Taurus...what kinds of tests do you administer to a potential significant other? Please don't hold back!!!!
Small testsā
1. Generosity...for me it's given, not earned.
Test: I'm testing to see what you do once it is given.
If we walk away silently with no answers....
Then...
You have already hung yourself.
Test: I'm testing to see what you do once it is given.
If we walk away silently with no answers....
Then...
You have already hung yourself.
If we walk away silently with no answers....
Then...
You have already hung yourself.
Always??
Then...
You have already hung yourself.
Always??
The "I'm going through something" test
Just to see how much you're willing to go for me. I expect after some time for my significant other to go above and beyond for me as I would for them. Especially if I gained your trust. If by a certain amount of time, I see that my significant other isn't putting in much effort to make sure I'm ok, then I know that we certainly aren't on the same level and something has to change.
Just to see how much you're willing to go for me. I expect after some time for my significant other to go above and beyond for me as I would for them. Especially if I gained your trust. If by a certain amount of time, I see that my significant other isn't putting in much effort to make sure I'm ok, then I know that we certainly aren't on the same level and something has to change.
I don't test. I observe the hell out of them. If I don't like what I see, I'm gone.
Posted by AznnationSomtimes it feels like it's all over/done/dead...and then he comes back.
^ā?? (manana post)
Posted by peaceloveandhappinessI agree - I'm Taurus with Cap Moon I pretty much listen and expect all the information and ways about you and your stories to not change - if they change, I know something is not right. If everything doesn't jell then you are gone. I don't out and out test anything but I guess this is the way I so call "put the other person to the test" - the test of time - because given enough time, the ugly will show - no doubt !
I don't test. I observe the hell out of them. If I don't like what I see, I'm gone.
I have to be able to trust completely and as well, understand your logistics when that trust waivers - if things don't make sense how can you trust. You have to be my kind of normal and straight up in your sincerity to survive in my world.
Posted by SodapopMajority of the time I play stupid and observe their every word, move, etc. However, I'll only test, if I want to be 110% sure of something.Posted by SugarandSpunkš
The "I'm going through something" test
Just to see how much you're willing to go for me. I expect after some time for my significant other to go above and beyond for me as I would for them. Especially if I gained your trust. If by a certain amount of time, I see that my significant other isn't putting in much effort to make sure I'm ok, then I know that we certainly aren't on the same level and something has to change.
I think this should honestly be the level of standards in ALL relationships!click to expand
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
Posted by LentoBull91I wanted to say this but didn't know exactly on how to word it without sounding malicious, even though that's not my intentions at all. However, you worded it very well so thanks š
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
Hot dog eating contest
Posted by LentoBull91
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
This is how my partner is as well. At one point he said I had passed all of his tests and I didn't even realise he was assessing me in that way.
Interesting. I don't "test" people. That's just the honest truth. Taurus is usually a very straightforward sign. No game playing. If I needed to ask a question, I would just ask.
Posted by jeanePosted by LentoBull91
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
This is how my partner is as well. At one point he said I had passed all of his tests and I didn't even realise he was assessing me in that way.
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^^ good job Libra it's not an easy task passing all of them. I've only met a few girls who aced it and knew then and there that I was in love with them.
Posted by LentoBull91Posted by jeanePosted by LentoBull91
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
This is how my partner is as well. At one point he said I had passed all of his tests and I didn't even realise he was assessing me in that way.
^^ good job Libra it's not an easy task passing all of them. I've only met a few girls who aced it and knew then and there that I was in love with them.
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Lol, thanks but maybe your tests are harder than his!
What if his test was "does she have all her own teeth?"
#settingthebarlowlibra style
Posted by jeanePosted by LentoBull91Posted by jeanePosted by LentoBull91
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
This is how my partner is as well. At one point he said I had passed all of his tests and I didn't even realise he was assessing me in that way.
^^ good job Libra it's not an easy task passing all of them. I've only met a few girls who aced it and knew then and there that I was in love with them.
Lol, thanks but maybe your tests are harder than his!
What if his test was "does she have all her own teeth?"
#settingthebarlowlibra style
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Yeah my test were kind of pushing it when I was younger I take it easy now. Lol does she have all her own teeth that one never crossed my mind before did he ask you that?
Posted by LentoBull91Posted by jeanePosted by LentoBull91Posted by jeanePosted by LentoBull91
My test are to figure you out in subtle ways to where you don't even realize you're being tested. That way I know the answers I'm getting are genuine and not just what you make yourself out to be. They come in form of questions and how you react to situations. What I'm looking to do is understand what you do what you think what you feel to figure out if you're what I'm looking for or not. Pass these test and I will worship you fail these test and you will not be taken seriously.
This is how my partner is as well. At one point he said I had passed all of his tests and I didn't even realise he was assessing me in that way.
^^ good job Libra it's not an easy task passing all of them. I've only met a few girls who aced it and knew then and there that I was in love with them.
Lol, thanks but maybe your tests are harder than his!
What if his test was "does she have all her own teeth?"
#settingthebarlowlibra style
Yeah my test were kind of pushing it when I was younger I take it easy now and try not being as selfish as I was. Lol does she have all her own teeth that one never crossed my mind before did he ask you that?
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No he didnt ask. He did do this to me once though...
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So when Taurus gets completely consumed in tasks and work, they seem to āforgetā about their SO. Are they ātestingā to see if their SO will get really upset from their lack of attention to them or the relationship? Taurus you must admit, some of you have a one track mind!!
Posted by Manana
If we walk away silently with no answers....
Then...
You have already hung yourself.
Always??
It's this dichotomous attitude we have.
It's either this...or that....
We don't give you ultimatums and declare it verbally.
We just play the music in our heads, until the music shuts off.
If you have already hung yourself....
We don't look back.
We just wait for the next song.
Itās a good thing you can focus on whatās most important to you at that time, but a terrible thing that everything else has to be put on the back burner. Iād rather go thru multiple ātests and observationsā than to be put on the back burner, you Bulls!!!
I was given a task to create a cozy space with very little materials or resources while my bull was off somewhere working...I did it and I was very proud of myself. Then he changed it all when he got home. Ugh!!! Failed test??
Posted by SodapopPosted by SugarandSpunkš
The "I'm going through something" test
Just to see how much you're willing to go for me. I expect after some time for my significant other to go above and beyond for me as I would for them. Especially if I gained your trust. If by a certain amount of time, I see that my significant other isn't putting in much effort to make sure I'm ok, then I know that we certainly aren't on the same level and something has to change.
I think this should honestly be the level of standards in ALL relationships!click to expand
So the whole tests things are Taurus nature. Now I know what I testnso much. My
Standards are pretty high.... and that too, I test to see how much you will do for me or carenfor me. Becusss I know I give all of me. If not reciprocated, I'm normally out the door.
Posted by UnlikeanyscorpIMAo
I was given a task to create a cozy space with very little materials or resources while my bull was off somewhere working...I did it and I was very proud of myself. Then he changed it all when he got home. Ugh!!! Failed test??
Posted by UnlikeanyscorpYeah but you're not the centre of their world. They compartmentalise. They also need to know you are indepentent enough to operate on your own.
Itās a good thing you can focus on whatās most important to you at that time, but a terrible thing that everything else has to be put on the back burner. Iād rather go thru multiple ātests and observationsā than to be put on the back burner, you Bulls!!!
Posted by UnlikeanyscorpUnlikely. He probably just likes things a certain way.
I was given a task to create a cozy space with very little materials or resources while my bull was off somewhere working...I did it and I was very proud of myself. Then he changed it all when he got home. Ugh!!! Failed test??
Tests do vary but they mostly want to see if you're wife/marriage material. They see how we respond in certain situations, what you're willing to do for them, how you are like around their family and friends (and if they like you) and if we're able to do certain things to their high standard.
Sometimes they're pretty generic things that we all look for, they just hold higher standards than most. Other times, they go overboard with their testing. For instance, on his list might be "can she cook well enough for me?" and will secretly test your skills (you might wonder why he's such a lazy bastard whose always coming over to your place expecting food but he's apparently just testing you).
Taurus is in for the long haul and want to know if you're right for them. That's why they test. Whether you love it or hate, you'll have to put up with it if you like him.
Sometimes they're pretty generic things that we all look for, they just hold higher standards than most. Other times, they go overboard with their testing. For instance, on his list might be "can she cook well enough for me?" and will secretly test your skills (you might wonder why he's such a lazy bastard whose always coming over to your place expecting food but he's apparently just testing you).
Taurus is in for the long haul and want to know if you're right for them. That's why they test. Whether you love it or hate, you'll have to put up with it if you like him.
Posted by peaceloveandhappinessI agree with this
I don't test. I observe the hell out of them. If I don't like what I see, I'm gone.
Lol at taurus sun with scorp moon playing it cool but being in fact so insecure
Oh yeah they're the kings of small tests
So cute...
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Oh yeah they're the kings of small tests
So cute...
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