Scorpion/Bull waiting game. May the odds be ever in your favor... (Page 2)

Posted by jeane

Posted by earlorg16
@jeane

Um, first off, I never implied that. Secondly, I'm basing this off of my own personal experiences. If you're not happy about it, I'm sorry that the people aren't me aren't as internet saavy as you are. Yes people your age use the internet, I'm not discounting that (my brother is in his late 30's and is a genius with technology), all I'm saying is that there are SOME people who aren't as saavy in that age bracket. Just like how there can be people in my age bracket that aren't into social media either (yes, that's a thing too).

Some people here take offense over the silliest things and jump to conclusions way too quickly huh?

a) i'm not taking offence.

b) i don't care enough to be unhappy. honey, i got bigger problems than to upset my equilibrium with what you have to say. you're not that important.

c) please don't try to educate me on absolutes

d) it's not jumping to a conclusion when you state that the likelihood that a man approaching 40 doesn't use social media is "very high".

e) This statement "are the 40 somethings you know really SM-saavy" makes you sound incredulous hence my response that us 40 somethings have had a much longer time with the technology than you. young people forget that the world existed before them.

so before you start "jumping to conclusions" as to my reaction, i think you, as you young people say, should check yourself.

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A) Sure you're not.

B) Sure, so thanks for responding.

C) Uhuh.

D) Clearly you're not me so yes, in my life, the likelihood is very high. In yours, I wouldn't know cause I'm not you. Again, my apologies that this is the case with the people around me.

E) Look at the above.

I don't think I need checking really. You're the one getting riled up over something I said which wasn't meant to be offensive. All I'm stating is that not everyone that I know in their 40s is tech saavy.

Sorry OP, dropping this now. Getting back on topic.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by earlorg16
@jeane

Um, first off, I never implied that. Secondly, I'm basing this off of my own personal experiences. If you're not happy about it, I'm sorry that the people aren't me aren't as internet saavy as you are. Yes people your age use the internet, I'm not discounting that (my brother is in his late 30's and is a genius with technology), all I'm saying is that there are SOME people who aren't as saavy in that age bracket. Just like how there can be people in my age bracket that aren't into social media either (yes, that's a thing too).

Some people here take offense over the silliest things and jump to conclusions way too quickly huh?

a) i'm not taking offence.

b) i don't care enough to be unhappy. honey, i got bigger problems than to upset my equilibrium with what you have to say. you're not that important.

c) please don't try to educate me on absolutes

d) it's not jumping to a conclusion when you state that the likelihood that a man approaching 40 doesn't use social media is "very high".

e) This statement "are the 40 somethings you know really SM-saavy" makes you sound incredulous hence my response that us 40 somethings have had a much longer time with the technology than you. young people forget that the world existed before them.

so before you start "jumping to conclusions" as to my reaction, i think you, as you young people say, should check yourself.

A) Sure you're not.

B) Sure, so thanks for responding.

C) Uhuh.

D) Clearly you're not me so yes, in my life, the likelihood is very high. In yours, I wouldn't know cause I'm not you. Again, my apologies that this is the case with the people around me.

E) Look at the above.

I don't think I need checking really. You're the one getting riled up over something I said which wasn't meant to be offensive. All I'm stating is that not everyone that I know in their 40s is tech saavy.

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you say that you are not me after telling me how i am feeling. you're a logical one aren't you?

look, you done fucked up. no amount of back tracking where very high becomes SOME to now, very high in my world will change that. just admit you're talking shit and move on. we've all been there.

Posted by jeane

Posted by earlorg16

Posted by jeane

Posted by earlorg16
@jeane

Um, first off, I never implied that. Secondly, I'm basing this off of my own personal experiences. If you're not happy about it, I'm sorry that the people aren't me aren't as internet saavy as you are. Yes people your age use the internet, I'm not discounting that (my brother is in his late 30's and is a genius with technology), all I'm saying is that there are SOME people who aren't as saavy in that age bracket. Just like how there can be people in my age bracket that aren't into social media either (yes, that's a thing too).

Some people here take offense over the silliest things and jump to conclusions way too quickly huh?

a) i'm not taking offence.

b) i don't care enough to be unhappy. honey, i got bigger problems than to upset my equilibrium with what you have to say. you're not that important.

c) please don't try to educate me on absolutes

d) it's not jumping to a conclusion when you state that the likelihood that a man approaching 40 doesn't use social media is "very high".

e) This statement "are the 40 somethings you know really SM-saavy" makes you sound incredulous hence my response that us 40 somethings have had a much longer time with the technology than you. young people forget that the world existed before them.

so before you start "jumping to conclusions" as to my reaction, i think you, as you young people say, should check yourself.

A) Sure you're not.

B) Sure, so thanks for responding.

C) Uhuh.

D) Clearly you're not me so yes, in my life, the likelihood is very high. In yours, I wouldn't know cause I'm not you. Again, my apologies that this is the case with the people around me.

E) Look at the above.

I don't think I need checking really. You're the one getting riled up over something I said which wasn't meant to be offensive. All I'm stating is that not everyone that I know in their 40s is tech saavy.

you say that you are not me after telling me how i am feeling. you're a logical one aren't you?

look, you done fucked up. no amount of back tracking where very high becomes SOME to now, very high in my world will change that. just admit you're talking shit and move on. we've all been there.

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Nah I'm good. Thanks though. Hope you enjoy your day. 🙂

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by earlorg16
@jeane

Um, first off, I never implied that. Secondly, I'm basing this off of my own personal experiences. If you're not happy about it, I'm sorry that the people aren't me aren't as internet saavy as you are. Yes people your age use the internet, I'm not discounting that (my brother is in his late 30's and is a genius with technology), all I'm saying is that there are SOME people who aren't as saavy in that age bracket. Just like how there can be people in my age bracket that aren't into social media either (yes, that's a thing too).

Some people here take offense over the silliest things and jump to conclusions way too quickly huh?

Are you for real (age bracket)—? Lol lol 40 is young!! But coming from the way you speak one would have thought they were 80!!! How old are you—!

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This is so irrelevant to me at this point. I've moved on from it. 40 IS young, I never said it was old. Adios!

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by rainwoman90

Posted by AgentP911
Like others have said, try not to over analyse. It's not a good Scorp trait but we do it.

Ask your mate if she's given the number. If she's a good mate then she'd have sorted that out for you especially since this fella is mates with her fella.

If you want to friend request him on FB then do so. What's the worst that can happen? I wouldn't call this chasing at all. Taking the initiative for sure.

My fella is a Taurus Sun with Aries Venus and Merc. He prefers the direct approach. He pursued me though despite him thinking there was no chance whatsoever. He kept going and didn't let rejection stop him.

In this scenario I wouldn't be concerned about the age difference. You know nothing of each other yet so there's no point discounting someone without going out a couple of times or at least learning more. Then you can see what happens.

At the moment, there's nothing here to go on aside from a look and a nod but he asked for your number so see what happens. Meanwhile, keep your life moving.

I really appreciate this response. Thank you.

I'm a Sag Moon, Merc and Venus. Mars in Gemini. He's a Leo Moon, Taurus Merc, Aries Venus/ Mars.

Aries is DIRECT... With all that aries in him surely he would have made a move already. Unless 1) your friend did not give him the number or 2) he is not interested.

But once again I am surprised with all that aries he needed your friend to get your number!! That I imagine is the actions of someone in kindergarten!!

Aries is direct but he's still a bloke. In the ideal world the bloke would make all the perfect moves and it would work out perfectly but it doesn't work like that.

I've never had to chase the guys that I want "EVER"... Not even this bull!!!

In my book " if a man doesn't hunt then he will starve"... But a man will starve if he is with me anyway because even when he has caught me he STILL has to cook!! ? ?

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I think there's a difference between chasing someone and making self available. I'm all for the man hunting, I really am but I think sometimes a good kick up the bum or prompt can help things along.

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Posted by Impulsv
He's freaking 40 years old!!!

U don't act like a child n go through a Freind to ask her number

He could message her himself but is he ? Yes they are passive

And it actuality he doesn't know she asked for a week.

So there is nothing to be concerned or it being her fault.

Not all bulls are "passive"!!!

When we truly want someone or something NOTHING and no one will get in our way!!! It's like a rocket up our arses!!! We will even stampeed over every obstacle just to get What our heart truly desires and we will KLING on to the very end no matter what up and downs and drama involved. We will NEVER let you go!!!

But if we are not that interested we then become passive like "like Lukewarm water" meh! That's just us not being bothered and plain bored!!!

If a bull has you "dragging on" for years, you are just pure entertainment....

I don't think the bull was that interest. If he was she would have known!!!

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While I agree that if there's something we Bull/ettes want we go for it full force, at this point their interaction is comprised of a few looks and a "Hi" so I wouldn't expect the same level of pursuit as say, someone who has went on a few dates & gotten to know the other person better. I would say inquiring about her number IS appropriate pursuit considering if he was "Meh" about her he would have forgotten her the moment she left his line of sight.

I'm almost all fire and air..... I can also be shy & introverted so I assume the same is true for a male that has a lot of fire in their chart. People generally only see my "fire" after I'm comfortable with them.

Lastly, her sending a FB message or a friend request is NOT her pursuing. It's her reply to HIS request/pursuit/expressed interest, for her phone number.

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Posted by Impulsv
He's freaking 40 years old!!!

U don't act like a child n go through a Freind to ask her number

He could message her himself but is he ? Yes they are passive

And it actuality he doesn't know she asked for a week.

So there is nothing to be concerned or it being her fault.

Not all bulls are "passive"!!!

When we truly want someone or something NOTHING and no one will get in our way!!! It's like a rocket up our arses!!! We will even stampeed over every obstacle just to get What our heart truly desires and we will KLING on to the very end no matter what up and downs and drama involved. We will NEVER let you go!!!

But if we are not that interested we then become passive like "like Lukewarm water" meh! That's just us not being bothered and plain bored!!!

If a bull has you "dragging on" for years, you are just pure entertainment....

I don't think the bull was that interest. If he was she would have known!!!

While I agree that if there's something we Bull/ettes want we go for it full force, at this point their interaction is comprised of a few looks and a "Hi" so I wouldn't expect the same level of pursuit as say, someone who has went on a few dates & gotten to know the other person better. I would say inquiring about her number IS appropriate pursuit considering if he was "Meh" about her he would have forgotten her the moment she left his line of sight.

I'm almost all fire and air..... I can also be shy & introverted so I assume the same is true for a male that has a lot of fire in their chart. People generally only see my "fire" after I'm comfortable with them.

Lastly, her sending a FB message or a friend request is NOT her pursuing. It's her reply to HIS request/pursuit/expressed interest, for her phone number.

he requested her number from a friend......

That (imo) is where it should have ended and the "pursuit" taken up by the guy!!! I've NEVER EVER had to do anything!!! The men I want chase... whether it be aqua, gem, libra, sag, taurus, virgo.... they chase or they starve!!!

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His request for her number IS the pursuit! Her reply to the request is not pursuing.

Had the middle man (her Taurus friend) passed her number along to him & he never reached out to her so she contacted him via FB then YES that would be her pursuing....

However, that's NOT what happened. The friend said she has not passed her number along so she did the smart thing by eliminating the unreliable middle man & replying to his request herself.

^^^ I agree

*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Posted by rainwoman90
*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Holy crap that's awful... Glad he's ok. Welp, that explains it than huh?

Posted by earlorg16

Posted by rainwoman90
*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Holy crap that's awful... Glad he's ok. Welp, that explains it than huh?

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Yeah i know right. My goodness! It sure does.....

Blimey!

Posted by AgentP911
Blimey!

I know! Terrible 😢

Posted by rainwoman90
*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Why did he lose his job? Was he on the sauce?

Posted by jeane

Posted by rainwoman90
*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Why did he lose his job? Was he on the sauce?

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I have no idea why he lost it. I didn't ask her.

Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by rainwoman90
*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Wow!!! A "very elaborate" tale... ALL these things happening at ONCE... Hmmm... What unfortunate luck!!

I smell a rat!

U and your taurus "friend" are not that "close" are you!!!

I believe there is nothing wrong with the bull and she has made this whole elaborate story up!! She does not want you to have an association with her bf friend!! Its probably a bit "close to home" for her I feel....

He should have approached you himself PERSONALLY to make extra sure the "job was done" and never through a "friend of a friend" let alone "your mate's gf"!!!

I await the update.....

I am a leo rising and moon.. and being in a "car accident, losing his job AND no car"... even that is way toooo much "drama" for me!!! My merc in eight house..... suggests you "dig a little deeper" for the "truth"...

I await your next instalment!!! Good luck OP!

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Well I don't know how close together these events occurred because its been at least six weeks since i last saw the Bull. Also, she actually encouraged me to talk to him initially so I don't know what the difference would be now. She doesn't have any reason to not trust me and I would NEVER do anything to break that trust.

I honestly don't care all that much that he didn't ask me himself directly so we can put that to rest. Please and thank you. It's irrelevant at this point.

Your placements and his life have absolutely no bearing on the other so that's whatever. Anything can happen to anyone at any time. Let's remember to keep that in mind.

And I will update if I get any more news about the situation.

Posted by brandyp
Wow, no job no car his stock went down fast, you may be dodging a bullet. Ask your friend why the bull list his job and keep us updated!!

I feel pretty bad for him. I hope it's not over some foolishness. I'm definitely going to ask her soon!

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Posted by rainwoman90

Posted by brandyp
Wow, no job no car his stock went down fast, you may be dodging a bullet. Ask your friend why the bull list his job and keep us updated!!

I feel pretty bad for him. I hope it's not over some foolishness. I'm definitely going to ask her soon!

Oh don't waste your energy feeling bad. He's not worth having any compassion for, without the job and car now. Wait and see if his "stock" goes back up....

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Yeah we'll see I guess. I don't want to count him out completely. All depends on what my friend says about why he lost his job.

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Posted by brandyp
Wow, no job no car his stock went down fast, you may be dodging a bullet. Ask your friend why the bull list his job and keep us updated!!

I feel pretty bad for him. I hope it's not over some foolishness. I'm definitely going to ask her soon!

Oh don't waste your energy feeling bad. He's not worth having any compassion for, without the job and car now. Wait and see if his "stock" goes back up....

Yeah we'll see I guess. I don't want to count him out completely. All depends on what my friend says about why he lost his job.

I was being sarcastic in my last comment. Good for you for not being heartless and overly materialistic.

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Ohhh okay gotcha. Thanks. I try reserve my pure evil for Mondays and Wednesdays.

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Posted by Redoctober2000

Posted by rainwoman90
*Update*

Okay guys so I messaged my friend asking her if she had gotten the opportunity to give him my number and she said no because Mr. Bull was in a car accident and he lost his job!!!!! So no job AND no car. He's okay himself though which is good. I was totally shocked and not expecting that at all! I'm just glad he's alright. Sheesh 😢 You just never know huh? Thanks for all the input and advice. This Scorp really appreciates it.

Wow!!! A "very elaborate" tale... ALL these things happening at ONCE... Hmmm... What unfortunate luck!!

I smell a rat!

U and your taurus "friend" are not that "close" are you!!!

I believe there is nothing wrong with the bull and she has made this whole elaborate story up!! She does not want you to have an association with her bf friend!! Its probably a bit "close to home" for her I feel....

He should have approached you himself PERSONALLY to make extra sure the "job was done" and never through a "friend of a friend" let alone "your mate's gf"!!!

I await the update.....

I am a leo rising and moon.. and being in a "car accident, losing his job AND no car"... even that is way toooo much "drama" for me!!! My merc in eight house..... suggests you "dig a little deeper" for the "truth"...

I await your next instalment!!! Good luck OP!

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I'd ask ur Freinds give me his number. You can text n this is so n so

Hope you are ok I heard abou the accident. My Freind said u wanted my number well now u have it 🙂

Something like that lol

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I highly doubt it but we'll see. Who knows, he might not want to entertain anyone right now since he has no car or job. Plenty of people are like that. I don't want to jump to conclusions about the integrity of my friend unless called for. That could seriously back fire. Like I said, it all depends on what else she says about why he was let go from his job.