binaone
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Posted by EnochtheWise
reminds me of my brother....more conservative/traditional....friendship first, waits a long time for things to get physical, studies you from that friendzone though....like "feel free to just be your self and I'll see if I can handle you", but once in a while the possessiveness will still show through....and back in the times when he was financially unstable, he was unstable and unsure in many other ways as well, particularly around women who were not....attractive taurus males will typically have a lot of female friends; doesn't mean they like any of them romantically though, though the opposite is probably not true; they probably like him....probably some Virgos in there....lol...why cut it off? remain friends and see what comes of it....time will tell....
Posted by WhorpioHe is very single, very reserved, a workaholic
Is he even single??
Posted by edgelordHAHAHAHAA!!! Maybe part of it is the need to feel secure. Not that I want to control nor lead anything here. I have a bunch of things figured out for myself, where I see myself in the next 2-5 years. I am currently, working hard on that so, when other parts of the puzzle arent in place it drives me nuts. One thing i've perfected here since, meeting him is patience!! ughhhhhhPosted by EnochtheWisethat's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmaoPosted by binaonea good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....
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Posted by binaonePosted by Whorpio
Is he even single??
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Posted by binaonehe sounds like a winner to me - focus on yourself and enjoy his charming and traditional ways - that in itself is a turn-on to me lol - but it will be worth it in the end and yes, it does take time after other relationships to build a new one - lots of time - do not rush this and do not try to control itPosted by EnochtheWise
reminds me of my brother....more conservative/traditional....friendship first, waits a long time for things to get physical, studies you from that friendzone though....like "feel free to just be your self and I'll see if I can handle you", but once in a while the possessiveness will still show through....and back in the times when he was financially unstable, he was unstable and unsure in many other ways as well, particularly around women who were not....attractive taurus males will typically have a lot of female friends; doesn't mean they like any of them romantically though, though the opposite is probably not true; they probably like him....probably some Virgos in there....lol...why cut it off? remain friends and see what comes of it....time will tell....
There is no doubt they are into him. After officially connecting at an event. He was first to invite me out with his friends (who were visiting) You can tell both females wanted him but he is very conservative/traditional. He makes me feel secure for sure. If he is expecting a call he will tell me about it and was shocked he actually asked if it was okay for him to take the call. We both enjoy each other's company, always cracking jokes literally like, friends! What I love is truly the fact that I can be myself and not have him make me feel any sort of way. Were even spiritual where out of the week we fast once a week (which is the day we both dont go to gym) when not fasting friends would tell me he would walk around the gym to see if I'm in the area or greet them and then keep it pushing. I really enjoy what we have which is why I have all these questions of whats next? whats this man's deal? Before us defaulting to friendship (HIS WORDS) he would talk about marriage how he has dated very few women but I stand out to him, etc. Now you can see where i'd be all confused? but I also, respect the fact that maybe it's because, of what I faced and shared with him is why he is stalling? we both got out of a relationship around the same time btw.click to expand
Posted by AznnationPosted by binaoneYour welcome. Oh and btw i am not slut shaming you its perfectly okay to think about sex all the time i bet he does as well.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR RESPONDING! Hahahaa I am actually not pissed at all. This is all foreign to me. I am used to men just wanting to move things fast and me either cutting ties (because im all focused on goals or just diving in with them BUT! those few ones never last for long. This man is the opposite of that. He lets me do what I do unapologetically! always rooting me on so, in my head and my friends were asking ourselves "why doesn't he just make the move" i've initiated more then three times that I've promised myself I won't anymore it's really on him now. He would joke around at times and say things like, "are you ready for cuffin season, these men out here are ready" I feel its his way of testing me. If a guy smirks at me and I ackoledge it..he will instaantly ask "why are you laughing? whats so funny"!! Now you see where i get confused? Outside of that if he sees anything that will support mybusiness he is very quick to send. So, I am just not sure how much longer i can wait (not for sex) for him to make the move. We always meet out, never hug, his super respectful (with foul mouth) haha.
SIDE NOTE: He has too many female friends i've notice. He doesn't hangout with them but stories are always about woman this and that. He even shared a story of him walking with this lady and was scared to death that I would see them.
In all though, I have been pretty calm about everything. Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!
What is the "thing" you initiated on thrice? lol please be specific. Well theres nth you can do if he doesnt make a move, date other guys or seduce him more.
His female friends could be his "admirers", or girls he sleeps with.
What the hell is all this? its just a bull moving at his own pace lol
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Posted by Sodapop
I really think he’s just being sensible cause he wants results, like the best possible results. You said you just got out of an engagement and had a miscarriage (I’m so sorry.) but maybe you also need time to feel like yourself again. He’s got his own issues too, some people really need to feel like they’ve got their shit together first before they can date seriously.
Keep the pace like he wants it until it’s no longer working for you, you’ll be able to tell if he’s really into you or that let’s be friends is fluff talk and he’s not interested.
I think Taurus men do let you know if they’re not interested though, they won’t be shy about expressing it.
Posted by WhorpiohaaahaPosted by binaonePosted by Whorpio
Is he even single??
He is very single, very reserved, a workaholic
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Posted by CrimsonGirlThat's pretty long! were you dating before him finally asking? 3 years is truly like 10 years in my book Lol
Okay so 4 months is about an hour in the world of a Taurus man lol. You have to give him more time. I waited 3 YEARS for my Taurus bf to make a move on me because of similar insecurities. He didn't want to ruin our friendship, was insecure about his looks and finances etc. I'm not trying to scare you by saying it will take years or something because it won't, but these men need to trust you and feel secure before they dive in. It's just the way they are.
As far as the physical stuff goes... that will come naturally when he trusts that you aren't going anywhere and that you appreciate him as much as he appreciates you. It sounds like he really really likes you so he probably doesn't want to get hurt. It takes time with these guys, as annoying as it may be for the rest of us.

Posted by edgelordPosted by EnochtheWisethat's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmaoPosted by binaonea good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....
Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!click to expand

Posted by EnochtheWise
reminds me of my brother....more conservative/traditional....friendship first, waits a long time for things to get physical, studies you from that friendzone though....like "feel free to just be your self and I'll see if I can handle you", but once in a while the possessiveness will still show through....and back in the times when he was financially unstable, he was unstable and unsure in many other ways as well, particularly around women who were not....attractive taurus males will typically have a lot of female friends; doesn't mean they like any of them romantically though, though the opposite is probably not true; they probably like him....probably some Virgos in there....lol...why cut it off? remain friends and see what comes of it....time will tell....
Posted by LentoBull91Posted by edgelordPosted by EnochtheWisethat's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmaoPosted by binaonea good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....
Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!
That's how they are from what I've seen mine went crazy because I never pushed for sex right away she questioned my sexuality lol.
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Posted by binaonePosted by LentoBull91Posted by edgelordPosted by EnochtheWisethat's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmaoPosted by binaonea good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....
Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!
That's how they are from what I've seen mine went crazy because I never pushed for sex right away she questioned my sexuality lol.
HAHAHAAA! I would question it too! HAHAAAA! Moreover, wonder if you are secrely getting it on with someone. Mine its pretty clear his a loner but these female friends though HMMM!
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Posted by LentoBull91Posted by binaonePosted by LentoBull91Did you make her wait like mine is doing? How long did you wait and continued observing her? This is really foreign to me thats all lolPosted by edgelordPosted by EnochtheWisethat's what i got out of this too. leave it to a scorpio woman to complain about what every other woman wants! lmaoPosted by binaonea good supportive dude who takes his time, builds a real connection, and isn't only looking to get in your pants....pretty rare these days....
Not expecting too much of him but a woman can't help but wonder what the hell is this!
That's how they are from what I've seen mine went crazy because I never pushed for sex right away she questioned my sexuality lol.
HAHAHAAA! I would question it too! HAHAAAA! Moreover, wonder if you are secrely getting it on with someone. Mine its pretty clear his a loner but these female friends though HMMM!
Lol women these days guy doesn't push for sex means he must gay or sleeping with someone else no wonder why I surprise them.
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Posted by SodapopPosted by binaoneOh girl tell me about it! I’ve posted about that here many times. I feel like my hair is going silver just waiting. It’s been 7 months here, but it’s long distance so thats probably not helping. Most he’s said to me so far is “I really like you.” But at least I think it’s genuine.Posted by Sodapop
I really think he’s just being sensible cause he wants results, like the best possible results. You said you just got out of an engagement and had a miscarriage (I’m so sorry.) but maybe you also need time to feel like yourself again. He’s got his own issues too, some people really need to feel like they’ve got their shit together first before they can date seriously.
Keep the pace like he wants it until it’s no longer working for you, you’ll be able to tell if he’s really into you or that let’s be friends is fluff talk and he’s not interested.
I think Taurus men do let you know if they’re not interested though, they won’t be shy about expressing it.
Everyone sees the attraction and from all he has shared in the past theres no question about that. I guess they do move pretty slow im realizing
Don’t give up. You’ll be tempted like me a lot, but you probably won’t be disappointed.click to expand

Posted by EnochtheWiseLolPosted by binaone
Not that I want to control
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Posted by AgentP911
OP,
Really? Would you feel happier if he just pretended he was interested, fucked you a few times, then disappeared?
How about having a ‘relationship’ based on little more than ‘chemistry’ and ‘great sex’? I’m sure that will be enough to sustain a relationship for the next forty years of your life!
This guy sounds like a catch. Trust a Scorp to not be able to see what’s right in front of her AND complain about it!
If you’re looking for a decent relationship with a good solid foundation of friendship, shared interests, things in common, similar values and outlooks then why not take the time to build it with this guy. He’s not going at your speed. He’s a Taurus. This is good for Scorpio. We often need to slow down. You’ve had some emotional stuff which needs time to heal too. He’s aware of that. He’s a bloke so he wants to get his finances in check, not just for your benefit, for him too. Would you prefer he was a lazy twat without a job or someone who relied on you for money to pay for him? The one thing that causes issues in relationships is money. Lack of it or different attitudes to it. He needs to feel secure so he needs to do whatever he needs to do to make him feel better inside. Sorry, it’s not all about you.
I wouldn’t worry about who he has or hasn’t fucked before in his friend circle. He is interested in you. He can’t unfuck people so don’t get paranoid about it.
Why the rush? Just date him and stop thinking with your fanny. Like the other person said, use your vibrator for now!
Keep us updated. It’s nice to have more positive Taurus Scorpio pairings. Ps: I read your story to my Taurus and he just said ‘she’s an idiot, can’t she see he really likes her and is seriously interested but needs to go at his pace as he doesn’t feel 100% with himself yet?’ Lol

Posted by binaoneI think if he felt 100% ready now he’d be going for it. As he’s not then he’s taking his time. Then again, he could ‘charge’ sooner than you think. He could also walk away if he’s not keen on what he sees etc.Posted by AgentP911
OP,
Really? Would you feel happier if he just pretended he was interested, fucked you a few times, then disappeared?
How about having a ‘relationship’ based on little more than ‘chemistry’ and ‘great sex’? I’m sure that will be enough to sustain a relationship for the next forty years of your life!
This guy sounds like a catch. Trust a Scorp to not be able to see what’s right in front of her AND complain about it!
If you’re looking for a decent relationship with a good solid foundation of friendship, shared interests, things in common, similar values and outlooks then why not take the time to build it with this guy. He’s not going at your speed. He’s a Taurus. This is good for Scorpio. We often need to slow down. You’ve had some emotional stuff which needs time to heal too. He’s aware of that. He’s a bloke so he wants to get his finances in check, not just for your benefit, for him too. Would you prefer he was a lazy twat without a job or someone who relied on you for money to pay for him? The one thing that causes issues in relationships is money. Lack of it or different attitudes to it. He needs to feel secure so he needs to do whatever he needs to do to make him feel better inside. Sorry, it’s not all about you.
I wouldn’t worry about who he has or hasn’t fucked before in his friend circle. He is interested in you. He can’t unfuck people so don’t get paranoid about it.
Why the rush? Just date him and stop thinking with your fanny. Like the other person said, use your vibrator for now!
Keep us updated. It’s nice to have more positive Taurus Scorpio pairings. Ps: I read your story to my Taurus and he just said ‘she’s an idiot, can’t she see he really likes her and is seriously interested but needs to go at his pace as he doesn’t feel 100% with himself yet?’ Lol
Hahaa! thank you for responding. I have calmed down alot!! I'll surely keep everyone posted. I also understand that this will really take time 😢click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by binaoneI think if he felt 100% ready now he’d be going for it. As he’s not then he’s taking his time. Then again, he could ‘charge’ sooner than you think. He could also walk away if he’s not keen on what he sees etc.Posted by AgentP911
OP,
Really? Would you feel happier if he just pretended he was interested, fucked you a few times, then disappeared?
How about having a ‘relationship’ based on little more than ‘chemistry’ and ‘great sex’? I’m sure that will be enough to sustain a relationship for the next forty years of your life!
This guy sounds like a catch. Trust a Scorp to not be able to see what’s right in front of her AND complain about it!
If you’re looking for a decent relationship with a good solid foundation of friendship, shared interests, things in common, similar values and outlooks then why not take the time to build it with this guy. He’s not going at your speed. He’s a Taurus. This is good for Scorpio. We often need to slow down. You’ve had some emotional stuff which needs time to heal too. He’s aware of that. He’s a bloke so he wants to get his finances in check, not just for your benefit, for him too. Would you prefer he was a lazy twat without a job or someone who relied on you for money to pay for him? The one thing that causes issues in relationships is money. Lack of it or different attitudes to it. He needs to feel secure so he needs to do whatever he needs to do to make him feel better inside. Sorry, it’s not all about you.
I wouldn’t worry about who he has or hasn’t fucked before in his friend circle. He is interested in you. He can’t unfuck people so don’t get paranoid about it.
Why the rush? Just date him and stop thinking with your fanny. Like the other person said, use your vibrator for now!
Keep us updated. It’s nice to have more positive Taurus Scorpio pairings. Ps: I read your story to my Taurus and he just said ‘she’s an idiot, can’t she see he really likes her and is seriously interested but needs to go at his pace as he doesn’t feel 100% with himself yet?’ Lol
Hahaa! thank you for responding. I have calmed down alot!! I'll surely keep everyone posted. I also understand that this will really take time 😢
How old are you both and what’s the rest of your charts?
Sorry if that’s already been posted! There’s not many successful Taurus/Scorp combination stories on here!
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Posted by VirgosaurusI am confused because, he for example: would say things like, "you know they are dating sites out there may find your match" or "it's cuffin season, i see you are prepared for it" which all pisses me off. My response usually is around " you know ive learned you men aint shit so my business will do for now" Conversations like that is what confuses me. Makes me rethink where we are at and whether or not i should just drop him. Please, correct me if you think im overreacting here. He would say all of this but only to be first to message me and ask random questions to make conversations or ask where i'm headed if he sees im all dressed up, etc. its frustrating.Posted by binaoneAnd you're confused WHY?? Look at your own words. You're far further than I am, believe me. You get to see him in public, meet his friends, he never leaves your sight... You have no idea how fortunate you are to have all this. (See my recent Taurus post for some torturous 'he's not into me" vibes).
The attraction has always been there... He would simply never leave my sight.... He is full force supportive... Talks about us everywhere he goes. He still wants to get to know me... We are always at the gym together and would invite me out for dinner... sometimes with his friends. WE’VE NEVER HAD SEX, HUGGED! ..... sometimes he questions if he even deserves me.
Stay. Stay right where he can see you. You are fortunate to get him for more than 5 minutes a week. Seriously.click to expand
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We've known each other for 4 months now. The attraction has always been there since, day one that everyone around us have taken notice. We met at the gym and later, find each other at events. He would simply never leave my sight. I just got out of a toxic engagement, miscarriage, etc. I felt the need to be honest about my everything. He was certainly supportive and with the business I run now, he is full force supportive. Talks about us everywhere he goes. He first hints he likes me however, when I reciprocated is when he asked for us to start off as friends first and seeing where things go? He still wants to get to know me etc, etc. I didn’t know how to handle it for weeks. We are always at the gym together and would invite me out for dinner and sometimes with his friends. WE’VE NEVER HAD SEX, HUGGED! He says he prefers not to (although, he would with everyone else) This honestly, is all throwing me off although, I’ve learn to live with it now. I’ve addressed it three times with him and the third time was when he really explained that. He is just trying to figure things out financially, plus sometimes he questions if he even deserves me. COME ON! It’s not about finance for all of us females. I am clearly getting mine, as long as you are working on yourself, working on getting yours were good. PLEASE HELP! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. SHOULD I DROP HIM? Doesn’t make sense to when he hasn’t been anything but helpful always.