Ok so I've been friends with this Taurus guy birthday 4/30 for about 4 years when I first met him we hung out a lot and he always want to hang out. Then one day we were at a bar and he got a call he left out the bar and his whole mood changed he told me that it was a girl in his life that had be there for him when he lost everything and he was trying to do the same for her, but he liked me. I stop talking to him right then and there. We wasn't having sex so I was okay with leaving him alone. A year past and I was done with my situation and I called him up just to see how he was doing . And we've been talking a lot I asked him does he have a girl or anything serious he told me no. He is hot then cold he and I does the same thing if he don't answer my calls or text I won't answer his calls or texts. We get along great no arguments we like the same things we have a great time .but he just isn't committed enough for me I told him about it and he said that he be working and forgets to call right back. But I felt other wise. We had a talk and I told him how I felt about us and he said to me that it's not that he's not interested or doesn't want what I want it's just timing. When I'm free he's not or when he's free I'm not. I was like okay and left it at that. So we started working on timing and I have been trying to be patient with him. Things were getting better, but he started the not responding thing again so this time I told him I was done playing with him . And he invited me out for his birthday to stop me from being mad. They were suppose to leave at 10pm but I was running late and told him to go ahead but he said he was waiting on me. So I get there and at first he sat at the front of the bus and didn't sit by me or his other friend he had on the bus. The. He came and sat by me. And he did that the whole time we were on the bus . He never really gave the other girl to much attention . She didn't like that so she started trying to get his attention and trying to be all in his face . He wasn't feeling that and steady was backing up. Long story short he was giving me all his attention. So the nite was ending and then this car pulls up and started blocking us and wouldn't let us off the bus . A girl gets out and was screaming the Taurus name telling him to get off the bus, not only was he not getting off the bus he had this look on his face like he was caught. The whole time I never thought the girl on the bus meant anything to him nor did I think she was even close to being his girl. I felt it was someone else . And there she goes acting crazy while we were trying to get off the bus. After everything I said who was she and he said again she wasn't his girl. And he wanted me to come back and see him. I didn't the next day he called me still not explaining who she was or what the situation was but yet he wanted to hang out with me again he said he missed me and he was sorry that it happened. At first I was like okay I'll go paint ball shooting with you . Just let me know a time . But that whole situation wasn't sitting right with so I called him a few hours later he never answered nor texted back . I just told him I was over it and I didn't trust him nor did I believe him. And for him to not call me anymore. This was Friday I haven't spoke with him since. Did I do the right thing or should I ask him to talk to me about it. Where do I stand in his life ? We just had sex 2 times and I've known him for 4 years. I'm lost for words because I really like him. Should I give up on this or make it work
