Taurus man ends things and 14 months later (Page 2)

OMG. Eva, just read my message again. I was there and the same story. lmao.

I remember geminiinlove who asked a lot of advice how to get back her lost bull.

All the Tauruses gave her a good advice.. I remember I was the opponent. lmao. but yes she thought

things were going pretty... but then she failed.

I don't know why Tauruses are not my type... they seems ruled by their stubborness and not flexible.

They are very very stubborn to their fault..and they even stand to it.

Whoa there's some hostility going on here....

And FYI.... I'm not going to ask my ex what the purpose of him messaging me 14 months later with the same words he broke up with me was for.

I don't need to know the reason because it's not important to me. I was just confused and thought some people in this forum who have gone through the same thing and experienced this could understand.

The best thing I feel is to ignore my ex...

And for taurusbull1977, my dad is a Taurus and even he was confused at what my ex did and certainly did not see this as anything noble. And my capricorn loves me and cherishes me for the constant effort and affection I show him which he never got from another woman before. And I do not have my nose up my Taurus ex ass, rather he has his up mine. Hate to break it to you but look anywhere, cappies awal ways come up on top of Taurus, wanna know why? We don't take shit from nobody. Taurus would just flare up with their temper

And cookiemonster, I am not a weak and incapable woman. I am and independent woman and love the typical housewife stuff.... I am not missing out if I ignore my ex

Posted by cookiem0nster
Sometimes moving on from a relationship means putting to bed all those demons you couldn't put away first time at a time when both parties are ready. Mature adults do it all the time. It's perfectly normal.

What's not normal is harbouring all this resentment. It will eat you up and automatically turn you into someone that thinks the worst of people.

As a Capricorn, I know how we are with our assumptions and she's already assumed he's up to no good, but I agree with you here that this may actually be the closure they both need. Eva, maybe you do need to be mature and talk it out.

To feel anything...resentment, bitterness, disgust, anger..is still to feel, and that will always be a power he'll be able to hold over you. He can come into your life 10yrs from now and still make you angry IF you don't close the chapter for good by talking and releasing the residual emotions from the breakup.. I do agree with cookie there. I still think he's up to no good lol, but if he is not let him release for his closure as well.

Only do this though if you will be able to listen, and want to let go. Otherwise, I see no point in talking to him...not if you will have a wall from within.

Actually, the more I type, what "would" be the point if he's just apologizing and wishing her the best? Because now she's curious?...just confused myself.

anyway, I wonder if she did contact him asking what this was all about, would he actually honestly open up and give her an answer. Contacting him and running into stubbornness or a refusal to really talk on his end would only make her furious I bet.

Hey inana04 and notyourtype,

Hate to break it to you notyourtype but the reason why I do not want to contact or respond to my ex is that everytime he said something to me which he promised was the truth, he lied and admitted he lied to me because he wasn't a gentleman.

Why bother responding or contacting him back again to hear some more lies.... When u keep hearing constant lies, that ex is far from noble and you learn to stop listening to his bullshit.

It's not about me dedicating an entire thread, but every Taurus person here, not one has admitted their faults, it's like their all bloody perfect. I'm the first to admit, I know I'm not perfect but I know that I am far better off without my ex's bullshit....

I am happier off not responding to my ex and that's not about avoiding him or because I still care about him.

It's because nothing good ever came out of from knowing him.

Oh and taurusbull1977,

I can't believe your still on here reading and responding to people's comments to the point you remember whose been on these boards since years ago. Maybe your partner should chuck your ass on the road coz it seems you've got no life.

Whose the fool now...

Well okay Eva. I see that wall is not coming down right now lol. I understand you perfectly though. Good luck with your current relationship and update us on the Cap board when you and your Cap have the first argument...should be entertaining. Cap/Cap relationships are very....interesting to say the least lol.

I wonder if TLS is still reading. Reminds me a bit of him talking about how a Cancer never get over past hurt. Here, you kind of see the opposite sign is somewhat similar in that area lol. Eva has been disappointed by her taurean one too many times it seem. I understand where she is coming from but I wonder how other signs handle layers of disappointments. Some move on but how do you do that without being bitter towards that person forever, or even men in general i wonder.

Hey inana04,

Someone can have been disappointed by their ex so many times and move on after the breakup...

Sometimes you just move on even though u don't say to ur ex I forgive you.

You just somehow say to yourself he is not worth it and u learn to let go... Even though u haven't forgotten him, you still move on. It sounds complicated but that's us cappies for sure

Posted by notyourtype

Hate to break it you you, but if you need to seek external validation that someone is bad for you, chances are you're not over them, despite what you'd like to believe.

Posted by notyourtype

You know you're truly over someone when you can't care less about their motivation to reconnect, and simply take it at face value.

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+1000
Very well stated. Simplistic and straight to the point.

We all know this thread is not really about this Taurus. But about her bruised ego. He is capable of love, forgiveness, commitment and fidelity. Just not with her. He's getting married in two months, and she's feeling salty about that. Although, she's boasting about this loving alleged relationship with this Cap, deep down inside, she still knows it's an empty victory. Which is why she's proceeding with this thread on a non-stop crusade to vilify him by assuming that his intentions are either sexual or disingenuous.

This thread will continue to 'infinity' before the OP hangs up the towel on this topic.
...And they say Bulls are hard-headed? 🙂

TaurusBull, she is feeling salty because he wont just go away, and neither will you....goodness lol. She thanked everyone for their comments earlier signaling an end to the discussion but you came back stirring the pot again now you are trying to be manipulative by edging her to stop posting so you can have your empty victory with this thread.

In a nutshell, whatever his intentions, it was a FAIL in her eyes. Lessoned learned....you wont have to apologize today, tomorrow or a year from now if you just do right be people.

Yay I see taurusbull1977 is back.

And your calling me stubborn with a bruised ego.

I heard that Taurus are the ones with a gigantic ego and always need to be the last to say their peace. If my ex is really just apologising and being noble, then why would my Taurus dad say to me to end all contact with him and ignore any messages he sends and do not respond to it. You are the one making me feel like answering my ex just to confirm what his reasoning is... But then again, you and him are totally not worth me doing that

You know Taurusbull1977, this thread would have stopped if you admitted that not all Taurus are perfect, have good intentions only and are all noble blah blah blah.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by notyourtype

Hate to break it you you, but if you need to seek external validation that someone is bad for you, chances are you're not over them, despite what you'd like to believe.

Posted by notyourtype

You know you're truly over someone when you can't care less about their motivation to reconnect, and simply take it at face value.

+1000
Very well stated. Simplistic and straight to the point.

We all know this thread is not really about this Taurus. But about her bruised ego. He is capable of love, forgiveness, commitment and fidelity. Just not with her. He's getting married in two months, and she's feeling salty about that. Although, she's boasting about this loving alleged relationship with this Cap, deep down inside, she still knows it's an empty victory. Which is why she's proceeding with this thread on a non-stop crusade to vilify him by assuming that his intentions are either sexual or disingenuous.

This thread will continue to 'infinity' before the OP hangs up the towel on this topic.
...And they say Bulls are hard-headed? 🙂

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The bitch is back and she's annoying as ever!! I thought you already spoke ya piece?!? I knew you were a bullshitter.