Taurus and libra..... wait what—?

So maybe all this stuff about taurus is true, the waiting and whatnot but I feel like I rushed into things with this taurus guy. Been friends for over a year and just recently moved from friends to whatever comes after that. My venus in virgo is all "nooo slow down, I need like two more years". But seriously what the he*k. Anyone have any insight on this combo? I know we both are ruled by venus and my sun is conjunct his pluto if that helps. Am I doomed to mess things up or not? I feel like I'm too much of an air sign to be treading the earth.

There are a few threads on this right now, you may want to check out. One on the main astrology board and one n the Libra board I think. As a Libra I personally like Taurus energy but the other placements are very important regarding success or failure.

Thanks! I look for them.

it's not impossible but you need to adapt, adapt, adapt.

taking things slowly is also a good move.

in terms of your air; really think before you say things. you're going to say shit that you mean in one instance but then have no strong regard for a moment later. don't do that. they take what you say to heart and while you may have forgotten it, they are left reeling. they feel things at full impact and because of this they will also recover slower.

appreciate though that if you break through that shell then the feelings are genuine and run very deep. more than you can imagine. don't take advantage of it. respect it. treasure it. don't toy with it. it's a rare and beautiful thing.

Aw, the bull and the leeb, one of my favs.
My on and off libra has like 5 libra placements.
It could work if you want it to.

12 years of bliss...3 years of crashing and burning...
I wish I could say go for it.. But the sting of that relationship still haunts me. Ouch.

In the end, we decided we loved differently and needed different things from our partners.

Taurus cheated (still lies about it) and abused me. But wants to be friends... ?

@OP & @jane84- I think it is always best when you know you're too different because in the end it might get worse, and start resenting them.. Both can mutually agree it's best to keep the friendship and part if that is important to you to do that. If not go ahead an do something stupid I won't stay around...

Heck isn't a swear word, you silly.

Lol great advice, Guardian..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP & @jane84- I think it is always best when you know you're too different because in the end it might get worse, and start resenting them.. Both can mutually agree it's best to keep the friendship and part if that is important to you to do that. If not go ahead an do something stupid I won't stay around...

Well it fizzled out as quickly as it started. Super upset because it seemed like we were on the path of some stupid rom-com where everything just "falls into place" if that makes sense. He thought we were moving too quickly and wants to go back to being friends.

Married and now seperated from a libra who is also the father of my kids. He is an only child and a mommas boy!!! Though you will love that he has taste for the finer things in life just like yourself... Things will start to unravel! Nonetheless I'm the Taurus (female) and he's the libra (male). I hate that Linda's are neutral... He never stuck up for me... And no matter how much I complained about this issue he only changed when I was out the door. I fell out of love with his false promises that never came to light. In the end he change but I didn't love him anymore. I've heard this paring works. Maybe if the sun sign is libra woman and Taurus male. He must be the dominant one and whatever you do.... Do not defy his manly hood in public miss libra. Good luck.

Posted by Shaniajam
Married and now seperated from a libra who is also the father of my kids. He is an only child and a mommas boy!!! Though you will love that he has taste for the finer things in life just like yourself... Things will start to unravel! Nonetheless I'm the Taurus (female) and he's the libra (male). I hate that Linda's are neutral... He never stuck up for me... And no matter how much I complained about this issue he only changed when I was out the door. I fell out of love with his false promises that never came to light. In the end he change but I didn't love him anymore. I've heard this paring works. Maybe if the sun sign is libra woman and Taurus male. He must be the dominant one and whatever you do.... Do not defy his manly hood in public miss libra. Good luck.

i certainly don't relate to being neutral or not sticking up for my partner. i would claw the eyes out of anyone who gave my bull even a bit of side eye.

Posted by busyeyes88
I still swear down that libra and taurus is an awful match... It requires to much work to make it work...

I agree though... I stayed longer than I should have with this one

Both Libra and Taurus will ALWAYS stay longer than both should have.
Till the bitter end..

My aunt and uncle are that combo. Her: Taurus. Him: Libra. 🙂

It is the most loving, and ridiculously stable relationship I've ever witnessed xD Like..damn.

Posted by SalamanderCandy
My aunt and uncle are that combo. Her: Taurus. Him: Libra. 🙂

It is the most loving, and ridiculously stable relationship I've ever witnessed xD Like..damn.

They've been married for.. more than 21 years c:

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Posted by SalamanderCandy
My aunt and uncle are that combo. Her: Taurus. Him: Libra. 🙂

It is the most loving, and ridiculously stable relationship I've ever witnessed xD Like..damn.

They've been married for.. more than 21 years c:

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Well, more than 22*

@OP- Yeah I've been there and done that too. So I know and it does suck. That is why I say if you guys want the friendship to work out. Just be that and if it his words definitely do that. But usually if an asshole is an asshole you can't change that and I would not want to be friends. I sorta leave you in the dust by my aloof and detachment.

Well, obviously from the comments here that it's 50-50. My Taurus husband and I belong to the 50% that works (touch wood!). But based on some other posters' experiences, they can end very badly.

You definitely must have some nice synastry going on, if we're simply talking about astrological compatibilities. Otherwise, the differences can be too much that as some posters have pointed out, it can be too much work.

And OP, you have experienced it yourself. You want it to move fast, but he doesn't. Instinctively, he probably did move fast, but then the practical, logical mind kicks in, and that's when he pulled back.

Don't be offended by the "Let's be friends" line. That's how they operate. And if you really like this guy and sees a good friend in him, you'll agree with that. But pull back on your emotions as well. There's no need to rush. Beautiful things take time to grow.

OMG Taurus has been coming out of the wood work to date me, but I am not ready to date. I find it strange that a bunch of them all or a sudden want to date me. At least 4.

Posted by letterbox10
Well, obviously from the comments here that it's 50-50. My Taurus husband and I belong to the 50% that works (touch wood!). But based on some other posters' experiences, they can end very badly.

You definitely must have some nice synastry going on, if we're simply talking about astrological compatibilities. Otherwise, the differences can be too much that as some posters have pointed out, it can be too much work.

And OP, you have experienced it yourself. You want it to move fast, but he doesn't. Instinctively, he probably did move fast, but then the practical, logical mind kicks in, and that's when he pulled back.

Don't be offended by the "Let's be friends" line. That's how they operate. And if you really like this guy and sees a good friend in him, you'll agree with that. But pull back on your emotions as well. There's no need to rush. Beautiful things take time to grow.

good advice. i agree wholeheartedly.

I am one of the 50 percent that has had positive experiences with libras.