Taurus man, aqua woman?

So I know this guy, and we've been getting kind of close. He has his sun, moon, Venus in Taurus, moon in Capricorn and mars in Virgo... I know ALOT of earth!

And I'm the opposite except for the common moon we have. Aqua sun, cap moon, Pisces mercury, Aries Venus, and cancer mars..

But I'd like to say that whatever we talk about we agree 100% with each other, and we have similar tastes and interests.

And some aspect between us are and some challenging.

Do you guys think it could work out in the long term? And if not, then why?

And also, do you have any tips on how communication between us? Because at times he disappears, and I never bother him about it, but I sometimes get slightly insecure and suspicious about his intentions when he's quiet, which I know might just be my mars or moon but still..

Would love any help I can get! 😊

It'd be nice for someone to help her. No matter your opinion

Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

@The_Mad_Hatter, would it be too much trouble to ask your opinion on this thread as well.

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Posted by STILL
@The_Mad_Hatter, would it be too much trouble to ask your opinion on this thread as well.

I like Aqua and Taurus. I think it can be tricky as both are incredibly stubborn and a little self centered, but if each person really tries to understand the other I think it's good. I'm a go with your gut kinda person, don't get hung up too much on signs or charts and just learn each other.

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I like this. Good advice. Hope op will check back in. Thanks a bunch.☺

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Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

Aw, thank you for helping me out!! So nice! 😊❤

Haha, could be a false alarm, because he does come around acting normal. But I just get confused at the pattern and think that maybe its my fault.

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Posted by STILL
@The_Mad_Hatter, would it be too much trouble to ask your opinion on this thread as well.

I like Aqua and Taurus. I think it can be tricky as both are incredibly stubborn and a little self centered, but if each person really tries to understand the other I think it's good. I'm a go with your gut kinda person, don't get hung up too much on signs or charts and just learn each other.

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Thanks for the advice!

Youre right, I shouldn't worry too much about it. But it just slightly nags me that our charts are so different.

Let's see, I guess.

"Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm."

No unless you piss off. But we can be very honest, if you ask us for feedback, or when we critize you. That can be mistaken for meannes..



My 2 cents:

And also, do you have any tips on how communication between us? Because at times he disappears, and I never bother him about it, but I sometimes get slightly insecure and suspicious about his intentions when he's quiet, which I know might just be my mars or moon but still..

Maybe he is busy or needs space. I would just ask him. But pay attention to your words, dont ask him

directly be cautious. "Hey I noticed, that you wthdraw, I am not controlling, Ineed space too just give me a reason, so I dont overthink too much. Just be diplomatic,nonthreatening and use better english.

Understanding his behavior will kill the insecurity.



As soon as you guys are offical sit his ass down and make it a rule to communicate instead of digging your heels in and be stubborn. Because that kills relationship or at least causes a lot of negative emotions.

When Taurusses are stubborn there is always an underlying positive intention, dont argue dont be confrontative, you need to charme his ass and listen to him.

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Posted by STILL
Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

Aw, thank you for helping me out!! So nice! 😊❤

Haha, could be a false alarm, because he does come around acting normal. But I just get confused at the pattern and think that maybe its my fault.

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Thanks. Us aquas have to stick together.

I was referring to the Taurus men not answering your inquiry, when I said false alarm. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

You may have reason to be confused. I believe a man should be consistent. I assume you've taken into acct. if he's normally busy and may not have a lot of spare time. Since you guys are just getting to know each other he's probably not going to spend as much time with you. Don't allow yourself to get attached because he's charming when you're together.

If you know anything about how his previous relationships began and his patterns aren't the same with you, ask him about it. Basically, make sure his interests align with yours.

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"Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm."

No unless you piss off. But we can be very honest, if you ask us for feedback, or when we critize you. That can be mistaken for meannes..



My 2 cents:

And also, do you have any tips on how communication between us? Because at times he disappears, and I never bother him about it, but I sometimes get slightly insecure and suspicious about his intentions when he's quiet, which I know might just be my mars or moon but still..

Maybe he is busy or needs space. I would just ask him. But pay attention to your words, dont ask him

directly be cautious. "Hey I noticed, that you wthdraw, I am not controlling, Ineed space too just give me a reason, so I dont overthink too much. Just be diplomatic,nonthreatening and use better english.

Understanding his behavior will kill the insecurity.



As soon as you guys are offical sit his ass down and make it a rule to communicate instead of digging your heels in and be stubborn. Because that kills relationship or at least causes a lot of negative emotions.

When Taurusses are stubborn there is always an underlying positive intention, dont argue dont be confrontative, you need to charme his ass and listen to him.

Hey thanks for this!!

So you were right, I did ask him and he said he felt bad always initiating conversations because he doesn't know if he's disturbing me or not, and distracting me from studies.

So I told him thats sweet but let me worry about that.

Mystery solved then?

And I have lived my whole life with a Taurus and a Leo (way more fixed energy than needed at times) and over the years I've become better at managing open lines of communication.

Honestly, I agree that they prob have good intentions, but being stubborn is in itself an unfair thing to the other person. So yes, we'll be needing to work on that.

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Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

Aw, thank you for helping me out!! So nice! 😊❤

Haha, could be a false alarm, because he does come around acting normal. But I just get confused at the pattern and think that maybe its my fault.

Thanks. Us aquas have to stick together.

I was referring to the Taurus men not answering your inquiry, when I said false alarm. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

You may have reason to be confused. I believe a man should be consistent. I assume you've taken into acct. if he's normally busy and may not have a lot of spare time. Since you guys are just getting to know each other he's probably not going to spend as much time with you. Don't allow yourself to get attached because he's charming when you're together.

If you know anything about how his previous relationships began and his patterns aren't the same with you, ask him about it. Basically, make sure his interests align with yours.

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Youre right, I should take it easy. I have taken his routine into account and he does have lots of free time most days. But I understand that my Aries Venus wants instant gratification from relationships, and his just doesnt, which I admire and hopefully I can reign in my impulses better too.

And I'm pretty sure he's interested because hes always concerned and never wishy-washy.. Random but meaningful compliments thrown here and there.

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Aqua and Taurus are both fixed signs and I believe in the long run this could cause friction, both being stubborn and not wanting to give in.

You both have Cap moon so the way you express emotions can be quite similar which can be a plus. Your Cancer mars needs a lot of reassurance which a Venus in Taurus probably could provide. Your Venus in Aries can get impatient though with that earth venus and mars of him, because earth signs can be slow and take their time.

I always feel out of sync with Taurus men, they seem to slow me down, can be over cautious, always looking for security. And I don't always want that and it annoys me because I feel it holds me back. In the beginning this feels safe, but in the long run it's like we are walking a different pace, which will start to annoy me.

So for me personally it's a NO because of that.

I think the fixed element in us will only be a problem if we shut each other out.. If we work on keeping communications open and understanding each others natures then it might help in the long run.

And I totally see what you mean about the other planets. I can already see all of them at work. Its strange that I do find it easier to share my feelings with him, and he just takes them as they as are, he doesn't infer some third thing from them. He doesn't talk as much as me, which can be a bit weird, but I guess thats Taurus for you lol.

My dad is actually a Taurus, and I've always had a very close bond with him. Even though sometimes we both get spells of stubbornness, but I think a good thing about fixed signs is that they stick around and not give up even in problems.. So we always make up and come to an understanding and accept our faults.

Thanks for reply btw! 😊

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Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

Aw, thank you for helping me out!! So nice! 😊❤

Haha, could be a false alarm, because he does come around acting normal. But I just get confused at the pattern and think that maybe its my fault.

Thanks. Us aquas have to stick together.

I was referring to the Taurus men not answering your inquiry, when I said false alarm. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

You may have reason to be confused. I believe a man should be consistent. I assume you've taken into acct. if he's normally busy and may not have a lot of spare time. Since you guys are just getting to know each other he's probably not going to spend as much time with you. Don't allow yourself to get attached because he's charming when you're together.

If you know anything about how his previous relationships began and his patterns aren't the same with you, ask him about it. Basically, make sure his interests align with yours.

Youre right, I should take it easy. I have taken his routine into account and he does have lots of free time most days. But I understand that my Aries Venus wants instant gratification from relationships, and his just doesnt, which I admire and hopefully I can reign in my impulses better too.

And I'm pretty sure he's interested because hes always concerned and never wishy-washy.. Random but meaningful compliments thrown here and there.

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Sounds good 👍

I'm rooting for you!

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Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

Aw, thank you for helping me out!! So nice! 😊❤

Haha, could be a false alarm, because he does come around acting normal. But I just get confused at the pattern and think that maybe its my fault.

Thanks. Us aquas have to stick together.

I was referring to the Taurus men not answering your inquiry, when I said false alarm. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

You may have reason to be confused. I believe a man should be consistent. I assume you've taken into acct. if he's normally busy and may not have a lot of spare time. Since you guys are just getting to know each other he's probably not going to spend as much time with you. Don't allow yourself to get attached because he's charming when you're together.

If you know anything about how his previous relationships began and his patterns aren't the same with you, ask him about it. Basically, make sure his interests align with yours.

Youre right, I should take it easy. I have taken his routine into account and he does have lots of free time most days. But I understand that my Aries Venus wants instant gratification from relationships, and his just doesnt, which I admire and hopefully I can reign in my impulses better too.

And I'm pretty sure he's interested because hes always concerned and never wishy-washy.. Random but meaningful compliments thrown here and there.

Sounds good 👍

I'm rooting for you!

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Aw, thank you! 😊❤ All that matters is that we're right for each other.

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Ok just did my research to see if they were being mean. They hardly answer anyone. False alarm.

Aw, thank you for helping me out!! So nice! 😊❤

Haha, could be a false alarm, because he does come around acting normal. But I just get confused at the pattern and think that maybe its my fault.

Thanks. Us aquas have to stick together.

I was referring to the Taurus men not answering your inquiry, when I said false alarm. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

You may have reason to be confused. I believe a man should be consistent. I assume you've taken into acct. if he's normally busy and may not have a lot of spare time. Since you guys are just getting to know each other he's probably not going to spend as much time with you. Don't allow yourself to get attached because he's charming when you're together.

If you know anything about how his previous relationships began and his patterns aren't the same with you, ask him about it. Basically, make sure his interests align with yours.

Youre right, I should take it easy. I have taken his routine into account and he does have lots of free time most days. But I understand that my Aries Venus wants instant gratification from relationships, and his just doesnt, which I admire and hopefully I can reign in my impulses better too.

And I'm pretty sure he's interested because hes always concerned and never wishy-washy.. Random but meaningful compliments thrown here and there.

Sounds good 👍

I'm rooting for you!

Aw, thank you! 😊❤ All that matters is that we're right for each other.

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☺❤