Theatrum
@Theatrum
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Posted by Theatrum
While we're being all honest and stuff, idk why but I find the "father-daughter dynamic" so steamy.
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Posted by TaurGuy
Having a equal in every way is leaps and bounds more fulfilling and a 'much' deeper, tighter bond..
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Theatrum
While we're being all honest and stuff, idk why but I find the "father-daughter dynamic" so steamy.
😛
LOL, I understand. I was into being mothered in my younger years, hence my history with older Cancer women.click to expand



Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Man, I feel it now. That's why I think I had my little lapse with the heavy scorp attraction - much stronger women. Caps seem that way too. I know I will stick this relationship out...just is my nature, but maybe she can get stronger or something...lol.
Posted by TaurGuy
And tell me you haven't already made up your mind about who she is and how that dynamic between you two works. So, tell me, even if she was to change *cough* wouldn't you still kinda always view her as she is already in your head— 😉
Posted by venusianbull
Sounds like me and Libra. Friends, but romantically it's a big goose egg.


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I tell myself that even though she doesn't have the kind of inner strength I feel I want, she has other strengths. She can cook (big one), is super helpful in all areas, really excels in the corporate world - driven, great work ethic, etc. But yeah, as far as like helping me deal with anything personal, existential, etc....I'm on my own. I call my mom once in a while...lol.


Posted by Damnata
Damned Aries Moons. 🙂

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just don't have the heart to leave a person because they are weaker, even if it is a factor in my chemistry with them - especially when I do feel I am in love with the person.
Posted by TaurGuyPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just don't have the heart to leave a person because they are weaker, even if it is a factor in my chemistry with them - especially when I do feel I am in love with the person.
No sweat Bub.. Didn't figure what I wrote would be a eureka moment for ya. Just a thought from someone who has been there.. I understand you've weighed, measured, and chose your path.. Now you've got to see it to your own end.. I'll keep em fingers crossed for ya..click to expand


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
LOL, you know as a bull I have to learn everything the hard way. Someone once told me I confuse love with pity. I agreed instantly. Unfortunately they didn't tell me how to change that. And in my mind, the two do seem to be intertwined. We'll see how it goes....I've been through alot relationship-wise. Each one seems to be an improvement on the last, and though I thought I would be with my first love forever, I can actually look back and say I'm glad for all of the experiences with the different people. That may be my Venus in Gemini liking the variety aspect.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
When I choose stability, I find myself confined to a relationship in the absense of any real genuine love, or a love that has lost it's spark. It becomes a matter of duty and responsibility. I will have to agree with Absense on this one, I deter weakness and anything associated with it. I don't whine and complain about my responsibilities. Why should you? I find myself playing the role of the matriarch.

Posted by TaurGuy
I would love to have that one special person that I could tell everything to..
To me, friends, even the really good ones, don't make the cut.. If go to anyone for something, I go to different friends for different things. Out of even my really good friends not a single one knows everything about me.. If you got them all in a room together for a chat I bet they could get about 80% put together..

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
You think the Gemini moon makes you less content with stability? I think any strong Gem placements for a bull are hard bc that sign is very contradictory to our nature. I've read mixed things about Tau with Gem moon - some say prone to snap/poor judgment, others say the opposite - that it is a very intuitive position. You give good advice and insight into bulls though.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just don't have the heart to leave a person because they are weaker, even if it is a factor in my chemistry with them - especially when I do feel I am in love with the person.

Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just don't have the heart to leave a person because they are weaker, even if it is a factor in my chemistry with them - especially when I do feel I am in love with the person.
I have a question...
How do you feel when their reliance on you becomes too great to bear?
Do you feel resentful?
Or still useful?
I hear Tauruses love to feel needed. Being the rock is our most prized and honorable quality.
But what happens when the only driving force is navigating the entire relationship without the assistance of the other?
I love being sturdy, but I will be honest, there are times when I just want to relax, chill, and be in a lazy muddle pud all day. Leave the worries to a partner for a day. Be the rock. Let him be ME for a day.
Just to have my personal rock for the day.click to expand

Posted by TaurusBull1977
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I have poor boundaries and tend to look at life in general, and all the issues I have, as a sort of ridiculous joke. So I often open up to complete strangers, let my inner demons loose, and they start flying around the room and annoying everyone.

Posted by venusianbull
D'ya know what phrase I loathe the most discussing problems? 'Well. Good luck.'...what in the Almighty F*** is that?!
I think in part it's because I brought a real issue to the table and if it was the reverse I do my level best to break it down and arrive at a solution.
So that laissez-faire response to something I bring with merit pisses me off.







Posted by venusianbull
Did you know... my mother carried me a month overdue. I should have arrived in March. 🙂
Lil' fun fact for ya.




Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by TaurusBull1977
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Much more difficult is living with someone who has longer lasting low moods, is actually depressed, has severe anxiety, is severely pessimistic, etc. I'm not sure how I could handle that, bc I have enough of that on my own that I fight against (in silence without sharing it with my partner).click to expand

Posted by Absence
Yet, the Gem in me, is afraid of committing to the wrong man. Once that commitment is made, I will try whatever it takes to make it work. However, I can feel the resentment creeping slowly inside of me when I sense weakness. I keep falling into the same mistake of nurturing a man ( very strong in me)..over and over again. Though fully aware, I keep ignoring the fact that a man that is capable of bringing forth my nurturing instinct is because I perceive weakness in him and in the long run I will resent it. I feel as if I have fallen pray of this vicious circle. Fully aware....yet unable to break it.
Posted by Absence
....and than, if I am to find a man that is equally strong or stronger ( hard to believe but I'll entertain the idea..hehehe), I feel that I will have absolutely no control in that relationship. And if I am to release that control, I will have to absolutely trust that person....
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Posted by GobshitePosted by Damnata
I am in all the harems!
Not sure what this means about me lol.
Well, you have frigging joined mine yet! 😛click to expand




Posted by scorchedearth
wow. what a fucking creeper...
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