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Taurus and I just got into the biggest fight and idc... (Page 2)
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Then again, I'm perpetually single so maybe that isn't good advice. Idk.
If you like a big dick, mediocre sex, a capable cook with a drinking problem.. I can take care of most everything else. I'm here for you is what I'm trying to say.
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You can't be in Cleveland and tennessee at the same time.
Lol, thanks, Taurus🙂
Also you said it yourself, if he wasn't there you would get your mom to do it...put your big girl pants on and do it yourself, it ain't hard.
Mmmyou drive to a tire shop
Mmm take out your cash
N wait
Don't forget to bat your eyelashes.
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Ew
how women rely on their men for things they can take care of themselves is beyond me, you want it done get it done it's your car if you notice hes not motivated you take initiative he doesnt have to offer to do things for you and you shouldnt bribe him to
for example my gem said hed install something for me in my bathroom hasnt gotten around to it but I haven't either and he said he would but I know it's not his responsibility if he did it great he hasnt oh well eventually I'll do it myself
pick your battles the one you chose isnt the one especially during venus retro
I disagree, if someone says and they INSIST they will do it every time its mentioned then I think I have a eight to say something to them and remind them they were going to help. I didnt bribe him, I have him money so he could pay for the tires, in an envelope that said "Tires " just so he didnt pay for them himself and so he could do it as he pleased.
People need to keep their word and if you keep doing it for them they will never gain responsibility.
If you have a kid are you going to clean their room or their chores becasue they havent gotten around to them?
I'm sorry I keep my word and I exowvr others to as well.
Also you said it yourself, if he wasn't there you would get your mom to do it...put your big girl pants on and do it yourself, it ain't hard.
Mmmyou drive to a tire shop
Mmm take out your cash
N wait
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For you, maybe it's that easy.
Yoi sont know me and it's not that easy for me.
There is a mental block. I'll start to drive there, sweating and shaking the whole time. Then either pull over and throw up, or drive home.
Extreme anxiety is not a joke. I hope you never have to deal with it.
I can't take you seriously, because he's just so good looking. Why would you leave that?
Lol I was saying that to myself for 7 months, but in realizing that being handsome doesnt cut it sometimes.
I need reliability and someone who does something when they say they will...
i hear you that would drive me mad, but i also would just get it done and not worry about his a $ $
that's how you make someone feel guilty
do it, and be like oh i don't need you to do it for me
cut his dick metaphorically
That's what I said to him "I'm just doing it myself on monday... hope I dont get hurt before then"...suddenly it was "I'm coming now" to which I said "dont bother..." he showed up anyway.
But why do I need to take it to that level to get him to so that?? Its maddening
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Cause he's a Taurus male...
Also you said it yourself, if he wasn't there you would get your mom to do it...put your big girl pants on and do it yourself, it ain't hard.
Mmmyou drive to a tire shop
Mmm take out your cash
N wait
For you, maybe it's that easy.
Yoi sont know me and it's not that easy for me.
There is a mental block. I'll start to drive there, sweating and shaking the whole time. Then either pull over and throw up, or drive home.
Extreme anxiety is not a joke. I hope you never have to deal with it.
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i imagine you have spoken to your doctor about this. there is some really good medication that can help if you're up for taking something.
Also you said it yourself, if he wasn't there you would get your mom to do it...put your big girl pants on and do it yourself, it ain't hard.
Mmmyou drive to a tire shop
Mmm take out your cash
N wait
For you, maybe it's that easy.
Yoi sont know me and it's not that easy for me.
There is a mental block. I'll start to drive there, sweating and shaking the whole time. Then either pull over and throw up, or drive home.
Extreme anxiety is not a joke. I hope you never have to deal with it.
i imagine you have spoken to your doctor about this. there is some really good medication that can help if you're up for taking something.
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I dont have a dr. The process of even finding a doctor is a daunting one. Plus I dont have insurance, cant afford it and not offered though my job.
I dont take medications I'm afraid to even take tylenol. But thank you for the advice
Also you said it yourself, if he wasn't there you would get your mom to do it...put your big girl pants on and do it yourself, it ain't hard.
Mmmyou drive to a tire shop
Mmm take out your cash
N wait
For you, maybe it's that easy.
Yoi sont know me and it's not that easy for me.
There is a mental block. I'll start to drive there, sweating and shaking the whole time. Then either pull over and throw up, or drive home.
Extreme anxiety is not a joke. I hope you never have to deal with it.
Anxiety from what? Having to be responsible? Procrastination?
Save yourself the trouble and be more proactive with the maintenance of your vehicle. Quit driving around until the tires are about to fall off, lmao.
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Tires are fixed. Thank you tho
Lol
The sex must be 🔥
🙊🙈
how women rely on their men for things they can take care of themselves is beyond me, you want it done get it done it's your car if you notice hes not motivated you take initiative he doesnt have to offer to do things for you and you shouldnt bribe him to
for example my gem said hed install something for me in my bathroom hasnt gotten around to it but I haven't either and he said he would but I know it's not his responsibility if he did it great he hasnt oh well eventually I'll do it myself
pick your battles the one you chose isnt the one especially during venus retro
I disagree, if someone says and they INSIST they will do it every time its mentioned then I think I have a eight to say something to them and remind them they were going to help. I didnt bribe him, I have him money so he could pay for the tires, in an envelope that said "Tires " just so he didnt pay for them himself and so he could do it as he pleased.
People need to keep their word and if you keep doing it for them they will never gain responsibility.
If you have a kid are you going to clean their room or their chores becasue they havent gotten around to them?
I'm sorry I keep my word and I exowvr others to as well.
Knowing he isnt very motivated I gave him 100 $ as incentive. Its 2 months later and I cringe at every pothole (I know I really should have taken care of it).
you disagree that's precisely your problem you think you're right, you think you have the right to make others keep their word, and you think your own bf owes you whatever you ask of him
and that's the thing this is about tires, you comparing tires to kids shows how stubborn you are
Let's put it out as this was a lesson learned.
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Yes, we can say that
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