this gets taken care of but I think it’s best for me that we go our separate ways."
My reply was
"I am truly sorry. I'll always be here for you and I'm gonna wait for you if you want me to wait for you. Till your ready. I did not mean to make you feel screwed over. That was not my intentions. I should've slowed things down instead."
This is what she wrote me
"Look, what’s done is done. I don’t want you waiting for me, I’d want you to take whatever positive we took from meeting one another and put that into something good. Work on you and I’ll work on me and happiness will find us one way or another. That’s what I want. I hope you understand."
I'm heartbroken as fuck at this point... like TBH I think she's being a bit too dramatic at this point due to her cancer moon. And I think this retrograde is def messing with us
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Posted by AriesJoYa bro definitely, wait for her till she's done banging a bunch of dudes and then i gotta deal with the mess. Thanks for the advice but I'm good, it's not my loss it's her loss.
Stop. Just cool it all down, I’ve been doing the same recently with a Taurus woma and I know it’s really difficult but your head needs to be in the game, calm your emotions and do not act quickly. Any message you get from her, it does not require an immediate response, think about sleeping on t and getting the message right. I think there’s something really weird with Aries right now, like you feel like you are walking on a tight rope?
I think we have to stick to the facts, maybe you did something wrong but also you have to consider it’s nothing to do with you, we have to assume you don’t know all the details, and what she’s going through and I think you have to take on the possibility another guy might be on the scene, and the only way you deal with that is to act not bothered. Give her time and let things calm down, with time she will forget the bad thing you did and hopefully remember the good. But chasing her when she isn’t romantically receptive will drive her away. If, and I’m reading your situation, and somehow mine is very similar, it’s almost like there’s nothing we can do. Except slow it right down, you do the right thing now and you have a chance later, might be six months later but you still have a chance, chase her now and you ruin all chances. Always stay positive, do not sabotage things through fear of losing her. Stay positive and do your own thing, slow it right down and do not listen to anyone telling you it’s over, because sometimes girls come back, and if she doesn’t then (with time) one thing will be very very clear, it wasn’t meant to be. Wise man once said if you love something let it go, if it comes back, it loves you back, if it doesn’t then it was never yours to begin with.
Im very traditional and I offered marriage and kids a stable life. She agreed hell she even claimed she wanted that. But if she wants to play it this way then let it be
Posted by Mark-23i know you're upset but marriage and kids is not all that most women want. they want a partner who understands them, supports them, someone they can trust.Posted by AriesJoYa bro definitely, wait for her till she's done banging a bunch of dudes and then i gotta deal with the mess. Thanks for the advice but I'm good, it's not my loss it's her loss.
Stop. Just cool it all down, I’ve been doing the same recently with a Taurus woma and I know it’s really difficult but your head needs to be in the game, calm your emotions and do not act quickly. Any message you get from her, it does not require an immediate response, think about sleeping on t and getting the message right. I think there’s something really weird with Aries right now, like you feel like you are walking on a tight rope?
I think we have to stick to the facts, maybe you did something wrong but also you have to consider it’s nothing to do with you, we have to assume you don’t know all the details, and what she’s going through and I think you have to take on the possibility another guy might be on the scene, and the only way you deal with that is to act not bothered. Give her time and let things calm down, with time she will forget the bad thing you did and hopefully remember the good. But chasing her when she isn’t romantically receptive will drive her away. If, and I’m reading your situation, and somehow mine is very similar, it’s almost like there’s nothing we can do. Except slow it right down, you do the right thing now and you have a chance later, might be six months later but you still have a chance, chase her now and you ruin all chances. Always stay positive, do not sabotage things through fear of losing her. Stay positive and do your own thing, slow it right down and do not listen to anyone telling you it’s over, because sometimes girls come back, and if she doesn’t then (with time) one thing will be very very clear, it wasn’t meant to be. Wise man once said if you love something let it go, if it comes back, it loves you back, if it doesn’t then it was never yours to begin with.
Im very traditional and I offered marriage and kids a stable life. She agreed hell she even claimed she wanted that. But if she wants to play it this way then let it beclick to expand
you're feeling rejected and hurt at the moment. i have a feeling there is more to this story that you are letting on and that is ok that you have chosen to keep it private.
this is a learning experience for you. take it and embrace it. we all are provided lessons along the way.
you're young and there will be more things to experience and grow from along the way. you thought you were on one path but you're headed somewhere else. who knows what life has in store for you? instead of wishing ill on her, be a big person and wish her well on her path as well.
Is that what is it though, other guys are the problem? Don’t let insecurities get to you or jump to conclusions. You can’t. You looked at her social media or you see guys in the restaurant hitting on her and your mind goes into overdrive, and mistakes are made. just put it down to experience. But this lovey dovey marriage proposal isn’t around anymore, she changed, women do that, don’t try to understand why.
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