Taurus flirting style...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by heronimus_b on Tuesday, November 1, 2016 and has 25 replies.

How Taurus Flirts and Signs of Interest

Taurus individuals often flirt through subtle gestures like friendly banter, compliments, and attentive body language. They tend to be patient and consistent, showing interest gradually. Recognizing Taurus flirting involves observing their calm demeanor and small acts of kindness rather than overt signals. Overthinking is common, but genuine interest usually feels steady and sincere.

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@heronimus_b
9 Years

tell me how a Taurus flirts. As a leo, we are blunt and to the point but since this ex-coworker is a Taurus, I've tried being more subtle. Yesterday, I swear he was flirting with me BIG time. we had great friendly banter and talked about his art work he even had a cute way of addressing me as we parted after the meeting. He might be friendly or he might be flirting. Why are bulls so hard to read? or is it me? I can be overthinking this....

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Leeanihee
Im a taurus, and when i like someone i always make opportunities to be near that person, to talk to them, watch them (their behaviour) and learning more about them.. i noticed that i make physical contact a lot when i like someone.. and also im really good with words and flirting, love mind games, a bit of challenge etc.. so i totally disagree with previous comments, obviously there's a lot more than just sun sign that describes us

Me too.

If a Taurus has Aries placements, you'll know for sure that he likes you. If not, he may be more subtle. He may try to be close / near you physically or find excuses to try and touch you casually. He'll listen to every word you say and hang on it, like it really matters to him. He'll ask pertinent questions. He'll be generous and offer you things, tangible things, like lunch or coffee or candy, something like that. Taurus likes to provide for others, especially for love interests. You'll never see his angry side if he's flirting, only the loving, patient, doll he can be.

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@jeane
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from the other side of witnessing a taurus, i had no idea either. i was trying to pin point it down to body language and the direction his feet was pointing at one stage but his arms are crossed, does that cancel out the feet? it was very difficult.

i got my first inkling when he went above and beyond his way to help me. picking me up from home to go on an errand that he didn't need to help me with, lending me his car, his arm around my waist, offering to do whatever he could to make my life easier...

the banter? well, he likes to talk. i can see how someone would think it is flirting but really, its just him having a laugh and entertaining himself.

he might be flirting. you just need a few more signs.

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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I'm a flirt.

I flirt with people whom I don't even find attractive.

If I genuinely like someone though, I tend to back off and not pay them any attention. I ignore them pretty much. Might say two words to them here and there, but that's it.

I want them to come to me. If they don't, that's perfectly fine, but we won't be dating.

I have a Taurus Venus and this is exactly how I am. You could be fine as hell but if you don't approach me then oh well

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@tcta
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Posted by jeane
from the other side of witnessing a taurus, i had no idea either. i was trying to pin point it down to body language and the direction his feet was pointing at one stage but his arms are crossed, does that cancel out the feet? it was very difficult.

i got my first inkling when he went above and beyond his way to help me. picking me up from home to go on an errand that he didn't need to help me with, lending me his car, his arm around my waist, offering to do whatever he could to make my life easier...

the banter? well, he likes to talk. i can see how someone would think it is flirting but really, its just him having a laugh and entertaining himself.

he might be flirting. you just need a few more signs.

you two sound so cute together!

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If a Taurus has Aries placements, you'll know for sure that he likes you. If not, he may be more subtle. He may try to be close / near you physically or find excuses to try and touch you casually. He'll listen to every word you say and hang on it, like it really matters to him. He'll ask pertinent questions. He'll be generous and offer you things, tangible things, like lunch or coffee or candy, something like that. Taurus likes to provide for others, especially for love interests. You'll never see his angry side if he's flirting, only the loving, patient, doll he can be.

This. As having Aries moon & Mercury.

But it will be also much more playful with each other as well.

Directly getting to know each other. Analyzing of who they are and if there's no red flag in it.

so I think it varies due to other placements but yes, with Aries Rising and Mercury ... playful, smiles, comfort

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Posted by tcta

Posted by jeane
from the other side of witnessing a taurus, i had no idea either. i was trying to pin point it down to body language and the direction his feet was pointing at one stage but his arms are crossed, does that cancel out the feet? it was very difficult.

i got my first inkling when he went above and beyond his way to help me. picking me up from home to go on an errand that he didn't need to help me with, lending me his car, his arm around my waist, offering to do whatever he could to make my life easier...

the banter? well, he likes to talk. i can see how someone would think it is flirting but really, its just him having a laugh and entertaining himself.

he might be flirting. you just need a few more signs.

you two sound so cute together!

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aww, thanks. i'd like to think so! i think he also echoes a lot of what you guys have mentioned is that awkward shyness when it comes to someone he likes. the number of times it nearly happened between us but at the last minute he ran away because of his coyness! our first kiss only happened because i kissed him.

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@Espresso
9 Years

Hehe fun post...even if a have an Aries moon and venus, i don't flirt aswell.

Actually, i'm stoic and silent the more i like a guy. Like i don't want to mess up my classy "looking self".

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@taurus1986
9 Years

Im much like xXxAliciaXxX

I flirt alot even with people Im not attracted to, but once I like someone I tend to get shy and loose words and kind of awkward.

So I back off hoping the will chase me

I easily get scared when I develop feelings for someone because I tend to think that its all a game and I end up hurt

I dont trust easily so I need a solid ground for the relationship.

Become friends first (but not friendzoned) and lovers later

If you really wannna know if he likes you then just ask him, he will be truthful

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Posted by Aries_Luminary

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I'm a flirt.

I flirt with people whom I don't even find attractive.

If I genuinely like someone though, I tend to back off and not pay them any attention. I ignore them pretty much. Might say two words to them here and there, but that's it.

I want them to come to me. If they don't, that's perfectly fine, but we won't be dating.

I have a Taurus Venus and this is exactly how I am. You could be fine as hell but if you don't approach me then oh well

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I can see how it would be more difficult for Taurus male than a Taurus female with this type of "don't approach" cause I do like the male to approach. But if the male were the Taurus and didn't approach then what - lol ...

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@kelly_libra1
9 Years

Not just you. I've been talking to a Taurus guy for a year...a year! I'm still just trying to figure out if he's even really into me. Crazy!

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@tcta
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Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

I want them to come to me. If they don't, that's perfectly fine, but we won't be dating.

LOL

you know that does sound weird but it's so true

I was laughing since it sounds like me

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really ? libra is like that too ? so interesting ... hmmm, makes me wonder about the new Libra - is he being respectful because I'm waiting or is he indecisive - the hugs are getting more intense - can't wait for a kiss - when I really just want to jump his bones lol ...

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Posted by kelly_libra1
Not just you. I've been talking to a Taurus guy for a year...a year! I'm still just trying to figure out if he's even really into me. Crazy!

just plant one on him one day and walk away with a smile but not a word - if he follows he's yours ...

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Posted by jeane

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@jeane - I saw what you wrote but didn't get a chance to like it or quote you back lol ... now I forget what you said lol

ignore me! i was being humourless x

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lol - awww - I had just gotten a call from my Libra so I had closed it before I got a chance to really look at what you said

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Posted by tcta

Posted by jeane

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@jeane - I saw what you wrote but didn't get a chance to like it or quote you back lol ... now I forget what you said lol

ignore me! i was being humourless x

lol - awww - I had just gotten a call from my Libra so I had closed it before I got a chance to really look at what you said

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time much better spent on that libra rather than this libra!