Superficial?!!!

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by taurusgoddess on Monday, August 8, 2005 and has 16 replies.

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
SUPERFICIAL ATTACK OR IS IT ME?!!

My aqua-roomate came home yesterday from work and talked about how after various conversations his co-workers (he's in furniture sales) said he was selfish and judgemental and only does things for himself. He was not impressed and I just laughed (because it confirmed my notes on him). I said said it's no big deal, all those salespeople are probally like that too!

Then he half-jokingly said he had always thought that I was superficial. I am slightly bothered by this now and am analyzing this. I always considered very open to various people.
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@crystal_tears33
21 Years
u have been open with me..and aqua's are selfish..my sister is one...and man she is a pain in the azz!!!! but i love her....i don't see where your superficial at all!!...don't let it bother you....ur a good person with a big heart...
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@venusasapenis
21 Years
yu know, ive been called superficial/shallow once in my life-- and it was from someone on a different (extreeeemely superficial) forum whom i had never met. she was into astrology, and i know for sure she just made a blanket statement because she couldnt' stand me and my awesomeness haha 😛

i think it's easy for taureans to get called that because we don't let little shit bother us-- i think it makes us seem careless and lazy, and therefore superficial in that sense, regardless of the many things running through our heads;
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@maymaid
20 YearsTaurus
Hmm...I know this idea is rather annoying! I have been considered superficial by my sister-in-law too. Guess what sign is she? She is aqua! But I don't care. I think those who is judgemental is superficial in a sense! I think people misunderstood us easily because we have child-like personality. Actually, taurus are simple yet complex people.
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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
Oh I love how you guys described it! So true.

He doesn't realize what I think about and how detailed I really am. I prefer to live like a child and enjoy life. Doesn't mean I don't know what's going on, or that I don't care. I do. It comes out when it really matters. Why waste energy on useless things. These damn uptight people!
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@missBovine
21 Years
"It comes out when it really matters. Why waste energy on useless things."

Wow! This is what I usually say to people around me... (those truly uptight and "impractical" people. *LOL*

I never get called "superficial" by anyone, but I do have people around me who think I am too "carefree." It's kind of amusing how they think we are "superficial" when in fact we are just more relaxed in our approaches to life. 🙂
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@venusasapenis
21 Years
" I prefer to live like a child and enjoy life. Doesn't mean I don't know what's going on, or that I don't care."

awesomeness... i couldn't put it better
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@chikohot
20 Years
Hey ! guys .I t is a wonderfull statement,by the way are you guys aries? Well i am and people really think I do not care about lots of things,but in fact I do ,but I do not make a big deal about it..........
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@crystal_tears33
21 Years
i guess i will have to go there and read what they say then!!!!

my weekend was pretty boring....i drank a lil and stayed home until sat nite when my taurus got a hold of me...until early sun morn!

so i guess it turned out ok...

how was yours—?

*hugs and kisses*
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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
Judgemental people are superficial taurusgoddess.It proves the point in itself just being as they made a judgement before knowing the truth.Have you ever really watched the people who throw that word around to make others look bad,thier constantly whining about stupid,trivial crap.Openness teaches you ALOT more than sitting back and letting YOUR head make it up without giving a second thought that you could be wrong.
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@BJ
21 YearsPisces
Ah what the hey!! Isn't it funny how we analyse ourselves when we get told stuff we don't like? Personal growth is a fantastic thing. Whether what people tell you about yourself is true or not it still forces you to look within and make conscious choices not to be that way. Thus making us better and more mature people as life goes on. I say embrace it you superficial fools and look deeper within!!
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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
I hate being around negative people. Hey my friend burned some sweet grass around me the other day. It was really cool and soothing. They were like wiping the smoke on their face and had beautiful candles burning. I heard on the radio today that smells contribute to 75% of our emotions. I know my nose leads me around.
I'm a sucker for a yummy smelling kitchen, or man or ...am I going off track?
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@crystal_tears33
21 Years
no your not goin off track....but i didn't know that smells contribute to our emotions..

learn something new everyday...if that was only true for everyone!!!!! i would b in heaven right now!!!
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@venusasapenis
21 Years
sweet grass? that's not a regular scotts variety lawn grass is it? 🙂 that sounds pretty cool, i wonder if it would work with other things