Taurus man and his harem of women - which one is the main?

There is a young taurus man - very charming, sexy, attractive and a typical taurus. And there is a girl - also young, good looking, really smart, loyal and trustworthy. They get along really well, he trusts her, he is open with her about his life and problems, he always helps her without asking (goes shopping with her, helps her around the house, picks her up and drives where necessary and etc), is very nice and kind with her, always keeps in touch, always a gentleman, asks her out, comes to see her, cooks for her, takes her on vacation and so on, but doesn't sleep with her, not had even kissed her, but touches her accidently often. Also, he never ever talks about other girls with her and tries to look single, free and not interestes in women. There were talks about sex and sexual jokes at the beggining, but they have gone by now.

There is one more girl - also young, good looking, funny and this taurus guy is sleeping with her, texting her, they know each other also for about a year or more, but she is not his official girlfriend, he doesn't take her on vacation, doesn't bring her to his mom and is not. Moreover, she has a child with another man and is probably still somehow involved with him.

This taurus guy also has many other female "friends", who he talks to, texts and (maybe) also has sex.

My question is how to know which girl is "the main" or they all are just "girls"? Does he just wants to have a harem of women who serve him for diffferent purposes? Why is he investing so much his time and energy in one, and is not in another one?

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This is now the third topic you have created on this same issue in 3 months. Why don't you just ask him? For being such good friends, you don't seem to be able to communicate with him.

There is no main girl. Just an understanding amongst those young women. Lol. You make him out to sound like a dishonest play boy. If it were such, this "friend" of his would have tasted what sex was like with him.

If you're the "friend" then I will have to agree with Jeane.

The OP was already friend zoned?

"They get along really well, he trusts her, he is open with her about his life and problems, he always helps her without asking (goes shopping with her, helps her around the house, picks her up and drives where necessary and etc), is very nice and kind with her, always keeps in touch, always a gentleman, asks her out, comes to see her, cooks for her, takes her on vacation and so on, but doesn't sleep with her, not had even kissed her... " THIS IS CALLED A FRIEND 🙂

It sounds like he likes you a lot! For him to invest that amount of time, attention and care is an indication that he truly values, cares and loves you. He sounds very sweet, kind, and considerate; a true blessing!! You two have a companionship that many people dream about in their primary relationship. Sex doesn't make a relationship just ask all of the side chicks who are having sex with guys who don't treat them half as well as this guy treats you.

Although sex doesn't make a relationship, a man can't keep his hands off of a woman that he wants. This component of sexual attraction -

is what differentiates a romantic interest from a friend.

You may have concocted some Noble reason for his lack of sexual Pursuit but the truth is he's not sexually attracted to you - which makes you a friend.

It appears that at this time you're quite content with your connection and it appears that it works for him too. Maybe this is what you need for right now and that's okay. But in regards to the ranking of importance in his life, when you are number one, you will know so deep in your heart that you would not have to ask a bunch of strangers on a forum.

I knew my earth sign loved me so deep - that I never asked the cards, never got a psychic reading, never consulted my family never consulted my friends I knew I knew I knew in my heart.

When you are the top woman you will not have to ask a bunch of strangers on the forum you will know so deeply that there will be no room for doubt.

Posted by Shrewdsharp
It sounds like he likes you a lot! For him to invest that amount of time, attention and care is an indication that he truly values, cares and loves you. He sounds very sweet, kind, and considerate; a true blessing!! You two have a companionship that many people dream about in their primary relationship. Sex doesn't make a relationship just ask all of the side chicks who are having sex with guys who don't treat them half as well as this guy treats you.

Although sex doesn't make a relationship, a man can't keep his hands off of a woman that he wants. This component of sexual attraction -

is what differentiates a romantic interest from a friend.

You may have concocted some Noble reason for his lack of sexual Pursuit but the truth is he's not sexually attracted to you - which makes you a friend.

It appears that at this time you're quite content with your connection and it appears that it works for him too. Maybe this is what you need for right now and that's okay. But in regards to the ranking of importance in his life, when you are number one, you will know so deep in your heart that you would not have to ask a bunch of strangers on a forum.

I knew my earth sign loved me so deep - that I never asked the cards, never got a psychic reading, never consulted my family never consulted my friends I knew I knew I knew in my heart.

When you are the top woman you will not have to ask a bunch of strangers on the forum you will know so deeply that there will be no room for doubt.

That's absolutely true.

So far, your Taurus just sounds like he's enjoying his freedom and sex with the boundaries that different woman has.

Until you asked him straight, he won't be paving the future with you. Just get up the courage and ask.

Do you even know what he wants for the ideal girl? If they meet an ideal girl with all the qualities and ready to settle down, Taurus will just go for it with a force that is never seen before.

Now all the other girls just sound like the plan B girl waiting to be upgraded. He's just enjoying the best of three worlds. Cheap but very very Taurus.

You want him, you have to prove your worth. What have you done that makes you his forever girl?