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Posted by besarlalluvia
oh and please wake up lolol he came back to you because everyone else left his ass and you must be the only one he knows that’s hooked on him. don’t be the last resort. respect yourself.
Mine just returned after two years, and I'm starting to feel this way, but I'm keeping it strictly platonic this time.
Posted by lnana04
Posted by besarlalluvia
oh and please wake up lolol he came back to you because everyone else left his ass and you must be the only one he knows that’s hooked on him. don’t be the last resort. respect yourself.
Mine just returned after two years, and I'm starting to feel this way, but I'm keeping it strictly platonic this time. click to expand
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It's fucking rough):
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Please tell me you've cut this bull loose...
I haven't/: we see each other every other weekend. click to expand
Did he get a job and are y'all using protection?. click to expand
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No, niether/: we got tested and he's still jobless.
Nah, him getting a job won’t change who he is... which is dependent and ambitionless is that what you want for your future? Girl, please wake up and realize this is no prize but a curse that has befell upon you. Please wish him away and start writing down the qualities you truly want in a man. Then just wait and watch the right guy walk into your life. You are welcome 😉
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by perperuna
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by lightupflipflops
Sounds like a Taurus I know named Cory. No job also.
Is he a user?? click to expand
Yes! What happens if you get pregnant? How will he help you? This is crazy
Why doesn’t he have a job? click to expand
He lives with his mom and she is very controlling...i don't think that she wants him to be independent and he's comfortable. He wakes up by 11, goes to the gym, then comes home, showers, eats, cleans and hangs out with his little brother's and other family members all day, and the occasional friend.
I have a feeling that his mother may be racist for reasons, but he's very much into colored girls, and refuses to let me meet them..im African american..he refuses to let us meet..i feel very left out.. click to expandclick to expand
he won't let you meet his family? Ayyy noooo
Posted by Moonbutter
Nah, him getting a job won’t change who he is... which is dependent and ambitionless is that what you want for your future? Girl, please wake up and realize this is no prize but a curse that has befell upon you. Please wish him away and start writing down the qualities you truly want in a man. Then just wait and watch the right guy walk into your life. You are welcome 😉
I really want to!! I get really moody about him, like I can't stand him, but I want him around. I read into every little thing and find reasons why I believe he loves me. and, 'ohhh he's just a Taurus, they're secretive' or, ohh he's a Taurus, he just values routine' or 'ohhh he's a Taurus, he just hides his true feelings ' and, my favorite, 'ohhh he's a Taurus, they just take a long time before they decide if they love someone'. It's driving me crazy!!
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by perperuna
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by lightupflipflops
Sounds like a Taurus I know named Cory. No job also.
Is he a user?? click to expand
Yes! What happens if you get pregnant? How will he help you? This is crazy
Why doesn’t he have a job? click to expand
He lives with his mom and she is very controlling...i don't think that she wants him to be independent and he's comfortable. He wakes up by 11, goes to the gym, then comes home, showers, eats, cleans and hangs out with his little brother's and other family members all day, and the occasional friend.
I have a feeling that his mother may be racist for reasons, but he's very much into colored girls, and refuses to let me meet them..im African american..he refuses to let us meet..i feel very left out.. click to expand
he won't let you meet his family? Ayyy noooo click to expandclick to expand
No): he keeps telling me that his mom's crazy and Hates everyone, and that she doesn't like to meet his girlfriends.
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by perperuna
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by lightupflipflops
Sounds like a Taurus I know named Cory. No job also.
Is he a user?? click to expand
Yes! What happens if you get pregnant? How will he help you? This is crazy
Why doesn’t he have a job? click to expand
He lives with his mom and she is very controlling...i don't think that she wants him to be independent and he's comfortable. He wakes up by 11, goes to the gym, then comes home, showers, eats, cleans and hangs out with his little brother's and other family members all day, and the occasional friend.
I have a feeling that his mother may be racist for reasons, but he's very much into colored girls, and refuses to let me meet them..im African american..he refuses to let us meet..i feel very left out.. click to expand
he won't let you meet his family? Ayyy noooo click to expand
No): he keeps telling me that his mom's crazy and Hates everyone, and that she doesn't like to meet his girlfriends. click to expand
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well its pretty easy to figure out a dude based on his relationship to his mother......he's got issues cuz she has issues.....
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by perperuna
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by lightupflipflops
Sounds like a Taurus I know named Cory. No job also.
Is he a user?? click to expand
Yes! What happens if you get pregnant? How will he help you? This is crazy
Why doesn’t he have a job? click to expand
He lives with his mom and she is very controlling...i don't think that she wants him to be independent and he's comfortable. He wakes up by 11, goes to the gym, then comes home, showers, eats, cleans and hangs out with his little brother's and other family members all day, and the occasional friend.
I have a feeling that his mother may be racist for reasons, but he's very much into colored girls, and refuses to let me meet them..im African american..he refuses to let us meet..i feel very left out.. click to expand
he won't let you meet his family? Ayyy noooo click to expand
No): he keeps telling me that his mom's crazy and Hates everyone, and that she doesn't like to meet his girlfriends. click to expand
well its pretty easy to figure out a dude based on his relationship to his mother......he's got issues cuz she has issues..... click to expandclick to expand
Yeah... my ex was like that too, lived with his parents, quit his job after we were no longer together and disrespectful to his mom. Said he loved me, catered to me, but also didn’t want to be inconvenienced or compromise. In the end he told me how could he love someone when he doesn’t even love himself? 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ That’s the end game I’m afraid with this guy... it’s just not meant to be and deep down you know it too.
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by bkbella86
He’s a user. I don’t see what’s appealing about this man. He’s a bum. Being naturally generous can hurt you. Only give to those who are deserving. A grown man should never lean on a woman financially. He better call a friend or family member. Any dude serious about you wouldn’t let you pay all the time either. And of course he likes that you upgraded your life, it can benefit him. You deserve better.
True..i guess that I keep wondering if things would be different if he HAD a job..and I keep hoping he gets one, so that I can't know for sure..it would be stupid of me to expect him to demonstrate a financial capacity in our relationship when he has no income/: if I wasn't with him, he still would never get a job...so..is it really using if it's just who he is?? It's me who's stupid, if I expect him to change when I walked into this knowing that he has no income...if I come into his life and demand that he get a source of income and pay, then I feel that that would be wrong. click to expand
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You have to ask yourself why you’re ok dating a man with no source of income. He’s a user because he shouldn’t even be dating if he can’t support himself. He’s perfectly fine allowing you to wine and dine him, that’s so feminine of him btw. You don’t have to demand anything if you have standards to begin with. What is appealing about him? He doesn’t sound like he’s that into you so you can’t even say it’s because he likes you. So What is it?
And sleeping with him unprotected without a commitment? You have no standards. You put others before your own health. That’s dangerous. Your lack of respect for yourself will keep you in situations like this.
Posted by bkbella86
And sleeping with him unprotected without a commitment? You have no standards. You put others before your own health. That’s dangerous. Your lack of respect for yourself will keep you in situations like this.
Well, I forgot to mention that we made our relationship official 2 months ago.. But, I see what you're saying.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by perperuna
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by lightupflipflops
Sounds like a Taurus I know named Cory. No job also.
Is he a user?? click to expand
Yes! What happens if you get pregnant? How will he help you? This is crazy
Why doesn’t he have a job? click to expand
He lives with his mom and she is very controlling...i don't think that she wants him to be independent and he's comfortable. He wakes up by 11, goes to the gym, then comes home, showers, eats, cleans and hangs out with his little brother's and other family members all day, and the occasional friend.
I have a feeling that his mother may be racist for reasons, but he's very much into colored girls, and refuses to let me meet them..im African american..he refuses to let us meet..i feel very left out.. click to expand
he won't let you meet his family? Ayyy noooo click to expand
No): he keeps telling me that his mom's crazy and Hates everyone, and that she doesn't like to meet his girlfriends. click to expand
well its pretty easy to figure out a dude based on his relationship to his mother......he's got issues cuz she has issues..... click to expandclick to expand
She DOES have issues.. she's dated lots of his friends, and is currently married to, and has kids with one of them.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by perperuna
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by lightupflipflops
Sounds like a Taurus I know named Cory. No job also.
Is he a user?? click to expand
Yes! What happens if you get pregnant? How will he help you? This is crazy
Why doesn’t he have a job? click to expand
He lives with his mom and she is very controlling...i don't think that she wants him to be independent and he's comfortable. He wakes up by 11, goes to the gym, then comes home, showers, eats, cleans and hangs out with his little brother's and other family members all day, and the occasional friend.
I have a feeling that his mother may be racist for reasons, but he's very much into colored girls, and refuses to let me meet them..im African american..he refuses to let us meet..i feel very left out.. click to expand
he won't let you meet his family? Ayyy noooo click to expand
No): he keeps telling me that his mom's crazy and Hates everyone, and that she doesn't like to meet his girlfriends. click to expand
well its pretty easy to figure out a dude based on his relationship to his mother......he's got issues cuz she has issues..... click to expand
Yeah... my ex was like that too, lived with his parents, quit his job after we were no longer together and disrespectful to his mom. Said he loved me, catered to me, but also didn’t want to be inconvenienced or compromise. In the end he told me how could he love someone when he doesn’t even love himself? 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ That’s the end game I’m afraid with this guy... it’s just not meant to be and deep down you know it too. click to expand
click to expand
Yeah):
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by bkbella86
He’s a user. I don’t see what’s appealing about this man. He’s a bum. Being naturally generous can hurt you. Only give to those who are deserving. A grown man should never lean on a woman financially. He better call a friend or family member. Any dude serious about you wouldn’t let you pay all the time either. And of course he likes that you upgraded your life, it can benefit him. You deserve better.
True..i guess that I keep wondering if things would be different if he HAD a job..and I keep hoping he gets one, so that I can't know for sure..it would be stupid of me to expect him to demonstrate a financial capacity in our relationship when he has no income/: if I wasn't with him, he still would never get a job...so..is it really using if it's just who he is?? It's me who's stupid, if I expect him to change when I walked into this knowing that he has no income...if I come into his life and demand that he get a source of income and pay, then I feel that that would be wrong. click to expand
You have to ask yourself why you’re ok dating a man with no source of income. He’s a user because he shouldn’t even be dating if he can’t support himself. He’s perfectly fine allowing you to wine and dine him, that’s so feminine of him btw. You don’t have to demand anything if you have standards to begin with. What is appealing about him? He doesn’t sound like he’s that into you so you can’t even say it’s because he likes you. So What is it? click to expand
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Well, once in the greatest while he's cold and distant, but he has been completely attentive for the past 2 months, and i couldn't get an ounce of what he's showing me, NOW, previously. We have lots of fun when we're together, and I feel safe when I'm with him, we have tons in common, and the chemistry in the bedroom is extreme, and we have a lot in common there, too. Not to mention, for some reason, I just feel a super strong connection with him that I can't understand..i love him.
The way he’s treated you in the past is the way he’ll treat you in the future. The only thing perplexing here is why you think you can’t get better than him.
Don’t you want someone who treats you like a priority instead of only talking empty game?
Posted by LadyNeptune
The way he’s treated you in the past is the way he’ll treat you in the future. The only thing perplexing here is why you think you can’t get better than him.
Don’t you want someone who treats you like a priority instead of only talking empty game?
): I wish I wanted someone else!
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by LadyNeptune
The way he’s treated you in the past is the way he’ll treat you in the future. The only thing perplexing here is why you think you can’t get better than him.
Don’t you want someone who treats you like a priority instead of only talking empty game?
): I wish I wanted someone else! click to expand
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It’s easy to want someone else. But first you need to stop drinking his koolaid
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by LadyNeptune
The way he’s treated you in the past is the way he’ll treat you in the future. The only thing perplexing here is why you think you can’t get better than him.
Don’t you want someone who treats you like a priority instead of only talking empty game?
): I wish I wanted someone else! click to expand
click to expand
You gotta be strong and cut him off ... first, mentally, then emotionally then physically. You know it’s not gonna work out so you are just delaying the inevitable. I get it, I did the same.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by LadyNeptune
The way he’s treated you in the past is the way he’ll treat you in the future. The only thing perplexing here is why you think you can’t get better than him.
Don’t you want someone who treats you like a priority instead of only talking empty game?
): I wish I wanted someone else! click to expand
It’s easy to want someone else. But first you need to stop drinking his koolaid click to expand
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I Like you..lol
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by OpulenceIsTheEnd
Posted by LadyNeptune
The way he’s treated you in the past is the way he’ll treat you in the future. The only thing perplexing here is why you think you can’t get better than him.
Don’t you want someone who treats you like a priority instead of only talking empty game?
): I wish I wanted someone else! click to expand
You gotta be strong and cut him off ... first, mentally, then emotionally then physically. You know it’s not gonna work out so you are just delaying the inevitable. I get it, I did the same. click to expand
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I appreciate that you understand🙂
Thank, you.
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Did he get a job and are y'all using protection?.